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mariahAngel:
What if something happens to either of them in the process? 😰

Op, don't you have any uncle your brother revere?

This is where lies the problem. Devil can make one to kill another in the process of fighting.

Use him as a sacrificial gift to the gods of your land but wait ooo..he said ur room is dirty and u think it’s clean because the room is new?
New rooms can be dirty if not properly cleaned.

Rayban25:
My dear you dont understand boys. Unlike girls, boys actually need physical beatings to reset their brains..mothers may not like it but beating does wonders to a boy

Why do you assume he can beat him?
Even if he can have you considered what he might do in revenge since you claim you understand boys
You are thinking beating others are thinking killing

better not to start violence you cannot control
Don't price what you won't buy

Kill him

1, Be calm with him
2 , Don't respond to whatever anything he says
3, You need to study him very well
4, Don't see him/think like is your enemy

na wa ooo


Take him to Okija shrine and give him away to the priest as a bag boy.
Or use him for ritual

Ignore him.

Hahaaaaa very easy put sniper for him food or drug am give am sniper drink byforce

Everything no be about fight, maybe he is going through something, why don't you try to become friends with him so you guys can understand each more and remember some teenagers usually behave aggressively especially boys, he will grow out of it.

Beating or fighting him should be a last option

[quote author=mariahAngel post=123496335]For the sake of your mum, do not fight (beat up) your younger brother. Please o!
She might not be able to bear her sons fighting.

Have and keep having patience with him, I believe he'll change eventually.
Whenever he starts to act all aggressive and stubborn, talk to him in a calmer tone.
Tell him not to talk back at your mum also.

He's not going to change if he didn't beat him, he should beat the hell out of him and set boundaries, I swear he will respect his elder brother untill they kingdom come

Please don't beat him, talk to him calmly and maturely, but tell him you will beat him up the next time he insults your mother. That should bebtheboly reason to beat him. I used to have a brother like that, but he is now mature, I guess due to age. But like I said, don't beat him until he insults your mother again. That will let him understand that you are in control. If not fighting him will only create hatred between both of you.

Temioolajide:
Pls how do i deal with my junior brother?

I'm 19 yrs old and he is 17
He is very spoilt and stubborn
I just finished having a confrontation with him because i locked the window in our room cus the breeze entrying was much and it was making the cotton to fall.

He came in the room where i was reading and started shouting that the room is smelling calling me insultive name like olorun,obun room that isn'tsmelling at all.a new room.

When my mom intervened he starts saying she's always supporting me which he always says..

He thinks he can fight me but i don't just want to destroy that his mouth that is running like tap so i had to control my temper because he is a slim person and I'm more muscular.

Imagine when he had a surgery my mom spent over 120k on the surgery yet he still has the balls to talk any how to her.

Pls how do we bring him to order
Note: Our dad is late

Thanks much

I'm sure he is a Tinubu supporter.

Destroy that boy with your muscular physique..

Some people can be very good in bringing the devil out of a good person..

Temioolajide:
Pls how do i deal with my junior brother?

I'm 19 yrs old and he is 17
He is very spoilt and stubborn
I just finished having a confrontation with him because i locked the window in our room cus the breeze entrying was much and it was making the cotton to fall.

He came in the room where i was reading and started shouting that the room is smelling calling me insultive name like olorun,obun room that isn'tsmelling at all.a new room.

When my mom intervened he starts saying she's always supporting me which he always says..

He thinks he can fight me but i don't just want to destroy that his mouth that is running like tap so i had to control my temper because he is a slim person and I'm more muscular.

Imagine when he had a surgery my mom spent over 120k on the surgery yet he still has the balls to talk any how to her.

Pls how do we bring him to order
Note: Our dad is late

Thanks much

Temioolajide:
Pls how do i deal with my junior brother?

I'm 19 yrs old and he is 17
He is very spoilt and stubborn
I just finished having a confrontation with him because i locked the window in our room cus the breeze entrying was much and it was making the cotton to fall.

He came in the room where i was reading and started shouting that the room is smelling calling me insultive name like olorun,obun room that isn'tsmelling at all.a new room.

When my mom intervened he starts saying she's always supporting me which he always says..

He thinks he can fight me but i don't just want to destroy that his mouth that is running like tap so i had to control my temper because he is a slim person and I'm more muscular.

Imagine when he had a surgery my mom spent over 120k on the surgery yet he still has the balls to talk any how to her.

Pls how do we bring him to order
Note: Our dad is late

Thanks much

Never fight with him because devil can you one to kill another. If, God forbidden, one seriously injured another, it's the same mother that will bear emotional and financial pains as she had, even without fighting, on the surgery you talked about.
Let clergy of your mosque or church mediate.

You have to beat him mercilessly and set boundaries, you will be amazed of the tremendous change that will happen to him.

He will respect you till eternity.


Make sure blood comes out of his mouth, do not be afraid, he won't die.

Please ignore him. It's a stage in life. Nature has a way of taking care of such differences. Please concentrate on self-development to earn you respect of everybody and your brother in particular. Say no to violence! It promotes further disrespect if he turns out to win you in a physical battle. If you win, he may nurse the quest for vengeance and that is disastrous. The Lord will lead you right.

Send him out for education or exile, else remand him for 24 hours just the way my dad did to me back then.

This one nah small one. I handle worst of his likes behavior

HacheNoire:
Have you beaten him before?

You need teach him a lesson he will never forget. That’s the way you can create limits and set boundaries.

