TheKingOfCrumb:
For a woman, yes marriage is an achievement.
Its an achievement to make a man pay for your misbehavior, manipulation, disobedience, disloyalty, feed and cloth you.

the worse decision I ever made

It is an achievement. It is a milestone, so should be seen as such.

Google defines achievement as ‘’a thing done successfully with effort, skill, or courage’’

No let them deceive you that marriage is not an achievement. You go explain tire give your family and friends. The fact that there are lot of marriage issues now which made a lot give up on marriage but trust me if you can’t handle marriage then you are likely not mentally fit to handle people in public offices

Marriage Is Not An Achievement

Marriage is far from being an achievement. It's a means to an end in a sense- the end being a happy home.

Africans have been so culturally wired to see marriage as an achievement. I'm afraid it's not. Any fool, any slowpoke, any psychopath can get married. And after wedding, what next?


Jesus Christ, Paul, Daniel and more didn't get married. Yet, the worlds they created by their efforts have outlived them. In effect, there is more to a man's existence than the intricacies and mixed fortunes of marriage.

Of course.

IconicR:
Yes ooo, what more can one ask for if you marry a very rich man that you won't have to struggle for anything.
Me I'm just planning to marry a very rich man immediately I'm through with my some things so that I'll continue to enjoy my life in peace because I don't want to stress myself over anything.
Dad's house and straight to husband's house and eventually heaven.

The money of a Rich man needs to keep flowing and it takes great work for you to maintain the cash flow. Change your mentality before it's too late, love you

Simply not true. Funny how many people see being married as an achievement. Being single doesn't mean having a lonely child free life. It's common,many regret being married this days. If that's the case then how's does being married translate to an achievement when one can achieve most things without being married. Now when it comes to marriage every woman wants a man who is a provider, which in todays modern world means earning more than them. But it's harder to find and achieve this,. Now men want to come back home to meet a meal on the table and see their women building the home but that's never the case .The stress alone in the country will force two of you to start working. Now two working partners coming home instead of one,neither wants to take care of the house as both are tired etc. This is the sad reality many married peeps are into. Equity works in lots of ways, but not for marriage. I would rather remain single than make it my mission in life to keep someone else happy over my own contentment when modern westernized feminists these days don't care about commitment and marriage values.

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That's how stupid people come here to identify themselves. Nigerians who support this useless topic of marriage. No be by force oooooo

One of my friend just set his wife on fire while she was sleeping at night same day she returned from Dublin.
He waited for her to sleep and poured petrol, set her on fire with her younger brother.

Both of whom are now dead beacause of MARRIAGE.

I had repeatedly told her to walk away from the abusive marriage but like a regular African, had clung to an abusive marriage to her destruction.

Her death led to the death of the mother via hearth attack.

Now, can you look me in the eye and honestly tell me the marriage of my friend, who is now dead, was her greatest achievement?

If I were a girl agreed

It's an achievement if your existence depends on your spouse, it could be the man or the woman, that's to say you can't feed, cloth and shelter yourself without getting a help from your spouse then you can say you have achieved someone who has taken over your responsibility.nonsense

Most especially in Nigeria were a man is responsible for your existence and happiness.....
We created that narrative and you don't have to accept it to be true

Sammynath4e:
Bvvhh

Why would a Nigerian negroid, share this kind of gold mine instead of staking low key and cashing out.
If this was true, start posting free games before they start, then we will subscribe.
Prove that you are not a scam.

On point, only born throwaway no believe marriage and family is an achievement.

agreed

Bigshots001:





I don crush on you tire madam 😜

E zio kwu?( e don meannit?)

Samantha124:
I totally disagree.

Why?.. You didn't give the reason why you disagreed

Run wo

AllenSpencer:
Definitely!

There is no way you can deny the truth!

Having a companion and raising kids in one happy home, is a dream many long for.

Even to great extent, money starts losing value when you not spending it on things you love and adore.

God...
But this generation see the ceremony/party as the achievement....
The pressure they put on the party lately is too much,e don turn competition

TheKingOfCrumb:
For a woman, yes marriage is an achievement.
Its an achievement to make a man pay for your misbehavior, manipulation, disobedience, disloyalty, feed and cloth you.

No be lie bro

tragergeorge:

God...
But this generation see the ceremony/party as the achievement....
The pressure they put on the party lately is too much,e don turn competition

You are damn right about that!

aAK1:
the worse decision I ever made

you will need to make 1 more mistake in order to right the previous

A good marriage yes, absolutely

It is not wrong to say marriage is an achievement......people just need to come to terms with the fact that all human beings cannot achieve the same things in life...Like she said graduating from school is an achievement, but some people did not graduate from school and they are role models to people who achieved the graduation.....

buying a car is an achievement
buying a house is an achievement
giving birth to a child is an achievement
becoming a teacher is an achievement
becoming wealthy is an achievement
having a personal relationship with God is an achievement
infact being able to sexually satisfy your partner is an achievement

the only thing is that everybody will not achieve the same things in this life and that u Mr. A did not/have not achieve what Mr B has achieved does not make u a failure. Mr B is probably admiring some of your achievements too

Marriage is an achievement, However being unmarried doesnt make u a failure.

Heaven koh hellfire ni

IconicR:
Yes ooo, what more can one ask for if you marry a very rich man that you won't have to struggle for anything.
Me I'm just planning to marry a very rich man immediately I'm through with my some things so that I'll continue to enjoy my life in peace because I don't want to stress myself over anything.
Dad's house and straight to husband's house and eventually heaven.

abbey621:
It's an achievement just like graduation, celebrating 40, 50 , 60 years or more. It's an achievement just like having a baby, securing a good paying job, losing weight or stop smoking! An achievement is an achievement regardless of opinion!

Very correct...I think people are expanding the meaning of achievement to be something else..... Changing wardrobe sef na achievement, looking better than u looked before is an achievement, improving you health and wellness is an achievement.

Samantha124:
I totally disagree.

do you wana share reasons why you disagree

linearity:
How is marriage an achievement?

Because it is reaching a goal. Achievement is defined as a thing done successfully, typically by effort, courage, or skill. So do you now get why it is an achievement.

If u dey wear size 14 before and u wan do size 10 by december, when u reach that goal, u have achieved something and it is an achievement.
If you set goals to help the needy and maybe in few months u relaize u have helped one or 2 persons, it is an achievement
If in your heart of hearts, you hope to get married someday, when u get married it becomes anachievement...while you remain unmarried, u have not achieved what u set out to achieve.

However that you have not achieved your goals does not make you a failure and shouldnt make u unhappy, infact you may still have many who have achieved lots of their goals looking up to you.

mariahAngel:


As a man, you're incomplete without a woman.

what does this even mean.....please if i may ask, what's your ultimate goal in life

Marriage is not an achievement, probably for some women looking for meal tickets!