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Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by SyrusdeHansome(op):
Most pple who couldn't give u upto 50k to pay ur school fee or to start a small side hustle or pay for skills acquisition will spend as much as 500k just to buy a coffin for ur burial. Why is it so?
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:04pm On May 26, 2023
maybe because the price of the coffin is a FINAL FAREWELL GESTURE, while giving you money every other month for yeye ventures is not ideal!

if you borrow money to someone ONCE and they never paid it back, then you certainly should never borrow money to that person ever again. just because someone has money DOES NOT Mean they should recklessly give it out everytime someone asks for it. is it?
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by SyrusdeHansome(op): 10:13pm On May 26, 2023
MrBrownJay1:
maybe because the price of the coffin is a FINAL FAREWELL GESTURE, while giving you money every other month for yeye ventures is not ideal!

if you borrow money to someone ONCE and they never paid it back, then you certainly should never borrow money to that person ever again. just because someone has money DOES NOT Mean they should recklessly give it out everytime someone asks for it. is it?
The person in question found it very hard giving his bro just 2k for drugs while he was alive nd when the bro died she spent millions to bury him. After the burial the man's wife asked her b4 the entire fam whether she had dis kinda money nd yet the brother begged her 4 just 2k for drugs. They almost fought each other after the question.
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by Divoc19(f):
This happened to me.... While we were looking for money from family and friends for hospital bills and test, we got over 200k 30 minutes after our daughter died. 31st January 2023 cry
It was late

It's like some people are meant to die in a particular way. It added to my grieve i couldn't understand why everywhere shut down till she was gone cry

Some people also spend millions to save a life that will finally be lost at the end sad
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by SyrusdeHansome(op): 11:20pm On May 26, 2023
Divoc19:
This happened to me.... While we were looking for money from family and friends for hospital bills and test, we got over 200k 30 minutes after our daughter died. 31st January 2023 cry

It's like something people are meant to die in a particular way. It added to my grieve i couldn't understand why everywhere shut down till she was gone cry

Some people also spend millions to save a life that will finally be lost at the end sad
Take hrt.
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by Kobojunkie: 11:26pm On May 26, 2023
Divoc19:
■ This happened to me.... While we were looking for money from family and friends for hospital bills and test, we got over 200k 30 minutes after our daughter died. 31st January 2023 cry
It's like some people are meant to die in a particular way. It added to my grieve i couldn't understand why everywhere shut down till she was gone cry Some people also spend millions to save a life that will finally be lost at the end sad
The same people who refused to help with bills helped with burial? undecided
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by Divoc19(f): 11:31pm On May 26, 2023
Straight up.
Kobojunkie:
The same people who refused to help with bills helped with burial? undecided
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by Kobojunkie: 11:32pm On May 26, 2023
Divoc19:
Straight up.
Na guilt be that! I hope none of them showed their faces. angry
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by Divoc19(f): 11:37pm On May 26, 2023
I have already resigned to fate.
It's part of life.... The mogue attendant confirmed similar incidents. I couldn't understand it then huh
They are still family and friends
Kobojunkie:
Na guilt be that! I hope none of them showed their faces. angry
Thanks a lot
SyrusdeHansome:
Take hrt.
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by Kobojunkie: 11:40pm On May 26, 2023
Divoc19:
I have already resigned to fate. It's part of life.... The mogue attendant confirmed similar incidents. I couldn't understand it then huh They are still family and friends Thanks a lot
WOW... shocked shocked shocked
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by Divoc19(f):
Help move this to front page


RoyalRoy
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by Kobojunkie: 3:01pm On May 27, 2023
Divoc19:
How do we move this to front page

Kobojunkie

SyrusdeHansome
Usually you tell one of the moderators or Seun. undecided
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by SyrusdeHansome(op):
Kobojunkie:
Usually you tell one of the moderators or Seun. undecided
Noted. How do i go abt it? I really want it 2b pushed to fp cos apart frm witnessing it in another fam i'm also a victim. I bliv pple's contributions can help change the narrative.
Re: Ponder On This Nd If U're Such A Person, Pls Try Nd Amend ur ways. by xavuv: 8:03pm On May 28, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:
After the burial the man's wife asked her b4 the entire fam whether she had dis kinda money nd yet the brother begged her 4 just 2k for drugs. They almost fought each other after the question.
Sensitive question
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