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Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Timson01(m): 11:57am On Feb 20, 2020
We have only been married for three (3) months. February 12 was my husband’s birthday, but being that it fell on a Wednesday, we decided to mark it on Sunday, February 16. We hosted friends to a-get-together in our home. I did a lot to make the day memorable. The last group of friends left around 9:30pm and by the time we were done cleaning up, it was about 11pm.
We had our bath and all I could think of was sleep, but my husband was thinking differently. He wanted sex, but I was just too tired for anything so I said NO and asked him to wait until morning.
My husband angrily left the bedroom and I drifted off to sleep because I was too tired, but I was woken up with a slap in my face. I thought I was dreaming, but I wasn’t. I was startled when I saw that it was my husband who actually dealt me a slap!
As I wanted to ask him what the issue was, he gave me another slap and said I had no right to deny him sex. I was forced to slap him back, but that made him angrier, he hit me back and pinned me down- I struggled with him, but he overpowered me. He tore my nightwear and RAPED me to his satisfaction.
I still do not believe this happened.
I was too tired- was I wrong to ask him to wait until the next day?
Was he right to have slapped me?
Was he right to have raped me?
SEX! Should it have been because of sex? We still had sex a night before- in fact early that morning- three (3) hot rounds.
It’s been three days after the incident, he’s still feeling fly like he was right.

Somebody please advise me on what to do?

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by tolugaruba(m): 12:01pm On Feb 20, 2020
Lady.. RUN!!!!!

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Beckysexy(f): 12:02pm On Feb 20, 2020
What!?
Just 3 months into the marriage he's already beating you?
Leave that marriage and run for your life.
A guy that beats you up is not worth it.
Even if you settle it, one day he's still gonna do it again or maybe worse

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by seunlayi(m): 12:05pm On Feb 20, 2020
Pack out and go and enjoy your peaceful life. That place is not your home

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by KINGreignn: 12:09pm On Feb 20, 2020
Timson01:
We have only been married for three (3) months. February 12 was my husband’s birthday, but being that it fell on a Wednesday, we decided to mark it on Sunday, February 16. We hosted friends to a-get-together in our home. I did a lot to make the day memorable. The last group of friends left around 9:30pm and by the time we were done cleaning up, it was about 11pm.
We had our bath and all I could think of was sleep, but my husband was thinking differently. He wanted sex, but I was just too tired for anything so I said NO and asked him to wait until morning.
My husband angrily left the bedroom and I drifted off to sleep because I was too tired, but I was woken up with a slap in my face. I thought I was dreaming, but I wasn’t. I was startled when I saw that it was my husband who actually dealt me a slap!
As I wanted to ask him what the issue was, he gave me another slap and said I had no right to deny him sex. I was forced to slap him back, but that made him angrier, he hit me back and pinned me down- I struggled with him, but he overpowered me. He tore my nightwear and RAPED me to his satisfaction.
I still do not believe this happened.
I was too tired- was I wrong to ask him to wait until the next day?
Was he right to have slapped me?
Was he right to have raped me?
SEX! Should it have been because of sex? We still had sex a night before- in fact early that morning- three (3) hot rounds.
It’s been three days after the incident, he’s still feeling fly like he was right.

Somebody please advise me on what to do?

Ignore those frustrated fellas above me screaming run. They don't know anything about marriage and most are saddists. Your husband was selfish and rude, but you also were selfish too. You two need to sit down and sort things out, Prolly visit a marriage counselor and your parents to discuss things.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by XhosaNostra(f): 12:12pm On Feb 20, 2020
I find this story hilarious lol. It reminds me of a similar story from childhood, where one neighbour came to our house one morning to tell my mother about a physical altercation she had with her husband the previous night over something I can't remember now. Anyway, he'd beaten her up pretty badly. He was blind, which is what made it extra funny to me. Apparently, he also waited until she fell asleep to deliver the punches. I laughed then like I did now. Thanks for the laughs, OP.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by donbachi(m): 12:13pm On Feb 20, 2020
But u 4 carry 4 mind sey sex na d last item to be served on dat very day..u come go over work ur sef.after him don full head, dey look ur curves and edges with hope sey cure go dey dat nite...him no do well...na so i go drink 1 time like dat,come dey chat my wife up with erotic chats...only to reach house with standing ovation,my wife dey lick oil...na GOD help me i 4 nkwantize 4 dream..come see fine girls 4 my dreamland na.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by budaatum: 12:13pm On Feb 20, 2020
If you stay, you are settling for a future of the same, so I do advise you pack your bags and leave.

