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Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by yungzed360(m): 8:39am On Jun 09, 2023
This is my girl. Our problems are she most times receives calls and chats with lots of guys and she lies to me alot, I've told her severally to stop and always tell me as it is, although I get angry very easily bt it would be better to digest the truth than lies cus it's hurt me a lot. So I've broken up with her many times and she sometimes swear never to come back again. But after a few days or weeks. She will come begging, calling and texting again and then I keep forgiven her.

Below is a screenshots of our most recent quarrels when she came back begging and the reason for the quarrel was she was at my house when another guy called again, and she couldnt tell the guy she was at her boyfriend's house even though the guy kept asking where she went, she only said she went out.

What exactly could be the problem?
Is it me? Is it her? I'm I too over protective or feeling insecure? Please guys what should I do?

Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by TemplarLandry: 8:42am On Jun 09, 2023
You're weak, and she keeps exploiting this. At the same time claiming to love you. Truth is she'll keep exploiting this weakness again and again.

You're dealing with an unrepentant cheater. If you value your peace of mind, discard her and make her realize you've got a replacement for her.

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Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by rookidmart: 8:49am On Jun 09, 2023
She already told you what you need to know.
She's not scared of losing you, she's scared she won't find someone else.
Basically you're a backup until she finds someone better which she hasn't. That's why she keeps coming back

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Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by yungzed360(m): 8:53am On Jun 09, 2023
rookidmart:
She already told you what you need to know.
She's not scared of losing you, she's scared she won't find someone else.
Basically you're a backup until she finds someone better which she hasn't. That's why she keeps coming back

So what should I do bro?
Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by yungzed360(m): 8:54am On Jun 09, 2023
TemplarLandry:
You're weak, and she keeps exploiting this. At the same time claiming to love you. Truth is she'll keep exploiting this weakness again and again.

You're dealing with an unrepentant cheater. If you value your peace of mind, discard her and make her realize you've got a replacement for her.

So when next she comes begging, what should I do bro? Although I love her alot.
Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by Michaelspresh(f): 9:00am On Jun 09, 2023
I actually wished i had a boyfriend who is just as weak,stupid and foolish as you are..

Continue sha

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Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by TemplarLandry: 9:03am On Jun 09, 2023
Ask her why she is not contented with dating only you, ask why she keeps dating other guys. Expect a lot of manipulative tears from her eyes. Then ask her if she's cool with the idea of you seeing other girls too. Holy Spirit will give you utterance thereafter.
yungzed360:

So when next she comes begging, what should I do bro? Although I love her alot.

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Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by Cloudflare: 9:06am On Jun 09, 2023
All these weak, stupid and pussy ass niggars sef!

Dey mumu for there while those guys are busy knacking her kpekpus away! See the way she's emotional manipulating you so easily and you dey fall for her manipulations. Continue being a weakling. It's just a matter of time before she pins another dude's child on you.

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Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by ThatrealestApex: 9:09am On Jun 09, 2023
yungzed360:
This is Our girlfriend. My problem is that she most times receives calls and chats with lots of guys and my assistant boyfriends and she lies to me alot, I've told her severally to stop and always tell me as it is, although I get angry very easily bt it would be better to digest the truth than lies cus it's hurt me a lot. So I've broken up with her many times and she sometimes swear never to come back again. But after a few days or weeks. She will come begging, calling and texting again because she doesn't want to miss the goodies coming from a SIMP like me and then I keep forgiven her.

Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by brain54(m): 9:09am On Jun 09, 2023
β€œYou are special and different from the rest”…


Sounds like a manipulative witch to me who knows exactly what she is doing!

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Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by UptownVibes(m): 9:34am On Jun 09, 2023
Grow up..
Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by Smartguyboy(m): 9:36am On Jun 09, 2023
You mumu sha
If you are asking what to do.
As you are ok with her cheating on you do nothing.
Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by Foreverme5221: 9:42am On Jun 09, 2023
Stay away from her
Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by yungzed360(m): 10:02am On Jun 09, 2023
Smartguyboy:
You mumu sha
If you are asking what to do.
As you are ok with her cheating on you do nothing.

I'm not okay bro! I just confuse my brother... No vex.
Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by yungzed360(m): 10:03am On Jun 09, 2023
TemplarLandry:
Ask her why she is not contented with dating only you, ask why she keeps dating other guys. Expect a lot of manipulative tears from her eyes. Then ask her if she's cool with the idea of you seeing other girls too. Holy Spirit will give you utterance thereafter.

Okay bro! I'll do that today...

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Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by Smartguyboy(m): 10:15am On Jun 09, 2023
yungzed360:


I'm not okay bro! I just confuse my brother... No vex.
It’s obvious you like her cheating as for me I can’t stand a cheating partner.
Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by TheMaharajah: 10:28am On Jun 09, 2023
See this one
Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by EriMma1: 10:52am On Jun 09, 2023
As these small children with their sick stories. Person dey think how this Tinubu regime wan be like this wey beginning don rough, una dey one side dey play.

Wait untill she carry belle, na there you go know wetin life mean. Tkor!
Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by Smitaro100(m): 11:47am On Jun 09, 2023
Different species of human being dey dis world o
grin
Re: Please Guys I Need Your Advise: My Girl Is Stressing Me by joeeee240(m): 12:50pm On Jun 09, 2023
yungzed360:


Okay bro! I'll do that today...

Dont ask her anything. End the relationship. She's cheating. All these boys looking for advice that they like

The cold hard truth is that she's cheating. End the relationship

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