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Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Druss(m): 9:30am On Aug 10, 2023
Why do people do what is wrong? Because there is something they are gaining from it and in their minds, there is a strong value proposition driving their behaviour.

Does this blame lie on one gender? No.
Do all married men cheat? No.
Do all single women commit fornication? No.
Do all married women cheat? No.
Do all single men commit fornication? No.

Do not allow the media and loud shouts and calls deceive you that there are no decent people in this world. It is a ploy of the devil and his agents to make such appear as so. I scanned through this thread and saw people justifying wrong behaviours with baseless theories and hypotheses.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Myer(m): 1:42pm On Aug 10, 2023
MrBrownJay1:
as much as these married men are to solely be blamed for this shiiit, you have to understand the hypocrisy of the animal they are dealing with. these side chics are indirectly hoping for the below (and thats why so many men can entice these lost souls):
You have contradicted yourself simply by the use of the phrase "solely be blamed".
Sexual engagement involves and should be blamed on the parties involved except for r*pe cases, in which there are exceptions.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:18pm On Aug 10, 2023
Myer:
You have contradicted yourself simply by the use of the phrase "solely be blamed".
Sexual engagement involves and should be blamed on the parties involved except for r*pe cases, in which there are exceptions.
thats because i answered the question... while giving my view on the subject. thats not a contradiction

highchief1:
theres no truth in u.just kuku tell ur sisters not to marry at all.because the man that will not cheat on them,God has not created him o.I’m not a hypocrite I won’t tell u I haven’t or won’t cheat on my wife.The game has rules.no Dey tell me of std and death u no fit use that one scare me.Visit the nearest morgue around u take inventory with the attendants and see how many ppl der died if STDs.Long life na God hand it has Nthg to do with recklessness.my brother driver when no Dey drink or smoke died of kidney failure.I know pll when Dey drink Dey smoke like chimney when stl Dey ball.If u begin fear to live life ppl when don die kuku go better pass u.my advise is to always be careful.Ppl are dying everyday wetin be std.Accident has killed more Nigerians than HIV go and verify
claiming that ALL MEN CHEAT is a lie from the pit of hell. just because you cheat and will never be faithful is one thing, but to claim that we are all like you, is a damn lie!

43Ronin:
bro the single ladies are cheating on their BF or fiancé and they are not poor. I worked in a bank, some of my colleagues(women) earning 300k per month still dey fúck married men. one of my close paddi wey get serious BF been dey fúck one governor only pikin(married man) she get house for osapa as we dey talk. Its a combination of greed & lust. Even the bible warns mothers not to prostitute their daughters lest the country fall into whoredom.
bro, there are many greedy/lazy good for nothing people out there... which is irrelevant to what their job/status is. it is well known that many Nolly actresses are selling themselves to the ogas at the top and/or highest bidders. is it because they are broke OR simply because these women want to elevated themselves and have the goodies that they dont deserve?!?

here is a clue: the biatches that Dangote/Otedola are fukcing dont charge them 10K.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Gerrard59(m): 4:12am On Aug 11, 2023
highchief1:
theres no truth in u.just kuku tell ur sisters not to marry at all. because the man that will not cheat on them,

God has not created him o. I’m not a hypocrite I won’t tell u I haven’t or won’t cheat on my wife.The game has rules.no Dey tell me of std and death u no fit use that one scare me.Visit the nearest morgue around u take inventory with the attendants and see how many ppl der died if STDs. Long life na God hand it has Nthg to do with recklessness.my brother driver when no Dey drink or smoke died of kidney failure.I know pll when Dey drink Dey smoke like chimney when stl Dey ball.If u begin fear to live life ppl when don die kuku go better pass u.my advise is to always be careful.Ppl are dying everyday wetin be std.Accident has killed more Nigerians than HIV go and verify
Having sex with another woman while being married is adultery, which is part of the ten commandments. Yet you mentioned "God" twice in your posts.

Not surprised anyway. Nigerian Christians and their selective morality.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by highchief1: 6:52am On Aug 11, 2023
Gerrard59:
Having sex with another woman while being married is adultery, which is part of the ten commandments. Yet you mentioned "God" twice in your posts.

Not surprised anyway. Nigerian Christians and their selective morality.
im a sinner.aren’t u?
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by akposking(m): 8:35am On Aug 11, 2023
Candidlady:
Why are married men so comfortable dating single ladies undecided
Does your profile pics signify sperm. huh Just asking?
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by 1Sharon(f): 3:53pm On Aug 11, 2023
Sleekfingers:
I can't be eating rice everyday. I like varieties.
No p. As long as you tell your wife your intentions.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Fredoh(m): 6:52pm On Aug 11, 2023
Veecruz:
Sex induction (seduction) is a very wicked thing to do to a man. It is the case of putting a plate of rice and stew outside and expecting chickens not to eat it.