The best place to go by the way, would be his parent''s, your in-law's house, and report him to his father (though it will be better if you do not tell them why you have come to stay with them for a while)! Stay there till he comes to beg you and signs agreement that it will never happen again!

But if you can not go stay with your in-laws, still leave the pig till he begs and signs an agreement to never slap you again!

You, girl, deserve better!

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by ghettochild4u(m): 12:18pm On Feb 20, 2020
Timson01:
We have only been married for three (3) months. February 12 was my husband’s birthday, but being that it fell on a Wednesday, we decided to mark it on Sunday, February 16. We hosted friends to a-get-together in our home. I did a lot to make the day memorable. The last group of friends left around 9:30pm and by the time we were done cleaning up, it was about 11pm.
We had our bath and all I could think of was sleep, but my husband was thinking differently. He wanted sex, but I was just too tired for anything so I said NO and asked him to wait until morning.
My husband angrily left the bedroom and I drifted off to sleep because I was too tired, but I was woken up with a slap in my face. I thought I was dreaming, but I wasn’t. I was startled when I saw that it was my husband who actually dealt me a slap!
As I wanted to ask him what the issue was, he gave me another slap and said I had no right to deny him sex. I was forced to slap him back, but that made him angrier, he hit me back and pinned me down- I struggled with him, but he overpowered me. He tore my nightwear and RAPED me to his satisfaction.
I still do not believe this happened.
I was too tired- was I wrong to ask him to wait until the next day?
Was he right to have slapped me?
Was he right to have raped me?
SEX! Should it have been because of sex? We still had sex a night before- in fact early that morning- three (3) hot rounds.
It’s been three days after the incident, he’s still feeling fly like he was right.

Somebody please advise me on what to do?
You Don marry beast..
You shd report to his parents and tell em u want out

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Skmoda360(m): 12:21pm On Feb 20, 2020
tolugaruba:
Lady.. RUN!!!!!
Run to where? You must be one of those kids in the block

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by bigass123(m): 12:21pm On Feb 20, 2020
Timson01:
We have only been married for three (3) months. February 12 was my husband’s birthday, but being that it fell on a Wednesday, we decided to mark it on Sunday, February 16. We hosted friends to a-get-together in our home. I did a lot to make the day memorable. The last group of friends left around 9:30pm and by the time we were done cleaning up, it was about 11pm.
We had our bath and all I could think of was sleep, but my husband was thinking differently. He wanted sex, but I was just too tired for anything so I said NO and asked him to wait until morning.
My husband angrily left the bedroom and I drifted off to sleep because I was too tired, but I was woken up with a slap in my face. I thought I was dreaming, but I wasn’t. I was startled when I saw that it was my husband who actually dealt me a slap!
As I wanted to ask him what the issue was, he gave me another slap and said I had no right to deny him sex. I was forced to slap him back, but that made him angrier, he hit me back and pinned me down- I struggled with him, but he overpowered me. He tore my nightwear and RAPED me to his satisfaction.
I still do not believe this happened.
I was too tired- was I wrong to ask him to wait until the next day?
Was he right to have slapped me?
Was he right to have raped me?
SEX! Should it have been because of sex? We still had sex a night before- in fact early that morning- three (3) hot rounds.
It’s been three days after the incident, he’s still feeling fly like he was right.

Somebody please advise me on what to do?


