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Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by ini4brandon(m): 3:17pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
As an only child, I've lived under the same roof with my parents, though in separate flats for the past 7 years. No major issues. We stay, pray and play toghether lol. It all depends on how you relate with your better half. My wife knows she became the Numero Uno in my life (after God that is ) from the day we said our marriage vows. However, she also realizes my parents are very precious to me. My parents' deep knowledge of the Holy Scriptures makes them easily accept the fact that my wife and I are actually "One". They respect thier boundaries even on issues like who should spank our kids. The bonding with their grandkids keep thier spark alive. I verbally remind them how much I love them. I've always told my wife we have the option to move out whenever she so desires. The way it is currently, I doubt she ever will. Sadly, my dear mum succumbed to cancer barely three days ago. Wifey was π―% supportive untill the night before mum died, Toghether we tucked her into bed that night. Toghether, we cried when she breathed her last the next morning. Mum slept....7:30am. on 19th June. It was our wedding anniversary date!! Mixed feelings you'd say? Hmmm...We all miss her so dearly. In summary, it really boils down to the kind of lady you marry and well, the kind of parents you have. The key phrase is ; mutual respect for boundaries. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:17pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
omolola100: if he was living with his parents while you dated, lived with his parents as he asked you to marry him AND lived with his parents as you guys got married.... where did you think he was gonna live (if not at his parents home)? so all the time between the day he proposed and the day of the wedding, you guys didnt discuss that issue? oh well, unless you have a better option, his parents house is your marital home for the time being. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 3:18pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Desperate people here who are using free opera mini with free airtel data are boosting when they cant pay rent and has been running from landlord everyday If people wey dey squat with family members and freinds go still dey make mouth here. How much is 3 bedroom in your area? MrBroke: |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Bigseven(m): 3:24pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
If you are a man, responsible one I mean you should leave your parents so can build your desired home with your spouse without parental interferences. Your woman will respect you |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 3:31pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
How fat Big dogs dont bark Empty drum kernniejay: |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 3:33pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
More wisdom bro ini4brandon: |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Exceed15: 3:35pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
There's no honour in it. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by kernniejay(m): 3:38pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
IntelligentGoat:Goat will always be a stupid animal no matter how intelligent it may think it is. I can't argue with a goat. Over and out. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by obotematics: 3:41pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
If it is a house owned by parents and you are given a flat, See nothing wrong with that! Only that the evil prophets will sneak in and alter the woman's genotype ππππ |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by IntelligentGoat: 3:47pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Brokeass!!! Intelligent G.O.A.T Kiss my ass Empty Drum, I keep banging you hard so your empty drum plays so loud and keep reminding you are broke you are How fat is your salary? How many litters of fuel do you have in your car? kernniejay: |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Desusi: 3:53pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Omoawoke:Na waa oo. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by zedegit: 3:53pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
omolola100: Fear see finish small. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 3:54pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
No, na Indians dey do that with enough troubles. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Slynation(m): 3:56pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
The only thing I will say is that there is no manual on how to live your life. Having said that...!!! It all depends on the circumstances. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Desusi: 3:57pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
judedwriter:Before nko? |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by blesdman(m): 4:06pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
allthingsgood:Go to villages or where indigenes live, u will observe it |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Slydan204: 4:10pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
As for me, it's a no no. Different stroke for different folks sha |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by zedegit: 4:11pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
jmoore: Wife wey get job abi wetin? How many Nigerian girls can afford to rent flat by themselves abi you want to share her with benefactor? |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by sync(f): 4:30pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
omolola100:Does it sound right to you |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by MrBroke(m): 4:41pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
IntelligentGoat: Calm down. I ain't trying to make no one feel bad. Remember I'm MrBroke 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Olarewaju89: 4:49pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
jmoore: You no well oo |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Chetas81(m): 5:39pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
jmoore:you bring the British colony Bible into this matter hhhhmmm nawa π |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Iamolukorede(m): 5:40pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
BigBlackPreek: Thanks, bro. Marriage and building a house. I sometimes smile with such a strange mindset and trust me they don't reason beyond this once you can do those and have a car they have arrived lol. I thought I am the only fellow thinking in that direction. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Sweetvie: 5:41pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Mindlog:I tire o |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by isabi2lof: 5:53pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Different flats same building , it's still okay but same flat and everything, see finishing will enter especially from his siblings. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Omoawoke: 6:15pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
ini4brandon: May her sweet soul rest in peace. I wish you all the happiness you deserve 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by sprints1: 6:34pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Na Nigeria dey behave like amateurs in regions of Spain and south America people still live in their parents house and use the money dey earn to finance other business what is the point leaving my father' mansion to another place to live what will happen to his house Spirogyra and mold will be living there. Well because in Nigeria people no like the idea because of in law wahala. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by intruder15(m): 6:41pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
omolola100: There is nothing like right or wrong in marriage. It's about what works for both of you irrespective of what people think. The irony of life is that the poor stay far away from home when married while the rich can stay with their parents after marriage. Why won't they when the poor man's house is likely a 2 bedroom apartment while the reach man's house may be a mansion. What matters is the comfort. Are you comfortable there? Or are you two treated like strangers ? That will determine what is right or not okay. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
omolola100: Morning Kee. Na Australia you dey? Anyway, I think the man should rather be given all the necessary support possible to get on his feet. How much is a self con. by the way? It doesn't cost that much. Rally round that man, give him whatever he needs to get on his feet. |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by dododawa1: 7:43pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Before ko Watch KOREAN DRAMA Not NIGERIA drama |
Re: Should A Man Live In His Parents House After Getting Married? by phemmyfour: 8:16pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
omolola100:If he's not buoyant enough to put roof over his wife, why not |
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