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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by 1GALLANT: 2:16pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Definitely |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by blesdman(m): 2:16pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
caesymore:U don talk am finish. Communication and understanding. Na so people de live for India. No fast rule, if it is there in community, it is ok 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by ppogba: 2:18pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Welcome to stupid questions half hour. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Dshocker(m): 2:18pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
omolola100: Your eyes go see shege. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Kobicove(m): 2:19pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
It's generally not a good idea except if it's a temporary arrangement 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by allthingsgood: 2:21pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
caesymore: its called failure to launch...wetin the mama go do secretly she will be praying her son grows up for once How can u marry and remain in your father's house? no be curse be that if your father remained in his fathers house, where will u now stay? 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by staga: 2:21pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
omolola100: It is an abomination. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by allthingsgood: 2:23pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
blesdman: ok then why not tie wrapper, walk barefoot and worship cows...since u want to imitate india mtscheeew 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Kion: 2:30pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Lol |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by drololaaof: 2:30pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
omolola100:Why not if not ! If you dont want it then you have to marry a man who is financially stable to build or rent a house just immediately after marriage. It's like you are the type that will not allow your husband relatives come near you 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Bimpe29: 2:33pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
There's nothing wrong about that provided it will not affect the couples privacy, love, freedom and overall unity of the larger family. omolola100: 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by diogo23: 2:36pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
kernniejay:You maybe even still in your father's house and be talking this nonsense 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by BscHolder: 2:38pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
jmoore: Mad man 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by hardon1(m): 2:42pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
judedwriter: What if it's the man that is taking care of the parent(s) 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by GboyegaD(m): 2:42pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
It depends on what rocks the boat of the couple involved and the kind of family the man is from. There could be many genuine reasons for it so he who wears the shoe is the only one that can advise him/herself. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by kernniejay(m): 2:42pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
diogo23:Says somebody who feels offended because he is guilty. Well, if you dont mind, I can employ you to be washing my toilet with fat salary. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by blesdman(m): 2:42pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
allthingsgood:This is not about religion but about harmonious living amongst humans. Even in our villages, the wealthy ones live in the same way. Everyone under the roof or in one compound. Too much of copying the whites makes some people to lose their sens of reasoning 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Lama70(m): 2:50pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
In the |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
BigBlackPreek: Marriage and child bearing na very big acheivement for that part of the world. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Akalia(m): 2:52pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
omolola100:If living with his parents is strategic and expedient then it's acceptable. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 2:53pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Poverty has really dealt with Nigerians Aunty is 30 ro 45 years still waiting when things will get better and then get a man that can build mansion for them. Slay queens just full here dey talk nonse when tjem dey live for smelling batcher with one who beats them daily Some no get house sef na guest rooms or akunakuna them dey nack sleep and they will be here making noise. Ashawo has now been a high paying jobs for hookups ,olosho and the fancy names they give it and both male and female get addicted and can't stop. Need do I remind you Happiness is free Let no one deprive you from what makes you happy. I remember vividly when marriage was honourable Out fathers and mothers started family which some are hear making noise about how they can't stay there Today they are waiting for yahoo boys someone you cant give account of how he got his devilish wealth. Most families stay together as bonding Most of them boosting can't even pay rent. A good man leaves an inheritance to his children's children, but the sinner's wealth is laid up for the righteous Proverbs 13:22 Don't mention me o Some of them are pained that there parents we not good parent and have no inheritance Allow those who inherited properties from there parents be it alive or late to enjoy it in peace. We all know how Nigeria is hard now Houserent is bitting with the hard economy. Allow them to do what lifts the burden on them and face your own Life No perfect marriage If you are making noise and can't pay rent for common selfcontain not to talk about 1 bedroom flats in someareas then you must be a big hypocrite Mind you cultures are different Get married first and you will know that marriage is not hookups. If you are married here and still live in your parents house due to the financial challenges hear me You are on the right course. Be you be original Do wat make you happy Marriage is not all about money How many fit endure when the storms of Life keeps rolling. Some are married but there parents still pay rents for his family they are here too don't let them talk you down. And if you papa no get properties try get one then you go understand why proverb 13: 22 talk so. Peace BigBlackPreek: 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Lama70(m): 2:53pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
In the past when my understanding was little I used to think it was wrong. Though it depends on the situation and tthe chemistry between your wife and your mum. blesdman: @blesdman, it is the whites that even engage in these kind of things more. Some of the things we credit to the whites are actually not true. Believe me. It is sheer selfishness and sometimes jealousy that won't allow people coexist peacefully. When these two things are out of the way, life is sweeter together. I have only one brother. Younger to me. We had a difficult upbringing because our parents were old before we arrived. Dad had me at exactly 35 years after his first marriage. My dad was already in his 70s when I finished secondary school in the village. We found our way to Lag for o better future. There was nothing I didn't use to beg my younger brother to let us stick together and create a future for ourselves. I went as far as telling him that we should share apartment even when married. That we can let our women to know what we have been through. Whoever couldn't cope with the arrangement shouldn't marry either of us. Long story short, he refused. He became wayward along the line when we separated. Today my children are in the university and he has still not found a wife. I am not mocking him. He told me his regret just yesterday when he visited. There is no harm in accomodating each other. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by judedwriter(m): 2:57pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
hardon1: It still doesn't work. Must the man live with his parents while taking care of them? Marriage isn't healthy when parents stay with the couples. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 2:59pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
You work so hard daily to pay rent but that your neighbour is busy investing and buying more properties while you pay rent yearly. If your rent is 700k for 2 bedrooms and your neighbour inherited the property and stays there wit his family who dey loose and who dey gain? He might be developing a current project while living in his parents house while you the slave pay rent to your Lord. Do you have a property? Or you are hust struggling to make another man wealthier Cars are not assets Count your assets and k ow your liability. Don't judge a book by its cover Be wise Gabouchayy: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Snowx: 3:02pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
IntelligentGoat: More wisdom bro 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 3:04pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Many wey dey make mouth here dey owe landlord dey hide inside house daily so as to avoid lawyer and landlord are making noise ๐ author=Magnoliaa post=123964017]Can you people pack these conversations up!!! ๐ซ Una nor dey tire?[/quote] |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 3:08pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Mindlog: 3:11pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Bimpe29: Privacy in a family house, where parents in-law, brothers in-law, sisters in-law and possibly other relatives are so visible?๐ |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by allthingsgood: 3:12pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
blesdman: which village do u come from pls i want to check something |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by hardon1(m): 3:14pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
judedwriter: That's your opinion sha, one thing I know is that there is no rule that fits all marriage. My dad is late and my mon I aged and frail, I stay in same city and had to move back to family house where she is so I can look after her properly. So far it hasn't been a problem to me 2 Likes 1 Share |
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