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Re: Married And Clubbing by Kobojunkie: 12:18pm On May 09, 2023
gfelo:
■ let me gist you this short story

there was a couple in my village, the husband used to carry his wife to wine bar every evening until it becomes habitual they cant stay every weekend without going to wine bar, consequently work to the husband very far away and he is no longer available to take his wife there since it has become a habit the wife have used to she cant stop it, eventually she started going there alone, one fateful day she was so drunk that everybody left the wine bar and she cud not go back to house, since the wine bar don't have accomodation they closed and leave her outside, street boys took advantage of her rape her and rob her.

in essence what am i saying as u continue clubbing may u never be tempted to go alone when ur husband is not around. thank u.
I don't understand the meaning of this story of yours. Don't single women frequent wine bars anymore that you would assume the reason this woman was eventually raped had to do with her frequenting wine bars without her husband? undecided

By the way, she was raped and somehow it is her fault or her husband's fault and not the fault of the aholes society does not spend half the same amount of energy it does castigated women on? undecided

I could go on but please stop telling these sort of lame brained story to just anyone because some of us live in 2023 and expect higher reasoning from all. undecided

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Re: Married And Clubbing by gfelo(m): 1:14pm On May 09, 2023
Sorry boss na advice, 2023 men that have grown above death and obstacles continue it is said a dog that is destined to die listen to nobody wistle.
Kobojunkie:
I don't understand the meaning of this story of yours. Don't single women frequent wine bars anymore that you would assume the reason this woman was eventually raped had to do with her frequenting wine bars without her husband? undecided

By the way, she was raped and somehow it is her fault or her husband's fault and not the fault of the aholes society does not spend half the same amount of energy it does castigated women on? undecided

I could go on but please stop telling these sort of lame brained story to just anyone because some of us live in 2023 and expect higher reasoning from all. undecided

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Re: Married And Clubbing by zed7: 3:13pm On May 09, 2023
This girl looks like a church night vigil type.
Re: Married And Clubbing by Kobojunkie: 3:16pm On May 09, 2023
gfelo:
Sorry boss na advice, 2023 men that have grown above death and obstacles continue it is said a dog that is destined to die listen to nobody wistle.
So, men can spend all day at wine bars without consequence, but when it comes to women, death, obstacle, and whistles are what you offer? undecided

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Re: Married And Clubbing by MrJames007: 6:55pm On May 10, 2023
jedaii:
Hmm..
So work no de for una tomorrow abi na honeymoon
grin
Re: Married And Clubbing by tommykiwi(m): 6:55pm On May 10, 2023
Make una flex! When children start dey come, una go adjust.

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Re: Married And Clubbing by Weathered: 6:56pm On May 10, 2023
ZIMDRILL:


its thhe character and behaviour of the person that matters

So are you saying all the men who go clubbing are cheating?
how old are you?
Re: Married And Clubbing by Avast(m): 6:56pm On May 10, 2023
Darlingme:
I don't want to see any topic where you're complaining on how you traveled and your wife went clubing because she was bored and something happened oooo....

He go create another username as usual

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Re: Married And Clubbing by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:56pm On May 10, 2023
Weathered:
how old are you?

above 45
Re: Married And Clubbing by bizhop01: 6:57pm On May 10, 2023
I believe you will finish what you started

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Re: Married And Clubbing by Exc2000: 7:01pm On May 10, 2023
Marry your best friend

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Re: Married And Clubbing by Slmgirldippussy: 7:01pm On May 10, 2023
RevenuesBoost:
My babe has taught me Night Clubbing as an Essential Lifestyle.


Married and Clubbing😌


#Puzzles #Ugep... ❤️❤️❤️




My ex is married
I am happy for her 💖💖💖💖💖💖
Re: Married And Clubbing by Adakintroy: 7:03pm On May 10, 2023
Commot there. Once you marry commot there.

