Oluwashina72:
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks

You better be wise! The bolded says a lot. There are so many men out there that were told this same thing and are now struggling, and the woman who is now the wife is the main “pressure point” at home. Worse is that children are now involved in the union.

If she’s not contributing in a substantial way financially to lift you both out of poverty, you better take your time. It is better to be struggling as a single man than to be struggling as a married man with extra mouths to feed. Na manage una go use put food for table or pay rent and other bills?

I pity you… if you like no get sense.

ebenezerdaniel:
Am happily married to a single mother and I never regretted doing that.

Lol

Are you truly happy?
So you sooo undesirable to single ladies to the extent you had to settle down and being comfortably proud of marrying a single mum?
We have really sank low as men

Run for your life bro, a word is enough for the wise ✌️

Oluwashina72:
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks

If she's industrious.,smart, loving and someone that has plan for her life, then i will advice you to go for her.

Not all single mum are bad as we portray them in this part of the world.
Some are just victim of circumstances, they never wish to be in such postion na guys like me and you make them what they are now.

I can tell you for a fact and from experience that she will give you the best love, care and attention and do anything to make you happy.. Guy go for her you won't regret it but if you know you won't love her or you don't like her let her be.

Lest i forget., if na the single mother from a yahoo boy.., abeg run.., those ones dey open shop/mall between there legs after dem don born. Na my 1 cent be that.

talented321:
When i visit home after 8years, all my class are now mothers with 4 to 2 children..
Even the little girls now have fallen breasts..
Manchi don really age, also the boys very tall with their girlfriends and looking good..
Op been a single mom is not a stigma, go for what is good for u. Single mom also make good wives and i have experienced alot.. But if the baby dad is alive then u have to becareful not to raise another man's kid

once the baby daddy is alive, Op,will definitely regret it.


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SonofGod231:

Mumu...It means, she's young and still hot.
Stopping using your myopic and dwarfed brain all the time.
Op, don't miss a good woman because she's a single mum.

you are still a kid

okoroemeka:
what I know is that the lady in question has seen the importance of having a man in her life and will not joke if given a chance to stay with one,go ahead and settle down with her,the journey of a thousand kilometers starts with a step

dey play

rickleye:



Regret what ?
Questions to ask is that is she going somewhere.
Is she working , is she learning trade to work .
Is the father in the picture ?
You don’t know the cards in place - I hope you have more kids but at the moment . You love her and all her mistakes.
There are millions of single parents who are making things work. So having a child is not a curse.
Does she make you happy and are you compatible ?

nonsense

emmaodet:


Lol

Are you truly happy?
So you sooo undesirable to single ladies to the extent you had to settle down and being comfortably proud of marrying a single mum?
We have really sank low as men

imagine the pride in his foolery😆😆

SonofGod231:

Mumu...It means, she's young and still hot.
Stopping using your myopic and dwarfed brain all the time.
Op, don't miss a good woman because she's a single mum.

You are a fool how old are u ?
Am telling you from experience and besides he requested for ideas 💡 which we all can't think in same direction.

Stay your lane bro the OP should go ahead and message me later again in the future for help

Tayorshd87:
She is just looking for a place to keep her head at least u can feed her and cloth her with the little u have and that's why she said she will manage but like seriously na trap she will frustrate y0u ..

Now think of it how can a 25years old lady have 6years baby as a single mother 🤔

Meaning since 19years years she don dey bleep 🤔
My guy run for your life oo

We no fit say, e fit be say na one chance she enter for love. But she suppose explain to the guy how things take happen. I no fit call her LovePeddler because of one mistake.

Tayorshd87:


You are a fool how old are u ?
Am telling you from experience and besides he requested for ideas 💡 which we all can't think in same direction.

Stay your lane bro the OP should go ahead and message me later again in the future for help

"What if " still remain a clause in this matter. Lets not be quick to conclude that water taste the same. We both know that's not true.

almarthins:


"What if " still remain a clause in this matter. Lets not be quick to conclude that water taste the same. We both know that's not true.

It's not hard to see heads with no brains.
Please,leave them with their ridiculous generalization. I don't banter with total airheads.

Idiot. So no single ladies again. Na single parent u wan rush put.ode

I had bad experience with one. Only go with a single mother if the husband is dead!
You still have more responsibilities aside your wife cheating with her baby daddy

Oluwashina72:
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks

Wotoporiously speaking

No worry with time you go understand why them dey use hot water make garri.

Jonzing nigga

Most single mum don't neccessarily seek for love but support. And can be gotten from anyone at any point in time, ready to render that support. Not always healthy relationship...

There are few exceptions

Oluwashina72:
I'm 28 she's single mother 25years. 6 years old child.. I need someone too and since no one is showing up, she seems serious so I'm thinking of going for her.. Won't I regret it in any way? The child stays with parent..
I'm been open to her that I'm still struggling and she accepts to be my partner even if na to manage till we get better...
Gurus in the house should help op look into this and advise please thanks

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GVTAsiwaju:
Most single mum don't neccessarily seek for love but support. And can be gotten from anyone at any point in time, ready to render that support. Not always healthy relationship...

There are few exceptions

that's the fact

Oh boy who give you old man sense? Or are you talking from experience?
You have to use your brain sha. Some single mothers are really good because they have learnt their lessons.

Khd95:
25 and a single mother of 6 year old child, have you asked what her story is and how she ended up a single mother?

I am not saying all single mothers are bad , but be careful my guy, most times it doesn’t end well, the baby daddy can show up anytime and irrespective of what you have committed to her and the relationship she can still switch sides because Wetin join her and the the baby together strong pass Wetin join una two

Single mothers are better than serial abortionists tho