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| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Myer(m): 1:53pm On Aug 06, 2023*. Modified: 2:25pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
peretei2024:Reading through your story, I can only imagine how a life trajectory that would have been full of good memories just went south. I can't even imagine the details you can't even share from the challenges you and your sis have had to face even from relatives. I have to commend you for making it through thus far. You're certainly a fighter and you have surpassed your dad already as a better man. There is just one thing I would crave your indulgence, please find a way of making peace with your parents- your dead-beat dad and your late mom. Truth is, they were not mature before they got married. They didn't know what marriage is. And they made you their children suffer for their ignorance and unpreparedness. It hurts to use these words for your parents because no matter how bad they are they're still your parents. But I have to call it the way it is. And for that I sincerely apologise. Please hold on to God to learn of His Love and Forgiveness. When you realise our own sins were worse than our parents could ever have committed yet God forgave us, you will also forgive them and learn to forgive others for their weaknesses too. I pray you continue to make a better man, husband, father and leader to your household and beyond. God bless you real good brother. |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Pootle: 1:54pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
this life hard...we all have story to tell ![]() |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Gattuzo05: 1:56pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Easier said than done.....do you think it's easy? It's because the OP told his story that's why you know . I'm 40 years old and still looking to see my mum so that I can kill her.....read it again, KILL. It will give me joy to kill her than hear that she died of natural causes. Some topics are worth taking to the grave with you than opening your mouth to say it out. Those of you from a loving home don't know what God has done for you. You see that word that say "you should forgive" na for mouth oo....make I no jam my mama ni. Wodu89: |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by twilliamx(m): 1:58pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
peretei2024:Unforgjveness works against you more than the person you hold in your heart. Forgiveness is a release for you and not them. Please forgive and watch how things will turn around for you. Holding a grudge is cancerous |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by shantti(m): 1:59pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Wodu89:There is a way to talk to someone who is hurt Didn't u see how people are advising him reasonably, u came and started insulting him. Why r u religious folks harsh? |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by phemmyfour: 2:00pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
peretei2024:You better forgive yourself. Your unforgiveness is of no use to the dead. |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by BiggerM: 2:01pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
pikechukwu6:Probably one of her uncle I guess. |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by ipobarecriminals: 2:01pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
keep wasting ur time,u hear.Dem don go .FREE yourself |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by HoneySwag(f): 2:02pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
I don't need to read your story before I come to a conclusion that you have a problem with yourself. You're not the first person coming from a damaged home, they're a lot of people out there and they are moving on. Thank God your parents are not alive for you to make their lives miserable. You're only causing more damage to yourself, the earlier you forgive them and move on with your life the better for you. Mistake has been made, why don't you help your future kids by correcting that. You think if they had they wouldn't have invested in their children's lives? All fingers are not equal, not everyone has the knowledge on what next to do if the option they completely depended upon failed them. Forgive and move on |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Grays767(f): 2:04pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
U r strong bro...u r really strong. I thank God for u. |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by SaLongs1(m): 2:04pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Samantha124:So you think his his aunt will just take them to the village without the parents say so? Reading further didn't you still get how the mum still found an excuse to kick him out again on the excuse of him being a bush boy? |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Emmanuel909090: 2:05pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
What pride cannot do does not exist. |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by peretei2024(op): 2:07pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
VinnyBaba:God have mercy on you |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by 21NAUGHTYUTY(m): 2:11pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Omor this story breaks me. Well life goes on |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Gratefullheart: 2:12pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Samantha124:you are actually not normal |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by QueenDima47(f): 2:13pm On Aug 06, 2023*. Modified: 12:23pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Wow 😳😳 My brother forgive your parents. God will help and bless you more. Keep striving to be a better person and please help your sister. Make her your priority. |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by UnfairLife7(m): 2:14pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Negroic9:look at you, you think parents did their children favour by giving birth to them? Did he asked to be birth? A decision both adult chose to carry out and resulted in pregnancy is what you are saying he should be grateful they gave birth to him. Very wrong statement. |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by OBTOREPA(m): 2:14pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
