westlius:

Oga commot that risking ur life at Night
Every where u are is a risk
Even ur own house too na risk
Just pray u are not there when bad thing wants to happen

The probably dey high abeg.

ahnie:

He must create topic on that.

pessimist

Kobojunkie:
1. I don't understand your logic at all. If I don't have a problem with clubbing, clearly my kids are more than likely not to develop hangups about the same as intended. What am I missing here? are you somehow under the assumption that I go clubbing but would rather my kids not accept clubbing as part of living in their adult years?

By the way, what does a yes mean as far as the question - Do couples somehow owe their kids a reason why they go out and do what they do or something?

I'm beginning to sense some rhetorics in your question, I already answered you in my previous comment... Well, if you can't even see the immorality in regular clubbing as a parent, then how do I explain or answer your question the way you can understand it....

@op you don give some of us expo to spice up our marriage....Nice update

jedaii:
Hmm..
So work no de for una tomorrow abi na honeymoon

Dem tell u say dem get work??

Wawelexy:
■ I'm beginning to sense some rhetorics in your question, I already answered you in my previous comment... Well, if you can't even see the immorality in regular clubbing as a parent, then how do I explain or answer your question the way you can understand it....

The only immorality here is that stacked up in your mind. There is nothing "holy" about being a parent that they would need to consider clubbing immorality. Parents who socialize by clubbing are able to teach their kids that when they too become adults, it is ok for them to go dancing, drinking in clubs, in bars, or even at parties. Nothing wrong with that at all.

Kobojunkie:
■ result of clubbing? Since when did cheating become some sort of result of clubbing for Pete's sake? If a man or woman cheats with a colleague, is the company to blame for their cheating?

Maybe I need to let you know that actions, places, words, music, gesture and even look can trigger your feelings, thereby making you do somethings you don't even intend doing or won't do on a normal circumstances...

Kobojunkie:
The only immorality here is that stacked up in your mind. There is nothing "holy" about being a parent that they would need to consider clubbing immorality. Parents who socialize by clubbing are able to teach their kids that when they too become adults, it is ok for them to go dancing, drinking in clubs, in bars, or even at parties. Nothing wrong with that at all.

Different strokes for different folks.... To me, it's not proper, i will be an hypocrites if I should rebuke my 16 y/o son for clubbing, knowing fully well that they probably learnt it from me.... There are other places I and my wife can go have a nice time, but certainly not a club house

Wawelexy:
■ Different strokes for different folks.... To me, it's not proper,
■ i will be an hypocrites if I should rebuke my 16 y/o son for clubbing, knowing fully well that they probably learnt it from me....
■ There are other places I and my wife can go have a nice time, but certainly not a club house

When it comes to what is proper, each man, woman, and married couple gets to decide for themselves.

2. There is nothing hypocritical about a married couple rebuking their 16-year-old for clubbing if they made it clear that only adults are allowed to club and a 16-year-old is not an adult. Also, because the parents club doesn't mean the kids would automatically wish to club at 16 years of age.

3. Interesting! Are you OK then with your 16-year-old going to those same places for instance to also have a nice time? Is that why you choose such places?

Kobojunkie:
What hidden traps and snares abeg? No be the same people dem dey see for club dem dey see outside of the club in their daily lives?

If you know , you know. Everything that glitters is not gold. Many things are going on underground in clubs. Moreover you pick up vices you never dream of in your life time. The way the op iis painting clubs makes me laugh. Frequently going there will make her start seeing prostitution as a norm, drinking and smoking all sought of legal and illegal smokes etc. You become used to all these vices and must one day be tempted to give in.
Talking from experience.
No sane man takes his truely loved and wedded wife to a club. There are other recreational centers he can take her to.

ZIMDRILL:


its the character and behaviour of the person that matters

So are you saying all the men who go clubbing are cheating?

you are right, it's the character and behavior of the person that matters, and that is why you will never find oyedepo clubbing. So am telling you that fonicators and drunks often go to the club cos that is the character and behavior of a fonicator/drunk.

Wotoporiously speaking

Make una kill una self with drinks o, I support this post with 5 cartons of beer afterall man shall not live by bread alone

Kobojunkie:
What forms of social vices are in a club that married couples cannot find anywhere else, including your churches?

Have u forgotten that it was inside that same club that burna boy ordered his bodyguards to beat up a married man who came to club with his wife after he objected and reacted over the advances he made to his wife? They even shot a gun in the process.

Qui sera, sera

Kobojunkie:
Here's the thing. Whether you go clubbing together or not, if a breakup will happen, it will happen, so why ball and chain yourself when no matter what you do, whatever will be will be?

dangermouse:
■ If you know , you know. Everything that glitters is not gold. Many things are going on underground in clubs. Moreover you pick up vices you never dream of in your life time. The way the op iis painting clubs makes me laugh.
■ Frequently going there will make her start seeing prostitution as a norm, drinking and smoking all sought of legal and illegal smokes etc. You become used to all these vices and must one day be tempted to give in.
■ Talking from experience. No sane man takes his truely loved and wedded wife to a club. There are other recreational centers he can take her to.

