Danielle Edochie cry out after her parents yul edochie and may edochie divorce

is that not the same bastard pikin that was openly criticizing her father online?!

MrBrownJay1:
is that not the same bastard pikin that was openly criticizing her father online?!

Do not insult her, that man called Yul shattered their life because of pleasure.

IconicR:
Do not insult her, that man called Yul shattered their life because of pleasure.

as a "human being", a man has all the rights to do what he pleases with his life. polygamy is not against the law in Nigeria, so far as i know. so if he decided to get a 2nd wife, he had all the rights to do so and live with the consequences of his actions.

as that man's child, so long as your father is catering for all your life's needs and his responsibilities towards the family, you have NO right to question what he does as an adult/father/husband. slandering your father online is the act of a bastard pikin in my book (aka ungrateful child that should have been aborted)

MrBrownJay1:


as a "human being", a man has all the rights to do what he pleases with his life. polygamy is not against the law in Nigeria, so far as i know. so if he decided to get a 2nd wife, he had all the rights to do so and live with the consequences of his actions.

as that man's child, so long as your father is catering for all your life's needs and his responsibilities towards the family, you have NO right to question what he does as an adult/father/husband. slandering your father online is the act of a bastard pikin in my book (aka ungrateful child that should have been aborted)

In all of these you failed to mention her emotional well being or is that not important to her dad? This is where you guys get it wrong, the moment you begin to pop out kids, you can no longer take decisions alone without considering them. Ofcourse you are not in her shoes to understand the emotional trauma she's going through which can eventually make her vulnerable to men and same guys will label her olosho not minding the root cause of her vulnerability. That man called Yul is a sorry case and committed adultery with another man's wife and secretly went to pay bride price without the consent of his parents and wife to save face. Obviously you didn't follow their story. Yul was sleeping with that woman right in her husband's house before she eventually left without proper divorce, the man(Judy's other husband) called him out. Their story is awful

IconicR:
In all of these you failed to mention her emotional well being or is that not important to her dad? This is where you guys get it wrong, the moment you begin to pop out kids, you can no longer take decisions alone without considering them. Ofcourse you are not in her shoes to understand the emotional trauma she's going through which can eventually make her vulnerable to men and same guys will label her olosho not minding the root cause of her vulnerability. That man called Yul is a sorry case and committed adultery with another man's wife and secretly went to pay bride price without the consent of his parents and wife to safe face. Obviously you didn't follow their story. Yul was sleeping with that woman right in her husband's house before she eventually left with proper divorce, the man called him out. Their story is awful

what does a child emotional wellbeing got to do with a father taking a 2nd wife?! as her father, HIS OWN emotional wellbeing is more important than hers. her father need to be emotionally fit so that he can go out there and fulfill his responsibilities in life. NO FATHER should ever put their child's emotional wellbeing before their own, EVER!

a father MUST take decisions that he believes is right for HIM/FAMILY... and a child certainly shouldnt/mustnt question that. as an adult, you know best what is needed for the family, and should do that, regardless whether wifey/children are ok with that. thats the price you have to pay for being the HEAD OF THE FAMILY. not all decisions you take will go down well with everyone but if thats what you need to do, then so be it. if wifey wants to divorce you because you took a 2nd wife then so be it. if your marriage is gonna crash because you couldnt take the shiit of wife #1 (and needed a 2nd wife), then so be it!

MrBrownJay1:


what does a child emotional wellbeing got to do with a father taking a 2nd wife?! as her father, HIS OWN emotional wellbeing is more important than hers. her father need to be emotionally fit so that he can go out there and fulfill his responsibilities in life. NO FATHER should ever put their child's emotional wellbeing before their own, EVER!

a father MUST take decisions that he believes is right for HIM/FAMILY... and a child certainly shouldnt/mustnt question that. as an adult, you know best what is needed for the family, and should do that, regardless whether wifey/children are ok with that. thats the price you have to pay for being the HEAD OF THE FAMILY. not all decisions you take will go down well with everyone but if thats what you need to do, then so be it. if wifey wants to divorce you because you took a 2nd wife then so be it. if your marriage is gonna crash because you couldnt take the shiit of wife #1 (and needed a 2nd wife), then so be it!

Don't be idiotic all in a bid to talk tough.

MrBrownJay1:


what does a child emotional wellbeing got to do with a father taking a 2nd wife?! as her father, HIS OWN emotional wellbeing is more important than hers. her father need to be emotionally fit so that he can go out there and fulfill his responsibilities in life. NO FATHER should ever put their child's emotional wellbeing before their own, EVER!

a father MUST take decisions that he believes is right for HIM/FAMILY... and a child certainly shouldnt/mustnt question that. as an adult, you know best what is needed for the family, and should do that, regardless whether wifey/children are ok with that. thats the price you have to pay for being the HEAD OF THE FAMILY. not all decisions you take will go down well with everyone but if thats what you need to do, then so be it. if wifey wants to divorce you because you took a 2nd wife then so be it. if your marriage is gonna crash because you couldnt take the shiit of wife #1 (and needed a 2nd wife), then so be it!

