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| I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Brimstone77: 6:07am On May 26, 2023 |
..... I think I have a problem or not a problem per say,this is my story: I have had some couples of ladies as friends but i do fall apart with almost all of them in a short distant time (never dated before) but have had some ladies as friends though not too close with some. But one thing keep happening,we would stop talking to each other,I do feel bad sometimes after we stop taking but I'm the type that will never be the first to start talking to you or make peace with you no matter who you are when you're the first that started ignoring me, because I believe that once you stop talking to me then you don't need me,so trying to make peace will look like imposing or forcing myself on you.. Mind you i have this special respect for women can never talk down on then nor treat them bad and again I have never made any sexual advances towards any of them.. This issue started giving me concern because I think it will affect me tomorrow if I decide to date or marry.. Please guys what's wrong with me...am I normal? 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by yrhuhfy113: 6:25am On May 26, 2023 |
Brimstone77: you are NORMAL... the universe is just trying to tell you to FOCUS ON YOURSELF in this season. LEAVE WOMEN ALONE Dont bother too much about them.... you will grow faster when you stop considering them. They will be close to you again when you focus on upgrading yourself. Women are good BUT not always NEEDED. Focus on what is needed in your life now, and at the right time you will find women who complete you and complement you. Keep Shinning 30 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by FahBuLous: 6:33am On May 26, 2023 |
Your life dey right track already, you de find solution to enter the wrong track, no wahala continue... 14 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Reminderz: 6:38am On May 26, 2023 |
a man and a woman can never be friends.. what do you need female friends for? why female friends when you can have male friends or better still, stay on your lane? what benefit does having female friends brought to you other than being used, manipulated and used as a medium to control boredom? don't you have any value than seeking female friends? you don't need female friends, if what you want is sexual relationship or prospective partner, then go straight to the point and tell them your intention... you don't need female friends... you'll only end up getting used.. 38 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Solidkay(m): 6:53am On May 26, 2023 |
There's a really big difference between A NEED AND A WANT. You simply wanna be friends with them ladies, you never needed them in the first place to begin with. Add value to yourself, you'll realize all them girls that went mute on you were never even in your league. 8 Likes |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Nazgul: 7:01am On May 26, 2023 |
If the average Nigerian girl isn't directly benefiting things like money, connections, favours...etc. from you, she'll naturally loose interest in whatever kind of friendship you claim to have with her. It's almost impossible to have a casual female friend in Nigeria today. Their friendship isn't free, it comes with a price tag. Sooner or later, she must need a favour. 43 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Nobody: 7:09am On May 26, 2023 |
OP na Learner for this Game  The Poster above me have said it All. Nigerian Dumb Men have made their Ladies so Dumb and Entitled. 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Alexandersantos(m): 7:43am On May 26, 2023 |
Most times having a female friends is cool..this will make u knw most things about that gender but they can be annoying sometimes but they are also cool and fun to be with...cus i also have alot of female friends and we get along well..but don't over pamper them cus they will take u for granted... |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Illegal1(m): 7:45am On May 26, 2023 |
Omoh.........i dn even stop to kip female frds,their billing 2much.. i can't cum and kee myslf all in d name of frdshp.. 1 Like |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Depriest2020: 7:57am On May 26, 2023 |
When you choose to just be friends with ladies, if they like you & want more than just friends from you, and has giving you enough greenlight to take the friendship a step higher, if you don't, they would naturally be upset without telling u, they might stop talking to you as way of protest or be sad with you without telling you what the issues is all about. But some will start talking to you back after awhile. That's just the simple truth, am speaking from experience. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Aaaaarghmed(m): 8:53am On May 26, 2023 |
Brimstone77:Nothing is wrong with you,you are matured and not a Simp to women |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Baronthecelebri: 9:22am On May 26, 2023 |
