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The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 2:37pm On Oct 12, 2020
Some Nigerian men are always quick to generalize and bash Nigerian women whenever a lady makes the news for something bad for example, a married woman having extramarital affairs.But one will never see this set of hypocrites judge cheating married men in such manner.They make senseless comments and the really dumb ones go ahead to insult the wife for her husband's inability to remain faithful.

You might want to go through this thread and see for yourself
https://www.nairaland.com/6174273/cheating-some-men-something-else

And this
https://www.nairaland.com/6181309/abuja-bride-cancels-wedding-after
They keep proving me right. grin

Now compare the comments in that thread with this
https://www.nairaland.com/6176488/ex-views-stories-status-ignores

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Madibahisback: 2:39pm On Oct 12, 2020
MhisTahrah:
Some Nigerian men are always quick to generalize and bash Nigerian women whenever a lady makes the news for something bad for example, a married woman having extramarital affairs.But one will never see this set of hypocrites judge cheating married men in such manner.They make senseless comments and the really dumb ones go ahead to insult the wife for her husband's inability to remain faithful.
Typing...

Your father too is among them na
He is the king on senseless comment
EZE NDI ARA!!

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by DamnnNiggarr(m): 2:39pm On Oct 12, 2020
cheesy
until the day women start paying groom's price,
that day is when we shall start judging men in such manner. grin

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 2:45pm On Oct 12, 2020
Madibahisback:


Your father too is among them na
He is the king on senseless comment
EZE NDI ARA!!
If you had read the very first word on this thread, you'd see that I used the word 'some' as not all are guilty of it.But you were so eager to jump on the thread and vomit bile as usual.
Some men have working thinking faculties, obviously you are not a part of them.

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Madibahisback: 2:47pm On Oct 12, 2020
MhisTahrah:
If you had read the very first word on this thread, you'd see that I used the word 'some' as not all are guilty of it.But you were so eager to jump on the thread and vomit bile as usual.

I use am resemble your papa

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 2:48pm On Oct 12, 2020
Hmmmm,,, karamon,,

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Davash222(m): 2:52pm On Oct 12, 2020
Calm down baby, you’ll be fine

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 2:52pm On Oct 12, 2020
Madibahisback:


I use am resemble your papa
Stupid.Next please

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Madibahisback: 2:52pm On Oct 12, 2020
MhisTahrah:
Stupid.Next please

Just like your papa
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by padi94(m): 2:55pm On Oct 12, 2020
Stupid post

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 2:56pm On Oct 12, 2020
DamnnNiggarr:
cheesy
until the day women start paying groom's price,
that day is when we shall start judging men in such manner. grin
Please don't even start with bride price brouhaha which is returned by the bride's family anyways.

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by virginprincess(f): 3:01pm On Oct 12, 2020
Don't mind them, exactly while i said 95% of nairaland men are senseless.

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 3:03pm On Oct 12, 2020
It is quite disturbing to see that no male has made any meaningful comment yet.

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Camelot65: 3:04pm On Oct 12, 2020
virginprincess:
Don't mind them, exactly while i said 95% of nairaland men are senseless.
No, everyone on nairaland is useless.....
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by CAPSLOCKED: 3:05pm On Oct 12, 2020
Madibahisback:


Your father too is among them na
He is the king on senseless comment
EZE NDI ARA!!

MOST NIGERIAN MEN ARE HYPOCRITES INCLUDING YOUR FATHER AND MINE. ACCEPT AND DEAL WITH IT. cheesy

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by DamnnNiggarr(m): 3:05pm On Oct 12, 2020
MhisTahrah:
Please don't even start with bride price brouhaha which is returned by the bride's family anyways.
until you ladies start taking equal part of the expenses in marriage, and taking equal part of the responsibility in every day family life, is when you shall be regarded equal with men.

who's the borden of marriage expenses on?? it's always men.

who worries most in the betterment or moving forward of relationship?? always men.

who tells a woman how he feels about her?? until I see women do that, still always men.

who's ready to sacrifice both financially in relationship?? always men.

you ladies want to be accorded the same respect as men but don't want to reason like men

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by fati2001(m): 3:06pm On Oct 12, 2020
MEN.... I MEANT ZOOGERIA HEGOATS THAT ARE HIDING UNDER THE GENDER MALE ARE SENSELESS, THEY ARE MANY ON NAIRALAND.... THEY KNOW THEMSEVELS.

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by virginprincess(f): 3:06pm On Oct 12, 2020
Camelot65:
No, everyone on nairaland is useless.....
Expect me.
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 3:07pm On Oct 12, 2020
virginprincess:
Don't mind them, exactly while i said 95% of nairaland men are senseless.
The figure is highly exaggerated but the senseless ones are more vocal.

