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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Hassanmaye(m): 6:23pm On Jun 14, 2023
Jman06:
Because women go out of shape once married due to excessive eating and laziness that hinder them from exercising and keeping fit.

Before you know it they become potbellied, oversized and unattractive. So it is natural for the man to lose interest in her.
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by ghostwritter(m): 6:25pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.


Going by ur last statement, I guess you were raised by a single mother.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Hassanmaye(m): 6:25pm On Jun 14, 2023
Jman06:
Most women become unattractive once married. That's why married men cheat.

Imagine seeing one hippopotamus with oversized grandma panties everyday. The man is bound to lose interest in her. If not for children and what the society would say, most married men would chase their wives away after few years of marriage.
True

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by vickydevoka(m): 6:25pm On Jun 14, 2023
ghiloman28:
Average women are just problematic no matter how good you are to them expecially ladies of nowadays. You must be very lucky to find one good one.
Sometimes I feel those that don’t have wife at home are enjoying
lol. But that's their nature , you can't change it. My friend left his wife n married another women, yet the wahala is still their. He said let him just remain in this one and die. I hated my dad until I grew up n found out about women. I asked my dad , na watin u pass through be this? That was even then, now way women no get single attitude plus internet advisees , marriage can never last. Just give one desperate old lad belle begin train pikin with her. Omo I go enjoy life

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Bananapill: 6:26pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.


This mindset will make you have a bad marriage.
You better start developing the right mindset, if not, you will meet the wrong person.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Poske95(m): 6:29pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.


Are you for real....?
Another stereotype...and are you 10 years into marriage....?!
Abstinence makes the heart grow fonder.
Man afrique....loves his household and is maturing with the changing times. It's a man's world, but these days, really.....?!
Marriage is at such literal brinks that you ask yourself whether you're happy. But the fact is you are and you're going through bthe motions of life.
These days, even if the tides blow by you, concentrating in this so called evolving world also takes its toll. One thing is if you're bthe man,you never stopped .......
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by OLULAW: 6:29pm On Jun 14, 2023
Because they're not men but boys.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by nkemjacob2(m): 6:32pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:


This their case and most of the ones I've seen is not money. The men have clearly lost interest.
You'll see them sitting with other people outside gisting and laughing while their wives will be alone sitting all by herself. So sad.
One major problem about marriage is sustainability. I may not have fact to d reason d man lost interest. D man could have his own kind of story.

Not all people who goes into marriage are mature or fit to be in marriage no matter d age

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by vickydevoka(m): 6:32pm On Jun 14, 2023
OZIOGU1:
Yes, I earn handsomely, I married early and I am done having kids, so what next training them through good schools, most young men like me make mistakes and is very costly at the end...

She teaches and our total combined income for a month is like 7digits, so why wait? Mind u I married her when I was earnig 19k salary in 2013

-Ten years marriage, and you already have 4 kids? You don't Television? grin
It doesn't apply to everyone
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Enemyofpeace: 6:36pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:


This their case and most of the ones I've seen is not money. The men have clearly lost interest.
You'll see them sitting with other people outside gisting and laughing while their wives will be alone sitting all by herself. So sad.
george not, so as not to be george.





Ajepako cone out o
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by PAQ(m): 6:45pm On Jun 14, 2023
Even our mouths will suddenly dislike and loose interest of our most favourite meal, especially when you know you have options.

The only way out is too look at that meal as your only source of living, every other is poison.

Apply this rule to your mouth & cock.

But on a serious note, sometimes women are to blame. After marriage & child birth they feel life stops there. They Stop looking after their shape, start adding weight. Stop looking hot for their man, dressing like married women all the time & when they take of their cloths its still sad! Its like there is no reason to spice things up. Take life too seriously. The mans attention gradually shifts to the outside world.

Thank God for my wife o! Hitting 40 still chicky & she knows how to serve my favourite meal in different variations. How i wan take tire?

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by hero2000: 6:46pm On Jun 14, 2023
Jman06:
Most women become unattractive once married. That's why married men cheat.

Imagine seeing one hippopotamus with oversized grandma panties everyday. The man is bound to lose interest in her. If not for children and what the society would say, most married men would chase their wives away after few years of marriage.

This statement right here is ungodly. Women, don't believe this!

While it is good to keep in shape, it is commitment and discipline to for any man to be faithful to you dear lady. Don't fall for this sh*t. It is just an excuse for cheating.

Don't you hear of beautiful and curvy figure 8 women whose husband cheat on them with househelps?

I have been married for 8years. I have never cheated because I fear the Lord. Fine girls dey everywhere. But you look at the wife you made a covenant to be with, and tell yourself, 'she is fine'.

Na d way be that o.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Elsueno: 6:53pm On Jun 14, 2023
Lmao, my wife can follow me anywhere she pleases, I really don't care nor have anything to hide, in fact she can sit on my lap if she wants...I would make sure our communication dey straight forward, if I no get money, I would shut down any financial requests, if I get though I go oblige grin

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by gudugudumeje: 6:55pm On Jun 14, 2023
Women's lack of respect, haste to have all wanted in athe union too early, lacking sacrifice, domineering spirit, entitlement and enslaving mentality in two or, more combination s is responsible. THE OXYGEN OF MARRIAGE FOR THE MAN IS RESPECT. In all ramifications. Then the man would love and show love.... BUT respect begets respect, too. Nb.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by ImperialYoruba: 6:58pm On Jun 14, 2023
Married men do not loose interest in their Mrs. No. Man is an adventure animal. New adventures attract their interest.