The solution to the problem is not quitting... You just started your life, don't begin on a bad note. Life is about challenges, finding solutions is what you the winner and then moving forward. Marriage is for problem solvers. You have made a mistake marrying such a man but then, don't make a bigger of quitting and leaving your home.
Find someone who your husband listens to and have that person speak sense into him.
It is wrong to bully a woman, that's domestic violence. Find solution to the problem and do it quick. It's too early to break your home. Every marriage goes through such stages. The difference is the way those involved handle their issues.
If you leave your husband, do you have an idea who the next man will be. Think well, think deep.
May God give you the wisdom to build your home.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Offpoint: 12:22pm On Feb 20, 2020
Have you considered stabbing him when he's sleeping? stab him on his balls or chop off his hands....






I love doing the devil's job with all sincerity.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Skmoda360(m): 12:23pm On Feb 20, 2020
KINGreignn:


Ignore those frustrated fellas above me screaming run. They don't know anything about marriage and most are saddists. Your husband was selfish and rude, but you also were selfish too. You two need to sit down and sort things out, Prolly visit a marriage counselor and your parents to discuss things.

respect bro.....those ones saying she should run are kids especially that leech of beckysexy undecided
Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Whyzaid(f): 12:33pm On Feb 20, 2020
Hmmm, his act was terrible but notwithstanding pls try and forgive him then report him to someone he respects in order to iron things out.
Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by KINGreignn: 12:36pm On Feb 20, 2020
Offpoint:
Have you considered stabbing him when he's sleeping? stab him on his balls or chop off his hands....






I love doing the devil's job with all sincerity.

Now, no need to start this evil advice.

@OP, DON'T do this or else you risk lengthy court case which may end up with you're being sentenced to death.
Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by WildChild00(m): 12:36pm On Feb 20, 2020
This is really funny, I think this has to do with some kind of misunderstanding between both parties, those advising the lady to quit her marriage are not doing her any favor, the question, did both of them date before marriage? If there was they are suppose to understand themselves.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by budaatum: 12:47pm On Feb 20, 2020
Skmoda360:

Run to where? You must be one of those kids in the block
And you must be one of those who think its her duty to stay and be beaten and raped and eventually killed or submits to the pig.

Hear op!

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by mcfestgee: 12:49pm On Feb 20, 2020
You just married a beast. He is going to do it again. Some one will say that is too hash. If you don't run, let me give you how the story will end: He is going to beg you and tell you it won't happen again and then get you pregnant. During your pregnancy, the maltreatment and humiliation will continue. When you put to bed, you will now have every reason to enjoy the beating because you don't want to be a single mother. With your story, that guy is a very violent man, that can do anything when you angered. A car without control is heading for a great destruction. You still have your life to keep, please stay off that marriage.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Skmoda360(m): 12:51pm On Feb 20, 2020
budaatum:

And you must be one of those who think its her duty to stay and be beaten and raped and eventually killed or submits to the pig.

Hear op!
Bro or sis (I don't know which one to call you) I'm not saying she should stay and be beaten to death....but she should consult the right people that can talk sense to him maybe he will change.....that man is a beast but the marriage is too early to be dissolved now and I think that's his first time of hitting her...

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Skmoda360(m): 12:54pm On Feb 20, 2020
Offpoint:
Have you considered stabbing him when he's sleeping? stab him on his balls or chop off his hands....






I love doing the devil's job with all sincerity.
grin grin grin

Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Nobody: 12:57pm On Feb 20, 2020
Beckysexy:
What!?
Just 3 months into the marriage he's already beating you?
Leave that marriage and run for your life.
A guy that beats you up is not worth it.
Even if you settle it, one day he's still gonna do it again or maybe worse
The guy should break up with her and go for a lady who will satisfy his appetite!!

The lady should move on too!!
Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by budaatum: 12:57pm On Feb 20, 2020
Skmoda360:

Bro I'm not saying she should stay and be beaten to death....but she should consult the right people that can talk to him maybe he will change.....that man is a beast but the marriage is too early to be dissolved now and I think that's his first time of hitting her...
He raped her too, and he will think its ok if she stays!

