Now, should the man be pitied? I mean, he can't honestly tell me he didn't notice any red flags about the lady before diving headfirst into the relationship

Please destroy the relationship with a sledge hammer, you don't deserve him!

Break up with him my dear.

Next time , the guy will run far away from a gold digger like you

You think you can impress a lady with money, what do you think would happen if you stop having the money? Some guys must learn by force

I dedicated Red Flag by Ruger to the guy about to be abandoned

When a woman sees eating from a man as her own hustle.and leaving him when challenges sets in.
Watch her very well.another man will play her and eat all her spoils.
Then, age plus her evil will catch up with her.

I feel like ranting on this... maybe later and somewhere else.

CondenseMilk:
Please destroy the relationship with a sledge hammer, you don't deserve him!

Absolutely. She deserves no man in her life.

It only a simp and fool that tell the important things of his life to the devil. Women get fish brain, when the cash is not their again she find another simp investor.
You dey pay her 300k and what u get in return is the over used worn out useless kpekus.
Nigerian women no get value and has nothing to offer u, u wise up or u keep wasting your resources.

helinues:
Break up with him my dear.

Next time , the guy will run far away from a gold digger like you

[left][/left] And this worst part is that the guy doesn't even know that this “loml” is out there spewing all this nonsense on social media, and is probably still gonna fork over another 50 grand for her this month. What a clown!

cheechee1:


[left][/left] And this mumu guy, he doesn't even know that this “loml” is out there spewing all this nonsense on social media, yet he's still gonna fork over another 50 grand for her this month. What a clown!

Heart breaking is for weak guys cos you must have seen the red flags sha ni.

People who are not interested in changing but having delusional thinking that they can change others. You can't give what you don't have

donbachi:
When a woman sees eating from a man as her own hustle.and leaving him when challenges sets in.
Watch her very well.another man will play her and eat all her spoils.
Then, age plus her evil will catch up with her.

Absolutely! Actions have consequences. Karma will come knocking

Nazgul:
I feel like ranting on this... maybe later and somewhere else.

Lol! You better rant now

it’s a waste of time to advise a simp, especially one with access to money ..

Baby girl, pls dump him immediately, there are many more out there with testosterone and access to money.

CondenseMilk:
Please destroy the relationship with a sledge hammer, you don't deserve him!

I tell you. Rubbish parasite

***in a sarcastic voice***
pls run from this man he is not good enough and you should stay clear of him. you can easily get better. ban poverty from your life, dump this no good man sharp sharp!

cheechee1:
Now, should the man be pitied? I mean, he can't honestly tell me he didn't notice any red flags about the lady before diving headfirst into the relationship

Funny enough, some girls are like this...

The son of one of the ex governors in Abia, was paying a top model he was dating N2m every month, although that was her terms before agreeing to date him.

izonborn098:
It only a simp and fool that tell the important things of his life to the devil. Women get fish brain, when the cash is not their again she find another simp investor.
You dey pay her 300k and what u get in return is the over used worn out useless kpekus.
Nigerian women get fish brain and has nothing to offer u, u wise up or u keep wasting your resources.

😁😁😁

Billionaire2:
it’s a waste of time to advise a simp, especially one with access to money ..

Baby girl, pls dump him immediately, there are many more out there with testosterone and access to money.

I understand your perspective, and it seems unnecessary to offer advice to someone who identifies as a simp. They may already be aware of the signs but choose to pursue relationships that have the potential to cause emotional distress.

Dshocker:


Funny enough, some girls are like this...

The son of one of the ex governors in Abia, was paying a top model he was dating N2m every month, although that was her terms before agreeing to date him.

She gave him terms before agreeing to date him. Two million every month

Just imagine

Dshocker:


Funny enough, some girls are like this...

The son of one of the ex governors in Abia, was paying a top model he was dating N2m every month, although that was her terms before agreeing to date him.

cheechee1:


She gave him terms before agreeing to date him. Two million every month

Yeah, but they broke up within 8months.... The chick is quite popular on Instagram.

Simps don't take advice, they behave like who juju they follow

cheechee1:



I understand your perspective, and it seems unnecessary to offer advice to someone who identifies as a simp. They may already be aware of the signs but choose to pursue relationships that have the potential to cause emotional distress.

There are some classic gold digging chicks that will ask you to buy her a car.

Not just any car, a piece of machinery, like Benz.

cheechee1:
Now, should the man be pitied? I mean, he can't honestly tell me he didn't notice any red flags about the lady before diving headfirst into the relationship

This is why men aren't thinking of marriage anymore. These women don't just give a fvck about you.

Tufiakwa.

izonborn098:
Simps don't take advice, they behave like who juju they follow

Not just simps! Anybody who’s in love. Never advise them. There’s always an excuse to give

Dshocker:
There are some classic gold digging chicks that will ask you to buy her a car.

