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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by 1GALLANT: 2:16pm On Jun 22, 2023
Definitely
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by blesdman(m): 2:16pm On Jun 22, 2023
caesymore:
Boom Dig_it!

Na condition wey make crayfish bend,
Individual differences comes in play here, though staying with family might not give that needed privacy, yet in this kind condition wey Obodo Naija dey if there is great understanding between the married and his family including the Wife then who gives a hoot once there is enough space in the house filled with Joy, LOve and laughter to inhabit all.

A friend still lives in his Father's house with his Wife for over 5yrs now he is always confessing the team work from his Mum and wife in the Kitchen has made cook a thing of ease as every meal is a story, they will soon travel to Canada and they will really be missed, the Mum is missing sick already.

This life no really hard na just communication and understanding dey Bleep many up.
U don talk am finish. Communication and understanding. Na so people de live for India. No fast rule, if it is there in community, it is ok

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by ppogba: 2:18pm On Jun 22, 2023
Welcome to stupid questions half hour.

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Dshocker(m): 2:18pm On Jun 22, 2023
omolola100:
Good morning everyone
I want to know if it's right for a man to live with his parents after getting married

Your eyes go see shege.
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Kobicove(m): 2:19pm On Jun 22, 2023
It's generally not a good idea except if it's a temporary arrangement undecided

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by allthingsgood: 2:21pm On Jun 22, 2023
caesymore:
Boom Dig_it!

Na condition wey make crayfish bend,
Individual differences comes in play here, though staying with family might not give that needed privacy, yet in this kind condition wey Obodo Naija dey if there is great understanding between the married and his family including the Wife then who gives a hoot once there is enough space in the house filled with Joy, LOve and laughter to inhabit all.

A friend still lives in his Father's house with his Wife for over 5yrs now he is always confessing the team work from his Mum and wife in the Kitchen has made cook a thing of ease as every meal is a story, they will soon travel to Canada and they will really be missed, the Mum is missing sick already.

This life no really hard na just communication and understanding dey Bleep many up.

its called failure to launch...wetin the mama go do secretly she will be praying her son grows up for once
How can u marry and remain in your father's house? no be curse be that if your father remained in his fathers house, where will u now stay?

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by staga: 2:21pm On Jun 22, 2023
omolola100:
Good morning everyone
I want to know if it's right for a man to live with his parents after getting married

It is an abomination.

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Jun 22, 2023
Why You Must Not Give Up On God.

Apostle Joshua Selman.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iIsV9N4nElM
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by allthingsgood: 2:23pm On Jun 22, 2023
blesdman:

U don talk am finish. Communication and understanding. Na so people de live for India. No fast rule, if it is there in community, it is ok

ok then why not tie wrapper, walk barefoot and worship cows...since u want to imitate india mtscheeew

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Kion: 2:30pm On Jun 22, 2023
Lol
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by drololaaof: 2:30pm On Jun 22, 2023
omolola100:
Good morning everyone
I want to know if it's right for a man to live with his parents after getting married
Why not if not ! If you dont want it then you have to marry a man who is financially stable to build or rent a house just immediately after marriage. It's like you are the type that will not allow your husband relatives come near you

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Bimpe29: 2:33pm On Jun 22, 2023
There's nothing wrong about that provided it will not affect the couples privacy, love, freedom and overall unity of the larger family.
omolola100:
Good morning everyone
I want to know if it's right for a man to live with his parents after getting married

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by diogo23: 2:36pm On Jun 22, 2023
kernniejay:

It is very wrong. In the first place, such a man is not ready to get married. But, why will a lady agree to marry a "boy" who is still under his parents??
You maybe even still in your father's house and be talking this nonsense

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by BscHolder: 2:38pm On Jun 22, 2023
jmoore:
He should pack into his wife's house.
The bible said 'for this reason, a man will leave his parents and join his wife'.
Let the wife get a house first before he can leave.
grin
Mad man cheesy

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by hardon1(m): 2:42pm On Jun 22, 2023
judedwriter:
A married man living with with his parents is still and resembles a child.

No matter how old you are, you still remain a child to your parents especially when you are still cohabitating with them.

What if it's the man that is taking care of the parent(s)

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by GboyegaD(m): 2:42pm On Jun 22, 2023
It depends on what rocks the boat of the couple involved and the kind of family the man is from. There could be many genuine reasons for it so he who wears the shoe is the only one that can advise him/herself.

