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In the early stages of a romantic relationship, it can feel like you're floating on cloud nine. You experience butterflies in your stomach, have long conversations that go late into the night, and feel excited as you learn new things about your partner.

It's like being in a romantic movie but without rehearsed lines. Just the thought of them makes you smile, and every text message becomes a fun search for hidden meanings. You're swept up in the happiness and excitement of falling deeply in love.

As anyone who has been in a long-term relationship will tell you, the excitement of the beginning doesn't last forever. Eventually, you start to see the realities of your partner's quirks and imperfections.

What used to be cute might now annoy you, like their forgetfulness causing frustration or their snoring disrupting your sleep, etc. Suddenly, the romanticized view of the relationship fades away, and you're faced with the everyday challenges that come with sharing your life with someone else.

Welcome to the wild ride of love in the digital age.

Dive into our latest article as we unveil the unfiltered truths of long-term love in the digital age

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What's the brutal truth about relationships?

Romantic love is self-delusion. It is based on what you are telling yourself about the other person, not how they really are

Love is a chemical reaction in our brain , though we fool ourselves with thoughts of attraction , connection and emotional investment
We all still have our different definition of love
Men are the only beings who can love in an ideal man they might claim to be logical and a realist but they are the true romantics
For a woman to love a man he must have passed several criteria which lead to the fact that women love in a realist logical manner they pretend to be romantic but they are logical in their dealing
... Man search for unconditional love is a fool search you can only get it from your parents depending on the kind of ideology that you are brought up with and pets
Stop fooling yourself even God love has condition depending on the religion you subscribe to
Love is emotional investment

crystalmoon:
Love is a chemical reaction in our brain , though we fool ourselves with thoughts of attraction , connection and emotional investment
We all still have our different definition of love
Men are the only beings who can love in an ideal man they might claim to be logical and a realist but they are the true romantics
For a woman to love a man he must have passed several criteria which lead to the fact that women love in a realist logical manner they pretend to be romantic but they are logical in their dealing
... Man search for unconditional love is a fool search you can only get it from your parents depending on the kind of ideology that you are brought up with and pets
Stop fooling yourself even God love has condition depending on the religion you subscribe to
Love is emotional investment

Not only women, men's love is also conditional - you MUST be visually appealing to him and arouse him sexually, otherwise no love!

crystalmoon:
Love is a chemical reaction in our brain , though we fool ourselves with thoughts of attraction , connection and emotional investment
We all still have our different definition of love
Men are the only beings who can love in an ideal man they might claim to be logical and a realist but they are the true romantics
For a woman to love a man he must have passed several criteria which lead to the fact that women love in a realist logical manner they pretend to be romantic but they are logical in their dealing
... Man search for unconditional love is a fool search you can only get it from your parents depending on the kind of ideology that you are brought up with and pets
Stop fooling yourself even God love has condition depending on the religion you subscribe to
Love is emotional investment

you speak the truth when you say we all have our own different definitions of love, you can't know the extent of one's love by words alone that's why we try to judge through actions

DaddyCoool:
Not only women, men's love is also conditional - you MUST be visually appealing to him and arouse him sexually, otherwise no love!

Yes,For love to work there must be attraction

DaddyCoool:
Romantic love is self-delusion. It is based on what you are telling yourself about the other person, not how they really are

It's not delusion we can judge the extent of ones love through actions, you can find out more about it on the article: https://dyshapp.app/bASqhzreKCb

Brutal truth about relationships?
IT ENDS

Relationship is pretense, love is conditional, money determines how much sex you get.

DyshApp:
you speak the truth when you say we all have our own different definitions of love, you can't know the extent of one's love by words alone that's why we try to judge through actions

All actions have something deep behind it
Humans don't do things for doingsake
Who will benefit by loving me

For men:

The foundation of many of your relational problem will probably be because you're not her first choice. She settled for you due to lack of good options.

For women.

The reason why the desired men are not forthcoming is because such men have surveyed from afar, and concluded she is not worth committing to.

They've seen that she is either a single mom, runs girl, entitled, a liability, have a high taste (which she confuse as high class), not a ride-or-die chick, a goldigger hiding under tradition, wasted her best years, so therefore, he refused to be her retirement plan.

DyshApp:
Yes,For love to work there must be attraction

You mean ROMANTIC love (especially men). A mother's and some women's love have nothing to do with looks

DyshApp:
It's not delusion we can judge the extent of ones love through actions, you can find out more about it on the article: https://dyshapp.app/bASqhzreKCb

Romantic love won't be possible if you see someone as the shitting, farting animal he/she really is

You'll be served breakfast in bed at the end.

DyshApp:
It's not delusion we can judge the extent of ones love through actions, you can find out more about it on the article: https://dyshapp.app/bASqhzreKCb

Actually life as a whole is self-delusion. Ouantum mech has shown that it is your brain that's wired to make you think something tangible exists