I met this girl when I was in secondary school 2006 at Ilorin but as fate will have it, I was told to go and assist my uncle who was into construction work at Onitsha so our relationship was put to an halt due to the distance and it wasn't that easy to get through to one another that easily due to lack of phone. I later got a phone and was able to create and add this my girl up on Facebook. She was happy to hear from me again after 2 to 3years. Things happens we stopped talking due to one thing or another to sort out life with ourselves but no matter how far it is I still tried to unite with her and I loved this girl so much. Few years later, we got admitted to different institutions; The Polytechnic, Ibadan and Kwara State Polytechnic, Ilorin respectively. During our National Diploma days, I ensured that the communication was there and that we get more serious cause to me, I'm the only one thats trying to make *us* work. Since I saw that the energy was not there and perhaps, she might be having a fling on other guy, I pulled back too and focus more on my education and work cause I was able to secure a part-time job to further assist me should incase textbooks and some other personal needs arises. We both went our separate ways though without no verbal or written note to tell if the friendship or relationship should cease.
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During our Higher National Diploma days, their would be time, I'd just missed her calls but I won't call back and there was this faithful day she called again as usual and I did not know the kind of spirit that took over me that day and I picked and she was like why did I ghosted out like that and that I shouldn't be like that even if worse come to worse we could still maintain phone contacts bla bla. We settled and I just made it known to myself that I won't take her serious anymore. So, I further pursue my course and with the help of God during my final semester in 2019, I was able to gather some money to get my first car Corolla which I used for e-hailing and inter-state travels.

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Ajani2plus:
I met this girl when I was in secondary school 2006 at Ilorin but as fate will have it, I was told to go and assist my uncle who was into construction work at Onitsha so our relationship was put to an halt due to the distance and it wasn't that easy to get through to one another that easily due to lack of phone. I later got a phone and was able to create and add this my girl up on Facebook. She was happy to hear from me again after 2to 3years. This happens we stopped talking due to one thing or another to sort out life with ourselves but no matter how far it is I still tried to unite with her and I loved this girl so much. Few years later, we got admitted to different institutions; The Polytechnic, Ibadan and Kwara State Polytechnic, Ilorin respectively. During our National Diploma days, I ensured that the communication was there and that we get more serious cause to me, I'm the only one thats trying to make *us* work. Since I saw that the energy was not there and perhaps, she might be having a fling on other guy, I pulled back too and focus more on my education and work cause I was able to secure a part-time job to further assist me should incase textbooks and some other personal needs arises. We both went our separate ways though without no verbal or written note to tell if the friendship or relationship should cease.
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During our Higher National Diploma days, their would be time, I'd just missed her calls but I won't call back and there was this faithful day she called again as usual and I did not know the kind of spirit that took over me that day and I picked and she was like why did I ghosted out like that and that I shouldn't be like that even if worse come to worse we could still maintain phone contacts bla bla. We settled and I just made it known to myself that I won't take her serious anymore. So, I further pursue my course and with the help of God during my final semester in 2019, I was able to gather some money to get my first car Corolla which I used for e-hailing and inter-state travels.

I hustle like I don't have anyone in the sense that I should be able to comeup with something meaningful and worth hustling for with my life before I turn 30.

God made my dream came to fulfilment, I was able to own my own land and I used the little change remaining to do one or two things on the said piece. "I have lived with families and I know how hard it is for a man to put a family together, is it the feeding, clothing or rent, life! So, I have this mindset that I'll make sure I put somethings in place before I put up a family and to do this I must do away with distraction and if God will make it possible, things will go well between me and my Secondary school girl cause she has always been the girl of my dreams.

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After graduation, she was able to get a job as a call centre attendant and she told me she was able to raise some money to start up her business, fine!
Fast forward to May,2023 I went for a family meeting at Ilorin and I used the opportunity to visit this my girl after the meeting although, there has been a time like that too which I travelled for a business and sometimes it might take a day or two and each time I ask this my girl if she could come keep my company she'd refused but when it's about taking her out to eat she'd gladly do and hurry me up so she can go back after an hour or two. The whole thing was not looking real to me but I kept on pushing thinking she'd change. I went back to my station in Ibadan and two weeks later, I went to see my uncle and after meeting with him, I called to inform my girl that I'm in town and if I she's off work so I can just come to her house and we can talk bla bla... She seems happy on phone and since I do see her off during our school days, I was able to find my way to her house. She lived not too far from the main road but since it's been years so, there was a little changes in the area but as a sharp guy too I maneuver my way down, she lived with her siblings. She was happy to see me in her house for the first time. I met her cooking so, I gave her time to finish and I had the thought that I will just pour out my mind to this girl today. After she was done, she asked if I will eat and I said yes that why will I refused her food being the first time I'll come visit. She said okay and after a while she came with chilled sachet water. I was not actually hungry cause I eat at my uncles before coming down to her house but I want to have a taste of how her food will tastes like. But I don't know what came over her she said I will not like the food and that I should just go to Chicken Republic to eat at Muritala Muhammed way.
I was surprised when she brought out her own food and eat, I did not count it too serious. I went straight to business when I think there was opportunity to so, I told her I will like us to put a step_up in our relationship and she gladly accepted but told me I must meet with her elder sister first before she can give-in totally. It was an hour or two to her shift at work so she asked if we could just go out and since I was hungry I can just eat at a fast food.

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A simp is irredeemable I can't waste my advice on you

Wedin iw an talk sef

apostle96:
A simp is irredeemable
I can't waste my advice on you

Will love to hear from you as an elder an experienced person. Funny you!

GreatVocalist:
Your story never complete o bros. I dey enjoy am.

I'm with you too bro thanks. More of the story coming up at night