It called married and settling. If you never ready to settle no marry.
Re: Married And Clubbing by WorldRichest: 7:04pm On May 10, 2023
Wawelexy:
She will go without you whenever you not around to go with her, maybe due to work or any other more important things.... They will bang the hell out of her kitten before you come back... Club life ain't for married couples....

We will be waiting for free pussy. Shey him head no correct ni, we go turn his private pusssy to public property

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Re: Married And Clubbing by muyeski: 7:05pm On May 10, 2023
Samantha124:
You go girl, I love you.

My fiance and I once did a bet... Whoever lasted all night clubbing would buy the other lunch for the entire week and it was one hella fun, even though I cheated by drinking an energy drink behind his back to make sure I get energy all night.. grin grin grin

Those people who are criticising you are boring and their only idea of having fun in a marriage is having sex and going to church to be hypocrites.

The same way u hid urself to take energy drink is also the same way u will hide ur self to take gbola or as it happened already

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Re: Married And Clubbing by Weathered: 7:07pm On May 10, 2023
ZIMDRILL:


above 45
you don't reflect it
Re: Married And Clubbing by Nobody: 7:07pm On May 10, 2023
Booorrriiinngg..😴😴😴
muyeski:


The same way u hid urself to take energy drink is also the same way u will hide ur self to take gbola or as it happened already

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Re: Married And Clubbing by InvertedHammer: 7:08pm On May 10, 2023
RevenuesBoost:
My babe has taught me Night Clubbing as an Essential Lifestyle.


Married and Clubbing😌


#Puzzles #Ugep... ❤️❤️❤️

/

Enjoy yourself.

But don't forget that the problem these days is staying married. Something always leads up to divorce or break in marriage. Be prayerful.

/
Re: Married And Clubbing by NamelessOGBENI(m): 7:09pm On May 10, 2023
Funny enough, when you make money on the road there's nothing you can do with the cash.

Just pray for journey mercies to and fro...
Re: Married And Clubbing by tunjijones(m): 7:09pm On May 10, 2023
jedaii:
Hmm..
So work no de for una tomorrow abi na honeymoon

Since may 7
Re: Married And Clubbing by MrDoGood(m): 7:09pm On May 10, 2023
So, this is a very vital topic that should hit fp.

NL!!!!
Re: Married And Clubbing by Kolaboluv7(m): 7:09pm On May 10, 2023
RevenuesBoost:
My babe has taught me Night Clubbing as an Essential Lifestyle.


Married and Clubbing😌


#Puzzles #Ugep... ❤️❤️❤️


Your babe and you wrote married and clubbing..

Try dey fear God oh
Re: Married And Clubbing by Ijaya123: 7:10pm On May 10, 2023
jedaii:
Hmm..
So work no de for una tomorrow abi na honeymoon

That could have been a Friday.
Re: Married And Clubbing by Nobody: 7:11pm On May 10, 2023
All these holy zombies go come scatter this thread telling you how club is a bad place to be, and how their god is against it.

Who wan go club go. It's part of life. You are there to have fun with ya partner. Don't let one trash book or useless God tell you what and what not to do!

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Re: Married And Clubbing by FireUpNow(m): 7:11pm On May 10, 2023
Your married wife will get used to clubbing life and then she be going there when you not around, one fateful day a man will take her home and shine her congo. Gradually she don dey turn club and street woman . Over open eyes dey kill

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Re: Married And Clubbing by Flick490(m): 7:11pm On May 10, 2023
[quote author=RevenuesBoost post=122996488]My babe has taught me Night Clubbing as an Essential Lifestyle.


Married and Clubbing😌


#Puzzles #Ugep... ❤️❤️❤️[/quot






As innocent as she looks?
Wandafu
Re: Married And Clubbing by blaise26abj(m): 7:12pm On May 10, 2023
RevenuesBoost:



I posted this on purpose.
Many couples lack spice in their relationship
They wake up in the morning go to work, come back eat and sleep and put it on replay daily, so marriage becomes boring for them.
No special outings, no weekend relaxation routines, just regular boring daily activities and will complain that their partners are boring or cheats. It's simply because you are not ready to make your marriage your heaven.


