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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Popeonah(m): 4:47pm On Jun 28, 2023
VicUkegbu:


Hope you're doing it now?
Yes, I need update if you can help me
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Bukola94: 4:48pm On Jun 28, 2023
Likoya:
My biggest regret in life is following the advice of my parents instead of my passion. Now wey everything don burst, it's my fault and I just hope I don't commit suicide soon.
please don't die, kip believing in yourself. Stand up to your feet and say no to your defeat. Everything is going to be alright. Don't worry yourself, do want make u happy and talk to your friends about your problems. One of them will profer a solution and probably be of help

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by A305: 4:55pm On Jun 28, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Club Cubana is the answer. I worked there. If you have ever been there or clubbed there, then you'd understand how making thousands could be easy peasy in one night. I could make as much as 500k on a weekend. Then, I was like LAPO to family and friends. If you met me then to borrow you 1M, it would be readily available.

I was a teenage girl, naive and impressionable. I felt everyone had a good heart — like me. I would always help anyone who came to me having money problems. Anyone. I'd make sure you live la Vida loca as far as you came to me for help and I know you.

I had an admission to study in Finland, and then I got duped of over 5Ms by an agent. Sadly, this person was introduced to me by family. Till now, I don't know her whereabouts. I doled out uncountable monies doing giveaways without plans because I felt it would always be there. Even my parents were no good.

Do you know what it feels like to have over 9M in one minute and be stark broke in another? Sometimes, I sit and stare forlornly and just think I have nothing else to live for. When I tell people I'm depressed, they laugh at me and call me bipolar or make jest of me about being depressed. You don't understand it, mate. Like another Nairalander said, maybe I'm just still very weak and playing cowardice to snuff life out of me. Or maybe, I'm still very undecided. Time will tell.

Mind you, I have things going on for me but I can't forking move on. I hate everyone who I ever was there for. I hate them. I regret every forking thing I ever did for them. 😭. Maybe, I just had too many expectations. Just maybe. But, why should I not? I forking cared for them. Why shouldn't I?

I'm sorry about the epistle.
Damn girl.

I feel your pain. You should have atleast read the "48 laws of power" and see through human deception before being manipulated for your will.

I want to reach out to you to discuss more. Would you be comfortable if i take your number here?

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Bukola94: 4:56pm On Jun 28, 2023
phenol33:
Not getting married in my 20's!!!
same here, my children should have been two or three by now. And not joining force earlier when I had the chance.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by A305: 4:59pm On Jun 28, 2023
Precious101c:
Spending my life savings of almost 35million to build 10self contain apartment for rent, now my money has finished and I haven't completed the house. Am even struggling to eat now meanwhile I have 35million worth of uncompleted building , not rentable.
Sir, learn to set low aim and ambition, achieve it before you set higher ambition. You would take lessons from previous journey, then grow from there.

You will bounce back sir

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Bukola94: 5:05pm On Jun 28, 2023
kingbee90:


Really?? Are they toxic people? I would like you to share more. The girl I'm about marrying is cool but her family is toxic & that alone is giving me a second thought.
please flee,before is too late. Don't let the girl know is because of her family. Pay her off and don't hurt her emotions further. Just codedly distance yourself and stop doing the things she likes about you. Change completely, become a different person. Know that when you hook a woman, u must tolerate her family excesses and u must tolerate their NONSENSE whether you like it or not

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by viodemus: 5:11pm On Jun 28, 2023
Lastpharoah33:


It's quite good & refreshing to hear from you, baba.

The whites are damn good with this engineering (psychology and mind) since time immemorial.



Thank you Chairman.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:16pm On Jun 28, 2023
A305:
Damn girl.

I feel your pain. You should have atleast read the "48 laws of power" and see through human deception before being manipulated for your will.

I want to reach out to you to discuss more. Would you be comfortable if i take your number here?

Nope. Strictly for business.

And thanks very much for your advice. I appreciate it. 🙏🏼

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:18pm On Jun 28, 2023
djoe21:


Is there a reason why you cannot?

At my age, it's more befitting to have a career path. So, no I won't.

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:20pm On Jun 28, 2023
GabrielYulaw:


Gotta ask, why did you quit the gig though? If it was such easy money, why not keep at it for like 4 years and get enough money to buy your own private island where I go be your personal masseur?grin

Lol. I quitted because I got admission into the University. I wanted to have something more tangible than working club jobs. And I had thought from school, I would be better off which was supposed to be so.

So funny how things overturned in a matter of months.

