Blitzking:
Like 30 yrs in a kid to you...shouldn't a 20 yr old be married in a normal setting where things are working

If not for these hard biting tough economic times.

MrBrownJay1:
a DESPERATE person thinking about their body clock AND wanting to have a legitimate child (aka while being married) wont use their brain, thus why many women rush for marriage at a certain age, with any donkey whatsoever.

e say nah donkey.lol

Mostly women does. When they are above 30 desperation set in. Guys beware of single ladies in their 30's. Once they enter, they become tiger.

telim:
Dating for long does mean the marriage will last. My dad and mum only knew themselves for few days before they got married at a young age. They have being together for over 40 years without any headache.

Did you say without anyvheadache? Lol. You don't mean it

CodeTemplar:
you are high on testosterone.

Abraham did not date Sarah.

Idan agba wotowoto!

Hian!

u jez cut am giv d guy str8!

Do what works for you in marriage

geedot:
That's even better, those getting married immediately their gf got pregnant is mostly a recipe for financial handicap. If you want to have a baby, be financially ready please.

It's annoying seeing a married man asking for urgent 2ks, and married woman disturbing her exes for money too.

This is real bro

Age matters for women at times

Nazgul:

This is one of the reasons why most marriages collapse before they even begin.

Even those who married late still collapse. Baba, this thing no get format!

Societal pressure. Our society doesn't respect people that are of marriageable age that are single.

geedot:
That's even better, those getting married immediately their gf got pregnant is mostly a recipe for financial handicap. If you want to have a baby, be financially ready please.

It's annoying seeing a married man asking for urgent 2ks, and married woman disturbing her exes for money too.

Is it not annoying guy having sex with ladies?


If u re position of girl what will u do

Princedapace:

Even those who married late still collapse. Baba, this thing no get format!

Our girls don scatter format! Only God fit reset that institution called marriage.

uncleck:
You can NEVER find the right partner. Once you're old/prepared enough to marry, just look for any available demon and marry and carry your cross afterwards.

There's no right partner anywhere. In every successful marriage, one partner must have sacrificed his/her rights and become an id!ot for things to work

If you're waiting for the quality, right, partners, you'll never marry.

Gbam.

abobote:
There's no assurance in marriage, even though one has perfect relationship, it doesn't still guarantee lasting marriage

Gbam.

telim:
Dating for long does mean the marriage will last. My dad and mum only knew themselves for few days before they got married at a young age. They have being together for over 40 years without any headache.

there'll be headache,it's not just severe one,there are no perfect marriage anywhere,it requires understanding and cooperation to stay together forever

Family and Age pressure and pepper Dem geng

YoungLionken:
Just yesterday, an ex of three years ago suddenly came out of the blue and we began chatting. Long story short, she said she's getting married next month. She's even young. I asked her "why do you want to get married now?", till now she has been unable to give a constructive answer to that...

She doesn't owe you the explanation. That she didn't tell you doesn't mean she don't have a reason!

Kalatium:
WHY do couples rush to get married based on their age, not based on the quality of their relationship?

You will see someone rushing to get married just because they are 30years old.

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The best years to have children is 20-25 for women.
But a 26-yrs old in Nigeria is still living with her parents and interested in playing the field. Just like Buhari's 8 years stint was like a flash in a pan, 30 years birthday comes up too suddenly and desperation sets in. Those who were 22 when Buhari got in will be 30 this year and 38 by the time Tinubu's tenure flies by too. The quality of men a lady attracts above 30 dwindles. Of course, there are a few outliers. Everyone believes her case will be different. But reality doesn't care about feelings.

Above 35, most of them join one or more man-hating organizations and start enticing young and gullible ones to join their misery.
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While you consider the quality of relationship you're also mindful of passing age which you have no control over because time is life and life is time,there's no perfect marriage the spouse only need to dovetail into each other with understanding to perfect it.Love thrives only in the atmosphere of in-depth understanding of one's spouse.You should strike a fair balance between the two.

YoungLionken:
Just yesterday, an ex of three years ago suddenly came out of the blue and we began chatting. Long story short, she said she's getting married next month. She's even young. I asked her "why do you want to get married now?", till now she has been unable to give a constructive answer to that...

