milann:
is there a way one can bypass tradition and do just court wedding?

Broke guys asking stupid questions. If you’re not ready to marry Igbo women leave them alone. It’s that simple. Haven’t you noticed that the Igbo tribe have the least of divorce and a case of men absconding the marriage.

I remember a news where a stupid husband abandoned the wife with triplets at the hospital and ran away, if that useless man spent about 2m to marry that woman, he wouldn’t have ever ever taught of abandoning his wife and three babies.

I appreciate that tradition because it protects women from wicked men.
That shit is common with the yorubas and Hausas reason you see almajiris and Yoruba women with no husband but most of them have at least 2kids at home. Rubbish cultureless people talking about barbaric culture.

Thunder will fire that useless bitter judge and every person that has a problem with the Igbo tradition. After all their men aren’t even complaining.

dragunov:


When they want to kill him with list nko? I know a bloke who was even asked to settle the community from where the lady came from. No be witchcraft be that?

International LIAR

Slynation:
Oga rest, the judge must be a Yoruba man, I will counter sue the man in any court in Igbo land since everybody wants to stupid...!!

This is the only sensible reply I have gotten so far.

dragunov:


Oga, bride price validates parental consent only. The moment 2 adults start having sex without duress or force, it becomes consensual. They stayed together for 23 years and kept procreating. Using US immigration law to explain the situation on ground is unintelligent and smacks of mental laziness. You say the judgement is dead on arrival? How? Is it that you just love to watch yourself type and post regardless of content or you're just plain silly? Go and meet the judge and tell him nah. Otondo!

which judge? he is called a magistrate not a judge. His bluff ends in Ondo and is unenforceable beyond there. Even if the real husband decides not to enforce his right in a court, he can simply take the children to his own state and live with the wife happily and legally.

When you go home, start sleeping with your mother and sisters so they can become your wife's. Mountain goat!

ForestHill:
Logically, could this be the reason Igbo women stays married more than 90% of all the tribes combined?

Actually it is because Igbo women are more educated than 90% of all the tribes combined. Unfortunately, with education comes a rise in the feminism movement, hence leading to late marriage

DeipTruth:


Broke guys asking stupid questions. If you’re not ready to marry Igbo women leave them alone. It’s that simple. Haven’t you noticed that the Igbo tribe have the least of divorce and a case of men absconding the marriage.

I remember a news where a stupid husband abandoned the wife with triplets at the hospital and ran away, if that useless man spent about 2m to marry that woman, he wouldn’t have ever ever taught of abandoning his wife and three babies.

I appreciate that tradition because it protects women from wicked men.
That shit is common with the yorubas and Hausas reason you see almajiris and Yoruba women with no husband but most of them have at least 2kids at home. Rubbish cultureless people talking about barbaric culture.

Thunder will fire that useless bitter judge and every person that has a problem with the Igbo tradition. After all their men aren’t even complaining.

@bolded - Can you please reference your claim?

dragunov:


Oga, bride price validates parental consent only. The moment 2 adults start having sex without duress or force, it becomes consensual. They stayed together for 23 years and kept procreating. Using US immigration law to explain the situation on ground is unintelligent and smacks of mental laziness. You say the judgement is dead on arrival? How? Is it that you just love to watch yourself type and post regardless of content or you're just plain silly? Go and meet the judge and tell him nah. Otondo!

pig 🐷
If you have a culture you will know that without a lady officially giving a nod, no other traditional marriage process including brideprice will go on.

Theevilone:


Hey this last paragraph about land is not done here

😅 it’s not a tradition don’t get me wrong it was just them family that insisted that they most contribute to the burial and this is not a joke they took it very seriously..threatening to take back the land

izzou:
I agree with the judge.

But what kind of man marries a woman for 23 years, without settling with the family?

23 years, and you could not pay bride price?

Check all does years they have been together the man is seeing what makes him not to pay dairy

Armaggedon:
pig 🐷
If you have a culture you will know that without a lady officially giving a nod, no other traditional marriage process including brideprice will go on.

It is your father, mother and generations that are pigs you untrained, uncouth, barbaric and mannerless dolt.

Armaggedon:
which judge? he is called a magistrate not a judge. His bluff ends in Ondo and is unenforceable beyond there. Even if the real husband decides not to enforce his right in a court, he can simply take the children to his own state and live with the wife happily and legally.

When you go home, start sleeping with your mother and sisters so they can become your wife's. Mountain goat!

Look at this product of incest! You're nothing but an inbreed. That is why you can't control the urge to talk like a lunatic.

