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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Shinjawestern: 12:02pm On Oct 03, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:
Since 2019 i never knack so it's not a big deal.

U r not okay..

U need help
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by EmmyDJourno: 12:03pm On Oct 03, 2023
instantexchange:


No, I don't take anything. I use to have a good sexual urge but it keeps declining each time I have sex

Your conscience or the ladies you have Sex with is the issue
Define the sort of lady you want, Bleep her, then come back let’s talk😎
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by RPG2020(m): 12:03pm On Oct 03, 2023
Hit me up let me send you something very special

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by BoldBrainz(m): 12:03pm On Oct 03, 2023
Nigeria is upside-down, na sex be priority for 24year old boy. Come with your father to the next PTA meeting.

Stupid boy!
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by WazobiaNEWS(f): 12:04pm On Oct 03, 2023
As long you are healthy

Bro embrace it and give God all thanks
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by TheBillyonaire: 12:07pm On Oct 03, 2023
You are becoming less of a breeding animal, you should the dancing now irrespective of the cause. There are a multiples of other activities in life that delivers more tonnages of happiness than sex.

Orgasm heals mentally, and is caused by certain chemicals generated during sex, but a smart person can just ingest the chemicals directly instead of seeking orgasm through sex.

So, replace love for women with love for projects. Or take charge of and govern love as a tool and share with those who really deserve it.
Replace orgasm from sex, with orgasm from alternative hormone ingestion or infusion.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Rhozabeth(m): 12:07pm On Oct 03, 2023
I just read that u don't masturbate, thats a good one if actually u don't. Other questions are , do u drink? Do u smoke? And do unsleep well? These are some contributory factors that can lead u to where u are. If u do any of those, I think u should check that. Stop smoking and cut down seriously on alcohol. However, if u don't do any of those, there may be other psychological factor(s) responsible, then I think u should see a doctor.

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Adex001(m): 12:08pm On Oct 03, 2023
Op.. I would advice you cut down on your sugar, do not sit for too long and make sure you do a lot of walking. Then try intermittent fasting for some time.. Your testorone levels seems to be dropping..

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by TheBillyonaire: 12:10pm On Oct 03, 2023
Rhozabeth:
I just read that u don't masturbate, thats a good one if actually u don't. Other questions are , do u drink? Do u smoke? And do unsleep well? These are some contributory factors that can lead u to where u are. If u do any of those, I think u should check that. Stop smoking and cut down seriously on alcohol. However, if u don't do any of those, there may be other psychological factor(s) responsible, then I think u should see a doctor.

Why should anyone abandon drinking and smoking because of sex? Drinking and smoking seems to be more fun than sex imo. The only process that tops it is smoking weed, drinking alcohol and having sex all at the same time. cool cool cool

Correctguy101 what do you think?

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Carcholce: 12:14pm On Oct 03, 2023
drimzsmoke:


Won de ooo!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡


Why you Dey vex brah?
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by deyplay: 12:17pm On Oct 03, 2023
Wawelexy:
Rejoice bro, if only some people can possess this same thing you are groaning about, they might have become or still remains great individuals....
He should not rejoice. He should only rejoice if he arrived at that state by sheer discipline, consecration or any regime. But naturally and biologically, something is wrong especially if it was not so from the beginning. Check your eating habits. Do you take much sugar, or have become over laboured? Do you have enough sleep? Do you MASTURBATE alot? Sexual urges are tied to testosterone. IF you don't masturbate, what kinda girls do you knack? Are they your taste? Trying to bang girls whom you rarely not attracted to regularly can also dampen your cajones. Reduce too much oil(red and groundnut) it can make you look sluggish and fatigue too

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Awise09(m): 12:17pm On Oct 03, 2023
You are too young to be facing this type of challenge, what I have for are:- if you are going to listen doe!
1. Stay away from soft drinks and alcoholic drinks
2. Stay away from noodles I.e indomie and the rest, eat balance diet.
3. Eat different types of fruits
4. Stop using sugar and stay away from sweet stuffs like biscuit at least 2months
5. Lastly not the least Exercise daily, at least 30 for a start and check your self if there's no change within two month stop and look for other solution. My experienced.

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by DBD0502: 12:18pm On Oct 03, 2023
Try the following:
1. Take less Sugar
2. Eat food rich in fibers
3. Reduce ur fats intake
4. Reduce stress
5. Work on ur emotions
6. Exercise regularly

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Carcholce: 12:19pm On Oct 03, 2023
TheBillyonaire:


Why should anyone abandon drinking and smoking because of sex? Drinking and smoking seems to be more fun than sex imo. The only process that tops it is smoking weed, drinking alcohol and having sex all at the same time. cool cool cool

Correctguy101 what do you think?

I have done this since 2017, but I’m giving it up gradually. Aside the fact it’s not healthy, sex, alcohol and weed is a deadly combo. It causes over-stimulating of the brain. I started learning how to have sex without any stimulant, it’s not so fun and enjoyable anymore but it’s better and even last longer.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by deyplay: 12:20pm On Oct 03, 2023
judedwriter:
Sex is overhyped.

At your age, If you aren't married, use your excess energy to achieve your goals now you are still young.
Nice advice. But the issue is life is not straight forward. Achieving goals alone won't still make one completely happy without wie and kids.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Tremple8v: 12:20pm On Oct 03, 2023
Are you financially stable ?

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Carcholce: 12:26pm On Oct 03, 2023
TheBillyonaire:


Why should anyone abandon drinking and smoking because of sex? Drinking and smoking seems to be more fun than sex imo. The only process that tops it is smoking weed, drinking alcohol and having sex all at the same time. cool cool cool

Correctguy101 what do you think?


Another thing I noticed about drinking and smoking to have sex is, the next day or the next couple of days, your body undergoes repairs and detox phase, if you smoke and drink again during these detox phase to have sex, you’ll notice a huge difference in your body’s energy level.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by melodyogonna(m): 12:29pm On Oct 03, 2023
If you use porn, stop. If you spend too much time on social media cut it. If you don't exercise, start now. Eat a lot of fruits (particularly water melon).
Also, see a therapist

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Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Atolu01: 12:33pm On Oct 03, 2023
Good. Silly, recalcitrant, unrestrained, undisciplined, yet want to force others into their nonsense, animals. 1-0 to humanity.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by adefitim(m): 12:37pm On Oct 03, 2023
Omor

When at 30s I am still firing like bazooka
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by judedwriter(m): 12:37pm On Oct 03, 2023
deyplay:
Nice advice. But the issue is life is not straight forward. Achieving goals alone won't still make one completely happy without wie and kids.

Irony of life.

Marriage too is overhyped and a risk.

Some just marry because they want kids.

You can be happier single and fulfilled, but marriage is a big bonus only if you marry someone who completes not depletes you.
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Kingjbase: 12:40pm On Oct 03, 2023
dkidd:

Self control isn't what he has. He has a big problem at 24. Even me that's almost twice his age I still dey get hard wood every morning and I want to knack all the time. Not acting on impulse is self control know that
And you think your condition is also good?
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by Naijatask: 12:42pm On Oct 03, 2023
BoldBrainz:
Nigeria is upside-down, na sex be priority for 24year old boy. Come with your father to the next PTA meeting.

Stupid boy!

cheesy cheesy cheesy.

Even though I'm 24, I don't know why this sounds very funny to me.

But like seriously, at 24, I still see myself as a kid sha sad
Re: Struggling With Diminished Sexual Desire by dkidd: 12:42pm On Oct 03, 2023
Kingjbase:

And you think your condition is also good?
Yes it is because I'm in control of it

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