| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by DenreleDave(m): 2:12pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
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| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by DenreleDave(m): 2:13pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
UDUJ:
Good afternoon Denrele. That is exactly why the parents took the kid away.
So how are you bro? My boss.... I'm fine.. Bless God How is family sir and how are you gan gan? |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by AKWATGOLD1(m): 2:17pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Chizzy7890,
I think your parent might have sold your daughter off to highest bidder and chop the money. Before arrest, enquiry or investigate from neighbour the whereabout of your daughter if the result is not forthcoming invites your kinsmen into the issue and if that didn't see light of the day then arrest everybody in the house both parent and siblings.Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.
Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.
My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.
I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.
I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.
So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,
Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by kcbaba007: 2:17pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Take it to the police.... How about the father of your child? What is his reaction to this negative development? Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.
Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.
My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.
I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.
I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.
So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,
Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ? |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by UDUJ(m): 2:19pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
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| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by UDUJ(m): 2:20pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
DenreleDave:
My boss.... I'm fine.. Bless God
How is family sir and how are you gan gan? Family is great bro. It's always good to hear from you  |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by tonididdy(m): 2:23pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
decatalyst:
Hmmm...seems you are irresponsible and simply want to free yourself of the little girl at age 3...you travelled and abandoned her.
However, they owe you accountability. They need to show you the child you abandoned, dead or alive. They owe you that.
I would suggest you calm down, meet the most respected man/woman in your extended family, to come into the situation.
If this doesn't work out as expected, you can get them arrested.
Note: I hope you have concrete evidence that you 'abandoned' your child with them. Otherwise, they can turn the table and have you rot in jail for false accusations. Calling her irresponsible is UNfair! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by Greatdober: 2:23pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
I suggest you ask them one more time.
This time around bring in people from the extended family and make sure you record the information without their consent and also hint at involving a law enforcement agency after that day.
Do the needful sis, get your daughter back 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by 1Sharon(f): 2:25pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Shame on you for leaving your daughter.
Most Nigerian children often experience hell when they aren't living with their parents. |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by tonididdy(m): 2:26pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
nautybride:
If she abandoned the child, should she not keep quiet about her getting missed? Turning the tables already on someone who wants the best for child. Why didn't they inform her earlier of her child's whereabouts?
I read your reply, you called her irresponsible without even knowing her!
@ Poster; I blame you for bringing your issues here. You will hear wete!
As in that human is a big dummy Very big one. Even the advice e give na Garrb…. His parents will accuse their child of false accusation. Anyways maybe that’s the kind of family he/she’s from. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by Mccullum: 2:26pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Don't inform them that you'll involve police, if they've done something
wrong to your child, they may plan evil against you just to cover their wickedness.
calm down and apply wisdom. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by DenreleDave(m): 2:27pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
UDUJ:
Family is great bro. It's always good to hear from you Same here boss.... Have a lovely day sir |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by DenreleDave(m): 2:28pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
1Sharon:
Shame on you for leaving your daughter.
Most Nigerian children often experience hell when they aren't living with their parents. Shud she have taken her daughter to a place uncertain about and probably she will be doing olosho It's better she left the daughter with her parents.... Far far better than the kids watching different men sleeps with her mom and so on |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by frozen70(f): 2:31pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.
Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.
My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.
I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.
I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.
So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,
Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ? Seat your family down and ask them the where about of your daughter Do that politely If they can't explain anything Then you can take a further step to make a report at the police station That will make them to bring your daughter out wherever she is But take note, as you are going back, drop that child with anyone you know that can look after that child Better still take that child to her dad But that child is best with your parents 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by Funflipper: 2:33pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.
Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.
My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.
I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.
I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.
So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,
Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ? Your parents probably gave your daughter up for adoption. 1 Like |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by phemmyfour: 2:33pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.
Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.
My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.
I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.
I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.
