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Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by CSTRR: 2:47pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
obaidan:But it is possible. Once she relocates to igboland, that is all. Otilor. Your yoruba custom has no sway there. You have no rights to the children there, unless she pities you. Even the police there will not support you. If you want to marry, know the culture and do the right thing. But if you don't like the culture, stay away. 2 Likes |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by biina: 2:49pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Jennyclay:schizo na bad tin. I advise that you seek psych help ASAP |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by ASAPFERG: 2:49pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Kay25:i tire. Why marry omo ajeokutamamomi? Me no just to fvck and dump their oloshos I dey do here oo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by nairayouthcom(m): 2:50pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
nedekid: Oga shut the hike up Do you know if the man has make move to meet the woman family ? Do you know if she has gotten preg before he sees the marriage list ? Do you know if the woman calm the mans mind down that they should go live together that what the family demanded is damn high that they will do nothing? Not supporting the man but the woman here is not saint and also f***k the so called cultural practices Lemme tell you a little story One of my big brother impregnate an Igbo lady years ago while in sch, so the agreement is that if the nigga finish university the dowry will be paid Lol and behold in few month the lady parents move the lady to village or so Up till this moment we were unable to figure out where the lady and the child his now Mind you, it’s over 10years Till this present moment we are still searching for the lady We need the product of affairs |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by salvation77177: 2:51pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
I will suggest in a strong term that a DNA test should be carried out on the children to determine whether these children actually belong to the former husband. |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Angelfrost(m): 2:52pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
milann: I doubt it, except you wish to marry without her parents' approval, which I will never advise. Once there is understanding on the part of both parents and families, the traditional process can be made moderate, and the groom shielded from so many expenses. With good understanding, the traditional process can even be done quietly inside the bride's father's house with just one or two witnesses. Court wedding is definitely non-negotiable, especially for documentation purposes. |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by nedekid: 2:52pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
nairayouthcom:Since you are uncouth, you don't deserve a response. |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by ASAPFERG: 2:53pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
CSTRR:no what you should say is that igbos should stay in igboland and stop coming here.. Abi you don ever see any Yoruba wey dey go east go find wife/husband? Stay in igboland and we won't be seeing you monkeys again 2 Likes |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by omooba969(m): 2:53pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
kenex4ever: @bolded - Who made such rule, who made it so without considering the rights of the baby daddy? 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 2:54pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
CSTRR:Get this right: yoruba custom o, igbo custom o, hausa custom o, edo custom o, the laws of Nigeria go carpet all of them. i no dey do tribal battle. is igboland not a part of Nigeria again, even in igboland the laws of Nigeria is supreme. I get what you are trying to say, but let me tell you, you cannot hide someone's child inside Nigeria from him. If he is ready to fish u out, na weytin simple pass be that.......highest dem go begin attack each other spiritually but nothing like Otilor my brother, pikin wey say e mama no go rest, im sef no go sleep 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Ttipsy(f): 2:55pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Mcreloaded:igbankwu nwanyi is a well respected tradition. The man should go and pay bride price !! Nobody is dragging his wife and children with him. The judge will call it whatever name he Wants because it’s not an English tradition. The woman’s who’s changing the name of the children is just wasting her time , if truly biologically the children belong to the so called husband 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by nairayouthcom(m): 2:56pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
CSTRR: Na talk you talk like this bah Culture, culture culture On of the reason why Africa is still underdeveloped 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by CSTRR: 2:58pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
obaidan:Then take it to the supreme court. That magistrate level no go work. |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Olamicwoto: 2:59pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Jennyclay e b like say u no well at all. Jennyclay: |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 2:59pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Angelfrost: put it properly, court wedding is non-negotiable because that is what confirms marriage. every other thing is just ceremonial, tradition o, custom o, church o, mosque o, shrine o |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by biina: 2:59pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
shortgun:Was it also wisdom when your forefathers made human sacrifices and killed twins? ![]() Was the girl kidnapped and/or raped? ![]() You can keep your daughter in your house but the man has rights to their kids Instead of breaking homes and making the poor children artificially fatherless, your culture should have focused more on training your daughters to not spread their legs for anyone who hasn't paid their bride price. ![]() It is called bride price not child price!!! ![]() |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by omooba969(m): 2:59pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
nedekid: How does 'not paying a bride price' invalidates a legal/ church marriage? How does 'paying a bride price' make a marriage a proper one? |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by ASAPFERG: 3:00pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Mcreloaded:leave that one.. Igbo girls wey full hotels for here for olosho work 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Angelfrost(m): 3:01pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
