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| Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by IyaTola(op): 8:33am On Jul 13, 2023 |
From DM One pastor that make prayers on Facebook every week days.... Monday till Friday...starting from 7am till 9:30am. My wife keep listening to this pastor every morning leaving everything she supposed to do as a woman in the house. |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by DAVIDMOE(m): 8:50am On Jul 13, 2023 |
Many Nigerians are too religious. They take this religion thing as if it's now their daily work. I can bet you that if this business fails, she will blame one spirit or the neighbors. The husband should educate her that this pastor she is joining online every morning is making his money through that live stream. The husband needs to counter her with the Bible because she may have been brainwashed already. |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Ahmed0336(m): 8:57am On Jul 13, 2023 |
You need to man up and act like a man instead of wailing. Show her you're the man of the house and she should respect you. |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by JASONjnr(m): 8:57am On Jul 13, 2023 |
I pray everyday never to find myself with a woman who feels that her problem is spiritual and can only be solved by a pastor. The type of woman that if you have hardlucks, she will begin to attribute it to your family members or co-workers. A woman that will ensure that you're miserable until you begin to follow her to see a useless man of God that will begin to ask you to bring money to God before your problems are solved. A neighbour upstairs doesn't go to church, doesn't pay tithes, but dude is rich and travels the world. Not paying tithes will never make you poorer or not to be blessed by God. |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Cassandraloius: 9:32am On Jul 13, 2023 |
Nigerians are overly too religious, command her to reduce it, or stop it at once, you're the man of the house. |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Purvan(m): 9:45am On Jul 13, 2023 |
With due respect slap some senses into her Don't you've leather belt?? Please do the needful By the time you're done with her, she'll stopped going to church |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by thesilentman(m): 2:03pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
I really feel for you cos the problem as i percieve it is that you probably did not set strong boundaries at the onset of the relationship.You probably did not let her know her place in the home.You probably did not know that the more freedom you give a woman at t at any given time,the more she takes you for granted.You've probably proved to her that you somehow need her than she needs you... If you wish to now, go in there now and snatch back your masculinity.Tell her you are not going to tolerate her indulgences and drama any more.Tell her that if she's tired of the relationship she should leave instead.Tell her if she does not submit to your authority,it's gonna be splitsville for you both...Bro,you start to lose a woman as soon as you let her percieve that you are afraid to lose her.TAKE CHARGE NOW! |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by marlow1962(m): 4:54pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Don't worry yourself, tinubu will soon remove subsidy on data subscription. When she go buy 1gig for 3k, her eye go clear. |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Houseofglam7(f): 5:42pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Religion…. The opium of the masses. |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by labake1(f): 6:05pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
She is praying for you na |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by fikayormi(m): 8:07pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Omo niqqqas be marrying church girls and expects them to change over night |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by elmagnifico411(m): 8:44pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Your wife is an NSPPDian that's how my sister in-law would come around too and be listening and shooting amen in the morning. Till date she no even get person wey wan marry her.. it's from one pastor to the other.. I'll just be laughing in my mind like, "see this mumu". Everything na church, but character no make sense. IyaTola: |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by izonborn098(m): 10:34pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Christianity is scam, try convice ur wife before they scatter ur family |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Anabosee(m): 10:49pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
My aunt left her husband for church, they were looking for fruit of the womb, so she went to different churches and mountains, she don't eat well, don't wear good clothes her husband always provided, he was tired, he was pressured by his family to dump her but he didn't. Meanwhile these churches keep telling her that her problem was coming from her husband's family, which I don't believe, cause I stayed with them for a while, they were good to me. More than 15 years, so one day she left to another church or mountain without telling the husband. Husband thought she was missing, almost two months he didn't see her, one thing led to another he met another woman, today they have two kids. |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by michlins(m): 11:01pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Find someone else to run the shop and have her be a employee. You have a bigger problem like this. Should the business fail, you will blame her and knowing what you invested, all your feelings for her will die and you will probably detest her. So I suggest you do anything and everything to ensure the sustainability of the business so you can have yourself a home. Meanwhile, get someone she listens to to talk to her and make her realise that she can listen to the pastor from her business place. This is because trying to stop her from listening to the pastor is a none starter. It can not work at all |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Karleb(m): 11:39pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Even as a Christian, I hate all those morning prayers. |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by talented321: 12:32am On Jul 14, 2023*. Modified: 8:17am On Jul 14, 2023 |
It is well The white pigs really tried |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Ciroelgrande(f): 12:48am On Jul 14, 2023 |
According to Ephesians 5:25–26. The husband is another type of Christ to his home. Adam was another type of Christ to Eve. Adam didn't take his responsibility over Eve, he kept leaving her by herself which gave satan the room to con her, every.time the woman is left by herself, she falls. It's the man's responsibility to know and be naturally and spiritually informed to keep his family. This man lacks that, and while the woman takes up that responsibility and ignorantly abuses it, the man crucifies her for that. Obviously, the man isn't a godly person, let him learn to lead his home in a godly manner so as not to allow his wife become a prey |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Nobody: 2:28am On Jul 14, 2023 |
A man works his assss 8-5,leaves home by 7am comes back around 6pm.Finally opens a shop for a liability of a woman only for she to stroll to the shop by 10am everyday, then comes back home every now and then to tell you "Honey,business is not moving". Perhaps many women are like this. Sad!!Spit!! |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Karlifate: 6:04am On Jul 14, 2023 |
JASONjnr:Paying tithe doesn't necessarily give you 'miraculous' money. Giving is what opens breakthrough doors for you. Paying tithe just makes you operate under open heaven. There are so many laws of the universe that once you apply them, you get results, regardless of your religious beliefs. Giving [wholeheartedly] is one of them. |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by IyaTola(op): 7:01am On Jul 14, 2023 |
JASONjnr: ![]() |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by IyaTola(op): 7:03am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Purvan:This is domestic abuse or battering. |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by IyaTola(op): 7:04am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Anabosee: |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by IyaTola(op): 7:05am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Karleb:Why |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Khd95(m): 8:14am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Nigerians are the most religious set of people but we are not Godly |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by IyaTola(op): 1:34am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Khd95: ![]() |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Olarewaju89: 3:02am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Report her to human right and by time they talk nonsense in to her head, her brain will go back to factory reset ![]() |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by Olarewaju89: 3:02am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Khd95:At least we they try ![]() |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by VinnyBaba: 9:08am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Compatibility problem in Marriage. ![]() The Man should bear with her and stick to his own Likes.e.g Football, Political news, Naija Musics,etc ![]() BTW, Didn't he notice the Over religiousity B4 marrying her? 🤔😕 |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by VinnyBaba: 9:18am On Jul 15, 2023 |
JASONjnr:Pure Truth, Bro. 👍👍 The Reason why I don't Pay despite the fact that Nigerian Catholics have now borrowed the concept from Pentecostals. ![]() In the old testament, Tithes were paid to LEVITES I e. Priests who didn't have money, personal businesses or properties. 😕 But Nowadays, you see Pple Paying Tithe to a Church whose Pastor has Bakery, Pure Water Factory, Filling Station or even Private University. ![]() Quite a Pity. God is Smarter than us. ![]() |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by IyaTola(op): 9:44am On Jul 15, 2023 |
VinnyBaba: |
| Re: Seriously I Am Tired, I Really Need Advice by talented321: 11:19am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Z IyaTola: |
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that's how my sister in-law would come around too and be listening and shooting amen in the morning. 