Everybody's definition of young is personal. She may be young to you, but may not see herself as such.

And I don't think she's young if she is already your ex for 3years. How old was she when you started dating her? How long did you date her for? Now add 3years to the figure....As a lady, it's not just about the biological clock, but also "devaluation clock" as well.

Stevenbright:


She doesn't owe the explanation. That she didn't tell you doesn't mean she don't have a reason!

Stop thinking like a sec school drop out..

"Constructive answer", that's to say she actually answered but too feeble to consider reasonable...

MrBrownJay1:
a DESPERATE person thinking about their body clock AND wanting to have a legitimate child (aka while being married) wont use their brain, thus why many women rush for marriage at a certain age, with any donkey whatsoever.

Hahaha , marriage to a donkey ke

uncleck:
You can NEVER find the right partner. Once you're old/prepared enough to marry, just look for any available demon and marry and carry your cross afterwards.

There's no right partner anywhere. In every successful marriage, one partner must have sacrificed his/her rights and become an id!ot for things to work

If you're waiting for the quality, right, partners, you'll never marry.

The only solution is to marry your first love especially if you're his/her first love as well. Every relationship after the first love is nothing but transactional relationship

make I buy you beer

InvertedHammer:

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The best years to have children is 20-25 for women.
But a 26-yrs old in Nigeria is still living with her parents and interested in playing the field. Just like Buhari's 8 years stint was like a flash in a pan, 30 years birthday comes up too suddenly and desperation sets in. Those who were 22 when Buhari got in will be 30 this year and 38 by the time Tinubu's tenure flies by too. The quality of men a lady attracts above 30 dwindles. Of course, there are a few outliers. Everyone believes her case will be different. But reality doesn't care about feelings.
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Hian, using Buhari and Tinubu 8years in office as marriage equation, Hehehe

Being married early as so many good and bad consequences,Y some are destined to married early,some are destined to married late..Today,peoples married for so many purposes,But for me oooo..I don't believe in struggle to run a families,many are just struggling everyday just to run a moderate families,am not advocating for millions before marriage,but at least a sustainable income for the growth of families.. Everybody with there own choices.. Marriage has level, looking children as only reasons for marriage is unreasonable to me..I really preferred a peaceful and controllable home than struggling and stress marriage scattered everywhere in the country...

Kalatium:
WHY do couples rush to get married based on their age, not based on the quality of their relationship?

You will see someone rushing to get married just because they are 30years old.

Biological time doesn't favour women

Reasons best known to them

Goodlady:
It's based on circumstances and their level of understanding.
Slomgbojo of life has hit some so bad that they settle for anything. Some are victims of waiting for a long time which has activated the desperation each time they remember age.
I reject bad marriage, amen.

The donkey you mentioned are males. Very hilarious the way you described yourself and others with 3 legs. And it's men that marry late the most, not to make fun of you guys cos I won't lie, life no easy.

Good woman, wahgwan? Me wonder if smaddy ever tell you say you pretty deh.

Me cyah believe say a pretty dove coulda pop out Inna yah so. From me a get yuh number you know say me a go link up.. A me fi treat you like milk an do nutin fi spoil yuh. ✨🥂

MrBrownJay1:
a DESPERATE person thinking about their body clock AND wanting to have a legitimate child (aka while being married) wont use their brain, thus why many women rush for marriage at a certain age, with any donkey whatsoever.

It really doesn't matter when you do it. Older couples who get married at mature age also seek for divorce.
Blame no one, marriage that will last doesn't matter if it is Done at a Young and tender age.
A human above 25 if not for financial reason ought to have gotten a new generation or an offspring.

As a 30 years grown man/woman, you’ve grown enough to make your decision whether wrong or right. As a Nigerian, it’s best you make your decisions on time, the same thing you postpone 10 years ago could still be valid in the next 10 years. Nothing changes! Nothing has changed to good in Nigeria. Sometimes, miracles are just GOOD PEOPLE with good hearts.

Yes they know the importance of early Marriage and more so ,they don't want to fornicate around , early Marriage is a blessing before you click old age your children will be there to help you