obaidan: Yeah... You are right. Still, traditional wedding over the others, as that confirms you have gotten the approval from her family... Most courts will ask you this. 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by November24(f): 3:01pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
ForestHill: U dey whine 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by nairayouthcom(m): 3:02pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
nedekid: Defend that culture till tomorrow Una fathers and mothers, uncles and aunt way Dey village waiting for that Ada to bring husband come house so that they will eat f***ed up Imagine they still put cigarettes that they will smoke for Dowry (list) 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Gajagojo: 3:02pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
izzou:Is the woman a bag of rice that must be paid for? |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by CSTRR: 3:03pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
nairayouthcom:That culture is even progressive. It removes women from the whims of a useless man and protects the children. What future does a man that can not afford to pay brideprice for years offer the children after seperation? He is only going to act as a stumbling block for another potential father. If you don't want to lose fatherhood, pay the brideprice. It's as simple as that, or atleast make her happy so that she doesn't leave you. You have hundreds of terrible culture in your ethnic group that you should focus on. |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 3:04pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
CSTRR:the man has a judgement already in his favour, it's now up to the woman to go challenge that ruling at a higher court. Right now he has custody of his kids(shared i believe), i am sure the woman won't even deny him that except she's ready to face contempt of court consequences again. see the best solution in these kind of cases is just for the 2 parties to do a co-parenting arrangement in peace, if u wan fight, u will get bruised 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Mcreloaded(m): 3:04pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Ttipsy: Don't call her his wife after all he has. Ot paid the dowry. Is it not better your women wait for dowry to be paid before they start having children for a man whose tradition is different from yours. Will it not be better for the children also if the igbo woman does not have to change father. Be honest with ur self who suffers when a dowry is not paid, is it not the children. Enlighten your women to stick to their kind or better still confirm the dowry is paid before they start giving birth. Well sha everything about it o is money money money. How much you people will make from the dowryis all that matters to you people. It's business for you people as always. Stop the evil tradition or go to court. Like I said before, Are you more knowledgeable than the judge. Enlighten your women and stop spreading evil. I hate person's who like evil and I hate a group of people more who like evil. Your ways are evil and barbaric as stated by the judge. Wake up and smell the coffee as your ways make people to hate you guys. Think deep on what we are discussing 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by HeadlessMob: 3:05pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Igbos and frauds are like 5&6. How could you transfer children to the man that's not their biological father.? Is that a fraud? Why don't you ask him to pay the bride price? In any case why do you open your dirty legs to a man that has not paid your price when you knew that it was a condition that must be fulfilled? Fraud 2 Likes |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Gajagojo: 3:05pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
ForestHill:Logically there is no evidence to substantiate this claim that Ibo women stay married more Where is the proof? To make such a claim you must have facts and figures All you have is your imagination and narcissism That is what you want to believe 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by nairayouthcom(m): 3:07pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
CSTRR: As in like I don’t understand this shit Two grown up adult had S**x and reproduce Then one part (woman) they cap me say the child will belong to another man if I don’t pay dowry As in I don’t grab Still on still that culture, una Dey cap rubbish 2 Likes |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by omooba969(m): 3:07pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
okoroemeka: And the only way to demonstrate the value y'all place on women and children is to deny another man his rights... isn't it? Emeka, are you normal at all? ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 3:08pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Angelfrost:Are you sure about this. I doubt this is a compulsory requirement. People that didn't do traditional wedding wedding are getting married in Nigerian courts everyday. And don't get me wrong traditional wedding is cool and yes it signifies that her parents have given approval but when e set u can only fight for your rights with proof of court marriage. |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by seunodediranivy: 3:09pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
.....what is it about Igbo that is humane or godly? ..... tuafaka nonsense |
Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by Mcreloaded(m): 3:11pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
ASAPFERG: No mind am. Where I come from our men go collect the children and if the women do any hiw she go collect free of charge. You born for me and you say because I no pay dowry another man go take the children and bear him name. Na weak men dey carry another person children. Evil igbo women and their ways. Them full my side dey do olosho and dey fi d man way go dey foot bills. Dowry fireeee. Wey igbo people go say na business that's why them dey make the dowry so high them dey form say na tradition. Their women full street. And na so many wey dey form Ada don old for house as no husband unto say dowrymatter too high and customer no come price am. And the worst part be say the women no get anything to offer other than toootoooo why be the cheapest commodity after cigarette 3 Likes 2 Shares |
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