Sad to see you type this smh. The wife didn't give him any shit , it was just a case of adultery. See Yul's post few years ago

IconicR:
Sad to see you type this smh. The wife didn't give him any shit , it was just a case of adultery. See Yul's post few years ago

come on now...we all know that PEOPLE CHANGE, thus what happens in the past can change too... but most importantly:"do you believe it is wrong for a man to take a 2nd wife?!?!" which is the main issue here.

IconicR:
Do not insult her, that man called Yul shattered their life because of pleasure.

Do you people think before you type or you just type because you must register on Nairaland daily? When did it become abnormal for a man to marry a second wife?

What’s with the children with their parents troubles. Did he stop catering and caring for them? None of them came online to say this but she was quick to be on the side of her mother.

MrBrownJay1:


come on now...we all know that PEOPLE CHANGE, thus what happens in the past can change too... but most importantly:"do you believe it is wrong for a man to take a 2nd wife?!?!" which is the main issue here.

It's not totally wrong because some religion permits it but there are steps and procedure to follow. You don't go out to commit adultery with another man's wife and try to be smart about by hiding under the cover of polygamy, it is very wrong. You have to seek your wife's consent and also in total agreement with your family which Yul never had. Yul practically took that woman from another man while she was still legally married to her husband, the man made a video calling yul out for taking his wife from his home. It's not about polygamy here but Yul's actions, he's all over social media doing skit with his side wife instead of mourning his son. Yul is not it abeg

IconicR:
It's not totally wrong because some religion permits it but there are steps and procedure to follow. You don't go out to commit adultery with another man's wife and try to be smart about by hiding under the cover of polygamy, it is very wrong. You have to seek your wife's consent and also in total agreement with your family which Yul never had. Yul practically took that woman from another man while she was still legally married to her husband, the man made a video calling yul out for taking his wife from his home. It's not about polygamy here but Yul's actions, he's all over social media doing skit with his side wife instead of mourning his son. Yul is not it abeg

as much as cheating is indeed wrong, if the man cheated then its obvious something was NOT right in their marriage (contrary to your above claim), and therefore why he decided to take up a 2nd wife. as for your claim that you must seek 1st wife's consent before marrying a 2nd wife, i beg to differ. many women are against their husband having a 2nd wife and that has never stopped these polygamous men from taking a 2nd wife. if asked, 99.99999% of 1st wives would refuse that their husband marry a 2nd wife, who are we kidding?

sadly, a man willing to marry a 2nd wife dont really care whether or not his 1st wife divorces him, when she finds out. this man has already made up his mind to be with someone else.

MrBrownJay1:


as much as cheating is indeed wrong, if the man cheated then its obvious something was NOT right in their marriage (contrary to your above claim), and therefore why he decided to take up a 2nd wife. as for your claim that you must seek 1st wife's consent before marrying a 2nd wife, i beg to differ. many women are against their husband having a 2nd wife and that has never stopped these polygamous men from taking a 2nd wife. if asked, 99.99999% of 1st wives would refuse that their husband marry a 2nd wife, who are we kidding?

sadly, a man willing to marry a 2nd wife dont really care whether or not his 1st wife divorces him, when she finds out. this man has already made up his mind to be with someone else.

One funny thing about people like you is that you'll never go polygamous but keep advising other men to, the highest you'll do is to cheat. I sabi all of una

IconicR:
One funny thing about people like you is that you'll never go polygamous but keep advising other men to, the highest you'll do is to cheat. I sabi all of una

as much as Polygamy would be a proper headache, i, contrary to you, dont look down on the act (to each their own misery in life), just because i couldnt do it. what i do instead, is look at this story as a WHOLE ISSUE, and then use my own mind to judge that said issue.

we are not here to judge polygamy, nor are we here to discuss cheating in marriage, we are solely here to talk about a child crying out because her parents are getting divorced, while that same child was going online to slander her own father.

BTW here below is a few post about my stand on cheating:

MrBrownJay1:
the reality of this issue is irrelevant to whether men are polygamous in nature or not.... IF A MAN IS INDEED POLYGAMOUS THEN LET HIM BE HONEST AND TELL THAT TO HIS WOMAN/WOMEN OPENLY, SO HE DOESNT HAVE TO CRAWL LIKE A RAT AT THE DEAD OF NIGHT TO CHEAT!

MrBrownJay1:
the fact that you already have a side chic, shows that your mind is already wrong...(aka you cheating), whether you like it or not. not fukcing her is a sad consolation into your confused mind.
i guess, if your babe has a bf but doesnt fukc him, it makes it okay, abi?!?!?