1. Sometimes the way you folks talk of your partners, it leads me to wonder if you even consider them as equally capable adults such as yourselves. Can an adult be cajoled into doing what he/she does not already want to or desire to do — without a gun to the head of course?

2 From the way you talk, I can tell you have never in fact been clubbing at all in your life. I used to do it a lot in my young years and I never picked up any thing I didn't want to pick up, why? because of the person I am. Everyone is like that. We only pick up what we already have and loose disciple. And these things you can pick up pretty much anywhere really. So, if you want to shackle a person because you are afraid the person does not have the same disciplines you have then it is better you don't even engage that person at all because whether the person clubs or does not, he/she is bound to pick up that which he or she already have loose ideas of.

3. So are you saying it is OK for a man can go clubbing with his side chicks but not his own wife? It is ok for a man to pick up on the vices you listed but not his wife? Or what exactly am I reading here?

Figger:
■ Have u forgotten that it was inside that same club that burna boy ordered his bodyguards to beat up a married man who came to club with his wife after he objected and reacted over the advances he made to his wife? They even shot a gun in the process.

I don't follow! So burna boy literally committed what amounts to a felony and so the man who went clubbing with his wife is to blame for this?

Kobojunkie:
When it comes to what is proper, each man, woman, and married couple gets to decide for themselves.

2. There is nothypocritical about a married couple rebuking their 16-year-old for clubbing if they made it clear that only adults are allowed to club and a 16-year-old is not an adult. Also, because the parents club doesn't mean the kids would automatically wish to club at 16 years of age.

3. Interesting! Are you OK then with your 16-year-old going to those same places for instance to also have a nice time? Is that why you choose such places?

@ Q3, it's not actually about the place, it's about how noble and responsible you will still be even if you decide to go along with your kids....

Married couple clubbing is very nice.

OP is the she, babe is a man.

Wawelexy:
She will go without you whenever you not around to go with her, maybe due to work or any other more important things.... They will bang the hell out of her kitten before you come back... Club life ain't for married couples....

McLizbae:
OP is the she, babe is a man.

They are both on Nairaland, both of them are following up with the thread.... Ask OP, she will confirm that to you

Wawelexy:
■ @ Q3, it's not actually about the place, it's about how noble and responsible you will still be even if you decide to go along with your kids....

Ok, so what noble and responsible place do you and your wife go that you would not mind your 16-year-old running off to as well and what do you do there?

Akalia:
You sound like someone who lacks exposure. Kini big deal about clubbing?

U no see how she dress go the club?

The woman no dey exposed at all

Kobojunkie:
Ok, so what noble and responsible place do you and your wife go that you would not mind your 16-year-old running off to as well and what do you do there?

At that same budget and with the same mode of enjoyment they had, I, my wife and kid(s) can opt for an Amusement park, while the kids stay in their section, I and wifey can decide to see a movie... There are numerous options we could choose from...

You know all these things, maybe your wokeness is what is inspiring your argument

Abeg make una leave them, every story doesn't have a tragic ending.

Kobojunkie:
I don't follow! So burna boy literally committed what amounts to a felony and so the man who went clubbing with his wife is to blame for this?

There other places to go as married couples to have fun, shopping malls(bars dey inside malls where alcohols are served with better dj playing) amusement parks, cinemas etc, clubbing is way too Xtreme.

Wawelexy:
She will go without you whenever you not around to go with her, maybe due to work or any other more important things.... They will bang the hell out of her kitten before you come back... Club life ain't for married couples....

You guys know how to mess people up.... Very sickening

Kobojunkie:
The only immorality here is that stacked up in your mind. There is nothing "holy" about being a parent that they would need to consider clubbing immorality. Parents who socialize by clubbing are able to teach their kids that when they too become adults, it is ok for them to go dancing, drinking in clubs, in bars, or even at parties. Nothing wrong with that at all.

People like you are very annoying and you know why?

It's simply because una too dey form woke. Even for the Yankee you dey try emulate, how many couples dey go club? Almost zero

Wawelexy:
■ At that same budget and with the same mode of enjoyment they had, I, my wife and kid(s) can opt for an Amusement park, while the kids stay in their section, I and wifey can decide to see a movie... There are numerous options we could choose from... You know all these things, maybe your wokeness is what is inspiring your argument

1. Wait a minute, so you are telling me that when you and your wife want to socialize, you go to an amusement park? And you are OK with your 16-year-old kid frequenting the adult section of the same amusement park in your absence?

dreamxhaser:
■ People like you are very annoying and you know why? It's simply because una too dey form woke. Even for the Yankee you dey try emulate, how many couples dey go club? Almost zero

RevenuesBoost:



You're so real
I love you

And the rest of us are fake for advising you ?

Figger:
■ There other places to go as married couples to have fun, shopping malls(bars dey inside malls where alcohols are served with better dj playing) amusement parks, cinemas etc, clubbing is way too Xtreme.

1. Clubbing is worse than a bar where alcohol and music are equally played? Is it me or am I talking to people who assume all clubs are the same as that they experienced at age 18 or what?

Kobojunkie:
I don't follow! So Burna boy committed what amounts to a felony and so the man who went clubbing with his wife is to blame for this?

Have you been to a clubhouse before

Do you know the amount of bad stuffs going on there.

We dey tell una from experience, una no wan hear

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