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Mayeldah:
Maintaining a side chick ain't cheap, for the struggling men out there, just be faithful

It pays to be so! Hoes will run you down financially.

spiritedtete:
To be honest one man one woman is a big lie.... know this and know reality. If you find yourself sticking to woman big kudos to you. But note that this is not a norm.

talented321:
When i was living with my lover who birth my first daughter''
It is girls always making the move especially if you are doing well' ' i for nearly bleep my woman cousin'' bro' women are very dangerous.
Pls in everything u are doing don't forget 'DNA' don't trust any women 100% no matter how decent she is or god fearing she is.
If i tell u things i don do with the other gender' my man u go fear ladies especially the one who want to Bleep you badly.

SAMBARRY:
it's all fun and games till side chick(s) wreck you financially and make you look like a nonentity


You people will not learn from baba suebebe.now he's old neither are his wives, children or girlfriends interested in his welfare.theyve all abandoned him.it was a good Samaritan in the person of pastor Gabriel and his team (church members) that helped him out.he had already become a shadow of himself

wunmi590:


I don't have time for extra marital affairs, the present economy is really not smiling, I won't allow one girl to be milking me dry, while my own family suffer or drink garri...

I don't give any of them face, my salary and my other legit hussle is meant to be spent with my wife, kid and family who are there for me...

Maintaining extra affair while married is expensive now

bastien:
Ladies are bunch of hypocrites, they will never turn down a married man as long as he has car, stay in a comfortable house and spend unwisely! Funny part is that they will catch strong feelings and won’t let u end it, they will cry heavy and earth begged, and all, they are the cause of why men cheat, cause they can never say no to man who is doing well in this tinubu regime! Lubbish

spiritedtete:
To be honest one man one woman is a big lie.... know this and know reality. If you find yourself sticking to woman big kudos to you. But note that this is not a norm.

Winters23:


some of these single ladies may die of hunger without our intervention.

we`re doing what government has failed to do like providing basic amenities to them ladies in exchange for their fake love and pampering.

and YES we know its fake love but we love it that way.

I believe I speak for all married men that proudly cheat.

1Sharon:
Ride on.

As long as you tell your wife you're polygamous from the get go, that would be nice.

talented321:
When i was living with my lover who birth my first daughter''
It is girls always making the move especially if you are doing well' ' i for nearly bleep my woman cousin'' bro' women are very dangerous.
Pls in everything u are doing don't forget 'DNA' don't trust any women 100% no matter how decent she is or god fearing she is.
If i tell u things i don do with the other gender' my man u go fear ladies especially the one who want to Bleep you badly.

GetMeRight:
Laughing. Married men don't look appealing. May be that's because they're now struggling less to make money. But some married men are still fit due to the kind of work they do or they're working out.
Even if you married a single man today, his "six packs, smooth skin and snatched waist" will eventually change.
But on a serious note, you're in your late 30s and still looking for a single man with "six packs, smooth skin snatched waist". Seriously?

Winters23:


some of these single ladies may die of hunger without our intervention.

we`re doing what government has failed to do like providing basic amenities to them ladies in exchange for their fake love and pampering.

and YES we know its fake love but we love it that way.

I believe I speak for all married men that proudly cheat.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Don't really love married men

They believe married men can provide more than single guys

spiritedtete:
I have been married for 12 going to 13 years now... and I married a feminist she is popular internationally too... and I am not a kid. And she is a great woman. But there is a reality and there is the real reality. When you see beyond your nose you will laugh at how you have been following the matrix of the world. Besides no one can stop me from taking another wife if I want to without divorcing anyone (I say this with confidence)... but it is a personal choice to be with one woman. However men of this age have been played by feminism agenda. And they continue to get played... with the acceptance of LGBTQ and child sex endorsement. In the name of freedom. But polygamy is prohibited.

Blitzking:
Wonder why women can't stand their husband taking care of other women and allowing those women bear children. Most frown at it and when it finally becomes complicated by pregnancy they become vengeful and some accept it but with a touch of bitterness that is when they start secretly building house or setting up business or make their children hate their father I have a woman who supports me and she is not my wife we have build a valuable company together very versatile and tech savvy..can't think of letting her go I have always told her I would marry a 2nd wife unknown to her she is going to be the 2nd wife..but fingers still crossed.

GetMeRight:
Laughing. Married men don't look appealing. May be that's because they're now struggling less to make money. But some married men are still fit due to the kind of work they do or they're working out.
Even if you married a single man today, his "six packs, smooth skin and snatched waist" will eventually change.
But on a serious note, you're in your late 30s and still looking for a single man with "six packs, smooth skin snatched waist". Seriously?

Jewessgratitud3:
What else would it be than to have slept with them and it's only dumb ladies that fall prey to their evil traps.