Remove the temptation of sex induction and a good portion of men will be faithful as shown in the past when women were in their proper places and not enticing men. It was in those days that men.were solely guilty. But today, it is actually the women who are guilty as the op has rightly observed.

Today, girls and women are the ones drawing a married man to have sex with them.

Agreed!
The iniquity in this generation isn’t going anywhere, it has just begun.
Prostitutes everywhere!!
Right now as I type, one is sitting in from of me with her lap and breasts wide open while i eat in an eatery.

The reasons cannot be put in one single basket.
Women like cheap life, men life the pcat, unfortunately Nigeria is so rotten that vices such as prostitution pay them more than legit hustle!!
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Fredoh(m): 7:01pm On Aug 11, 2023
Veecruz:
If women stop bombarding men with the thoughts of sex then the man can breathe. You definitely know the amount of attacks and bombardment a man is subjected to everyday from when he wakes up.

Tvs and radios and movies will do their own while still trying to purge that one out then the real one starts, and from women who have never done it before eg neighbour, neighbou's wife, friend, friends wife. Then in the streets, strange women firing one with sex, almost per every.5 or 10 people, every hour everyday.

The assault is too much.

However, if married men knew sex was death then they should know that it is a fight life and it is not a fight that can be won by gragra.and all that people say, We need God to be in it.

Unfortunately people do not want God so they must fall

And especially you virgin men and those men who have been washed by the Blood of Christ, you have the fatest cow that all women want to eat, so expect the greatest hit.

I agree with most but not all, it’s not about born again or washed by the blood 🩸. These women are interested in money than anything.

30-50 years ago, if you dress like modern Women do, you’ll be called a prostitute even in England. See where we de now!!

Sometimes I wonder what will become of our society if men start dressing and sticking their D’s out.

We just know that’s nonsense, exactly how I see half naked women.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by GloriousGbola: 5:24pm On Aug 16, 2023
placeofallure:
Yes. And I've had to say no to a man. Not exactly because of his wife (No be me dey do am) but I just don't like rubbish.

They had their issues before I met him, in fact they were separated. The man was planning on moving on with me. I think the wife in her mind was thinking the issue will still be resolved so she's yet to move on.

Now the man is starting to make deep commitments like showing me his properties, meeting lawyers, meeting his mum and some other family members. I think somebody told the wife that her man is taking some bold steps, she needed to take action. Then from nowhere, somebody called me, it was the wife. She said they're still married bla bla bla, she wasn't really rude on the phone but she doesn't want me in the picture obviously. I called my man and told him, he was mad! He then said he'd deal with it. He said she will apologise if not all allowances stop!

The woman did call few days later. She was apologising profusely on the phone, she passed the phone to some other people who were with her. They were all blaming her that she shouldn't have called me and they're sorry. Na so fear catch me! I don't know the kind of hell he raised with her that's making everyone to become sober like this[b]. I did U-Turn cause it can happen to me too. [/b]Then, I want her to have him back if truly she was sorry like she told me on the phone.

The man always wondered what happened that made me change my mind. Of course I told him but he felt there is something else I'm not saying. He didn't see those ones as enough reason to do a 360°
The cane used to whip the old wife is being reserved for the new wife.

You sharp well well.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Veecruz: 7:56am On Nov 16, 2023
Fredoh:
...Women like cheap life, men life the pcat, unfortunately Nigeria is so rotten that vices such as prostitution pay them more than legit hustle!!
My brother, that is the superficial thinking. It is more than that.

Only if men knew and understood that women hate them most especially God fearing men. I if you look deeply you would see how they keep setting him up for him to fall through sex.

It's an ochestrated attack designed to make a man fall in thousands of ways.
Re: Why Are Some Single Ladies So Comfortable Dating Married Men? by Veecruz: 7:58am On Nov 16, 2023
Fredoh:

I agree with most but not all, it’s not about born again or washed by the blood 🩸. These women are interested in money than anything.

30-50 years ago, if you dress like modern Women do, you’ll be called a prostitute even in England. See where we de now!!

Sometimes I wonder what will become of our society if men start dressing and sticking their D’s out.

We just know that’s nonsense, exactly how I see half naked women.
There is a reason why men are not thinking of walking with their dicks out and that is the reason why women hate men.
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