So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,
Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ? Involve the police, you can ask their neighbours as well 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by AceVentura: 2:34pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Involve the law enforcement officials. You have no right to lay your hands on them. Two wrongs don’t make a right. 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by phemmyfour: 2:35pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
1Sharon:
Shame on you for leaving your daughter.
Most Nigerian children often experience hell when they aren't living with their parents. But she left her with her grandparents. That should be a safe place under ideal situation 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by duro4chang(m): 2:36pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
AllenSpencer:
I just have a feeling she is late and they are hiding it from you, knowing what you are capable of doing if the news is broken. There are other things she is keeping away from us 1 Like |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by Kobojunkie: 2:36pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Funflipper:
■ Your parents probably gave your daughter up for adoption. They have no legal right to do that without the consent of the biological parent of the child. That is kidnapping.  1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by duro4chang(m): 2:40pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
phemmyfour:
But she left her with her grandparents. That should be a safe place under ideal situation She left the baby in what manner sir? 1 Like |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by Westerhoffe(m): 2:41pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.
Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.
My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.
I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.
I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.
So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,
Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ? Firstly, try to know if the child is with her father. If he's not, then something terrible must have happened.
Just involve the police. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by Timoleon(m): 2:42pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
E tire me. When did leaving a child with one’s parents become ‘abandonment’? phemmyfour:
But she left her with her grandparents. That should be a safe place under ideal situation 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by PerfectJUSTICE: 2:42pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Go brekete family. Human Rights radio Abuja |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by Funflipper: 2:42pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:
They have no legal right to do that without the consent of the biological parent of the child. That is kidnapping. True, but that is Nigeria for you where people are so ignorant of the laws. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by Timoleon(m): 2:42pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
And human trafficking. Kobojunkie:
They have no legal right to do that without the consent of the biological parent of the child. That is kidnapping. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by olamilarks(m): 2:43pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Chizzy7879
Trust Nigerians to leave the message and stone the messenger. From her previous post, I think the family is quite poor and the child might have been sold or sent off to a major city as 'Seregbowo'. This person said she calls and sends money regularly that alone is an act of taking responsibility IMO. NAPTIP or the police might be of help, if you get over that mental roadblock of not using the Nigerian law on family members. I know what's going through you mind as a parent, I hope you find your 5year old. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by phemmyfour: 2:44pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
duro4chang:
She left the baby in what manner sir? She was sending money home and calling them. What manner beats that 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by Exceed15: 2:46pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Report to police immediately. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by phemmyfour: 2:46pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Funflipper:
Your parents probably gave your daughter up for adoption. It's a shame if they're proud to give away their grand daughter is such manner even without informing the mother 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by Ten06(m): 2:47pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Chizzy7890:
I traveled to Togo against my parents wish in the year 2021 for a greener pasture I left behind my 3 years old daughter with my parents , although the reality I have seen in Togo was not as expected, but I was at least working and sending something home to my parents.
Communication was less because I couldn't afford to calls more often. I returned back home this august the 7th and my daughter was nowhere to be found.
My parents first lied to me that she was with my mum's sister that they will send someone to pick her up but to no avail. So myself I went to my mum sister house and my daughter wasn't there and she doesn't know where she was.
I asked my parents over and over again all I could get is insults from my dad , he is angry whenever i bring the subject and my siblings are not cooperating and they've refusing to tell me the truth.
I am sick and tired of asking and no getting any answers I am trying to be calm to avoid disrespecting my parents but I am loosing patience.
So many things is going throught my head I will have no option but to take things into my own hands and hurt my dad the outcome may be deadly ,
Please no insult how do I handle the situation without disrespecting my parents or do you think I should take the matter to the police ? Go and arrest them with the police, let them produce her 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Daughter Is Nowhere To Be Found And My Parents Won't Tell Me The Truth by biafranrealson: 2:47pm On Aug 30, 2023 |
Chaii and sorry if you are from ogun osun, oyo , ondo, or kwara.
They may have used her to turnover their business.
But if you are from the East and south south where children are valued, call umunna or police 2 Likes 1 Share |
