I read through this thread below

https://www.nairaland.com/7865518/theres-nothing-wrong-asking-girl

And saw how some girls were emotionally attacking the op.

Life is a trade, no one would throw away his hard earned money unless he's getting some form of value.

This leaves the question, why do girls find it difficult to ask their fellow girls for financial assistance as they do to men?

Cc nlfpmod.

If they're not generous to themselves, why should we be generous to them with our hard earned money.

Dogs don't eat dogs

The question should be why do most guys find it difficult (make that very difficult) to help their fellow guys in dire need?
Instead, they'd rather help females (not that there's anything wrong with that).
Why, huh?

Guys! Make una dey try help una fellow man.

Their mindset is atuned to entitlement.

Op, how can a girl into guys ask another girl for money? No be winch be that?

Because Siofra knows verywell that Jennyclay or GoodLady won't have shi shi

Cuz that'd be a total waste of time.....

For example,my banny prefers to send me money to sending her own so-called bestie.

A broke person cannot ask a fellow broke person for financial assistance

Girls are naturally stingy.its not in their nature to give

mariahAngel:
The question should be why do most guys find it difficult (make that very difficult) to help their fellow guys in dire need?
Instead, they'd rather help females (not that there's anything wrong with that).
Why, huh?

Guys! Make una dey try help una fellow man.

Because the women manipulate them. That's what I'm saying.

Rather than manipulate a man into helping you, why can't they ask their fellow women.

Men tend to be more caring towards the opposite sex compared to us females, most of the time we even find it difficult caring for each other as females.

I've received more help from males compared to females and those males didn't ask for anything in return.

You don see were thief take thief thief.

Just dey play!!!

CCIA:


Because Siofra knows verywell that Jennyclay or GoodLady won't have shi shi

jennyclay is rich

Lungdick:


jennyclay is rich

You mean Leech?

CCIA:
You mean Leech?

omoh............who naked no dey put hand for pocket.

Samantha124:
Men tend to be more caring towards the opposite sex compared to us females, most of the time we even find it difficult caring for each other as females.

I've received more help from males compared to females and those males didn't ask for anything in return.

But to some, men are the problem. Have you thought of our your own gender treats you?

I don't understand.

Oluwadarasimi19:

But to some, men are the problem. Have you thought of our your own fender treats you?

Samantha124:
I don't understand.

It's not a question directly to you but to those who carry on with such mentality.

Can you repeat it again?

Oluwadarasimi19:

It's not a question directly to you but to those who carry on with such mentality.

One time I lodged in an hotel that has an event hall on the ground floor. A girl was celebrating her birthday with her friends there, not more than 15 guests.

There was also just one guy in the guest who I assume is her boyfriend. They were all talking and eating and having fun, until it was time for the celebrant to dance.

As she was dancing, only that one guy went to her and sprayed her cash. The girls were just busy dancing with their phones out and taking pictures for social media, but didn't spray a single naira.

Me and my brother was just laughing. Just goes to show that women have lots of friends, but they don't turn up for each other, while men may have few friends, but you can count on them.

Because they can see beyond each others bull crap.

But most men can't. Most women believe every man is after their pot of soup.. which is mostly true, and most men will grant their request because they wanna have a taste of the pot of warm soup.

PinkNature:
Because they can see beyond each others bull crap.

But most men can't. Most women believe every man is after their pot of soup.. which is mostly true, and most men will grant their request because they wanna have a taste of the pot of warm soup.

Men should stop looking for women pot of soup so they wont be exploited.

FalseProphet1:

Because the women manipulate them. That's what I'm saying.

Rather than manipulate a man into helping you, why can't they ask their fellow women.

As it was in the days of Adam, The man said, “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.”
They hardly take responsibility for their actions/decisions.

Broke men thread
I’m out

Maybe you're mingling around street girls


The girls I've been with usually on norms send their female paddies one or two once in a while


If the girl has money or her dad's wealthy, she definitely help her female friends


It's only poor girls that don't help their fellow women

cocolacec:

Men should stop looking for women pot of soup so they wont be exploited.

Once I taste Jennyclay's soup I will stop looking at others

Women naturally DON'T Give and when they Do, they Attach too IMPORTANCE/significance to it. 😕

If a Lady spends N500 on her Best Friend, it's like 100K to her.😟🤦.

On a Good Day, She will Bring up the Money spending Topic!. 🤨😕

Ladies know this FACT, Hence Prefer to Ask/Beg Money from Guys,
Who never See GIVING as a Big Deal.😏😒

pansophist:
One time I lodged in an hotel that has an event hall on the ground floor. A girl was celebrating her birthday with her friends there, not more than 15 guests.

There was also just one guy in the guest who I assume is her boyfriend. They were all talking and eating and having fun, until it was time for the celebrant to dance.

As she was dancing, only that one guy went to her and sprayed her cash. The girls were just busy dancing with their phones out and taking pictures for social media, but didn't spray a single naira.

Me and my brother was just laughing. Just goes to show that women have lots of friends, but they don't turn up for each other, while men may have few friends, but you can count on them.

So one event is the basis to generalise? Are you people okay at all?

I've received help from my gender than males, in fact 99% of gifts I've received are from females, so false prophet where did you get your statistics from? Oluwole abi

mariahAngel:
As it was in the days of Adam, The man said, “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.”
They hardly take responsibility for their actions/decisions.

The woman manipulated the man to eat the apple. Adam wouldn't have eaten it on his own. Satan knew it that's why he went to the woman. And because Adam loved his wife, he just accepted it and ate.