I'm not proposing a divorce. But she needs to leave that house if just to make a point so he knows how serious she is about this.

He married a wife, a partner, and not a slave!

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Bola146(f): 1:06pm On Feb 20, 2020
shocked shocked 3 months of marriage is the guy a beast ni? My dear, kindly inform your parents, so that he will not kill you sad Or kindly ask him what made him to do that, if he is sober, kindly forgive him but always watch his steps again. I'm even afraid of marriage lipsrsealed

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by CAPSLOCKED: 1:07pm On Feb 20, 2020
THIS PERSON IS NOTORIOUS FOR GOING AROUND SPREADING STUPID STORIES.

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by fredopareto(m): 1:09pm On Feb 20, 2020
D way u present it.(talk).make him slap u..next time know how to persuade and talk in meek way to him.. Remember in a marriage..there is noting I don't tolerate nonsense.or I can do anyhow...honor him..BT sit him down and iron it out.in a pleasant way..don't give Satan chance..tank jah later
Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Originalsly: 1:12pm On Feb 20, 2020
Timson01:


Somebody please advise me on what to do?


Hmmm..... male poster having sex issues with his husband. I'm out.
Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by fredopareto(m): 1:14pm On Feb 20, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
THIS PERSON IS NOTORIOUS FOR GOING AROUND SPREADING STUPID STORIES.
fact..don't blame dis moniker..she is a frustrated fellow...let pray for her

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Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by TonyeBarcanista(m): 1:14pm On Feb 20, 2020
FAKE STORY!

OP is a troll notorious for fictitious stories
Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by gbami(m): 1:15pm On Feb 20, 2020
Timson01:
We have only been married for three (3) months. February 12 was my husband’s birthday, but being that it fell on a Wednesday, we decided to mark it on Sunday, February 16. We hosted friends to a-get-together in our home. I did a lot to make the day memorable. The last group of friends left around 9:30pm and by the time we were done cleaning up, it was about 11pm.
We had our bath and all I could think of was sleep, but my husband was thinking differently. He wanted sex, but I was just too tired for anything so I said NO and asked him to wait until morning.
My husband angrily left the bedroom and I drifted off to sleep because I was too tired, but I was woken up with a slap in my face. I thought I was dreaming, but I wasn’t. I was startled when I saw that it was my husband who actually dealt me a slap!
As I wanted to ask him what the issue was, he gave me another slap and said I had no right to deny him sex. I was forced to slap him back, but that made him angrier, he hit me back and pinned me down- I struggled with him, but he overpowered me. He tore my nightwear and RAPED me to his satisfaction.
I still do not believe this happened.
I was too tired- was I wrong to ask him to wait until the next day?
Was he right to have slapped me?
Was he right to have raped me?
SEX! Should it have been because of sex? We still had sex a night before- in fact early that morning- three (3) hot rounds.
It’s been three days after the incident, he’s still feeling fly like he was right.

Somebody please advise me on what to do?
Run..Run for life..Divorce That idiot ,luckily enough you don't have a child yet...
Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by Nobody: 1:18pm On Feb 20, 2020
OP na Male for Nairaland and Female for real world.
Everybody now has one story or the other just to trend and seek for "audio" advices......
Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by bmdmixer: 1:21pm On Feb 20, 2020
all ur post is about a man doing this n dat to u guy rest with dis topic
Re: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by gbami(m): 1:22pm On Feb 20, 2020
KINGreignn:


Ignore those frustrated fellas above me screaming run. They don't know anything about marriage and most are saddists. Your husband was selfish and rude, but you also were selfish too. You two need to sit down and sort things out, Prolly visit a marriage counselor and your parents to discuss things.
idiot..Until He kills her..people like you will now be saying she should have run.....People rarely change...He is a wife beater and an entitled asshole...He will never change, it will only get worse

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