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Pls Advice by bendaniel1616(op): 8:59am On Jun 11, 2023
Good morning my people, since I became friends with my close friend wife , we do chat gist , after my relocation I've been have strange dreams with her that we are making love as husband and wife , sleeping on the same bed with her , the dreams is about 3 to 4 times now , not what I put on my mind at all , the first one I cum on my body in real life , and all the dreams look so real until I'm up , what's your advice on this pls family .
Re: Pls Advice by Carcholce: 9:54am On Jun 11, 2023
“Sprinkles holy water on thread”

“Does sign of the cross”
Re: Pls Advice by statistics1(m): 9:59am On Jun 11, 2023
You be "eleriiubu" person...change your evil devilish mindset
Re: Pls Advice by Nobody: 10:05am On Jun 11, 2023
Befriend the woman IRL
Re: Pls Advice by bendaniel1616(op): 10:11am On Jun 11, 2023
statistics1:
You be "eleriiubu" person...change your evil devilish mindset
insult in welcome cos you don't understand, I never have that mindset , you are free to open your mouth anyhow and talk , I'm not happy with it , I'm worried about it that's why I posted it , not everyone here is matured though , I can see matured comments
Re: Pls Advice by Nobody: 10:36am On Jun 11, 2023
I once had a male friend like that.. I actually friend zoned him.

He then started telling me of how he'd have wet dreams about me each time we would chat, I told him that it's best we stop communicating and with time he'll forget about me.

We stopped communicating for a while, but he then started to disturb me all over again, I don't like blocking people, but I had to block him.

So I'd advice that you cut all kinds of communication with her.
Re: Pls Advice by frozen70(f): 10:39am On Jun 11, 2023
bendaniel1616:
Good morning my people, since I became friends with my close friend wife , we do chat gist , after my relocation I've been have strange dreams with her that we are making love as husband and wife , sleeping on the same bed with her , the dreams is about 3 to 4 times now , not what I put on my mind at all , the first one I cum on my body in real life , and all the dreams look so real until I'm up , what's your advice on this pls family .
I think the more you chat with a woman In a friendly way the more you are getting use to the woman and may start having feelings

It can happen in consciously and the next this is sex that's the only thing that can crown all the gist and fun chat

If you know within you that you are lusting for her, even for once then calm yourself down over it and start driving that feelings away

But if you know that you are not lusting for her and you dint have any love feelings for her, then reduce your chat to just normal chat ans no pet names or sweet words will be type

Limit your frequency on chats or call so that you can drive that dream away

That's if you are really serious with your complain and wants to stop nonsense

If you can't help it then one day you may go down there
Re: Pls Advice by bendaniel1616(op): 11:02am On Jun 11, 2023
Thanks so much for your advice I really appreciate, the issue is that we were so close we drinks , gist and play together but we hardly chat oo since I relocated except when I wished her happy, even when I already forgot about her , the dream will just come , dreamt one that her husband died , she came to meet me and want to make love , I told her agressively people will think I know about the death .... I called my friend next morning to pray against the spirit of death over his life ...but I thank God the last one I didn't have the sex until I woke up , but we slept on bed like husband and wife and about to make love already I woke , just strange to me , I was thinking she is possessed that's my thoughts but not too sure .
Re: Pls Advice by bendaniel1616(op): 11:10am On Jun 11, 2023
Nice idea.

Samantha124:
I once had a male friend like that.. I actually friend zoned him.

He then started telling me of how he'd have wet dreams about me each time we would chat, I told him that it's best we stop communicating and with time he'll forget about me.

We stopped communicating for a while, but he then started to disturb me all over again, I don't like blocking people, but I had to block him.

So I'd advice that you cut all kinds of communication with her.
Re: Pls Advice by Carcholce: 11:31am On Jun 11, 2023
bendaniel1616:
Thanks so much for your advice I really appreciate, the issue is that we were so close we drinks , gist and play together but we hardly chat oo since I relocated except when I wished her happy, even when I already forgot about her , the dream will just come , dreamt one that her husband died , she came to meet me and want to make love , I told her agressively people will think I know about the death .... I called my friend next morning to pray against the spirit of death over his life ...but I thank God the last one I didn't have the sex until I woke up , but we slept on bed like husband and wife and about to make love already I woke , just strange to me , I was thinking she is possessed that's my thoughts but not too sure .
“Does sign of the cross”

“Sprinkles holy water on the OP”
Re: Pls Advice by Nobody: 11:46am On Jun 11, 2023
LMAO.. Dude, leave the brother alone with your holy water..🤣🤣🤣

We know it's Sunday and God will forgive him..🤣🤣🤣
Carcholce:
“Does sign of the cross”

“Sprinkles holy water on the OP”
Re: Pls Advice by PerfectStranger(m): 11:46am On Jun 11, 2023
Carcholce:
“Sprinkles holy water on thread”

“Does sign of the cross”
Werey grin grin grin
Re: Pls Advice by diogo23: 1:10pm On Jun 11, 2023
bendaniel1616:
Good morning my people, since I became friends with my close friend wife , we do chat gist , after my relocation I've been have strange dreams with her that we are making love as husband and wife , sleeping on the same bed with her , the dreams is about 3 to 4 times now , not what I put on my mind at all , the first one I cum on my body in real life , and all the dreams look so real until I'm up , what's your advice on this pls family .
Why will you be chatting with someone's wife it's very bad of you ? You are dreaming about your death not the other way round
Re: Pls Advice by bendaniel1616(op): 3:25pm On Jun 11, 2023
Thanks I appreciate I've learnt a lesson as well , I don't know it's wrong actually cod All of us has been friends for long together with the husband....


diogo23:
Why will you be chatting with someone's wife it's very bad of you ? You are dreaming about your death not the other way round
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