Taylor94:
Everybody with wetin dey worry am



Me na cheap olosho I dey find like this

LOCATION,MAYBE AFI WAYA SOME GIRLS

Igbo Custom

On Bride Price


Wicked, Evil Ungodly,

dragunov:


Look at this product of incest! You're nothing but an inbreeding. That is why you can't control the urge to talk like a lunatic.

e pain am
You guys are raised as pigs 🐖 and born throwaway without proper family background and we are determined to civilize you.

Marriage is a very serious business that lasts for a lifetime. You need to learn that with your magistrate who is obviously a product of your tragic culture of promiscuity.

DeipTruth:


Broke guys asking stupid questions. If you’leave them alone. It’s that simple. Haven’t you noticed that the Igbo tribe have the least of divorce and a case of men absconding the marriage.

I remember a news where a stupid husband abandoned the wife with triplets at the hospital and ran away, if that useless man spent about 2m to marry that woman, he wouldn’t have ever ever taught of abandoning his wife and three babies.

I appreciate that tradition because it protects women from wicked men.
That shit is common with the yorubas and Hausas reason you see almajiris and Yoruba women with no husband but most of them have at leastbbish cultureless people talking about that useless bitter judge h complaining.

sb is asking a earnest question and you resort to insult. I can see you are not ok upstairs. Your mother didnt train you for you lack manners. This is how you will behave in your husband house, when he throws you out, you say its the devil. Dirty bitch

Armaggedon:
e pain am
You guys are raised as pigs 🐖 and born throwaway without proper family background and we are determined to civilize you.

Marriage is a very serious business that lasts for a lifetime. You need to learn that with your magistrate who is obviously a product of your tragic culture of promiscuity.

Bozos everywhere!

safetyInspector:
How can a child grow without knowing his/her fathet if the father did not deny the pregnancy? The child can only not bear the father's surname until bride price is paid.

In other places of the world, if you pregnant a lady without marrying her, the child is yours. But in Igboland, once you did not marry her, the child is not your own. I think is a very stupid culture. How can you deny me my blood?

If you agree with a girl that you want a child with her without marriage and after child's birth the girl handover the child to you, the family will respect her decision. If you tricked a girl for a child, you will end up being the biological father only.

DestinyNigga:


In other places of the world, if you pregnant a lady without marrying her, the child is yours. But in Igboland, once you did not marry her, the child is not your own. I think is a very stupid culture. How can you deny me my blood?

Mitsurugi:



Why not do the right thing by the girl's family? Did the Prophet pick the Prophetess from the road? Everyone comes from a family and even if you choose to live a life of shame the family will not. Maybe the new husband did the right thing and was recognized by the woman's family as their son in law and father to their grandchildren.

You should check the old tradition of marrying a dead girl you've been f.cking and living with (or had children with) till she died. You must marry her properly before you bury her.

They might sound awry but most of these laws were to check the promiscuous and debased life we're contemporarily living. Let's call a spade a spade

You guys are just talking nonsense.There are so many igbo girls that got pregnant to men from another tribe,though they did not get married but the baby father is taking responsibility of the children,are you now saying if the baby mama married to another man,the children authomatically belongs to the new man?
Abeg

livinbygrace:


You guys are just talking nonsense.There are so many igbo girls that got pregnant to men from another tribe,though they did not get married but the baby father is taking responsibility of the children,are you now saying if the baby mama married to another man,the children authomatically belongs to the new man?
Abeg

Okay

Advancedman:


You be FOOL AND SLAVE

Just like your father

safetyInspector:
If you agree with a girl that you want a child with her without marriage and after child's birth the girl handover the child to you, the family will respect her decision. If you tricked a girl for a child, you will end up being the biological father only.

In Yorubaland, the father is the owner of the child. There's nothing u will do about it. We need to change this our useless Igbo culture. Thank God that the Ondo judge did the right thing by not denying the man his children. Am super excited!

DeipTruth:


Broke guys asking stupid questions. If you’re not ready to marry Igbo women leave them alone. It’s that simple. Haven’t you noticed that the Igbo tribe have the least of divorce and a case of men absconding the marriage.

I remember a news where a stupid husband abandoned the wife with triplets at the hospital and ran away, if that useless man spent about 2m to marry that woman, he wouldn’t have ever ever taught of abandoning his wife and three babies.

I appreciate that tradition because it protects women from wicked men.
That shit is common with the yorubas and Hausas reason you see almajiris and Yoruba women with no husband but most of them have at least 2kids at home. Rubbish cultureless people talking about barbaric culture.

Thunder will fire that useless bitter judge and every person that has a problem with the Igbo tradition. After all their men aren’t even complaining.