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Camelot65: 3:10pm On Oct 12, 2020
virginprincess:
Expect me.
cheesycheesy LMAO
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by ednut1(m): 3:10pm On Oct 12, 2020
No need crying Nigerian women are also on Facebook and Instagram pages bashing men. Till Nigerian women start seeing marriage as a trophy or achievement some men will continue treating them like trash.
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by ServanTheG(m): 3:12pm On Oct 12, 2020
OP what did you witness exactly that made you write this post?
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 3:14pm On Oct 12, 2020
DamnnNiggarr:
until you ladies start taking equal part of the expenses in marriage, and taking equal part of the responsibility in every day family life, is when you shall be regarded equal with men.
Dead this talk please, so many women are the breadwinners of their family.Going by your logic, these women should be superior to their husbands?

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 3:16pm On Oct 12, 2020
ServanTheG:
OP what did you witness exactly that made you write this post?
Click the link.
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by DamnnNiggarr(m): 3:18pm On Oct 12, 2020
MhisTahrah:
Dead this talk please, so many women are the breadwinners of their family.Going by your logic, these women should be superior to their husbands?
who paid the price of who??
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Gerrard59(m): 3:18pm On Oct 12, 2020
DamnnNiggarr:
cheesy
until the day women start paying groom's price,
that day is when we shall start judging men in such manner
. grin

MhisTahrah,

Here lies the issue: men invest financially more than women in a typical Nigerian married life. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Until modern day women start investing as much as men do, it would be hard to fight against the privilege that come with men cheating. Unfortunately, women are hypergamous species. Fortunately, we live in a time where both men and women have equal rights. So if your man (boyfriend or husband) cheats on you, nothing stops you from leaving him. And when you do, don't give a fvck about what people say.

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by ServanTheG(m): 3:41pm On Oct 12, 2020
MhisTahrah:
Click the link.
This is Nairaland. Are you really suprised at what you read on that thread?
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by CosmicPhoenix: 3:55pm On Oct 12, 2020
how many nigerian women can actually end their relationship if their partner is caught cheating,your BF or husband is cheating on you yet you decide to remain in the relationship grin is that not foolishness grin

Work on your foolishness before talking about hypocrisy

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Liposure: 3:55pm On Oct 12, 2020
Becos men and women are not equal. When women cheat, there is usually an element of romance, intimacy, connection or love. Men on the other hand are more likely to cheat to satisfy sexual urges, with fewer thoughts of intimacy

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 4:01pm On Oct 12, 2020
DamnnNiggarr:
until you ladies start taking equal part of the expenses in marriage, and taking equal part of the responsibility in every day family life, is when you shall be regarded equal with men.

who's the borden of marriage expenses on?? it's always men.

who worries most in the betterment or moving forward of relationship?? always men.

who tells a woman how he feels about her?? until I see women do that, still always men.

who's ready to sacrifice both financially in relationship?? always men.

you ladies want to be accorded the same respect as men but don't want to reason like men
I see you modified.
The burden of wedding expenses is on both groom and bride.The fact that the groom VOLUNTARILY decides to finance it is his own problem.Some men feel shouldering financial responsibilities makes them more manly and subsequently feel emasculated if their partners have more financial power.

Are you kidding me?This varies individually but from most things we see online, it's obvious women invest more emotions in relationships than men.

You guys don't encourage women to make the first move.In fact she is often disrespected.

Refer to the above for this.

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Theslumflower: 4:04pm On Oct 12, 2020
I will forever advice women to make their own money and be independent. Let your husband know you can do three times what he does when it comes to money.

From the above comments and ones from the thread, it's all about finances. Kill that financial gap and see how everything changes. They won't try it if they respect you because they know you will 100% thrive on your own and this is 21st century, there are hundreds of learned men who will marry a good, hardworking, pretty divorcee lady. Don't let Nairaland fool you.

As of the one up talking about bride price. Nobody forced you to pay. That one concern you and her kinsmen. Funny enough, how much wey you pay sef grin

Women have so much power. Some just haven't realized it yet, which is sad.

I've seen women that their hubby cheat on their faces and they won't say or do nothing SMH, thereby aiding the act. Definition of giving yourself no singlee value as a lady

Be a financially free woman from your husband and see how things turn around. Like they say, money stops nonsense.

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 4:20pm On Oct 12, 2020
Gerrard59:


MhisTahrah,

Here lies the issue: men invest financially more than women in a typical Nigerian married life. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Until modern day women start investing as much as men do, it would be hard to fight against the privilege that come with men cheating. Unfortunately, women are hypergamous species. Fortunately, we live in a time where both men and women have equal rights. So if your man (boyfriend or husband) cheats on you, nothing stops you from leaving him. And when you do, don't give a fvck about what people say.
According to you, the reason for the double standards in marriage is because the husband shoulders more financial responsibilities. There are cases where husbands cry on nairaland because their wives earn more and contribute a larger percentage to household finances.I can even remember a thread I saw where a woman said she shoulders all the finances in the house and she was thoroughly bashed.

The issue here is not about what people would say but how men excuse cheating married men with comments such as 'it is a man's nature to cheat' or 'the wife must be doing something wrong' and turn to bash cheating women, casting aspersions on the female gender.

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