I was one of those that believed that clubbing is one bad thing and is meant for prostitutes but I was totally wrong.
The first day my husband took me to a club, I saw people drinking and dancing. I was shocked to also see soft drinks, I was like, so one can get soft drinks in a club, that people have already labeled as a bad place.
I also saw an aged married couple, I was wowed, I loved the fact that they still make themselves feel young as grown parents.


Alcohol is a choice, being an alcoholic is bad but you don't have to judge people by their lifestyles.
I know most food we digest contains alcohol but what one must avoid is excessive intake of it.
I'm not an alcoholic and I don't know what alcohol drink taste like and I don't wish to know but I can't condemn those that love it.


The people who own clubs - did that with the intention of making people happy, believe me, a club is a happy place.
So much smiles, laughter and dancing.

It's a Shame that I don't know how to dance, I surely need dance classes 😄

Nice . I saw couples in clubs when I was single . I once saw a lady dancing so hard and the guy beside her was just slumped in the chair . I asked him why he wasn’t dancing with the babe , he said she is his wife and she really wanted to go out but he is tired and will just relax . I loved it .

It doesn’t even have to be clubbing . It could be a fish spot or a late night movie or a PS gaming night at home with alcohol and orishirishi after the kids are in bed .

PS - seems you both don’t have kids yet . It becomes harder to find that couple’s time once they show face 🤣🤣🤣. Even to smash na strategic maneuvering 🥹🥹🥹

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Re: Married And Clubbing by Aguiyimba(m): 7:12pm On May 10, 2023
ZIMDRILL:


its the character and behaviour of the person that matters

So are you saying all the men who go clubbing are cheating?


Yes

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Re: Married And Clubbing by luckedesiri(m): 7:15pm On May 10, 2023
So werin make we do? I honestly don't know what's wrong with young couples these days... You give room for people to insult you..... If you're clubbing... How's it anyone's business Why not club in peace and keep it private Must you tell the whole world that you and your wife go clubbing

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Re: Married And Clubbing by ProphetM0hammad: 7:17pm On May 10, 2023
RevenuesBoost:



I posted this on purpose.
Many couples lack spice in their relationship
They wake up in the morning go to work, come back eat and sleep and put it on replay daily, so marriage becomes boring for them.
No special outings, no weekend relaxation routines, just regular boring daily activities and will complain that their partners are boring or cheats. It's simply because you are not ready to make your marriage your heaven.


I was one of those that believed that clubbing is one bad thing and is meant for prostitutes but I was totally wrong.
The first day my husband took me to a club, I saw people drinking and dancing. I was shocked to also see soft drinks, I was like, so one can get soft drinks in a club, that people have already labeled as a bad place.
I also saw an aged married couple, I was wowed, I loved the fact that they still make themselves feel young as grown parents.


Alcohol is a choice, being an alcoholic is bad but you don't have to judge people by their lifestyles.
I know most food we digest contains alcohol but what one must avoid is excessive intake of it.
I'm not an alcoholic and I don't know what alcohol drink taste like and I don't wish to know but I can't condemn those that love it.


The people who own clubs - did that with the intention of making people happy, believe me, a club is a happy place.
So much smiles, laughter and dancing.

It's a Shame that I don't know how to dance, I surely need dance classes 😄

You said so many things that are wrong in this your lengthy post

People who own club didn't do that to make people happy, they did that to make money.

To spice up your relationship doesn't mean you have to go where you can inhale smoke or gather in a hotshot for criminals.
You can replace that with going to a park, karaoke, dinner date, cinema etc

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Re: Married And Clubbing by kingyakos: 7:17pm On May 10, 2023
Afford this clubbing forever O!
If you dull na it be say ur marriage don get K leg

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