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:31pm On Jun 28, 2023
Chidolalar:

Ok. Don't u think nemesis can catch up with d person someday and d management finds out. Or d payee makes investigation on d bill u are giving to him to know d true bill u presented to him. Is dat not sack and consequences befallen d person

Nemesis kor. 😆

Even Cubana knows what is going on. Don't just be rude or let his guests leave (which is almost impossible). You are not stealing the management’s money. You are just adding to the bill. With all these novice questions you ask here ehn, don't try working in the club if you have one. E dey favour women pass men sha.

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by GabrielYulaw(m): 5:32pm On Jun 28, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. I quitted because I got admission into the University. I wanted to have something more tangible than working club jobs. And I had thought from school, I would be better off which was supposed to be so.

So funny how things overturned in a matter of months.

Oh! That was a bit stupid. But only in hindsight I guess.

I'm sorry about your family. Families can be shit and the worst part is that you are expected to always forgive and forget the sh1t your family members put you through and that's regardless of if they apologize or express regret. That never made any sense to me.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by thejourney200: 5:37pm On Jun 28, 2023
Nononsense247:

2008

Nice. Left 2 years before.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Likoya: 5:52pm On Jun 28, 2023
Bukola94:
please don't die, kip believing in yourself. Stand up to your feet and say no to your defeat. Everything is going to be alright. Don't worry yourself, do want make u happy and talk to your friends about your problems. One of them will profer a solution and probably be of help
I don't have a single friend
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Elxandre(m): 6:05pm On Jun 28, 2023
xristos:
the woman i married.
I regret not having given some ladies a chance in my early life(school,nysc ,others)...or not trying other ladies.
I was stuck with a promise of love and marriage to this woman since 100L...being a good boy. (now divorced tho).
I regret marrying from the family most importantly
Sorry to probe, what was the deal breaker with her family.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Fame1309(f): 6:14pm On Jun 28, 2023
Chidolalar:

Sorry to ask, u worked there as what as to be making over 500k on weekends?
Probably as a prostitute.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by hahn(m): 6:16pm On Jun 28, 2023
donttryme:

I regret the day i know how to place a bet. The consequence are very devastating. I block all my doors because of that singular decision. Thank God i realize even though its late already

It is never too late
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Honeydenz(f): 6:24pm On Jun 28, 2023
I regret studying microbiology, 6 years after graduation no use for the certificate. We were decieved, wasted resources, I thank God I wasn't carrier away by going for masters like my parents wanted me to, in hope to get a lecturing job (As if lecturers are even rich people) am now a successful Business lady

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Nobody: 6:28pm On Jun 28, 2023
Younghacka:

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Acidosis(m): 6:56pm On Jun 28, 2023
Honeydenz:
I regret studying microbiology, 6 years after graduation no use for the certificate. We were decieved, wasted resources, I thank God I wasn't carrier away by going for masters like my parents wanted me to, in hope to get a lecturing job (As if lecturers are even rich people) am now a successful Business lady

smiley smiley
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Chidolalar: 7:00pm On Jun 28, 2023
theamazonguru:


Well I was able to pay using my salary.
Only that it was stiffening. I had no breathing space for any enjoyment at all.

While this was happening, I got a particular payment 250k from an unexpected source.
It was a life saver.

I had an option of using it to offset part of my debt, but I decided not to.
This same period an opportunity came for another ponzi . Lol.
It was fresh and hot.
I decided to go for broke. Do or die. I was desperate.
So I went all in.
Perhaps God saw my heart, I was making 500k profit in a day. As a cycle was complete in less than 3 hours, I would go in again.
So I was making good sum at the end of the day. That site crashed in 3 days.
From there I heard of another one, I did the same thing,went in with 500k, was making 1m in one cycle, I sha kept rinsing and washing.
Site lasted about 5 days. But that's was enough for me to make good money.
This same period,MBA forex by Maxwell Odum was popular. I contemplated it. Luckily a friend Was a manager in one of their many branches. So I decided to give it a shot.
From the money, I did MBA forex with 3m. I was collecting 450k monthly as ROI. I did it for a year.

Then I already had the land.
I just deployed the resources to start the building. I went so far in a very short period. In fact it was that corona period.

So after I finished paying for the loan. I now started using my salary to continue the building.

No more ponzi.

I knew the 2 ponzi and MBA forex that gave me that much was just a coincidence.
I could have lost like I used to. Note my 3m capital is still with MBA because they also crashed.

Since then till now, I stayed away from any online investment.

