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My wife rarely cook food in the house but so surprise she watched Hilda while she was cooking for 72hrs.

I just dey manage my marriage.

Continue managing the marriage.



Haven't you been surviving managing it?

Why cry now ?

Or you want to marry Hilda ?

Eat outside...if e go make marriage work.i no mean the other food oo

wetin u come dey chop?

donbachi:
Eat outside...if e go make marriage work.i no mean the other food oo

Yesterday I cooked rice and stew, this morning I am cooking vegetable soup while she is watching tiktok but she will still eat or chop her normal short bread

Una go tire.

Savechild23:
Yesterday I cooked rice and stew, this morning I am cooking vegetable soup while she is watching tiktok but she will still eat or chop her normal short bread

you done enter....the problem with some of you guys... you saw all the red flags but ignored it..on the believe she will change someday .

donbachi:
you done enter....the problem with some of you guys... you saw all the red flags but ignored it..on the believe she will change someday .

I don’t want to have a failed marriage

Savechild23:
I don’t want to have a failed marriage

God never made marriage to be managed.rather,to be enjoyed.

donbachi:
God never made marriage to be managed.rather,to be enjoyed.

I pray things will normalize

Savechild23:
I don’t want to have a failed marriage

Do have "pass" marriage ooo.

To be sincere with you ehn, she knows what she is doing. But make your displeasure known to her and inform her you want her to wakeup to her responsibilities because you are tired of eating outside or doing the cooking if she is still interested in the marriage. Otherwise, when you change your mind, there will be no going back.

Savechild23:
I pray things will normalize

sure

Savechild23:
Yesterday I cooked rice and stew, this morning I am cooking vegetable soup while she is watching tiktok but she will still eat or chop her normal short bread

Quick question...did you meet her, asked her out, and dated her for a lengthy period before deciding to marry her?

If yes, did you notice this unbearable attitude from her during your relationship days?

If yes, then please stop disturbing us and face your marriage.

Nazgul:
Quick question...did you meet her, asked her out, and dated her for a lengthy period before deciding to marry her?

If yes, did you notice this unbearable attitude from her during your relationship days?

If yes, then please stop disturbing us and face your marriage.

She use to cook and serve me but things took another twist as we married after a three year relationship

Carry her go the show to learn how to cook.

Savechild23:
She use to cook and serve me but things took another twist as we married after a three year relationship

she don see wetin she dey find. Talk to her and if she no hear, report her to the parent.

Savechild23:
My wife rarely cook food in the house but so surprise she watched Hilda while she was cooking for 72hrs.

I just dey manage my marriage.

Is she hailing Hilda because she is cooking for 72 hours or because she is getting closer to breaking a world record?

While at it, did you ask her why she rarely cooks at home?

Also note that Hilda is a cook, it is her '9 - 5'.

Not holding brief for your wife (don't know your story), just providing the required context.

Before someone says Hilda is a wife material because she cooked for 96 hours.

She is like a tailor sewing for 96 hours or a carpenter building furniture for 96 hours.

donbachi:
you done enter....the problem with some of you guys... you saw all the red flags but ignored it..on the believe she will change someday .

You re right tho but marriage is far more than flag.. You never see a well behaved lady during courtship which will later to something else in marriage.. My brother, once a lady turn to a shadow of her former brilliant self in marriage, na to face one's poison remain

🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

You must give more details...

Wetin you do?

A woman that loves you cannot do without cooking for you.

Savechild23:
She use to cook and serve me but things took another twist as we married after a three year relationship

Bro, a loving and caring woman doesn't just change overnight and become a thorn in the flesh of the man she once loved.

If she does, it could be due to the following reasons.

1. You cheated on her, or she feels you're cheating on her.

2. You've become bossy and order her around rather than speak calmly to her.

3. She feels insecure around you.

4. There's no iota of romance in your marriage.

5. You involve third parties a lot over unnecessary issues you two have.

6. You're facing financial difficulties and you're not being completely honest about your situation.

So my advice to you is to sit her down and have a hear to heart talk with her. Be very open to her and make her feel loved once more and she'll cook for you willingly.

Savechild23:
Yesterday I cooked rice and stew, this morning I am cooking vegetable soup while she is watching tiktok but she will still eat or chop her normal short bread

Men these days are so weak.

She no fit cook, but wen u do, she go chop. 😡😡


Be a man, hope children never come, coz if dem begin come, u go hear shege.

Hope she doesn't ask for money??

Savechild23:
My wife rarely cook food in the house but so surprise she watched Hilda while she was cooking for 72hrs. I just dey manage my marriage.

As for back as the 80s/90s , my dad used to cook for us. He did chores around the house and engaged us as often as he had time. It was from my dad that I learned what it meant to spring clean.

bukatyne:
Is she hailing Hilda because she is cooking for 72 hours or because she is getting closer to breaking a world record?

While at it, did you ask her why she rarely cooks at home?

Also note that Hilda is a cook, it is her '9 - 5'.

Not holding brief for your wife (don't know your story), just providing the required context.

Before someone says Hilda is a wife material because she cooked for 96 hours.

She is like a tailor sewing for 96 hours or a carpenter building furniture for 96 hours.

God bless you ma 🙏🤲❤️

Wahala wahala wahala!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Savechild23:
My wife rarely cook food in the house but so surprise she watched Hilda while she was cooking for 72hrs.

I just dey manage my marriage.

Let that quality you saw in her, that made you overlook everything else keep giving the strength to "manage".

Your wife might not like cooking but I will advise u to focus on her strength n leave the weakness or work on it.

Some modern men are weak sha.
U dey manage your marriage? Pele ooo, managing director

Savechild23:
I don’t want to have a failed marriage

The marriage is failed already.

Do you think it until bth couple divorce or separate that the marriage fail.

Keep deceiving yourself, all in the name you dnt want to have a failed marriage.

doggedfighter:
Continue managing the marriage.



Haven't you been surviving managing it?

Why cry now ?

Or you want to marry Hilda ?

I always love reading your comments, so raw, so savage, unapologetic 😂😂😂