Yeah before you remind me that I'm not a married man yes, I know I'm not but let me help a married man I once encountered share his experience.

It happens that he comes around a bar near my sister's school and always saw me whenever I went to chill with my sister watching over her pupils doing after school hours. So he always plays with the kids and bought them goodies a few times. I didn't know I was his target. He later asked me out but deep down I suspected he was a married guy.

Long story short. We exchanged numbers and started talking over the phone. I inquired about his marital status and he said he was married but he wants to make me his smally. That I look like and Indian girl that's why he likes and wants to keep me for himself. I just laughed within me. This one thought I was a small girl. So I planned to eat his money and dump him.

He invited me out with his friends to go and chop ugba and okporoko at Army barracks Senior officers mess. Omoh.. you can't enter there if you don't have a pass. In fact we had to stop by at the one senior Ogas office before going there. That was my first time of eating ugba. He kept ordering for more and more plates and me I was just chewing away until my cheek bones began to hurt lol.. same with drinks but I told him I don't take alcohol and he was so happy and was boasting to his friends that "this my smally doesn't drink" and that he's so lucky to have me.

When uncle wanted to start pressing my hand ( the guy is very fat and hefty) I told him I want to go home that my aunt will be looking for me. ( For where, me that was already in my mid to late 30s living alone.
I got home that day and saved his number as "don't pick".. he called and called I never picked and for that period, I stopped going to my sister's school. He'll go there and be peeping inside the school but can not ask my sister about me. Shame on such married men.

See eh.. nothing dey for married man apart from the fact that they'll spend on you, they don't look appealing like the a single guy. They'll try o but they can't be like single guys that still have six packs, smooth skin and snatched waist.

stevestifler:
The first thing i do is tell single ladies i am married. Most of them just say 'ok' and act like i never told them.
they will be watching to see if i still want to ask them out. Bitch, i am not interested in cheating on my wife!

It doesnt even turn them off knowing that you are married, and when you tell them you love and respect your wife and have never cheated on her, they get more interested. It is like they dont meet many responsible men out there, and when they see the few ones, they want to have a taste or what?
God will continue to help me to resist. The hardest ones are the ones with big yansh but so far God has been helping me to resist still.. and i shall continue to succeed and no strange woman will come between me and my wife by God's grace. AMEN

1Sharon:
Long story. Did you tell your wife you're into polygamy?

Flangelo12:
I would say the truth.

One man, one woman is a construct.

Our forefathers married several women and managed their homes.

It is an idyllic idea when one expects monogamy.

The reality is that it is never easy hence the several broken homes one finds.

talented321:
When i was living with my lover who birth my first daughter''
It is girls always making the move especially if you are doing well' ' i for nearly bleep my woman cousin'' bro' women are very dangerous.
Pls in everything u are doing don't forget 'DNA' don't trust any women 100% no matter how decent she is or god fearing she is.
If i tell u things i don do with the other gender' my man u go fear ladies especially the one who want to Bleep you badly.

1Sharon:
Don't men in their late 30s want a woman with snatched waist and smooth skin?

Why do married men cheat again?

Take note, not only you men are visual!

GetMeRight:
Your question is logical but we all know who is more likely to find that spec between men and women in their late 30s. It is something that you can't fight.

1Sharon:
Are you saying there are more women that are in shape than the men?

1Sharon:
Exactly. Some women dey try. Oloshos dey try.

Most of these married men are out of shape and overweight

Gerrard59:
It is the lack of responsibility that pisses off about men who cheat. The married person, whether man or woman, has the upper hand in the equation. That person signed the dotted lines to be faithful and stuck to the rules, not the intruder. It is like blaming a female student for seducing her lecturer, whereas the lecturer should reject her advances because he has the upper hand.

Come out clear and say, "see o, I like to have sex with different regardless of my marital status. I take responsibility for it." Inform the unsuspecting woman he married.

Abdicating one's responsibility to be faithful to a random party is the height of irresponsibility. Too many irresponsible people these days.

Davidcorny:
If your wife bring P, I'll pound it harder and faster than her husband could ever, then dump her to go kiss the man after swallowing my cum.

Anwons:
It is obvious that this topic is not new, in fact, it has become so common that many married women no longer feel secured in their marriages due to rapid increase of the trend.

Some people tends to blame the married men, while others blame the singles ladies. Nevertheless, the fact remains and the rampage episode continues to increase.

Knowing or having an idea on how most of this unfriendly relationship starts can actually give make some people to draw their lines and also, make others realize who to blame.

The question is for married men, what has been your experience so far? Particularly, has any single young lady found it so easy to approach you? Or is it actually that the married men are always the ones that makes the move?

From my experience as a married man, I can authoritatively say, most single ladies today don't see anything wrong in dating married men. In fact, they see it as norm and can approach married men themselves.