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Forget about my grammatical blunders because my diction is not that alluring (For the case of our PHD professors in English )

I was navigating through facebook when I met a post a young lady being posted with the caption "A new month of Bliss" thou, she was seductively half dressed in the picture being attached to her caption.

You can get see the pile of insults being melted on her for her mode of her indecent dressing by men of different species.

Fast forward to three days ago when a female friend of mine (20 years of age) borrowed my phone to login into her facebook handle and forgot to logout when she was done using my phone, and in the process of me trying to logout her account in other to login mine, one thing led to another.

I decided to slide into her message (thou it was a breach of privacy which I actually know). But to my greatest and utmost surprise, I saw more than 50 unread messages all coming from different men, both married and singles, small and old, even the ones from mere looking at their profile pictures, one can conclude they are most likely to be clergies all disgracing themselves begging for Sxx with all sorts of stupid chats and also simping around her dm, which this girl they're all doing this for is not more than 20 years of age ooo.

Now my questions are;
* why do men always claim alpha male in public but would slid into a girls' dm to simp?

*Are men of today's world alpha male online and then turns simp offline?

*Are we living in a world of hypocrisy where public and online opinions shouldn't be taken much seriously because we are all acting as hypocrites?

What's your take on this issue nairalanders?


Because from the messages I read, I weep for today's men that are being raised in our society today, we men are becoming so weak nowadays.

Only few responsible men are left. Some of these ediotss are also on Nairaland shouting no virginity, no marriage. Men of no dignity.

TheFreshVanilla:
Only few responsible men are left. Some of these ediotss are also on Nairaland shouting no virginity, no marriage. Men of no dignity.

Exactly. And most of this men saying all this sh*t, they have uncountable body count. After begging for sex in ladies dm, they come on Nairaland saying "all girls are hoe", *who the hell is dating them", "no virginity no marriage". There is nothing called" respect" in their dictionary.

TheFreshVanilla:
Only few responsible men are left. Some of these ediotss are also on Nairaland shouting no virginity, no marriage. Men of no dignity.

With what I saw in my friends dm, I no longer take anything coming out from we Nigerians serious any longer because we tend to always claim saints in public, while the things we do in secret is left for God to answer.

That's the result of being too religious.

I dunno what exactly you saw in your "friends" Facebook account ...

But one thing I can tell you is that, there are two kinds of women in every man's life ...

Those that are for keeps and those that are for peeps ...


And each of the females in those category have different degree that qualifies them for the category that they're placed under ...

To qualify for the peeps category, all you need is be a female with breasts and VA.gina and that's all! - All women qualifies for this category ...

But men become more meticulous when it comes to a woman that they intend to keep or take serious ...


So just because men will pay to sleep with a w.hore doesn't mean they'll take her serious by wifing her up ...

She's fu.ckable, yeah, but she's not worth keeping ...

That's why you'll never hear a man say "no virginity, no nacking" ... It's always "no virginity, no marriage" ...

This alone should tell you that what men sleep with and what men consider keeping are two very different things - don't confuse them ...

And you talked about the hypocrisy of men ...

You hinted that men are hypocrite cause they'll have numerous body count and yet want a virgin ...

Well...
If you have an issue with that, then I hope you have an issue with...

Broke women who want rich men ...
Short women who want tall men ...
Obese women who want fit men ...


Oh wait a minute, it's considered preference when it's a woman ba, so there's no issue - got it ...

You saw like 50men out of millions of men,hence your conclusion. You no even get point.

Is voyeurism not hypocritical?

Fahvvy:
And you talked about the hypocrisy of men ...

You hinted that men are hypocrite cause they'll have numerous body count and yet want a virgin ...

Well...
If you have an issue with that, then I hope you have an issue with...

Broke women who want rich men ...
Short women who want tall men ...
Obese women who want fit men ...


Oh wait a minute, it's considered preference when it's a woman ba, so there's no issue - got it ...

the thing is that most people don't think... it's always hypocrisy, misogyny or other bullshit names they give themselves when men want better things and refuse to settle for less, but when women does, it's always the opposite..

lol just as you've said earlier, women mostly confuse themselves with the people who just want to nack them with people who wanna wife them up, this is why they mostly leave men who would wife them up for men who would make them single mothers, they are just greatly deluded... of course, simps will still do what simps do, but what matters most is why they are messaging her... 95% will want to just use and dump her, 4 percent will just be there to boost her ego, and 1 percent will actually want something serious with her...

Fahvvy:
I dunno what exactly you saw in your "friends" Facebook account ...

But one thing I can tell you is that, there are two kinds of women in every man's life ...

Those that are for keeps and those that are for peeps ...


And each of the females in those category have different degree that qualifies them for the category that they're placed under ...

To qualify for the peeps category, all you need is be a female with breasts and VA.gina and that's all! - All women qualifies for this category ...

But men become more meticulous when it comes to a woman that they intend to keep or take serious ...



So just because men will pay to sleep with a w.hore doesn't mean they'll take her serious by wifing her up ...

She's fu.ckable, yeah, but she's not worth keeping ...

That's why you'll never hear a man say "no virginity, no nacking" ... It's always "no virginity, no marriage" ...

This alone should tell you that what men sleep with and what men consider keeping are two very different things - don't confuse them ...

well said

Spending123:
Forget about my grammatical blunders because my diction is not that alluring (For the case of our PHD professors in English )

I was navigating through facebook when I met a post a young lady being posted with the caption "A new month of Bliss" thou, she was seductively half dressed in the picture being attached to her caption.

You can get see the pile of insults being melted on her for her mode of her indecent dressing by men of different species.

Fast forward to three days ago when a female friend of mine (20 years of age) borrowed my phone to login into her facebook handle and forgot to logout when she was done using my phone, and in the process of me trying to logout her account in other to login mine, one thing led to another.

I decided to slide into her message (thou it was a breach of privacy which I actually know). But to my greatest and utmost surprise, I saw more than 50 unread messages all coming from different men, both married and singles, small and old, even the ones from mere looking at their profile pictures, one can conclude they are most likely to be clergies all disgracing themselves begging for Sxx with all sorts of stupid chats and also simping around her dm, which this girl they're all doing this for is not more than 20 years of age ooo.

Now my questions are;
* why do men always claim alpha male in public but would slid into a girls' dm to simp?

*Are men of today's world alpha male online and then turns simp offline?

*Are we living in a world of hypocrisy where public and online opinions shouldn't be taken much seriously because we are all acting as hypocrites?

What's your take on this issue nairalanders?


Because from the messages I read, I weep for today's men that are being raised in our society today, we men are becoming so weak nowadays.

Stop blaming guys bombarding her with messages requesting for sex, she opened the door for them. Who knows whether she had been displaying her sexy pics online.

Truvelisback:
Stop blaming guys bombarding her with messages requesting for sex, she opened the door for them. Who knows whether she had been displaying her sexy pics online.

But the same men will scream in public while they sneak back in secrete to simp and beg for what they initially screamed on.