₦airaland Forum

Arizoner:
mo fe wo be, okomile

TemplarLandry:
It's unwise to expose yourself to attacks here.

We4all:
Dude looks better than he was when he got married.

On a flip note, exclude sex from marriage and watch majority shy away from marriage.

I would love to have a marriage devoid of sex. Who is up for this?

Amotolongbo:
You could do that to your mother

StagethemTVee:
It’s my 17th wedding anniversary today and I would love to share a few tips.
1. Unmet expectations are the No 1 causes of divorce. Act like the success of the marriage depends on only you.
2. Communication must never stop. Avoid malice and separation under the guise of recovering or getting your heads straight.
3. You are one in the marriage and no party should feel like they are less.
4. Don’t involve family members in your marriage under the guise of seeking advise. Get a mentor with several decades of successful marriage.
5. Spend some time away from the stress together to bond and connect.
6. Be in the circle of people with successful marriages

Happy 17th wedding Anniversary to me and my boo.

Samantha124:
I know about good characters and other stuff.

What I want to know is the sex part, how do they keep the fire burning between the sheets for all these years?

I have my pen and paper ready...

Ashawoman82:
trust me, sex is not part of what hold marriage... If it's based on sex, they won't last long... Having sec with the same girl for a year alone is enough for me to get used to such girl that I won't be sexually active around her.

Samantha124:
But your moniker states that you're a woman.. .. Are you a lesbian?

Ashawoman82:
u are not a Nigerian so u won't understand my monicker, I guess I prefer it that way...

StagethemTVee:
It’s my 17th wedding anniversary today and I would love to share a few tips.
1. Unmet expectations are the No 1 causes of divorce. Act like the success of the marriage depends on only you.
2. Communication must never stop. Avoid malice and separation under the guise of recovering or getting your heads straight.
3. You are one in the marriage and no party should feel like they are less.
4. Don’t involve family members in your marriage under the guise of seeking advise. Get a mentor with several decades of successful marriage.
5. Spend some time away from the stress together to bond and connect.
6. Be in the circle of people with successful marriages.

Happy 17th wedding Anniversary to me and my boo.

Samantha124:
I may not be a Nigerian, but I've been around here for a while and I know a few Nigerian slangs.

Thank you for giving me a clue of what your moniker could mean, Ashawo man..

VeryWickedMan:
Shioor

VeryWickedMan:
Go and do something about your barreness.
Buy eggs if you must.

Ashawoman82:

Samantha124:
How do you guys keep the fire burning between the sheets for 17 years?

Ginomel:
Very easy, if care is not taken, you might even be peeping on your spouse while bathing because you want to see him or her body more and more. Once together and in peace, there is nothing like years between the two.

Samantha124:
So how much do you charge per person?🤣🤣🤣

Alaigbomaster:
Between the sheets, that's only your interest

DaveHarry:
You should have posted recent photos not these 17 years back photos that will make people think you still look young n fresh after you decide to marry an olosho. You dey shy of your old age abi na wetin.
Happy anniversary anyways

Samantha124:
That's because I already know about other stuff concerning marriage, but i don't know much when it comes to keeping the fire burning in the other room for 17 years.

Why is everyone on this thread so shy to open up though? I also want to have a successful marriage and the bottom line is that there's no successful marriage without some steamy sex.

Where are those men and women who have been married for more than 10 years? I need your advice...

StagethemTVee:
It’s my 17th wedding anniversary today and I would love to share a few tips.
1. Unmet expectations are the No 1 causes of divorce. Act like the success of the marriage depends on only you.
2. Communication must never stop. Avoid malice and separation under the guise of recovering or getting your heads straight.
3. You are one in the marriage and no party should feel like they are less.
4. Don’t involve family members in your marriage under the guise of seeking advise. Get a mentor with several decades of successful marriage.
5. Spend some time away from the stress together to bond and connect.
6. Be in the circle of people with successful marriages.

Happy 17th wedding Anniversary to me and my boo.

RingRoadMafia:
Poverty na bad thing o, how can you marry somebody's daughter when she's looking so fresh, and after so many years you have her looking as wretched as you?

This why I will never see any woman as a gold digger because at the end of the day, I won't let my own sister marry a wretch. The same way a man wants what's best for himself is also the same way women want what's best for themselves. So I don't blame them!

Samantha124:
But that still doesn't answer my question and it seems like no one has the answer for the question.

Life has taught me not to believe anything I see in pictures, especially those of happy couples... I also know of some couples who look very happy in the pictures, but their homes are never at peace.

If sex didn't form a big part of a marriage, then men wouldn't be complaining of how their wives are denying them sex, and they also wouldn't see a need to cheat on their wives by sleeping with other women just because their wives are denying them at home.