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Foremost Nigerian social commentator and public affairs analyst Jullie Cassie has threw her own weights on the practicality that Marriage remain an achievement.

In one of her visual factfile which she posted on Instagram, the Author of 'Dance School' echoes areas where most people get it wrong with their verdicts about marriage. In her words....

"Whatever is worth celebrating is an achievement, and marriage will forever be one of life's achievements. Our luck might be different in getting the right people, doesn’t make the union less of an achievement.", Jullie Cassie probes.

Watch video below as she highlights reasons why marriage remains a lifetime achievement.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LqYTZLVfR9Y

For a woman, yes marriage is an achievement.
Its an achievement to make a man pay for your misbehavior, manipulation, disobedience, disloyalty, feed and cloth you.

Definitely!

There is no way you can deny the truth!

Having a companion and raising kids in one happy home, is a dream many long for.

Even to great extent, money starts losing value when you not spending it on things you love and adore.

Not the unholy marriage between the North and South caused by the evil man Lord Lugard.

To women only

Ok

Yes ooo, what more can one ask for if you marry a very rich man that you won't have to struggle for anything.
Me I'm just planning to marry a very rich man immediately I'm through with some things so that I'll continue to enjoy my life in peace because I don't want to stress myself over anything.
Dad's house and straight to husband's house and eventually heaven.

Only if the marriage enriched your life.
Na all marriage be marriage?

Agreed

True.
Mark 10:11-12 "And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery."
{1Corinthians 7:10-11,39}

Did your Pastor tell you that if you marry a divorced woman, you are married to Hellfire?
if they didn't, please change your church

It is for women to be able to pin their responsibilities on someone else

What about the marriage that will put you in bondage & even cut short your lifespan,
Would that still be considered an achievement?

Agree

but as a Young Man going into Marriage, Try get Money.🤨

You will SUFFER without it.

because in African Marriages, the Man pay most of the Bills even if earns N40000 and his Wife is earning N150000. 😒😕

An achievement is a fulfilled goal or objective that is set by an individual or entity. So if you set a goal to get married, then getting married is an achievement of that goal. That is all.

Yes, especially if you marry your right partner. In fact it is more than an achievement sef.

I will soon give one blessed and lucky lady that achievement soon.

Marriage is a beautiful thing, I can't wait to be with my wife as couple.

Yes,if someone married the right spouse

Big cap

Maybe for women but it’s more of like a burden to men these days


If if there was a referendum to eradicate marriage I bet most men would vote yes and women would protest it

Depend on your priorities in life

It's a step, an important one, not an achievement because it's not that difficult to get married, even people with red zone account balance get married

TheKingOfCrumb:
For a woman, yes marriage is an achievement.
Its an achievement to make a man pay for your misbehavior, manipulation, disobedience, disloyalty, feed and cloth you.

.

Not just that, sometimes, in a way, you pay for decency, intelligence, class and pace of mind. Check your mindset on how you treat girls. It's a determinant factor of who come your way. If you don't regards girls, the ones with value won't ever come your way.

Yes I agree to feed and raise children is not easy

It's an achievement just like graduation, celebrating 40, 50 , 60 years or more. It's an achievement just like having a baby, securing a good paying job, losing weight or stop smoking! An achievement is an achievement regardless of opinion!

Not true

A good marriage is more than an achievement.
It is a blessing.

Ok

Yes with the right partner

I prayed for a husband but see what I got

He has converted our house to HK.

I totally disagree.

Lie... Each time I try to settle down, na that time I dey go flat broke with lots of rubbish challenges. It makes me loose everything each time I give it a trial. It no go better for marriage. Ńa ogún go kill anyone who advises me to marry or tell me the importance of marriage.