Take him to a field where no one can separate you, and beat him VERY well. I mean very well. If you can afford boxing gloves, get two pairs for both of you.

If he insist, beat him till he raises up his hands. Make sure you do until you are tired, and make sure he does not run away. I will suggest upstairs of an uncompleted building cos he might want to flee.

Come back and thank me.

Wicked man Don King deh


You wan fi set a fight between the two blood clot breda dem... Di likkle bwoy a go bawl out an dash weh 🏃💨


The wise one once told me say "spare the rod and spoil the pickney deh

MASTAkiLLAh:
Everything you said there should be blamed on your parents so don't disturb yourself with frivolities. The best you can do is to advise him one last time man to man then look for a way to improve your life. Get into school or finish with school, learn skills that will put a steady income in your pockets and account then look for a way to leave that house. Carry your cross, your brother should carry his own cross while your parents carry their own. Whenever he comes visiting your place, you can impose and enforce your own laws

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yahoodetector:
I'm sure he is a Tinubu supporter.

Lolz wetin b this

Temioolajide:
Pls how do i deal with my junior brother?

I'm 19 yrs old and he is 17
He is very spoilt and stubborn
I just finished having a confrontation with him because i locked the window in our room cus the breeze entrying was much and it was making the cotton to fall.

He came in the room where i was reading and started shouting that the room is smelling calling me insultive name like olorun,obun room that isn'tsmelling at all.a new room.

When my mom intervened he starts saying she's always supporting me which he always says..

He thinks he can fight me but i don't just want to destroy that his mouth that is running like tap so i had to control my temper because he is a slim person and I'm more muscular.

Imagine when he had a surgery my mom spent over 120k on the surgery yet he still has the balls to talk any how to her.

Pls how do we bring him to order
Note: Our dad is late

Thanks much

He needs a beating.

Give him one 🙂

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Gajagojo:
Why do you assume he can beat him?
Even if he can have you considered what he might do in revenge since you claim you understand boys
You are thinking beating others are thinking killing

better not to start violence you cannot control
Don't price what you won't buy

Oga rest....if I am beating my brother at least I can still do it love and still know some sensitive parts not to hit...where will he learn to have sense if not at home? Is it until an outsider thatn dosent know him kills him before he learns his lesson? The OP dosent have a father figure and the mother can not do the job of a father figure...most last borns you see are spoilt because the mothers will be emotional and say dont touch my child

Now the boy has grown up spoilt you think an outsider will beat him with love? If you dont know what to say you must not comment

Temioolajide:
Pls how do i deal with my junior brother?

I'm 19 yrs old and he is 17
He is very spoilt and stubborn
I just finished having a confrontation with him because i locked the window in our room cus the breeze entrying was much and it was making the cotton to fall.

He came in the room where i was reading and started shouting that the room is smelling calling me insultive name like olorun,obun room that isn'tsmelling at all.a new room.

When my mom intervened he starts saying she's always supporting me which he always says..

He thinks he can fight me but i don't just want to destroy that his mouth that is running like tap so i had to control my temper because he is a slim person and I'm more muscular.

Imagine when he had a surgery my mom spent over 120k on the surgery yet he still has the balls to talk any how to her.

Pls how do we bring him to order
Note: Our dad is late

Thanks much

Guy the room was smelling
Most times you need to open the windows so that the room won't smell. So that fresh air will enter the room.

Maybe it's the way he said it.
Young people at that age always want to hide covering windows because they don't want people to know that they're at home cuz their friends are in school.

The question is what are you still doing in that house, don't you have something doing?

Look for a hand work so you will have a little respect

How will a 17 years old be saying rubbish to you the elder and the mum? Well perhaps uma upbringing spoit him or something else.....
Make u and ur mama ignore him....shebi everybody dey struggle for future now.his eyes will be clearer soon n if i see this type trying to constitutes nuisances to neighbours or the society., the law permits me to waste him...

What advice do you seek of me here? Firstly, this is a public forum and you ought to or should learn how to compose words in simple and comprehensible English... It's a foreign language, no doubt but appalling when I read stuffs like this.... Secondly, like someone rightly said, you both are of the same age-grade hence the disrespect. But that's not a yardstick for such flagrant act of disrespect. My elder brother is older than me with a year and I still have huge respect for him... Well, beat him to show who's the boss here!

Please just patient with him, I believe he will definitely change.

This is normal boiz thing.l will advice you to exercise patient. I've seem where brothers kill each other because one of them was very stubborn.Just try and be calm, your brother will outgrow this stage.Make him understand why the two of you are not suppose to be fighting.Make una consider your mama abeg.

You’re bossing him around, look at you, you want to handle your age mate, I hope he gives you wotowoto
You and bro Dey you go lock window without asking if he’s fine with it


If you respect someone you’ll get respect back

Temioolajide:
Exactly my mom can't bear it when we beat up each other...

I will talk to him in a calm tone next time
Thank u Mariah

Lol..see ehn mum will always talk so don't let that deter you,let me tell you how your junior bro thinks.

In his mind he feels you only senior him with just 2 years 2 years lasan,he believe he will stand his ground during a confrontation.

If you have the time,wait till he does something stup1d again then use the opportunity to let him know that the 2 years lasan is 730 days,e no small.

After dealing with him ruthlessly,if mummy complains you apologize to her.



If you think this is going to change anytime soon, sorry ooo.

You'll have to deal with this till you're probably 25/27 years,by that time una go don dey mature to the extent of respecting each other's boundaries.