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This is the sort of pressure you people place on men and women to get married that makes most of them end up being miserable in a prison called Marriage for Life!

Divorce rate, Separation, and Domestic violence are increasing astronomically every day... But, you clowns will rather ignore these and focus on "age-shaming" and pressuring people into getting married, even when they are clearly mentally, socially, and financially unprepared!

siofra:
Very wrong. You have no idea about the HUGE number of Nigerian women choosing to stay single in 2023 than deal with men. You truly have no frigging idea.

Words of consolation

siofra:
And what is wrong with that? So because I hate men, I shouldn't have sex with them Why Do you people not hate women, yet still have sex with them

u cant hate men darlin'.

We have many good ones out there.

Queendera:
Guys

FALSE,PLS.

1. Please ma, can you share a credible source/reference for your assertion?
2. I hope you are one of those women?

siofra:
Very wrong. You have no idea about the HUGE number of Nigerian women choosing to stay single in 2023 than deal with men. You truly have no frigging idea.

siofra:
I'm not capping. I'm serious. Better to be a single woman in Nigeria, than marry.

Is that you on your profile?

siofra:
Very wrong. You have no idea about the HUGE number of Nigerian women choosing to stay single in 2023 than deal with men. You truly have no frigging idea.

This your post will be nominated as the greatest LIE in 2023 by Guinness Record.

You have also forgotten the HUGE number of ladies crying to God for life partner.

"Marriage is painful, but Celibacy has no pleasures" - Samuel Johnson

True. Nothing wrong being picky unfortunately we don't always have what we want.

Westerhoffe:
You can say that again…

insinuating the right thing

Chetas81:
insinuating the right thing

No… with what will you kill a goat?

siofra:
Very wrong. You have no idea about the HUGE number of Nigerian women choosing to stay single in 2023 than deal with men. You truly have no frigging idea.

Sorry ooo. Dey play

Women tend to drastically overestimate their value & bargaining power on the dating market. 👌


A woman at the 50th percentile, thinks she can get commitment from a man at the 90th percentile.


In monogamous societies, this is not reality.

A woman at the 50th percentile will most likely end up with a man at the 50th percentile, and if a man at the 70th percentile is willing to be with her, she should count herself lucky.


When finding a man for their daughter or sister to marry, men also tend to drastically overestimate their daughter's/sister's value on the marriage market.

Queendera:
amen.

Contentment is also important. Some women just can't see beyond material things until it's too late.

Aka soft life girls

Sanguine:
Thankfully, marriage has no eternal significance or relevance.

Better single than being in a relationship or marriage with a partner who doesn't even know his/her purpose in life.

better remain single than marry a fool

Poverty has caused so many people to decide to stay sin gle because the rate many naija gals de do runs now ..no sane young guy go fit end up with many of them no matter how they pretend their character will surface

So you don't know the difference between "reach" and "rich"?




Nawa o!

Westerhoffe:
No… with what will you kill a goat?

kindly bring your plate let me serve you the ogufe 😜✍️

Pocolee abi Picanto abi Wetin be the name of that bipolar Nairaland feminist would avoid this thread🤣🤣🤣


Na she be that 40yr old one🤣

siofra:
Very wrong. You have no idea about the HUGE number of Nigerian women choosing to stay single in 2023 than deal with men. You truly have no frigging idea.

Sharap and speak for yourself

Omoawoke:
Not funny, I’m a guy but pls post like this have sent many to suicide and depression.
It is not easy out there and not everyone is lucky with relationships.
Some went far before realizing they weren’t compatible, some lost their spouses to death, some haven’t been lucky meeting the right man.
Should they hang themselves or jump inside lagoon because they are single at a certain age?
Remember you have sisters and family who are ladies, and you may have daughters someday that will go through this stage too. Let’s live and let others live. For that reason, I’ve never found it funny to make a joke or make fun of single ladies

True. Thank you for this.

Just that the narrative of "it's your fault for being single because you're too picky" sells more. Lots of times, circumstances beyond people's power made them single.

For example here in the West, lost of productive, beautiful, marriageable black men/women finds it hard to get married due to reasons beyond their control.

E.g, lack of eligible suitors/ladies in their vicinity, western life too individualistic and indoor, is it their fault now?

CJStarz:
This post smacks of mockery of the women fold. Not funny.

A Simp and his senses are soon parted

siofra:
Very wrong. You have no idea about the HUGE number of Nigerian women choosing to stay single in 2023 than deal with men. You truly have no frigging idea.

stay there dey play.
na people like U, jennyclay, ahnie & pocochants dey secretly pray to God for any man wey dey breathe

Sanguine:
Thankfully, marriage has no eternal significance or relevance.

Better single than being in a relationship or marriage with a partner who doesn't even know his/her purpose in life.

Wet in consign you with somebody else's purpose? Wetin dey marriage than to knack, fight, give birth to children, have good memories and die! Anyone wey wan kill himself/ herself on top purpose, make he go and die!

siofra:
I'm not capping. I'm serious. Better to be a single woman in Nigeria, than marry.

Please mind what you say, what you say might be imposed on you In the future because words are so powerful. Human words have a way of manifesting in the future. You might think it's nothing because you are still young.
No matter how much you hate men please stop saying negative things about yourself or marriage.
There's power In our tongue.

The person that did this is a complete werey.

Those are Control freak women, they want a lovely and submisive husband. [quaote author=siofra post=123878902]Very wrong. You have no idea about the HUGE number of Nigerian women choosing to stay single in 2023 than deal with men. You truly have no frigging idea.[/quote]

siofra:
Very wrong. You have no idea about the HUGE number of Nigerian women choosing to stay single in 2023 than deal with men. You truly have no frigging idea.

Go siddon somewhere!!!

Women and priq are inseperable.

Omoawoke:
Not funny, I’m a guy but pls post like this have sent many to suicide and depression.

It is not easy out there and not everyone is lucky with relationships.

Some went far before realizing they weren’t compatible, some lost their spouses to death, some haven’t been lucky meeting the right man.

Should they hang themselves or jump inside lagoon because they are single at a certain age?

Remember you have sisters and family who are ladies, and you may have daughters someday that will go through this stage too. Let’s live and let others live. For that reason, I’ve never found it funny to make a joke or make fun of single ladies

.True Talk .

siofra:
Very wrong. You have no idea about the HUGE number of Nigerian women choosing to stay single in 2023 than deal with men. You truly have no frigging idea.

seriously

Chetas81:
kindly bring your plate let me serve you the ogufe 😜✍️

Plate or a big party cooler?
You're too stingy. I'm not coming again.

Westerhoffe:
Plate or a big party cooler?
You're too stingy. I'm not coming again.

my ubar driver is at your doorstep

Queendera:
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Leave the hustle for guys, your husband give you food and everything....