I was waiting my turn to pay for purchased item at the cash register the other day, then I felt a succulent, nice, smooth contact on my biceps. It was brief but enough to scatter my brain. So I leaned back hoping to regain the contact, unsuccessful. When i turned back to look her face was turned away but the boobs are irresistible. This clearly is an adventure, and I want to see where it leads. We rode together out of the mall parking lot.

Now, i dey my own jeje, she bring yanga touch me. This is what happens to lots of men.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by tesppidd: 6:58pm On Jun 14, 2023
Most of the time it is caused by bad attitude.

Physical looks aside, nothing turns a man off more than a wife with bad attitude.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by PDJT: 7:02pm On Jun 14, 2023
Glock22:


I don’t want to believe this thing has gotten to Nigeria

-No. It's only for Abuja, Lagos and Port Harcourt residents.
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by gudugudumeje: 7:06pm On Jun 14, 2023
Women's lack of respect, haste to have all wanted in athe union too early, lacking sacrifice, domineering spirit, entitlement and enslaving mentality in two or, more combination is responsible. THE OXYGEN OF MARRIAGE FOR THE MAN IS RESPECT. In all ramifications. Then the man would love and further show love.... BUT respect begets respect, too. Nb.

But to get the ramifications right, women should learn to forgive, cooperate, say sorry when wrong, say thank you for every good turn and assess if she is doing well enough in the union. BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN THE WOMAN SHOULDN'T HAVE HER OWN MIND. NOR, HAVE TO MAKE UP HER OWN MIND AND TAKE DECISIONS ON HER OWN. THAT SPACE, CIVIL SPACE OF HERS SHOULD ALWAYS BE GIVEN AND ADEQUATELY ALLOWED TOO. SHE IS not be driven like a slowpoke. And that is education, maturity, respect, to be evolved and exposure on the part of the man, too. Nb..
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by equitorial1(m): 7:08pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

Na the wife cause am
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by louken(m): 7:08pm On Jun 14, 2023
Sunmolar:


Most couples wouldn't let people know what happens behind the scene, the reason is, others have their own issues in marriage.
You said it well

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Ihateheadslamer: 7:11pm On Jun 14, 2023
Seconded

A friend of mine got married to a busty pretty lady she was so beautiful to the extent that my guy hardly leave the house without going out with her until she got pregnant and deliver her first child all the beauty fade away..... to be continue.....
Jman06:
Because women go out of shape once married due to excessive eating and laziness that hinder them from exercising and keeping fit.

Before you know it they become potbellied, oversized and unattractive. So it is natural for the man to lose interest in her.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Charly68: 7:14pm On Jun 14, 2023
That is why it takes more than love to sustain a marriage .. Love can wax cold but wisdom will tell you ,marriage is work ...you work to make it successful . Your commitment must be total to sustain it.. The immatured can't keep marriage

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by frozen70(f): 7:15pm On Jun 14, 2023
HRprof:

Oil dey your head. You have said it all

Lol
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by frozen70(f): 7:16pm On Jun 14, 2023
Busybrain2233:


Well said bro, but that's if the woman doesn't get older in appearance than the man.🤔

Would the man get younger at that age

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by frozen70(f): 7:16pm On Jun 14, 2023
whizzler:


I agree with ur last assertions, they make sense

Lol
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by SaturnNick(m): 7:19pm On Jun 14, 2023
Child birth and marriage palavas🙍🙍🙍🤧🤧🤧
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by topoftheworld(m): 7:25pm On Jun 14, 2023
Sunmolar:
Most problems in marriage is money related.

A married man maybe rich and decides to flirt around. Thus, infidelity can bring problem if found out by the wife
A married man maybe be broke and be disrespected by the wife. Thus, when the man becomes rich he may feel that the wife is not needed since there was no respect without money


Let me copy this and paste it on my WhatsApp.
Very deep

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Xammie001(m): 7:29pm On Jun 14, 2023
BOSS
na lack of love or the woman no meet expectations
check relationship wey don dey pass 3 years upwards
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Sirbruno3000(m): 7:30pm On Jun 14, 2023
Same here
tommy589:
Not all men are clingy inclined. Except on events that demands our joint presence,I like to be a lone ranger
Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Hotguy27: 7:49pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.


This is my 12th year of marriage and staying together but everyday I still desire my wife. We still sleep in the same bed till date. I tried to reduce the closeness by attempting to sleep in another room or a separate bed but she vehemently disagreed.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Ellasure: 7:55pm On Jun 14, 2023
EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.


your advise is definitely not appropriate because we still need each other somehow.

most women are very meddlesome and because they don't forget matters relating to the husband easily men have learnt to perch differently so that they are not misquoted when trouble starts at home wrt whatever the woman has observed while they went out.

when you go out with a wife, most times immediately arriving home she will like to open topics on whatever she observed outside particularly matters concerning what the husband did and if the husband failed to explain the way she likes trouble will sure spring up. so older men try not to go out with meddlesome wife to avoid unnecessary quarrels or headaches.

as women grows older they become very defensive and don't accommodate other people views easily. I think it is in their chemistry. as a man grows older he will often become more friendlier with a wider circles of business friends and community leaders.

Yoruba say a man has become father to the world ie baba gbogbo aye. but a wife will never allow him attain the rank.

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Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Enice(m): 8:17pm On Jun 14, 2023
Sunmolar:


In life, when something is scarce, it increases in value. You have to learn to be wanted by woman than to be around her most times
All this una postulation is total bunkum. Look, it's all about mindset. It starts with enjoying sex with her, being playful, happy, coming home early to continue the sex, then pregnancy, and child birth. If you make up your mind to believe that your wife's kpekus is the best and sweetest in the world, you go enter that hole a thousand times you no go tire. Even after 3 kids you go still dey rush am.

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