There are no broke married Ibo men?
Or all married Ibos married with 2 million naira?
Why do you people like to deceive yourselves
Ibos are now the richest Nigerians

The number one problem you people have is your penchant for total self deception

This woman that open her legs and produced babies for 23 years is she not Ibo? Is she the only one?

Do not go an impregnate a Yoruba girl and expecting ownership without any form of commitment. Court of law will always award child custody to their mother and mandates you to pay child's support for him/her. This ruling is because of the change of the children's name to the new husband which is also still wrong in Igbo's tradition. Those children belongs to the girls family not the new husband.

DestinyNigga:


In Yorubaland, the father is the owner of the child. There's nothing u will do about it. We need to change this our useless Igbo culture. Thank God that the Ondo judge did the right thing by not denying the man his children. Am super excited!

safetyInspector:
Do not go an impregnate a Yoruba girl and expecting ownership without any form of commitment. Court of law will always award child custody to their mother and mandates you to pay child's support for him/her. This ruling is because of the change of the children's name to the new husband which is also still wrong in Igbo's tradition. Those children belongs to the girls family not the new husband.

I have lived in Yorubaland for almost 15 years. Now listen let me tell you about their culture cuz am not gonna repeat it again. Once you give a Yoruba gurl belle, everybody, even the girl will be calling u "Okomi" which means my "husband". No child in Yorubaland that want to be called "Omale" which means "Bastard". So ur child will come to you if you did not fund him. That's all about their culture. As for ownership of a child in Igbo culture, if you did not marry the lady and she gave birth, the child belongs to the family. In some town, the man that later marry the lady will automatically own the child. While in some, the family will become the permanent owner!!

No child in Igbo land is a bastard unless the girl didn't know the father due to multiple relationships or the father denied the child. Impregnating girls at reckless abandon is not our culture and it is not a culture of many ethnic groups also.

DestinyNigga:


I have lived in Yorubaland for almost 15 years. Now listen let me tell you about their culture cuz am not gonna repeat it again. Once you give a Yoruba gurl belle, everybody, even the girl will be calling u "Okomi" which means my "husband". No child in Yorubaland that want to be called "Omale" which means "Bastard". So ur child will come to you if you did not fund him. That's all about their culture. As for ownership of a child in Igbo culture, if you did not marry the lady and she gave birth, the child belongs to the family. In some town, the man that later marry the lady will automatically own the child. While in some, the family will become the permanent owner!!

Jennyclay:
The prophetess must have gone through hell for the past 23 years in the hands of her husband reason she has to end that deadly marriage reason she even had to take her kids along.

Nigerian men will beat their wife to coma.
Nigerian men will rape their wife and they would gladly tell you there’s nothing like rape in marriage. Very sick and disgusting men .

Nigerian men won’t even provide and take good care of their wife and children.

Take a look at the case of that gospel singer, Osinachi. Assuming she left that monster of a husband, she would have been alive till now.

madam these not what we want to hear from u

Don't be one sided saying Nigerian men this and that,rather say the truth bcus what ure saying didn't attached to what is here

DestinyNigga:


I have lived in Yorubaland for almost 15 years. Now listen let me tell you about their culture cuz am not gonna repeat it again. Once you give a Yoruba gurl belle, everybody, even the girl will be calling u "Okomi" which means my "husband". No child in Yorubaland that want to be called "Omale" which means "Bastard". So ur child will come to you if you did not fund him. That's all about their culture. As for ownership of a child in Igbo culture, if you did not marry the lady and she gave birth, the child belongs to the family. In some town, the man that later marry the lady will automatically own the child. While in some, the family will become the permanent owner!!

smshh

ForestHill:
Logically, could this be the reason Igbo women stays married more than 90% of all the tribes combined?

make I no talk

DestinyNigga:


I have lived in Yorubaland for almost 15 years. Now listen let me tell you about their culture cuz am not gonna repeat it again. Once you give a Yoruba gurl belle, everybody, even the girl will be calling u "Okomi" which means my "husband". No child in Yorubaland that want to be called "Omale" which means "Bastard". So ur child will come to you if you did not fund him. That's all about their culture. As for ownership of a child in Igbo culture, if you did not marry the lady and she gave birth, the child belongs to the family. In some town, the man that later marry the lady will automatically own the child. While in some, the family will become the permanent owner!!

Very stupid and ignorant talk
A
Who is the father of those babies from baby factories

You people like to hold on to a narcissistic view of yourselves which is far from reality
Just last month we heard of one secondary school in Igboland where there girls were impregnated by one guy.

Yet you like to pretend you are better than others
Yet teenagers are getting pregnant all over Igboland.

The only customary law recognised in Ondo state is Yoruba Customary Law