Go and make money 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by narite: 9:31am On May 26, 2023 |
Brimstone77:Your story Sounds like a rant to me. If ladies ignores you consistently , it a sure evidence that you are not exciting, unpredictable, mysterious, smart (not in a book way), lacks charisma etc. Work on yourself mate, you are the problem. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by bestman09(m): 11:56am On May 26, 2023 |
 @op, you are a learner, maybe a small boy. You decided to choose ladies as friends when you are not ready to chop or be chopped. You have to realize that having a chicken as a pet will cost you some money but the good thing is that one day, it'll enter the pot of soup and satisfy you. Free the ladies till you are ready 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by ashawopikin(m): 12:02pm On May 26, 2023 |
You be man, wetin you dey keep female friends for? Focus on yourself and your goals. Go and make money, if you already have money, make more |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Ombudsman1: 12:47pm On May 26, 2023 |
Brimstone77: SYMPTOMS OF LOW SELF ESTEEM. JUST AS DEMONS SNIFF FEAR OFF FROM ONE, SO DO WOMEN PICK UP ON A DUDE'S CONFIDENCE LEVELS. YOU ALSO NEED TO MAKE MORE MONEY. |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Brimstone77: 12:50pm On May 26, 2023 |
narite:.... Well sometimes I do the ignoring.. When you think too big of yourself or when you think you are too important I blacklist you.. Not all of them started ignoring me shaaaa.. But I will definitely work on my self, I'm going bro stop any familiarity with them at all. |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Karlifate: 2:17pm On May 26, 2023 |
ashawopikin: I love this. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Angel55555(m): 2:32pm On May 26, 2023 |
Nazgul:Sad truth. |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Efisko1(m): 2:51pm On May 26, 2023 |
bestman09: Una get wisdom for dis nairaland wey i com seriously. Una weldon ohhh |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Autobot05: 3:14pm On May 26, 2023 |
Lemme hear because me and OP are the same in this case. |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by RoadMozart(m): 3:24pm On May 26, 2023 |
Instead of acquiring more female friends, get a ps3 or 4 and if possible a pet to play with ok |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Gadafii: 3:30pm On May 26, 2023 |
Bros na because you no Dey make sexual advances toward them na why dem dey abandon you like poor kid, I am not saying you are going to make sexual advances towards all of them all the time, but learn how to flirt with girls and create crazy imagination in their heads You don’t actually have to say “I want to fukk you,” or “come fuxk me biiiccxhh” But there are certain witty words and sarcasm that will help you achieve these Ladies in general like men that thrill them, once you are too predictive they get bored of you, but always be steps ahead of them, don’t be desperate or needy if their attention. While you on this, make sure you work on your self as well, be a man of value, a man of all seasons and weathers, don’t just use your diik to claim manhood Lift weights,play soccer, hang out more, talk to strangers, seek knowledge, etc 4 Likes |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Cyril44: 3:31pm On May 26, 2023 |
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| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Sonnobax15(m): 4:41pm On May 26, 2023 |
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| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by ItisWell22(f): 4:47pm On May 26, 2023 |
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| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Guynexttdoor: 9:09pm On May 26, 2023 |
You dey keep female friends, omo dey ready for bills out of 10, 9 go bill you  3 Likes |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by kelspinall(m): 9:29pm On May 26, 2023 |
the problem is you failed to know the reasons they came at first place,i always tell my colleagues that if a gal starts coming to you and acting all nice and sweet, "try and know why she's coming to you always, maybe love,lust, benefits or whatever reasons best known to her" bro continue living 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by 1Sharon(f): 9:49pm On May 26, 2023 |
Men love to accuse women of putting them in the friend zone. But some of you intentionly pretend to be friends with a woman knowing you wanted something deeper. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Think It's Time I Stop Keeping Female Friends. by Nobody: 9:55pm On May 26, 2023 |
Everybody gets busy, you can't talk to your friends everyday. You don't expect people to talk to you every time either. Generally it takes extra and deliberate effort to keep friendship these days because everyone is preoccupied with one thing or the other. It's not about being friends with males, females or binaries. 2 Likes |
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