₦airaland Forum

Jovialjune1:
I've received help from my gender than males, in fact 99% of gifts I've received are from females, so false prophet where did you get your statistics from? Oluwole abi

pansophist:
One time I lodged in an hotel that has an event hall on the ground floor. A girl was celebrating her birthday with her friends there, not more than 15 guests.

There was also just one guy in the guest who I assume is her boyfriend. They were all talking and eating and having fun, until it was time for the celebrant to dance.

As she was dancing, only that one guy went to her and sprayed her cash. The girls were just busy dancing with their phones out and taking pictures for social media, but didn't spray a single naira.

Me and my brother was just laughing. Just goes to show that women have lots of friends, but they don't turn up for each other, while men may have few friends, but you can count on them.

HeatSeeker:
Dogs don't eat dogs

FalseProphet1:
Lamba.

99% indeed.

So all your male admirers don't spend on you abi?

It means you're a lesbian.

Samantha124:
Can you repeat it again?

Jovialjune1:
Get sense, must male admirers spend on females?

No wonder it is difficult for men to help their fellow men, because same men find it hard to believe female help themselves, conquered humans with moral deficiencies.

FalseProphet1:
Romantic affection contributes to over 70% of spendings. Unless there's an emergency or something similar.

Nobody who isn't your parent or sibling would just wake up and start throwing money at you unless there's a romantic relationship going on between you two.

So if you're claiming that 99% of people spending on you are females it clearly means that either you're lying or you're a lesbian with no male admirers.

Jovialjune1:
At the bolded so you know it's 70%, what if I'm among the 30% that didn't get help and gifts through romantic affection?

Sometimes I wonder how most Nigerian men think, must there be romantic affection before someone gets help or gifts from anyone? No wonder one of you went to disgrace himself abroad by asking his female roommate if she was a virgin, to the extent that some of you kept on asking why opposite genders abroad are roommates on that thread, embarrassing Nigerians in the process, that's why the western world will continue to be better than us because anything that has to do with both genders, they dont think sex, romance, and "horniness", they think logically on how it will impact their society positively.

FalseProphet1:
I was being logical that's why I said 70% but you saying 99% is illogical.

Besides aside your family, siblings and some friends, it's almost impossible to receive gifts from people without any strings attached.

You know want am saying is true you just want to argue.

mariahAngel:
The question should be why do most guys find it difficult (make that very difficult) to help their fellow guys in dire need?
Instead, they'd rather help females (not that there's anything wrong with that).
Why, huh?

Guys! Make una dey try help una fellow man.

pansophist:
One time I lodged in an hotel that has an event hall on the ground floor. A girl was celebrating her birthday with her friends there, not more than 15 guests.

There was also just one guy in the guest who I assume is her boyfriend. They were all talking and eating and having fun, until it was time for the celebrant to dance.

As she was dancing, only that one guy went to her and sprayed her cash. The girls were just busy dancing with their phones out and taking pictures for social media, but didn't spray a single naira.

Me and my brother was just laughing. Just goes to show that women have lots of friends, but they don't turn up for each other, while men may have few friends, but you can count on them.

Women are prudent with money and would spend on others when necessary unlike men who help and spend to impress and get in return (sex) women give wholeheartedly without expecting back. Women will spend on who matters (husband, father, mother, siblings, poor people, less privileged, orphans etc.) . Women don't throw money around like men do.

Men take care of their family ( immediate) Women take care of the community. Do you expect a lady to start spraying her hard earned money just for attention and cheap fame? Lol . That her friends didn't spray her doesn't mean they don't spend on one another, try attending a bridal shower or ask about who sponsor it from a bride and you will be surprised how much ladies spend on each other without being LOUD about it. Lol to start I know of my sisters bridal shower where friends contributed money to surprise her. And when she was billed 75k for another friend. Personally I know how much I spent at a cousin's wedding. But all these remain strange to most of you because we don't make NOISE about it.

Ladies spend on each other, Women help each other financially too they don't just talk about it like men do.

mariahAngel:
The question should be why do most guys find it difficult (make that very difficult) to help their fellow guys in dire need?
Instead, they'd rather help females (not that there's anything wrong with that).
Why, huh?

Guys! Make una dey try help una fellow man.

This will happen when men start growing Veejay or anus is more culturally acceptable.

Persephone1:
Women are prudent with money and would spend on others when necessary unlike men who help and spend to impress and get in return (sex) women give wholeheartedly without expecting back. Women will spend on who matters (husband, father, mother, siblings, poor people, less privileged, orphans etc.) . Women don't throw money around like men do.

Men take care of their family ( immediate) Women take care of the community. Do you expect a lady to start spraying her hard earned money just for attention and cheap fame? Lol . That her friends didn't spray her doesn't mean they don't spend on one another, try attending a bridal shower or ask about who sponsor it from a bride and you will be surprised how much ladies spend on each other without being LOUD about it. Lol to start I know of my sisters bridal shower where friends contributed money to surprise her. And when she was billed 75k for another friend. Personally I know how much I spent at a cousin's wedding. But all these remain strange to most of you because we don't make NOISE about it.

Ladies spend on each other, Women help each other financially too they don't just talk about it like men do.

folake4u:
..... And let us share the grace.

And puff puff with caprisun, my throat don dry

Persephone1:
Women are prudent with money and would spend on others when necessary unlike men who help and spend to impress and get in return (sex) women give wholeheartedly without expecting back. Women will spend on who matters (husband, father, mother, siblings, poor people, less privileged, orphans etc.) . Women don't throw money around like men do.