Life is a risk.
I took those risky giant steps and it paid off.
I could have gotten my fingers burnt again. But I believe God just decided to have mercy.
Hmmm... ok
Your salary must be huge for u to use part of it to finish d building. And how did u make over 10m u used in starting d Ponzi.
Ponzi is just like playing Gamble. U can never tell wen it will crash
Even at dat your 3m still crashed after monthly turn over of over 450k. I guess d 3m crashed bcuz u were feeling and thinking d 450k monthly returns will still continue generatiing income for u since d site was still active for a considerate amount of months
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Hassanmaye(m): 7:44pm On Jun 28, 2023
babaarewa:
My biggest regret ever in Life is my inability to recite the Holy Quran by heart during my youthful years. I am over 60 now trying to recover what was lost over the years.
Is not too late
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by xristos(m): 8:40pm On Jun 28, 2023
Elxandre:

Sorry to probe, what was the deal breaker with her family.
.
hmmm... very complicated family with patterns u wud neva pray for but was too childish/gullible to note the red flags.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by professore(m): 8:47pm On Jun 28, 2023
Nackzy:
God bless you I love this
Amen brother

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by LeoThaGreat(m): 9:31pm On Jun 28, 2023
kamokaze10:



I realized this a few months back too but ion know any of such because I've been to skeptical and critical of them before.

Can you recommend anyone pls.

My WhatsApp number is 09121629598. I just need their guidance on some crucial decisions so one won't keep making wrong ones.
You simply have to visit anyone near you.

What town/city do you live?
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Omuuvwie(m): 9:37pm On Jun 28, 2023
kingbee90:


Really?? Are they toxic people? I would like you to share more. The girl I'm about marrying is cool but her family is toxic & that alone is giving me a second thought.

Seriously my wife is good person, I know there's no perfect human but her family are bloody toxic starting from the mother to every other members of the family.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by LeoThaGreat(m): 9:48pm On Jun 28, 2023
PrimadonnaO:



Whatever isn't purely of God is darkness.

And darkness carries with it hidden tragedies waiting to overtake you.

You didn't find enlightenment. You're courting destruction.

Jesus is the ONLY true way.
[b]The Yoruba religion is purely of God. So peaceful, philosophical and rewarding.
God was so kind to have gifted us such way for protection and guidance.

Your ill wishes are for you and whoever supports what you wrote.

Jesus might be the only way for you, but for me and a lot of other enlightend ones, Jesus is the way TO KEEP GULLIBLE ONES PERMANENTLY IN CHECK.

You people with terrorists mindset who wouldn't let other religious beliefs breathe deserve to be treated the exact same way you treat others. China is doing it and I hope they continue with more temerity.

You insult, degrade and terrorise other beliefs daily, yet you'll scream persecution if the same was done to you.

The Romans, Greeks and others who clamped down early Christians are wise because they understand their mindset and its terrorist tendencies. They were proven right by how Christianity unleashed its expansionism and subjugation of other religious beliefs since Emperor Constantine; the same can be said of Islam, its Siamese twin.

One needs to fund whoever will treat y'all the same way y'all treat others.

If other religions were as brazen as yours, Christianity wouldn't have grown.

Wallow in your ignorance and let others breathe.[/b]
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by folake4u(f): 10:40pm On Jun 28, 2023
Regrets and mistakes are memories made.

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Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by VicUkegbu(m): 11:01pm On Jun 28, 2023
DatNaijaGuy:

Electrical and solar panel installation.
I can also fix phones and laptop.

I want to learn electrical and solar installation too. I have made some contacts.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Elxandre(m): 11:28pm On Jun 28, 2023
xristos:
.
hmmm... very complicated family with patterns u wud neva pray for but was too childish/gullible to note the red flags.
Just a brief hint bro.
Help unmarried young people like me to be more vigilant.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 1:07am On Jun 29, 2023
CalmElder:
I regret snubbing a very attractive 42 year old American lady because of 10 years difference in age.

I didn't know how to pretend.
Same thing happened to me in 1986.l was sent by my company to London. A British lady l met, was asking for my friendship then, l snubbed her because l saw her as ordinary shop attendance.l regret my decision later.
Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 1:35am On Jun 29, 2023
Cassandraloius:


Well after 5 years one strange number called me, and was saying, it's me pls I'm sorry for everything I have done to you, I didn't hesitate to block him.
Why would you blocked him,his reconciliation with you may restored all things you have lost,now that you're wise up. Life is full of mystery.

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