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Should we tell the op the truth?

Caspry5:
Should we tell the op the truth?

yea help us sift d truth from falsehood

Quality20:
yea help us sift d truth from falsehood

There's no manual in marriage. Just do all you can and hope for the best because people change. Expect anything and make your sure you can walk away when its no longer what you bargained for

Quality20:
Many ppl in big and semi big cities always wish to get married to city girls who are very educated or at least enlightened and speak good English
Guy, you are about to cheat yourself. Many city girls are already prostitutes without knowing. Its far better u go to a nice decent village and marry those girls whom you see as uneducated than to settle for those coded prostitutes parading themselves all over the city speaking English even more than the oyimbo ppl themselves. Yes, agreed, some of the village girls maybe corrupt, but then they still won't be as deceptive as many of these highly educated, wise jet age girls who may even be lesbians, bisexuals,multiplesexual etc. Many men who are married to these so-called modern ladies find it so difficult to kowthe real character,personality and lifestyle of these ladies for many months or years as against village brought up ladies who lead simple lives

which village person fit find better gals sef

Rokiat:
In this time and age people still thinking like this?
SMH!

You don sell your body finish, you think everyone is like you 🙄

Quality20:
Many ppl in big and semi big cities always wish to get married to city girls who are very educated or at least enlightened and speak good English
Guy, you are about to cheat yourself. Many city girls are already prostitutes without knowing. Its far better u go to a nice decent village and marry those girls whom you see as uneducated than to settle for those coded prostitutes parading themselves all over the city speaking English even more than the oyimbo ppl themselves. Yes, agreed, some of the village girls maybe corrupt, but then they still won't be as deceptive as many of these highly educated, wise jet age girls who may even be lesbians, bisexuals,multiplesexual etc. Many men who are married to these so-called modern ladies find it so difficult to kowthe real character,personality and lifestyle of these ladies for many months or years as against village brought up ladies who lead simple lives

It's certain you have never been to the villages, where I Wan even start from, the ones that sleep with their teachers from secondary school, those with poor hygiene, their reasoning capacity and mindset, the ones with no ambition and won't even see reason with you when taking important decisions/actions, their views about life generally and many more, if they are learned and schooled in a town or city and have some decency in them is still okay but seeing them as village girls and SSCE holder, oga, you will be at a LOST big time.

Instead of picking a lady from the village, look for a young lady of about eighteen years old that is from a decent family and groom her.

Whether na decent village or decent city, people will still have different views in what they want.
My own take is just recognize what you want and go for it, maybe in a "decent village" or "decent city".

adebayo987:
Lol, you're confusing town girls with village girls. Town girls and village girls are almost alike because they both live in interior place but their differences is exposition to information. A village girl that is watching TV, interacting with incles and friends from the city, and using city things including going to what you may call village school, etc. is no longer a village girl but a town girl because she's now exposed to information despite living in the village.

Most villages in the south are filled with town people. If you're looking for a village girl, go to the most interior places in the North, the people that still wore leaves as clothing, and attached some kind of superstitious believe to marriage, etc.

There are actually village girls. I'm not trying to discredit the city girls but the truth is exposition to information is what builds or destroys a man or woman. In those days, women believed that sex with a man would get her pregnant. But exposure to information has taught us that there's a safe period and there's a prevention pill and there's a c0nd0m, etc. People exposed to this info but still living in a village are no longer village girls. Also, on the part of telling lies, A village girl would believe that lying to her spouse could bring down evil and curses and misfortunes on her and her union with her husband, but a city girl would know that lying is just a trick and believing that lying can harm you is if you don't defend it well, etc. so would take time to plan the lie and the defending methods, etc. The obvious difference between a village girl and town or city girl is just information.

We're saying that our forefathers were better than us today because of their high morals and decency, etc. today we have everybody fighting for attention, a lady goes as far as twerking her private areas online just to get attention, etc. all these were not present in those days, so the society was decent. But today? Haaba... village girls still exist in the North though, especially those interior norths that still wore leaves as clothing, or are just being exposed to the corruption we call "modern civilisation"

So, by village girls the op is saying, he's talking about the ideal village girls. But his mistake is the recommendation.

uban ka shege,na for south Dem dey wear leaves ,mad man wey need psychiatric attention.Shebi olosho na enlightenment for una

pansophist:
Just as money/power reveals who we truly are, education/exposure sophisticates who we already are.

There are educated men in suits and jeeps scamming others, while there are also local illiterate champions scamming others as well. Different class, same behavior. The opposite is also true.

So for example, after you import a village woman to the city, if she is a good woman, then anything she comes to later learn will benefit your marriage. Her exposure/education will sophisticate her goodness, and you will understand that a woman's love is the closest experience to heaven on earth.

If she is a bad woman, then the city will sophisticate her wickedness, and she will make life difficult for you Promax. Her wickedness might literally kill your libido, and men may start becoming attractive to you

A better advice would be that anywhere/level you are, just pass through the stress and find a woman there. Importation of bride is a very risky game. She is human and also has needs in a man. Dont blur her choice with money

If you like, go and fork up. Reality is like a trap always waiting offline, to deal with you wotowoto.

You have said it all [c'est fini ]
I command you to go to any pharmacist nearby and collect any condom brand of your choice in my name.

Bravepenis:
You have said it all [c'est fini ]
I command you to go to any pharmacist nearby and collect any condom brand of your choice in my name.

Women wey I go use am for her body nko? You give me fork and knife, without food to use chop am?

Why you de whine my nipple?