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I Need Your Advice Please by wondarkid: 6:28pm On Oct 19, 2023
My dad was treated for haematuria as he was peeing out blood and at a time he found it difficult to pee ,I had to rush him to general hospital where had a catheter insert in him to pass out urine.

He was on Admission for a week before he had a clear urine and was discharged with the catheter still in his bladder ,everything was okay after like weeks he started peeing blood again through his catheter,I had to take him back to the hospital and the same procedure was done ,the doctor said he had gross haematuria ,he did some test ,his PSA was checked

The doctor said it might be cancerous so he was adviced to do a Postrate biopsy,which was done and it was confirmed he has no cancer and nothing cancerous but he had benign (BPH) enlarged Postrate

The doctor advised we do a prostratectomy surgery to remove his Postrate so he can have peace of mind ,my dad is 67 and I know the effect of the surgery comes with erectile dysfunction

I want to ask if anyone has experience this ?? And is prostactetomy a good solution to his condition??
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Adekot: 7:24pm On Oct 19, 2023
wondarkid:
My dad was treated for haematuria as he was peeing out blood and at a time he found it difficult to pee ,I had to rush him to general hospital where had a catheter insert in him to pass out urine.

He was on Admission for a week before he had a clear urine and was discharged with the catheter still in his bladder ,everything was okay after like weeks he started peeing blood again through his catheter,I had to take him back to the hospital and the same procedure was done ,the doctor said he had gross haematuria ,he did some test ,his PSA was checked

The doctor said it might be cancerous so he was adviced to do a Postrate biopsy,which was done and it was confirmed he has no cancer and nothing cancerous but he had benign (BPH) enlarged Postrate

The doctor advised we do a prostratectomy surgery to remove his Postrate so he can have peace of mind ,my dad is 67 and I know the effect of the surgery comes with erectile dysfunction

I want to ask if anyone has experience this ?? And is prostactetomy a good solution to his condition??



May God heal your dad

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Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Ballzproblemm: 7:32pm On Oct 19, 2023
wondarkid:
My dad was treated for haematuria as he was peeing out blood and at a time he found it difficult to pee ,I had to rush him to general hospital where had a catheter insert in him to pass out urine.

He was on Admission for a week before he had a clear urine and was discharged with the catheter still in his bladder ,everything was okay after like weeks he started peeing blood again through his catheter,I had to take him back to the hospital and the same procedure was done ,the doctor said he had gross haematuria ,he did some test ,his PSA was checked

The doctor said it might be cancerous so he was adviced to do a Postrate biopsy,which was done and it was confirmed he has no cancer and nothing cancerous but he had benign (BPH) enlarged Postrate

The doctor advised we do a prostratectomy surgery to remove his Postrate so he can have peace of mind ,my dad is 67 and I know the effect of the surgery comes with erectile dysfunction

I want to ask if anyone has experience this ?? And is prostactetomy a good solution to his condition??
is he still fucking that he is concerned about erection? omo let him save his life

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Re: I Need Your Advice Please by mekus15: 7:35pm On Oct 19, 2023
May God intervene in his situation
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Ginaz(f): 8:37pm On Oct 19, 2023
if he dies, would he be able to have sex in the grave?

let him save his life first biko, what you're worried about seems so stupid right now.

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Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Laird(m): 8:44pm On Oct 19, 2023
wondarkid:
My dad was treated for haematuria as he was peeing out blood and at a time he found it difficult to pee ,I had to rush him to general hospital where had a catheter insert in him to pass out urine.

He was on Admission for a week before he had a clear urine and was discharged with the catheter still in his bladder ,everything was okay after like weeks he started peeing blood again through his catheter,I had to take him back to the hospital and the same procedure was done ,the doctor said he had gross haematuria ,he did some test ,his PSA was checked

The doctor said it might be cancerous so he was adviced to do a Postrate biopsy,which was done and it was confirmed he has no cancer and nothing cancerous but he had benign (BPH) enlarged Postrate

The doctor advised we do a prostratectomy surgery to remove his Postrate so he can have peace of mind ,my dad is 67 and I know the effect of the surgery comes with erectile dysfunction

I want to ask if anyone has experience this ?? And is prostactetomy a good solution to his condition??

Possibilities;

Bladder Carcinoma

Prostate Problems

Past history.of trauma

Plan

- Consultant Urologist Review
- Cystoscopy
- Prostate Biopsy ( done)
-Prostate scan

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Re: I Need Your Advice Please by ImmanuelMyron(m): 8:46pm On Oct 19, 2023
None of us have experience it and we won't in jesus name! May God Heal Ya Dad Bro. SHALOM!

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Re: I Need Your Advice Please by wittywriter: 8:52pm On Oct 19, 2023
Adekot:




May God heal your dad


ImmanuelMyron:
None of us have experience it and we won't in jesus name!
May God Heal Ya Dad Bro. SHALOM!





