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safarigirl:
Ilebaye always enters that room to mention Doyin's name for PMP, always. The talk she had with Venita, was to ask her to pardon Doyin and not be so harsh on her.

Maybe what you really want to say is that Ilebaye is not as loud with her friendship as Doyin is, and is more careful with how she expresses herself.

The husband that is gifting his wife cars so that the public will applaud him, is also possibly emotionally abusing the same wife in private, meanwhile the husband that comes off as cold and mean because he no dey dhare gift, is secretly currying favours for the wife outside.

Just because one person is loud about the way they show their own love, does not mean they show love more than the person who is more quiet. A lot of you falsely assume that the loudest person is the most genuine and that is not how it works.

Doyin going to rally PMP for Angel, instead of her so-called bestie that just went through a tumultuous week, is NOT how to be a good friend. Doyin going behind Baye's back to plead PMP for herself, then coming to her face to bullsheet her, is NOT how to be a good friend.

The fact that the whole house now realises it is Doyin that is a bad friend after all, despite first assuming it was Baye, should tell you everything.

ItisHi:
obviously. Almost everyone in the house hides foods so I don't see anything shameful. Man must survive

fitzmayowa:
You and vawulence ehn, una dey try with this una vawulence o......

Alheeri:
Ilebaye dragging general pere,I can never trust that man😁

safarigirl:
If it is to be shouting "Ilebaye, Ilebaye" up and down, some of you will litter this thread with her name, now, your Ilebaye is in the Diary Room, explaining her own side of things with the Doyin drama and NONE OF YOU IS UPDATING US.

This Diary session is important, especially after Doyin went to cry on Tuesday and make Ilebaye look like one selfish witch, but you people that call yourselves her fan have failed to post about it.

It just reiterates my belief that a lot of you do not watch the show and are just desperate glory hunters and bandwagoners here.

You abandon what is important, to fixate on noise making, instead of spreading useful information about your so-called fave. Tufia!

safarigirl:
I really just think that they both have different expectations of friendship and you cannot make your friend be who you want them to be, you have to just friend them like that.

Ilebaye seems to understand this much with Doyin, but Doyin has failed to understand it of Ilebaye. Ilebaye overlooks a lot of Doyin's actions that may be interpreted negatively, but Doyin does not extend same grace to her. Doyin's constant dangling of her friendship over her head is also very unfriendly behaviour.

Not everyone is expressive of their friendship or friends the same way. Clearly, they are both mismatched and maybe that break is best.

scondy:
I tire o ...onions fit be ingredient he really likes in his food...before it finishes...he sets apart a few...

Whereas someone is breaking into other people's locker to steal coins and they are calling it game...

kalan:
Biggie for don go sleep .shit...eat..marry and come back..she is still talking...

Adexchelsea19:
This DS just opened my eyes. Ilebaye admitted Doyin has stood for her and fought her battles and she also admitted she hasn’t been there for her in anyway. But she’s angry Doyin is always reminding her of standing for her even though she hasn’t done anything for her.

I don’t like Doyin but Ilebaye is just a spoilt entitled girl who doesn’t even understand what friendship is. People just dey support her base on pity even though nah she dey bully and also very wicked to others

Tatiana4u:
You dey crase!

Aguwanyi:
Na dem dey always find my trouble..

Tatiana4u:
Baby girl ain’t no fool!
She’s woke!

Aguwanyi:
Eeghe…
I can’t explain d kinda respect I have for u,not like I know u personally and I haven’t even seen ur pics before but I’m trying to know where my respect for u is coming from and that is why I find it hard to drag issues with you..

But I dare any Angel fan to come for me..I will not free that person,I promise you that.

Eeghe:
I see Baye’s points sha
Doyin said she felt guilty about having caused Baye her second strike, and was even willing to take up the strike herself if possible. She could have allowed Baye the PMP shaa.

But having chosen herself (not wrong at all)…rallying for Angel the next week was not cool.
This doesn’t not mean she has not been mostly loyal to Baye.
She is not totally blameless in this is my point

Dannyxy:
I don’t mind illebaye winning oh, but trust me, she is not clever or mature enough to outwit those witty housemates…

They will give subtly giver her last strike

Ask me, mercy will do the giving of the strike.

adekunle would win this season …. I am hardly wrong

fitzmayowa:
Be peace loving, when some quotes me with insult or jabs I just laff since it's all banter and nothing serious, na to just ignore na......


But as they say a person is not complete without vawulence.....

ColdHunter:
Nah, I think that Ilebaye wants the friendship but just as much as it benefits her. A key element of friendship is reciprocity which Ilebaye evidently lacks.

Ask yourself, what has Ilebaye ever done for Doyin. Nada! Zilch!

This isn't about being expressive, but about being intentional and genuine. Just like saying you love your wife, but you dont gift her, you dont help with chores, you dont affirm her. You basically just want to exist as a husband while having huge expectations of your wife and then claim you're not expressive.

