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lordnkem000:
Just hear urself, thank God none of my sisters reason or talk like u. My both elder and younger sisters re all married and they cater for their families with their salaries too even though the man brings, my elder sister dated her husband for 5yrs and he was jobless in 4+yrs then. But she was working then, she rented his first house as man. But today they have 3boys, married for 13yrs now and her husband is an offshore worker with loads of cash, he doesn't joke with my sister at all. I have a few female friends and they don't reason like u, I hope no one takes u serious abeg. Better change

Me I don't pray to cater for any man because my mother did not cater for my father. So we all know what we desire in life and catering for a man isn't in my agenda.

lordnkem000:
Just hear urself, thank God none of my sisters reason or talk like u. My both elder and younger sisters re all married and they cater for their families with their salaries too even though the man brings, my elder sister dated her husband for 5yrs and he was jobless in 4+yrs then. But she was working then, she rented his first house as man. But today they have 3boys, married for 13yrs now and her husband is an offshore worker with loads of cash, he doesn't joke with my sister at all. I have a few female friends and they don't reason like u, I hope no one takes u serious abeg. Better change

It's the entitlement for me. Women nowadays are useless.

IconicR:
Me I don't pray to cater for any man because my mother did not cater for my father. So we all know what we desire in life and catering for a man isn't in my agenda.

And how did they end up?
That's very selfish of you. It's common amongst yoruba women. dem no wan work.

Negroid001:
It's the entitlement for me. Women nowadays are useless.

I'm not against a woman helping her man , ofcourse she should know when to help because things are hard but that mindset of men waiting for their women to start sharing bills is what I detest with passion. When you love someone you won't even be told to give assistance as at when needed, you'll be happy and eager doing it. You see that mindset no no no

Negroid001:
And how did they end up?
That's very selfish of you. It's common amongst yoruba women. dem no wan work.

I have answered you below.

IconicR:
I'm not against a woman helping her man , ofcourse she should know when to help because things are hard but that mindset of men waiting for their women to start sharing bills is what I detest with passion. When you love someone you won't even be told to give assistance as at when needed, you'll be happy and eager doing it. You see that mindset no no no

You are contradicting yourself. If you truly love your husband, you won't also hesitate to share the bill if. You're looking for a man you'll be a liability on. That's not true love, it;s conditional. It's your type that dump men when things go south or someone richer comes proposing.
It's called Atenu. No go work for your money. When you clock 35 and you dey cry for shiloh, dem no go tell you.

Negroid001:
You are contradicting yourself. If you truly love your husband, you won't also hesitate to share the bill if. You're looking for a man you'll be a liability on. That's not true love, it;s conditional. It's your type that dump men when things go south or someone richer comes proposing.
It's called Atenu. No go work for your money. When you clock 35 and you dey cry for shiloh, dem no go tell you.

On the contrary I'm very loyal to the core, God forbids things goes south, I'll stay true without complaining and even made sure he's very happy and help him back on his feet especially if he has been a good man to me. If it's all these men that does things to their women unremorsefully I'll Japa to my father's house 🤣🤣🤣🤣 . Just be a very good man and I'll stand by you till eternity.

IconicR:
On the contrary I'm very loyal to the core, God forbids things goes south, I'll stay true without complaining and even made sure he's very happy and help him back on his feet especially if he has been a good man to me. If it's all these men that does things to their women unremorsefully I'll Japa to my father's house 🤣🤣🤣🤣 . Just be a very good man and I'll stand by you till eternity.

You no dey japa go anywhere, After man don pay bride price. He owns you, Sebi na better for worse.

Negroid001:
You no dey japa go anywhere, After man don pay bride price. He owns you, Sebi na better for worse.