Men take care of their family ( immediate) Women take care of the community. Do you expect a lady to start spraying her hard earned money just for attention and cheap fame? Lol . That her friends didn't spray her doesn't mean they don't spend on one another, try attending a bridal shower or ask about who sponsor it from a bride and you will be surprised how much ladies spend on each other without being LOUD about it. Lol to start I know of my sisters bridal shower where friends contributed money to surprise her. And when she was billed 75k for another friend. Personally I know how much I spent at a cousin's wedding. But all these remain strange to most of you because we don't make NOISE about it.

Ladies spend on each other, Women help each other financially too they don't just talk about it like men do.

31. Do to others as you would have them do to you. 32 If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners Men love those who love them. 33 If you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners Men do the same. - Luke 6: 32

kkins25:
Coughs! Tsk...Tsk....Tsk.... Brings out the bible.

According to our lord and savior,


Closes bible. Swaggerliciously drops Mic.

This is for your brothers.. lol do you know how many NGOs are run by women? In a group of volunteers 95% are women. Guess what they take care of both boys and girls, women and men without expecting anything in return.

Whereas just yesterday one of our Nigerian brothers created a thread that he doesn't see anything bad in requesting sex for favour and our amiable men support this reasoning.

May God help us

Samantha124:
Men tend to be more caring towards the opposite sex compared to us females, most of the time we even find it difficult caring for each other as females.

I've received more help from males compared to females and those males didn't ask for anything in return.

Persephone1:
This is for your brothers.. lol do you know how many NGOs are run by women? In a group of volunteers 95% are women. Guess what they take care of both boys and girls, women and men without expecting anything in return.

Whereas just yesterday one of our Nigerian brothers created a thread that he doesn't see anything bad in requesting sex for favour and our amiable men support this reasoning.

May God help us

I'm sure If i pull up the statistics, i'd find that men are more cheerful givers than women.

Persephone1:
And puff puff with caprisun, my throat don dry

kkins25:
There are also many NGOs ran by men and they don't post pictures on Social Media about it every day. I'm sure If i pull up the statistics, i'd find that men are more cheerful givers than women.
Women support their own, because, they get emotional value in return. Emotional exchange takes place. And the day, that emotional transaction is broken, they vilify you. This is no new news. "After everything I've done for you" is a woman's anthem, not men.

But, we men are wising up. We don't care about emotional value; we are, however, concerned about the tingly feeling between the flesh covering the Femurs. Which we have all right to demand for because, even the lord who loves you more than us has his own "terms and conditions."

Lol... I work with NGOs, help them with volunteers, fundraising and all . Believe me when I say majority are own by women and women turn up most both in funds and labour. Men support no doubt but they hardly pioneer. You hear "oh go ahead we will support wherever we can" and if you mistakenly forget to acknowledge them, you are on your own No more money for you or your agency
While you can still appeal to a woman sponsor and she would consider a second chance. It's why we take extra measures in acknowledgement. For the female sponsor it is accountability and result, you will give account of how her kobo was spent.

When you say "cheerful" I hope you don't mean "lavishious" people tend to mix up these words and use them wrongly. You make it seem like women give grudgingly, like i stated early women give with purpose which is there is a need and it should be met. Men are lavish, women are prudent.

Lol and it's the reason Nigerians are where they are. No love, compassion and kindness.Life is not all about toto and prick.

Brandiebird:
That says more about you than it does about women. Don’t you have friends, sisters or even female relatives that can help you out when you’re financially struggling?

Many women help each other financially when they can. This bashing women is getting boring 🤬

Persephone1:
Lol... I work with NGOs, help them with volunteers, fundraising and all . Believe me when I say majority are own by women and women turn up most both in funds and labor. Men support no doubt but they hardly pioneer.

Yes, I do belive you. Even, if I didn't, it doesn't dispute that this is a documented fact. I'd be stupid to disagree.

You hear "oh go ahead we will support wherever we can" and if you mistakenly forget to acknowledge them, you are on your own No more money for you or your agency

We want our appreciation. It's not too much to ask.

While you can still appeal to a woman sponsor and she would consider a second chance. It's why we take extra measures in acknowledgment. For the female sponsor it is accountability and result, you will give an account of how her kobo was spent.

I see.. In other words, men give and take their mind off of it. "hey, here's the money" "don't mention"...As opposed to "the money i sent you is what you're using to buy phone"?

When you say "cheerful" I hope you don't mean "lavishious" people tend to mix up these words and use them wrongly. You make it seem like women give grudgingly, like i stated early women give with purpose which is there is a need and it should be met. Men are lavish, women are prudent.

corroborates above. I see. "don't mention"

Lol and it's the reason Nigerians are where they are. No love, compassion and kindness.Life is not all about toto and prick.

Samantha124:
Okay.

mariahAngel:
The question should be why do most guys find it difficult (make that very difficult) to help their fellow guys in dire need?
Instead, they'd rather help females (not that there's anything wrong with that).
Why, huh?

Guys! Make una dey try help una fellow man.

Brandiebird:
LOL! When you get an opposing view it’s “okay” but when a simp is kissing your ass you’ll derail any thread… 🥱

mariahAngel:
The question should be why do most guys find it difficult (make that very difficult) to help their fellow guys in dire need?
Instead, they'd rather help females (not that there's anything wrong with that).
Why, huh?

Guys! Make una dey try help una fellow man.

Skyview01:
Good question.

Meanwhile, can you help me with an urgent 2k. Remember God loves a cheerful giver!

Acidosis:
This is a different matter, Mariah.