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Re: Should I Go Ahead And Date Her Despite Wide Age-range? by dboY1123(op): 5:11am On Jul 19, 2023
Uptheante:
Many guys go drill her kpekus for where she dey go service. She may become addicted to those preeks & you will become irritating to her & she will lose regard for you because you can't measure up to Wale's long preek, Emeka's fat cock or Musa's uncircumcised preek. Not to talk of numerous bj & swallowing of nut wey she go dey do over there.
You know, bad men no dey use eye see fresh corper
Na Nigerian girl she be & there's a very high possibility of her succumbing to various guys either because of money, bling bling lifestyle, emotional support etc. grin
Even some married women get fuccked by bad guys cool during 2 weeks orientation camp, not to talk of single girl wey go stay away for 1 year.

All these are the reasons why I said, she may not come back the same
.

Ok sir.. I hear you sir
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Date Her Despite Wide Age-range? by Nobody: 5:28am On Jul 19, 2023
Uptheante:
Many guys go drill her kpekus for where she dey go service. She may become addicted to those preeks & you will become irritating to her & she will lose regard for you because you can't measure up to Wale's long preek, Emeka's fat cock or Musa's uncircumcised preek. Not to talk of numerous bj & swallowing of nut wey she go dey do over there.
You know, bad men no dey use eye see fresh corper
Na Nigerian girl she be & there's a very high possibility of her succumbing to various guys either because of money, bling bling lifestyle, emotional support etc. grin
Even some married women get fuccked by bad guys cool during 2 weeks orientation camp, not to talk of single girl wey go stay away for 1 year.

All these are the reasons why I said, she may not come back the same
Nigerian men believe all women don't have self control.

Am dating a lady at the moment. We've been dating for 6 months now. They're are a click of 6 girls and I was shocked to find out from their whatapp group conversation that 4 out of them were still virgins as at first week of June. The youngest among them is my girl and she's 22.
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Date Her Despite Wide Age-range? by Nobody: 5:32am On Jul 19, 2023
dboY1123:
Hi everyone,
I actually want to know if a guy of
29-30years of age can go into a relationship with a lady of 22-23years old.
I am actually the guy, when she asked of my age I told her 27 and that was after I knew that she's 22years. She's kind of mature and intelligent, she is going for NYSC next batch and she'll be 23years next year January.

I completed my service year last year too, she told me that she had already promised herself that anyone she says Yes to after she graduates, the guy will be her last guy(get married to).

Do you think I can go into a relationship with her because of her age? She is still very young and she might not be considering marriage anytime soon.

We have not started dating tho, but from everything she has been saying, it is certain we'd date.
I just need your advice.
Seven years age difference is cool. Just wondering why you had to lie about your age, that's not cool you know.
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Date Her Despite Wide Age-range? by dboY1123(op): 10:13am On Jul 19, 2023
lawrenzooo:
Seven years age difference is cool. Just wondering why you had to lie about your age, that's not cool you know.
I lied to her because I felt she might not know cz I have a young face and stature.. Even if I tell her 25 she won't notice.

U see this nairaland ehn.. My ex gf, I left her because people here said she's going back to school and our relationship won't be stable anymore cz d trust will not be there..

Now, I got young lady with very close intentions as mine, yet people are saying she's going to nysc, she won't be able to stay.
I'm just tired sef.. I'm not the type that likes dating different girls everytime.
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Date Her Despite Wide Age-range? by dboY1123(op): 10:17am On Jul 19, 2023
lawrenzooo:
Nigerian men believe all women don't have self control.

Am dating a lady at the moment. We've been dating for 6 months now. They're are a click of 6 girls and I was shocked to find out from their whatapp group conversation that 4 out of them were still virgins as at first week of June. The youngest among them is my girl and she's 22.
Bro, I know that I have not touch this girl cz we just started.
But I can say it that she's a decent lady.. Although I might not trust her deeply, but she's decent at least not all this runs girls.
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Date Her Despite Wide Age-range? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jul 19, 2023
dboY1123:
I lied to her because I felt she might not know cz I have a young face and stature.. Even if I tell her 25 she won't notice.

U see this nairaland ehn.. My ex gf, I left her because people here said she's going back to school and our relationship won't be stable anymore cz d trust will not be there..

Now, I got young lady with very close intentions as mine, yet people are saying she's going to nysc, she won't be able to stay.
I'm just tired sef.. I'm not the type that likes dating different girls everytime.
OK, sit her down and tell her the truth.

People would always tell you what's generally obtainable out there but again we still have few decent girls out there. If you can trust her and she meets your specs and you have the finances, then good luck to you.
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Date Her Despite Wide Age-range? by dboY1123(op): 6:40am On Jul 20, 2023
Tunde835:
This guy is still trying to get married
You want to remain single? I am not the type that carry olosho, hookup or go ti clubs to carry girls and so on.

That is my main reason of getting a good partner cz doing all those things are just waste of time, resources and life.

I'm not getting younger, and we all have different purposes.
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Date Her Despite Wide Age-range? by dboY1123(op): 6:44am On Jul 20, 2023
lawrenzooo:
OK, sit her down and tell her the truth.

People would always tell you what's generally obtainable out there but again we still have few decent girls out there. If you can trust her and she meets your specs and you have the finances, then good luck to you.
Assuming I'm the type that loves carrying hookup girls or olosho or going to club, u know that I won't have problem.

But again, thats even a bigger problem than having a single partner.

I just wanna have a partner, and focus on my life entirely.

We have talked very well and we are almost on the same phase..

My spirit just doesn't go with formication and adultery.
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Date Her Despite Wide Age-range? by Nastydroid(m): 8:36am On Jul 20, 2023
dboY1123:
God bless you sir.. I have also thought so much on this.
When I asked her, she said she is fine with guys BTW 25-30years.. And that is d last guy she wants to date and get married to.
She also said she'll marry in 2to 3 years..
She's not the hoeing kinda girls, she's a very decent and godly lady.
I know her elder brother very well, he's my former teacher.. So I know her.

What I'm just concerned about is , age wise, is the gap not too much? My dad senior my.mum with almost 20years.. But u know time has changed.
I want a young girl or 23/24, I want a committed relationship and I think that's wat she wants as well..

We have so many things in common,
1. We are both from same State of origin
2. We studied same course(I no no her before o)
3. We both last borns 😂
4. Both Christians
5. Both want a committed relationship
Everything just align.

So what do u think? Afterall marriage is not something of haste and no late comer.
Na so everything Dy align for beginning smiley ,give it a shot and don't act as if she your last bus stop or only option, use your head
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Date Her Despite Wide Age-range? by Tunde835(m): 9:31am On Jul 20, 2023
dboY1123:
You want to remain single? I am not the type that carry olosho, hookup or go ti clubs to carry girls and so on.

That is my main reason of getting a good partner cz doing all those things are just waste of time, resources and life.

I'm not getting younger, and we all have different purposes.
There's a high chance your wife to be is a retired Olosho
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