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by kernniejay(m): 2:42pm On Jun 22, 2023
diogo23:

You maybe even still in your father's house and be talking this nonsense
Says somebody who feels offended because he is guilty.
Well, if you dont mind, I can employ you to be washing my toilet with fat salary.
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by blesdman(m): 2:42pm On Jun 22, 2023
allthingsgood:


ok then why not tie wrapper, walk barefoot and worship cows...since u want to imitate india mtscheeew
This is not about religion but about harmonious living amongst humans. Even in our villages, the wealthy ones live in the same way. Everyone under the roof or in one compound. Too much of copying the whites makes some people to lose their sens of reasoning

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Lama70(m): 2:50pm On Jun 22, 2023
In the
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jun 22, 2023
BigBlackPreek:
In Nigeria marriage is seen as the best achievement one can have.

Poverty everywhere

Marriage and child bearing na very big acheivement for that part of the world.
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Akalia(m): 2:52pm On Jun 22, 2023
omolola100:
Good morning everyone
I want to know if it's right for a man to live with his parents after getting married
If living with his parents is strategic and expedient then it's acceptable.
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 2:53pm On Jun 22, 2023
grin
Poverty has really dealt with Nigerians
Aunty is 30 ro 45 years still waiting when things will get better and then get a man that can build mansion for them.

Slay queens just full here dey talk nonse when tjem dey live for smelling batcher with one who beats them daily

Some no get house sef na guest rooms or akunakuna them dey nack sleep and they will be here making noise. Ashawo has now been a high paying jobs for hookups ,olosho and the fancy names they give it and both male and female get addicted and can't stop.

Need do I remind you
Happiness is free
Let no one deprive you from what makes you happy.

I remember vividly when marriage was honourable
Out fathers and mothers started family which some are hear making noise about how they can't stay there

Today they are waiting for yahoo boys someone you cant give account of how he got his devilish wealth.

Most families stay together as bonding
Most of them boosting can't even pay rent.


A good man leaves an inheritance to his children's children, but the sinner's wealth is laid up for the righteous

Proverbs 13:22

Don't mention me o

Some of them are pained that there parents we not good parent and have no inheritance

Allow those who inherited properties from there parents be it alive or late to enjoy it in peace.

We all know how Nigeria is hard now
Houserent is bitting with the hard economy.
Allow them to do what lifts the burden on them and face your own Life

No perfect marriage

If you are making noise and can't pay rent for common selfcontain not to talk about 1 bedroom flats in someareas then you must be a big hypocrite kiss

Mind you cultures are different

Get married first and you will know that marriage is not hookups.

If you are married here and still live in your parents house due to the financial challenges hear me
You are on the right course.
Be you be original
Do wat make you happy

Marriage is not all about money
How many fit endure when the storms of Life keeps rolling.

Some are married but there parents still pay rents for his family they are here too don't let them talk you down.

And if you papa no get properties try get one then you go understand why proverb 13: 22 talk so.

Peace


BigBlackPreek:
In Nigeria marriage is seen as the best achievement one can have.

Poverty everywhere

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Lama70(m): 2:53pm On Jun 22, 2023
In the past when my understanding was little I used to think it was wrong. Though it depends on the situation and tthe chemistry between your wife and your mum.

blesdman:

This is not about religion but about harmonious living amongst humans. Even in our villages, the wealthy ones live in the same way. Everyone under the roof or in one compound. Too much of copying the whites makes some people to lose their sens of reasoning


@blesdman, it is the whites that even engage in these kind of things more.
Some of the things we credit to the whites are actually not true. Believe me.

It is sheer selfishness and sometimes jealousy that won't allow people coexist peacefully. When these two things are out of the way, life is sweeter together.

I have only one brother. Younger to me. We had a difficult upbringing because our parents were old before we arrived. Dad had me at exactly 35 years after his first marriage. My dad was already in his 70s when I finished secondary school in the village. We found our way to Lag for o better future.

There was nothing I didn't use to beg my younger brother to let us stick together and create a future for ourselves. I went as far as telling him that we should share apartment even when married. That we can let our women to know what we have been through. Whoever couldn't cope with the arrangement shouldn't marry either of us.

Long story short, he refused. He became wayward along the line when we separated. Today my children are in the university and he has still not found a wife. I am not mocking him. He told me his regret just yesterday when he visited.