MrBrownJay1:
whether male or female, cheating is CHEATING. i dont warrant it whether if it is a female who does it or a man.

MrBrownJay1:
the problem here is NOT men who have hard time to forget, but women who so easily forgive a bastard cheating partner.
here is a clue: a cheating partner is a DECEITFUL/DISHONEST/UNTRUSTWORTHY/DISRESPECTFUL being, and nobody on this earth should forgive such person. sadly, too many women out there are desperate to be in a r/ship or married, and will rather accept such liability of a partner at any cost.
***spit on floor***

MrBrownJay1:


as much as Polygamy would be a proper headache, i, contrary to you, dont look down on the act (to each their own misery in life), just because i couldnt do it. what i do instead, is look at this story as a WHOLE ISSUE, and then use my own mind to judge that said issue.

we are not here to judge polygamy, nor are we here to discuss cheating in marriage, we are solely here to talk about a child crying out because her parents are getting divorced, while that same child was going online to slander her own father.

BTW here below is a few post about my stand on cheating:

I understand you better now. You are more of a Realist which is good.

IconicR:
In all of these you failed to mention her emotional well being or is that not important to her dad? This is where you guys get it wrong, the moment you begin to pop out kids, you can no longer take decisions alone without considering them. Ofcourse you are not in her shoes to understand the emotional trauma she's going through which can eventually make her vulnerable to men and same guys will label her olosho not minding the root cause of her vulnerability. That man called Yul is a sorry case and committed adultery with another man's wife and secretly went to pay bride price without the consent of his parents and wife to save face. Obviously you didn't follow their story. Yul was sleeping with that woman right in her husband's house before she eventually left without proper divorce, the man(Judy's other husband) called him out. Their story is awful

You school the simp. Well done.
Products of failed parenting will always see things that way.

MrBrownJay1:


what does a child emotional wellbeing got to do with a father taking a 2nd wife?! as her father, HIS OWN emotional wellbeing is more important than hers. her father need to be emotionally fit so that he can go out there and fulfill his responsibilities in life. NO FATHER should ever put their child's emotional wellbeing before their own, EVER!

a father MUST take decisions that he believes is right for HIM/FAMILY... and a child certainly shouldnt/mustnt question that. as an adult, you know best what is needed for the family, and should do that, regardless whether wifey/children are ok with that. thats the price you have to pay for being the HEAD OF THE FAMILY. not all decisions you take will go down well with everyone but if thats what you need to do, then so be it. if wifey wants to divorce you because you took a 2nd wife then so be it. if your marriage is gonna crash because you couldnt take the shiit of wife #1 (and needed a 2nd wife), then so be it!

I pray you don't follow his footsteps.This is not about polygamy.This is about adultery.

Don't mind that entitled girl

MrBrownJay1:
is that not the same bastard pikin that was openly criticizing her father online?!

I may not support her father for abandoning them at the wrong time, but must she insult her father on social media to show her disapproval of his actions?

IconicR:
Do not insult her, that man called Yul shattered their life because of pleasure.

pixey:
I pray you don't follow his footsteps.This is not about polygamy.This is about adultery.

you are absolutely RIGHT... this isnt about polygamy, sadly, it aint about adultery either.... its solely about a child who is crying out because her parents are divorcing, while that same child was openly slandering her own father online.

talented321:
I may not support her father for abandoning them at the wrong time, but must she insult her father on social media to show her disapproval of his actions?

Where was she insulting her dad? She simply said of you chase two rats same time you'll end up with non. It could mean anything and not about her dad

M'am calm down, she a kid and too small to insult her father in riddles and think he will not knw, let us not take this personal. Though there is painful part seeing two lovers who live upto twenty some thing yrs just to end relationship without any meaningful reason but still on still it is life and we have to accept the reality. 'cheers'

IconicR:
Where was she insulting her dad? She simply said of you chase two rats same time you'll end up with non. It could mean anything and not about her dad

MrBrownJay1:


what does a child emotional wellbeing got to do with a father taking a 2nd wife?! as her father, HIS OWN emotional wellbeing is more important than hers. her father need to be emotionally fit so that he can go out there and fulfill his responsibilities in life. NO FATHER should ever put their child's emotional wellbeing before their own, EVER!

a father MUST take decisions that he believes is right for HIM/FAMILY... and a child certainly shouldnt/mustnt question that. as an adult, you know best what is needed for the family, and should do that, regardless whether wifey/children are ok with that. thats the price you have to pay for being the HEAD OF THE FAMILY. not all decisions you take will go down well with everyone but if thats what you need to do, then so be it. if wifey wants to divorce you because you took a 2nd wife then so be it. if your marriage is gonna crash because you couldnt take the shiit of wife #1 (and needed a 2nd wife), then so be it!

if no be say nairaland go ban me,I for call you very useless man. But no worry. We no your type

MrBrownJay1:


you are absolutely RIGHT... this isnt about polygamy, sadly, it aint about adultery either.... its solely about a child who is crying out because her parents are divorcing, while that same child was openly slandering her own father online.