They have modified the vow ooo it's now for better for stay for worse for Waka 😂😂😂😂

IconicR:
They have modified the vow ooo it's now for better for stay for worse for Waka 😂😂😂😂

Dey play lol. Reason why relationships don't last anymore

Negroid001:
Dey play lol. Reason why relationships don't last anymore

All these things we are saying is just for internet jabs, when you fall in love with someone you won't even know when you start breaking rules for them, so I was thought sha. But just pray to be with someone who is intentional about you as a woman and the issue of sharing bills won't even arise

Man

IconicR:
All these things we are saying is just for internet jabs, when you fall in love with someone you won't even know when you start breaking rules for them, so I was thought sha. But just pray to be with someone who is intentional about you as a woman and the issue of sharing bills won't even arise

Tbh i don't even want my wife to work. Anything she wants to do should be of her own will. I don't fall in love blindly. Every relationship i enter is intentional. There's nothing like love. Either she is for show off or I'm benefiting from her. I don't fool myself. Once we've had enough of ourselves, everyone go your seperate way.
I don't simp.

Negroid001:
Tbh i don't even want my wife to work. Anything she wants to do should be of her own will. I don't fall in love blindly. Every relationship i enter is intentional. There's nothing like love. Either she is for show off or I'm benefiting from her. I don't fool myself. Once we've had enough of ourselves, everyone go your seperate way.
I don't simp.

See mindset and you all come here to blame women. You better start thinking about monkhood

IconicR:
See mindset and you all come here to blame women. You better start thinking about monkhood

Monk wah?
What is it that convinces you to say yes to a guy? E pass physical attributes or benefits?

Nothing wrong with me selecting from that criteria too.

Negroid001:
Monk wah?
What is it that convinces you to say yes to a guy? E pass physical attributes or benefits?

Nothing wrong with me selecting from that criteria too.

What material thing on earth can possibly attracts me to a guy, I don't know. What will a guy do for me today that that'll be extraordinary? nothing. Money is important but other things matters as well. Your last statement bring you out as a gigolo, are you a gigolo?

IconicR:
What material thing on earth can possibly attracts me to a guy, I don't know. What will a guy do for me today that that'll be extraordinary? nothing. Money is important but other things matters as well. Your last statement bring you out as a gigolo, are you a gigolo?

At least you no lie. You said money is important. Same here too.

What best describes a gigolo? This one you're entering me.

Negroid001:
At least you no lie. You said money is important. Same here too.

What best describes a gigolo? This one you're entering me.

You are giving gigolo vibes, check your previous response where you said you enter relationship for money and other benefits

IconicR:
You are giving gigolo vibes, check your previous response where you said you enter relationship for money and other benefits

Lmao.
If I'm a gigolo then you're a gold digger.

IconicR:
You are giving gigolo vibes, check your previous response where you said you enter relationship for money and other benefits

We both like the same things.
You be bad market. Avoid me lol.

Negroid001:
Lmao.
If I'm a gigolo then you're a gold digger.

How many richer women have you had relationship with? What benefits did you get?

Negroid001:
We both like the same things.
You be bad market. Avoid me lol.

No, I'm not like you, I don't even know how to demand lailai

IconicR:
No, I'm not like you, I don't even know how to demand lailai

I don't have to demand. All my loved ones come through for me.

Negroid001:
I don't have to demand. All my loved ones come through for me.

So how many older women have you dated so far and what are the benefits you got

IconicR:
How many richer women have you had relationship with? What benefits did you get?

Nothing serious actually. I don't like discussing my past relationships except I'm trying to illustrate or make a point.

IconicR:
So how many older women have you dated so far and what are the benefits you got

You're setting a trap for me and i won't fall for it. But in general sha. Older women are the best. No stress, no billing, experience on the bed, mature convos.

Negroid001:
Nothing serious actually. I don't like discussing my past relationships except I'm trying to illustrate or make a point.

This is a faceless forum, so I don't see any reason why anyone shouldn't be free to express themselves. We learn from people's experience

IconicR:
So how many older women have you dated so far and what are the benefits you got

You sha dey find trouble lol

Negroid001:
You're setting a trap for me and i won't fall for it. But in general sha. Older women are the best. No stress, no billing, experience on the bed, mature convos.

You didn't mention the material gains you got kos you said you go into it for the gains

IconicR:
This is a faceless forum, so I don't see any reason why anyone shouldn't be free to express themselves. We learn from people's experience

How many have relationships have you had that you depended on men?

Negroid001:
How many have relationships have you had that you depended on men?

You are answering my question back with a question. Anyways I've never met a broke person before, they are always willing to do everything but I'm not that the demanding type. Oya answer your own