There is no harm in accomodating each other.

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by judedwriter(m): 2:57pm On Jun 22, 2023
hardon1:


What if it's the man that is taking care of the parent(s)

It still doesn't work.

Must the man live with his parents while taking care of them?

Marriage isn't healthy when parents stay with the couples.
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 2:59pm On Jun 22, 2023
You work so hard daily to pay rent but that your neighbour is busy investing and buying more properties while you pay rent yearly. If your rent is 700k for 2 bedrooms and your neighbour inherited the property and stays there wit his family who dey loose and who dey gain?

He might be developing a current project while living in his parents house while you the slave pay rent to your Lord.

Do you have a property?
Or you are hust struggling to make another man wealthier

Cars are not assets
Count your assets and k ow your liability.

Don't judge a book by its cover

Be wise

Gabouchayy:
I have a neighbor who renovated his parents house and he's living with them with his wife now

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Snowx: 3:02pm On Jun 22, 2023
IntelligentGoat:
grin
Poverty has really dealt with Nigerians
Aunty is 30 ro 45 years still waiting when things will get better and then get a man that can build mansion for them.

Slay queens just full here dey talk nonse when tjem dey live for smelling batcher with one who beats them daily

Some no get house sef na guest rooms or akunakuna them dey nack sleep and they will be here making noise. Ashawo has now been a high paying jobs for hookups ,olosho and the fancy names they give it and both male and female get addicted and can't stop.

Need do I remind you
Happiness is free
Let no one deprive you from what makes you happy.

I remember vividly when marriage was honourable
Out fathers and mothers started family which some are hear making noise about how they can't stay there

Today they are waiting for yahoo boys someone you cant give account of how he got his devilish wealth.

Most families stay together as bonding
Most of them boosting can't even pay rent.


A good man leaves an inheritance to his children's children, but the sinner's wealth is laid up for the righteous

Proverbs 13:22

Don't mention me o

Some of them are pained that there parents we not good parent and have no inheritance

Allow those who inherited properties from there parents be it alive or late to enjoy it in peace.

We all know how Nigeria is hard now
Houserent is bitting with the hard economy.
Allow them to do what lifts the burden on them and face your own Life

No perfect marriage

If you are making noise and can't pay rent for common selfcontain not to talk about 1 bedroom flats in someareas then you must be a big hypocrite kiss

Mind you cultures are different

Get married first and you will know that marriage is not hookups.

If you are married here and still live in your parents house due to the financial challenges hear me
You are on the right course.
Be you be original
Do wat make you happy

Marriage is not all about money
How many fit endure when the storms of Life keeps rolling.

Some are married but there parents still pay rents for his family they are here too don't let them talk you down.

And if you papa no get properties try get one then you go understand why proverb 13: 22 talk so.

Peace



More wisdom bro

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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 3:04pm On Jun 22, 2023
grin
Many wey dey make mouth here dey owe landlord dey hide inside house daily so as to avoid lawyer and landlord are making noise ๐Ÿ˜‚ author=Magnoliaa post=123964017]Can you people pack these conversations up!!! ๐Ÿ˜ซ

Una nor dey tire?[/quote]
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 3:08pm On Jun 22, 2023
grin
Thanks bro
Snowx:


More wisdom bro
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Mindlog: 3:11pm On Jun 22, 2023
Bimpe29:
There's nothing wrong about that provided it will not affect the couples privacy, love, freedom and overall unity of the larger family.

Privacy in a family house, where parents in-law, brothers in-law, sisters in-law and possibly other relatives are so visible?๐Ÿ™„
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by allthingsgood: 3:12pm On Jun 22, 2023
blesdman:

This is not about religion but about harmonious living amongst humans. Even in our villages, the wealthy ones live in the same way. Everyone under the roof or in one compound. Too much of copying the whites makes some people to lose their sens of reasoning

which village do u come from pls i want to check something undecided
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by hardon1(m): 3:14pm On Jun 22, 2023
judedwriter:


It still doesn't work.

Must the man live with his parents while taking care of them?

Marriage isn't healthy when parents stay with the couples.

That's your opinion sha, one thing I know is that there is no rule that fits all marriage. My dad is late and my mon I aged and frail,

I stay in same city and had to move back to family house where she is so I can look after her properly. So far it hasn't been a problem to me

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