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A Guy goes to a Mall and sees an Average looking But Sexy, voluptuous, quite Busty Babe.

He Toasts her later on and they start 'dating'. He buys her lunch, gives her urgent 5Ks regularly to invest in her Handbag, Shoes and Perfume WhatsApp Business!

FINALLY, Baba was rewarded with Coochies which he ravages but Terminates the Relationship later on.


In 3 Months time, Baba proposed to a Choir Girl in his Church and posts his Pre-wedding Photos allover Facebook.

Coochie Babe is HEARTBROKEN and texts Baba. 'So you just USED me, abi?😌😔

QUESTION IS: DID THE GUY REALLY USE THAT LADY, particularly with all the Money he Spent? 🤔😏

I Need Honest answers.
Nplfmod.
Thanks.

YES. U USED HER and she consented to be used and also use you to kill urges. and that's ok. Dating is something agreed by 2 parties. If it doesn't lead to marriage. Its already implied in the definition



Its that simple

Whoever opens leg for these unserious men parading everywhere only have herself to blame and YES he used her.

No body used anybody,
He spent for her, she collected the money - that's low-key olosho for God sake

She in her mind says she can't date broke guy simply because she want to monetize her puna,

Now she want to eat her cake at the same time have it
Tha gettau there.

Both of them fornicated.

The guy was the one getting debit alerts.


The girl used him.

Next!

Lesson for all:

* Women want marriage, men want sex.

* If you marry her, that means she used you. If you fûck her without marrying her, that means you used her.

Would you rather use someone, or let someone use you?

dey play

It is usage and wastage of time, resources, fruitfulness.

IconicR:
Whoever opens leg for these unserious men parading everywhere only have herself to blame and YES he used her.

How about a Girl that will Knowingly Date and Fucck a Married Man
while collecting his Money and other Freebies.🤨🙂

Would you say the Men is USING her? 🤔😏

Vinnie2000:
How about a Girl that will unknowingly Date and Fucck a Married Man
while collecting his Money and other Freebies.🤨🙂

Would you say the Men is USING her? 🤔😏

They're both using themselves in this situation because the man is cheating on his wife

IconicR:
Whoever opens leg for these unserious men parading everywhere only have herself to blame and YES he used her.

I swear u dey burst my head, ur comments makes me laugh all the time,
Can't miss it for anything.. just continue being urself my dear

jmoore:
Both of them fornicated.

The guy was the one getting debit alerts.


The girl used him.

Next!

Gbamsolutely correct

lordnkem000:
I swear u dey burst my head, ur comments makes me laugh all the time,
Can't miss it for anything.. just continue being urself my dear

😂😂😂

all I see is a businessman and a businesswoman

The usage comes in when she gave her body to the guy who isn't legally married to her. So what is he left to enjoy after marriage? If they dated without any form of copulation, then too me it's not usage.

fyzaila:
The usage comes in when she gave her body to the guy who isn't legally married to her. So what is he left to enjoy after marriage? If they dated without any form of copulation, then too me it's not usage.

What if she is the one that ends the 'Relationship' to go get married to a Rich Dude or Any Man.

Did she USE him? 🤔🤨

Vinnie2000:
What if she is the one that ends the 'Relationship' to go get married to a Rich Dude or Any Man.

Did she USE him? 🤔🤨

Well, as for the man, he will only feel used if he has been her complete bread winner. As in spending on her back and front like she is his wife.

And for the woman, she will feel used, if she has been cohabiting with the man, giving him all the wifey duties whereas they aren't married.

So, if the above isn't there for both parties, then i see no reason why anyone will feel used when one end the relationship.

Personally,I believe in karma...Azin anything that goes around will surely find a way to come around..........The few bannies I've dated,I made sure I wasn't the one who ended things up...I was very careful on my own part.......Why would I date someone without the intention of wifing her las las? I wouldn't do that.....

Don't mind those idiots claiming used, they are the ones using the boys to survive.

Only in 9ja a girl you are knacking will demand things and money and still claim been used , when you are tired of wasting you money on them.

They are all the same, both the ones forming GF/ Church girl/wife, the are all ashawo. Some do it codedly and others do it openly.

IconicR:
😂😂😂

Tell me something na
Talk to me
Gosh I need to hear u talk

lordnkem000:
Tell me something na
Talk to me
Gosh I need to hear u talk

You are flirting with a 40 year old woman?😕

Are you into Older Ladies, bro?🤔😒

Vinnie2000:
You are flirting with a 40 year old woman?😕

Are you into Older Ladies, bro?🤔😒

Are u serious? I'm not into older ladies o, am into younger ones, early or middle or late twenties dear.. not wonder she ain't vibing like properly, but if I may ask, pls , how do u know her?

That’s how a married man told a certain girl he was divorced, sidechick told her sister a divorced man wants to marry her, the married man’s family is in Abuja as well, the married man was spending on his chick, luxury restaurants, even buying abaya from his wife for sidechick, saved her name as swthrt, wife found out, asked the husband to choose sidechick or her, he chose his wife, husband called sidechick on speaker to address her, na so relationship end o!
Married men respect yourselves, single ladies run a proper research on your bfs!

Infact mother in law saw her son inlaw with the side chick seated in Gwarinpa at an open store! What a shame

thawana:
That’s how a married man told a certain girl he was divorced, sidechick told her sister a divorced man wants to marry her, the married man’s family is in Abuja as well, the married man was spending on his chick, luxury restaurants, even buying abaya from his wife for sidechick, saved her name as swthrt, wife found out, asked the husband to choose sidechick or her, he chose his wife, husband called sidechick on speaker to address her, na so relationship end o!
Married men respect yourselves, single ladies run a proper research on your bfs!

Infact mother in law saw her son inlaw with the side chick seated in Gwarinpa at an open store! What a shame

Hmm, this Story.🤨

Are you sure you are Not the SideChick? 😏

jmoore:
Both of them fornicated.

The guy was the one getting debit alerts.


The girl used him.

Next!

your wisdom shalt not dry

Sonnobax15:

Personally,I believe in karma...Azin anything that goes around will surely find a way to come around..........The few bannies I've dated,I made sure I wasn't the one who ended things up...I was very careful on my own part.......Why would I date someone without the intention of wifing her las las? I wouldn't do that.....

Initially we usually have the Intention of wifing a chic but along the line when she turns out to be for the street ... we bounce. .

Yes, he used her.

Kipaji:
Yes, he used her.

.

Can you explain How, Exactly? 😏

because He SPENT his Money, Time and his Energy (Sperms) on her! 🤔🤷🙂🙂

Vinnie2000:
.

Can you explain How, Exactly? 😏

because He SPENT his Money, Time and his Energy (Sperms) on her! 🤔🤷🙂🙂

If that was his daughter he would feel she has been used, because she has indeed been used. She gave her essence and her time away for material things that are probably not here anymore. The guy can always make money. She can't get back her body.

Vinnie2000:
Hmm, this Story.🤨

Are you sure you are Not the SideChick? 😏

No! Na my husband fuckup

He didn’t use her
He didn’t rape her