Not just any car, a piece of machinery, like Benz.

I feel like the reason a woman would do this nonsense is when you give the impression that you have excess money to spoil her with.

Rickmann:


This is why men aren't thinking of marriage anymore. These women don't just give a fvck about you.

Tufiakwa.

I wouldn’t entirely put it all on the babe. It is the impression you give that she’ll follow you with throughout the relationship. Failing to establish clear boundaries and expectations from the get-go may lead to a disastrous and unsatisfactory outcome. It is like embarking on a road trip without a map, brace yourself for a turbulent ride if you don't lay a solid foundation.

MrBrownJay1:
***in a sarcastic voice***
pls run from this man he is not good enough and you should stay clear of him. you can easily get better. ban poverty from your life, dump this no good man sharp sharp!

cheechee1:


I wouldn’t entirely put it all on the babe. It is the impression you give that she’ll follow you with throughout the relationship. Failing to establish clear boundaries and expectations from the get-go may lead to a disastrous and unsatisfactory outcome. It is like embarking on a road trip without a map, brace yourself for a turbulent ride if you don't lay a solid foundation.

You are very correct

cheechee1:
Now, should the man be pitied? I mean, he can't honestly tell me he didn't notice any red flags about the lady before diving headfirst into the relationship

Yes break up with him!!
How dare he cutoff your allowances because he got laid off from his job. He’s not worthy of your mighty pussy anymore even after four years together.

Women love money. Who doesn't??

But the bad thing about women loving money is that they love when they get the money free without working for it.

Now, there are five steps to dependency according to Robert Luton in his book toxic charity. These steps include the following:
1) Appreciation
2) Anticipation
3) Expectation
4) Entitlement
5) Dependency

If you give something to someone the first-time they will appreciate it. If you give that same thing to the same person a second time they will anticipate that if they ask the third time you will still give them. If you give them the third time they will be expecting it. By the fourth time, they will have a sense of entitlement and by the fifth time, they will be dependent on you for that same thing.

Now according to the post by the OP, this girlfriend has reached the stage of dependency and hence she thinks it's HER RIGHT to always get the 300k monthly irrespective of the fact that the guy has lost his job. This is why she wants to break up with him. This explains the fact why Children or a spouse taken oversees is termed a DEPENDENT.

Now why does a girlfriend even deserve to be given 300k in the first place?.
If a guy is friends with another guy who earns 4500 dollars per month, the natural instincts of this said friend is to appeal that he is taught the necessary skills so that he too can earn that amount. But a girl will just sit at home and expect 300k at the end of the month simply because she is a girlfriend.

We all know that a woman cannot manipulate her fellow woman this way and this is why I emphasize that guys should always be aware of this devilish manipulation.

The right thing for this guy to do at this moment is to cut her loose. If he gets honey, he should pay a hooker.

Brothers, never part with your hard earned money no matter the guise of the manipulation.

Shalom

Bro, this is next level. Thank you for breaking it down well. So many interesting details. Kudos man. Thanks!

AlphaHakimi:
Women love money. Who doesn't??

But the bad thing about women loving money is that they love when they get the money free without working for it.

Now, there are five steps to dependency according to Robert Luton in his book toxic charity. These steps include the following:
1) Appreciation
2) Anticipation
3) Expectation
4) Entitlement
5) Dependency

If you give something to someone the first-time they will appreciate it. If you give that same thing to the same person a second time they will anticipate that if they ask the third time you will still give them. If you give them the third time they will be expecting it. By the fourth time, they will have a sense of entitlement and by the fifth time, they will be dependent on you for that same thing.

Now according to the post by the OP, this girlfriend has reached the stage of dependency and hence she thinks it's HER RIGHT to always get the 300k monthly irrespective of the fact that the guy has lost his job. This is why she wants to break up with him. This explains the fact why Children or a spouse taken oversees is termed a DEPENDENT.

Now why does a girlfriend even deserve to be given 300k in the first place?.
If a guy is friends with another guy who earns 4500 dollars per month, the natural instincts of this said friend is to appeal that he is taught the necessary skills so that he too can earn that amount. But a girl will just sit at home and expect 300k at the end of the month simply because she is a girlfriend.

We all know that a woman cannot manipulate her fellow woman this way and this is why I emphasize that guys should always be aware of this devilish manipulation.

The right thing for this guy to do at this moment is to cut her loose. If he gets honey, he should pay a hooker.

Brothers, never part with your hard earned money no matter the guise of the manipulation.

Shalom

donbachi:
When a woman sees eating from a man as her own hustle.and leaving him when challenges sets in.
Watch her very well.another man will play her and eat all her spoils.
Then, age plus her evil will catch up with her.

No truer words sir!