If you want to be healed forgive 🙏, but if you don't need healing don't. Moreover, accept Jesus Christ into your life as your Lord and personal service, there you will experience the inner peace and Joy. God bless you as you obey this counsel. |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Wodu89: 2:21pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
peretei2024:You have a right to be traumatized. Sorry about earlier. Find healing and after healing, wholeness. ![]() |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by LEGALSER: 2:22pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
peretei2024:Forgive no one. Remain wicked. That’s the goal. |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by ipobarecriminals: 2:23pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
no matter the level of provocation, past suffering, pls,free yourself from the past..U survived/still alive,working, living with urbown wife/family now is a grace.You won't write all this if the same mama u are threateningto KILL don kill at 🚼 nkoh? God don bless u,FREE herGattuzo05: |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Frezhkid10(m): 2:24pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Samantha124: Probably the guy offered food for sex and she wanted to just do it once..but lead to pregnancy |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Nobody: 2:24pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
But the op didn't say anything about the parents giving their aunt the permission to take them to the village... He said his aunt took them while their mother was still at the market... Because if she really did gave the aunt the permission to take them, she would've prepared them and she could've been there to say her good-byes. My guess is that the reason why his mother kicked him out could be that he became rebellious upon moving in with her because of the anger he's been nursing all those years... So far he hasn't given us the reason why the mother never bothered to visit and I'm sure he never even asked her, he just went to her full of hatred and didn't bother asking relevant questions until she died. And from the look of things, it seems like the aunt conspired with his father to forcefully take the children from their mother as punishment for whatever matrimonial issues the parents might've been having back then, not realizing that they were only punishing the children and in the end, they suffered the consequences of their parents' matrimonial problems. That's why as parents, you should never use the children to fight your battles at home. SaLongs1: |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by bigtt76(f): 2:25pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Forgive or not, your mum is gone, your daddy is old now. What you make out of yourself now is left to you. My advise is try to upskill and prepare for your future ahead. Lastly, try and help your elder sister to get a good education ...its never too late to learn. Help her!!! peretei2024: |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Shantyken(m): 2:26pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
peretei2024:If u like u forgive them but na u go feel the pains pass them for not forgiving and move on with ur life |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by TheSuperX(m): 2:26pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
For now you have to forget about your past and think about the future, it's good you completed your studies and now have a family. endeavor you don't let your kids go through what you and your siblings went through by your irresponsible parents. |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Badgers14: 2:29pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
peretei2024:How about your sister? How is she doing? |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Mendy101: 2:31pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Nice2023: |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by DMechyy: 2:33pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
peretei2024:How old are you... Omo mummy |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by bellosulaiman(m): 2:35pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Wallahi! This is the path Allah laid for you, Irrespective of what could have happened. You could have been a spoilt brat had it mean you grew up with your parents. ‘M sorry to say this cos you don’t have the right to judge others. You mentioned you are now a graduate, congratulations man! Some people’s stories are far worse than yours and still they give glory to God. Be grateful! Don’t let it weigh you down. It’s a test from Allah so you can be grateful. Forgive others so God can forgive you. Let it go man |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Nobody: 2:36pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
| Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by banku: 2:38pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Op, you are right to be angry but please channel your anger as motivation to be better parent and person. I think people take forgiveness lightly. Forgive those who corrected their meanness. Even God has not forgiven the Devil otherwise, Devil would go back to being an angel. In this case, the parents are dead. There is a difference between forgiveness which only God can do and forget. In order to move on, you must forget but learn from those who offended you. Give them another opportunity, you are dead! People do not know the difference between forgive and forget. Op, try and forget the dead and the past to avoid their burden on you. Learn from it to guide you in your future endeavors. |
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