Even if Ilebaye isn't expressive by words, she would at least be expressive by actions. This girl has never stood up for Doyin in her many battles in that house, never. But Doyin does so for her effortlessly.

The night that broke my heart was the night they were in the garden and Ilebaye told Doyin something uncomplimentary that someone said about Doyin. Doyin inquired who it was, but Ilebaye wont budge. Despite all of Doyins entreaties, she refused with the stupid excuse that, it's not for her Consumption.

Even when Venita was all over Doyin, ilebaye disappeared and went to play goody two shoes with her fake apology to Venita. But, those weeks when Ilebaye was under the weather, this Doyin basically cuddled her to sleep each night.

Ilebaye does not like Doyin, she simply wants to enjoy the perks of being friends with her.

safarigirl:
I really just think that they both have different expectations of friendship and you cannot make your friend be who you want them to be, you have to just friend them like that.

Ilebaye seems to understand this much with Doyin, but Doyin has failed to understand it of Ilebaye. Ilebaye overlooks a lot of Doyin's actions that may be interpreted negatively, but Doyin does not extend same grace to her. Doyin's constant dangling of her friendship over her head is also very unfriendly behaviour.

Not everyone is expressive of their friendship or friends the same way. Clearly, they are both mismatched and maybe that break is best.

ItisHi:
Not you stanning a known theif like Ike and still clowning Ade. You are a joke

Tatiana4u:
I don show!

safarigirl:
If it is to be shouting "Ilebaye, Ilebaye" up and down, some of you will litter this thread with her name, now, your Ilebaye is in the Diary Room, explaining her own side of things with the Doyin drama and NONE OF YOU IS UPDATING US.

This Diary session is important, especially after Doyin went to cry on Tuesday and make Ilebaye look like one selfish witch, but you people that call yourselves her fan have failed to post about it.

It just reiterates my belief that a lot of you do not watch the show and are just desperate glory hunters and bandwagoners here.

You abandon what is important, to fixate on noise making, instead of spreading useful information about your so-called fave. Tufia!

ColdHunter:
Nah, I think that Ilebaye wants the friendship but just as much as it benefits her. A key element of friendship is reciprocity which Ilebaye evidently lacks.

Ask yourself, what has Ilebaye ever done for Doyin. Nada! Zilch!

This isn't about being expressive, but about being intentional and genuine. Just like saying you love your wife, but you dont gift her, you dont help with chores, you dont affirm her. You basically just want to exist as a husband while having huge expectations of your wife and then claim you're not expressive.

Even if Ilebaye isn't expressive by words, she would at least be expressive by actions. This girl has never stood up for Doyin in her many battles in that house, never. But Doyin does so for her effortlessly.

The night that broke my heart was the night they were in the garden and Ilebaye told Doyin something uncomplimentary that someone said about Doyin. Doyin inquired who it was, but Ilebaye wont budge. Despite all of Doyins entreaties, she refused with the stupid excuse that, it's not for her Consumption.

Even when Venita was all over Doyin, ilebaye disappeared and went to play goody two shoes with her fake apology to Venita. But, those weeks when Ilebaye was under the weather, this Doyin basically cuddled her to sleep each night.

Ilebaye does not like Doyin, she simply wants to enjoy the perks of being friends with her.

Dannyxy:
I don’t mind illebaye winning oh, but trust me, she is not clever or mature enough to outwit those witty housemates…

They will give subtly giver her last strike

Ask me, mercy will do the giving of the strike.

adekunle would win this season …. I am hardly wrong

Dannyxy:
I still don’t have a fave yet…

I don’t know if it’s just me, I know most of this people, So I am finding it hard to reconnect and Stan anyone, see frodd I liked so much, I am very indifferent about him…

Meeting and getting to know new housemates, connecting with them from no where is one one of the sweetest feeling of bbn but this all star doesn’t have it, I feel this season should have been a celebrity big brother not all stars..

Ike, seyi , Pere for me this week though, I need them to keep conniving and causing mayhem…

ColdHunter:
As at the time she rallied for Angel, their friendship had already turned sour.

I ask again, what has Ilebaye ever done for Doyin?

safarigirl:
Hearing Ilebaye's side of things, and true true, Doyin no try for this babe


She is right that she felt that Doyin should have helped her rally for Pardon Me, considering how hectic her week was. Doyin should actually have rallied for Ilebaye, instead of rallying for Angel, that has had immunity before. And Doyin constantly throwing her loyalty in her face can get uncomfortable for her.

I have to Stand wirh Ilebaye on this one.

safarigirl:
Eyah, you want Mercy to help Baye catch her last strike, so, Baye's vengeful fans will rally for Adekunle and push him to win, because you know he no fit win as long as Baye is there and Mercy is innocent of her eventual DQ if it happens


Nice one, nice one.

OldBeer:
Doyin is that rat that would be biting you and blowing you breeze so you won't feel it.
She used her "friendship" to isolate baddie from others in the house. See how baddie is happy about finally interacting with others in the house. To think she had to leave the clutches of panla to do this in week 5!
God forbid this kin friend.