She was wrong in doing this but she is still a kid who hasn't matured yet. The mother should have cautioned her in that aspect.However you should understand the disappointment and resentment she is feeling towards her dad.No child will be happy if their parent is divorced.Especially from a girl child, she will start having hatred towards men and very likely be a die hard feminist.This is how feminists are usually born.

A good girl-child will not hate men because her parents go separate ways unless she is brainwashed by the mother. I am not in support of what happen but the way u people taking this thing is to far just because una want to blame the man.
There are things that bound to happen we gats learn from those thing and not the opposite. She is not the first child from a broken home and majority of children from broken home learn from the mistake of their parents and become a good father or mother.
A child that want to bad will bad.

pixey:

She was wrong in doing this but she is still a kid who hasn't matured yet. The mother should have cautioned her in that aspect.However you should understand the disappointment and resentment she is feeling towards her dad.No child will be happy if their parent is divorced.Especially from a girl child, she will start having hatred towards men and very likely be a die hard feminist.This is how feminists are usually born.

MrBrownJay1:


as a "human being", a man has all the rights to do what he pleases with his life. polygamy is not against the law in Nigeria, so far as i know. so if he decided to get a 2nd wife, he had all the rights to do so and live with the consequences of his actions.

as that man's child, so long as your father is catering for all your life's needs and his responsibilities towards the family, you have NO right to question what he does as an adult/father/husband. slandering your father online is the act of a bastard pikin in my book (aka ungrateful child that should have been aborted)

Correct bro ✅

talented321:
A good girl-child will not hate men because her parents go separate ways unless she is brainwashed by the mother. I am not in support of what happen but the way u people taking this thing is to far just because una want to blame the man.
There are things that bound to happen we gats learn from those thing and not the opposite. She is not the first child from a broken home and majority of children from broken home learn from the mistake of their parents and become a good father or mother.
A child that want to bad will bad.

You haven't face that trauma that is why you can't see it that way.At that age she needs the care and good example of her father to understand men.You are right in one thing, that depends on the mother partially but this is something she witnessed herself at a very young age not that her mum told her and she just lost a brother.She will surely resent her father.

And u don't know if i have such experience

pixey:

You haven't face that trauma that is why you can't see it that way.At that age she needs the care and good example of her father to understand men.You are right in one thing, that depends on the mother partially but this is something she witnessed herself at a very young age not that her mum told her and she just lost a brother.She will surely resent her father.

talented321:
And u don't know if i have such experience

Yes ! I may not know of your experience but I saying this from experience I have witnessed.

A child that want to bad will bad, i have the same experience when i was 9 to 10 years but today i stand to correct those mistakes and not hate one gender or this because i know both gender has bad and good people and the only thing u need as a person from a broken home is to observe and be guided. My story is worse than that girl she that is feeding fine.
Writeup like this make our up coming generation more useless, telling me ur father took a second wife or cheat on ur mother then u begin to hate men because of her father's mistake. My question is, is she that pure? Let us not justify the rubbish that kid does.

pixey:
Yes ! I may not know of your experience but I saying this from experience I have witnessed.

MrBrownJay1:


what does a child emotional wellbeing got to do with a father taking a 2nd wife?! as her father, HIS OWN emotional wellbeing is more important than hers. her father need to be emotionally fit so that he can go out there and fulfill his responsibilities in life. NO FATHER should ever put their child's emotional wellbeing before their own, EVER!

a father MUST take decisions that he believes is right for HIM/FAMILY... and a child certainly shouldnt/mustnt question that. as an adult, you know best what is needed for the family, and should do that, regardless whether wifey/children are ok with that. thats the price you have to pay for being the HEAD OF THE FAMILY. not all decisions you take will go down well with everyone but if thats what you need to do, then so be it. if wifey wants to divorce you because you took a 2nd wife then so be it. if your marriage is gonna crash because you couldnt take the shiit of wife #1 (and needed a 2nd wife), then so be it!

You are irreversibly damaged. You must have grown with a terrible father for your mindset to have been destroyed to this extent. I cringe for your future wife and kids. Chai!

Chiomaqueen:
Danielle Edochie cry out after her parents yul edochie and may edochie divorce

What exactly do you mean by "cry out".
Some of una for this platform no just well sha. Where is the crying out? BTW, why are you spelling people's names in small letters?

A child that age who has gone through a lot because of her father's indiscretions and lost a dearly beloved brother in the process is definitely NOT crying out over thier divorce. Even if she is 4years old, she will FULLY understand why the divorce happened and even endorse it cos she has a functioning brain.