Wittyness.
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Gentlesoul2021(m): 8:55pm On Oct 19, 2023
ImmanuelMyron:
None of us have experience it and we won't in jesus name!
May God Heal Ya Dad Bro. SHALOM!

Lol 😂😆 amen ooo... What in the name is he asking us.... Abeg oo
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by wondarkid: 10:12pm On Oct 19, 2023
Amen thanks everyone
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by wondarkid: 10:13pm On Oct 19, 2023
Adekot:




May God heal your dad
amen
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by wondarkid: 10:14pm On Oct 19, 2023
Ballzproblemm:
is he still fucking that he is concerned about erection? omo let him save his life
he is not worried about that

I’m just asking the surgery is a good thing ??
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Homeboiy: 10:21pm On Oct 19, 2023
wondarkid:
My dad was treated for haematuria as he was peeing out blood and at a time he found it difficult to pee ,I had to rush him to general hospital where had a catheter insert in him to pass out urine.

He was on Admission for a week before he had a clear urine and was discharged with the catheter still in his bladder ,everything was okay after like weeks he started peeing blood again through his catheter,I had to take him back to the hospital and the same procedure was done ,the doctor said he had gross haematuria ,he did some test ,his PSA was checked

The doctor said it might be cancerous so he was adviced to do a Postrate biopsy,which was done and it was confirmed he has no cancer and nothing cancerous but he had benign (BPH) enlarged Postrate

The doctor advised we do a prostratectomy surgery to remove his Postrate so he can have peace of mind ,my dad is 67 and I know the effect of the surgery comes with erectile dysfunction

I want to ask if anyone has experience this ?? And is prostactetomy a good solution to his condition??

Exactly what is happening to my dad
He just returned from the hospital for the 2nd time in 2 years, same issue

Go herbal
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Bintabisiriyu2: 10:23pm On Oct 19, 2023
That's a lot of big big grammar there, but sha do anything necessary to save his life and make him to be happy again.
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by wondarkid: 10:26pm On Oct 19, 2023
Homeboiy:


Exactly what is happening to my dad
He just returned from the hospital for the 2nd time in 2 years, same issue

Go herbal
enlarge prostrate ??
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by DyingFetus: 1:41am On Oct 20, 2023
Your papa get another family somewhere


Do enquires and find out your half siblings
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Obierika(m): 4:30am On Oct 20, 2023
wondarkid:
My dad was treated for haematuria as he was peeing out blood and at a time he found it difficult to pee ,I had to rush him to general hospital where had a catheter insert in him to pass out urine.

He was on Admission for a week before he had a clear urine and was discharged with the catheter still in his bladder ,everything was okay after like weeks he started peeing blood again through his catheter,I had to take him back to the hospital and the same procedure was done ,the doctor said he had gross haematuria ,he did some test ,his PSA was checked

The doctor said it might be cancerous so he was adviced to do a Postrate biopsy,which was done and it was confirmed he has no cancer and nothing cancerous but he had benign (BPH) enlarged Postrate

The doctor advised we do a prostratectomy surgery to remove his Postrate so he can have peace of mind ,my dad is 67 and I know the effect of the surgery comes with erectile dysfunction

I want to ask if anyone has experience this ?? And is prostactetomy a good solution to his condition??


I think you would have received more meaningful contributions if you had posted this in the Health Section
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Jewessgratitud3: 5:54am On Oct 20, 2023
Your dad's life is at stake and all you're concerned about is erection? No be who get himself dey have sex in the first place?

Please, life first. @67, I don't know what he still wants to continue doing with sex wey he don use produce a grown responsible man like you. Let the thing rest make baba stay alive and enjoy his old age in peace. Biko

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Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Homeboiy: 3:19pm On Oct 20, 2023
wondarkid:
enlarge prostrate ??

Yes
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Foodqueen(f): 3:58pm On Oct 20, 2023
Remove anything removable to make him live long.

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Re: I Need Your Advice Please by Rossycares(f): 6:37pm On Oct 20, 2023
Go for TURP instead, they won't hv to cut him open.
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by K33fK0zaRt: 12:20am On Oct 21, 2023
wondarkid:
My dad was treated for haematuria as he was peeing out blood and at a time he found it difficult to pee ,I had to rush him to general hospital where had a catheter insert in him to pass out urine.

He was on Admission for a week before he had a clear urine and was discharged with the catheter still in his bladder ,everything was okay after like weeks he started peeing blood again through his catheter,I had to take him back to the hospital and the same procedure was done ,the doctor said he had gross haematuria ,he did some test ,his PSA was checked

The doctor said it might be cancerous so he was adviced to do a Postrate biopsy,which was done and it was confirmed he has no cancer and nothing cancerous but he had benign (BPH) enlarged Postrate

The doctor advised we do a prostratectomy surgery to remove his Postrate so he can have peace of mind ,my dad is 67 and I know the effect of the surgery comes with erectile dysfunction

I want to ask if anyone has experience this ?? And is prostactetomy a good solution to his condition??
bro my dad had the same issue. But he's been managing it with supplements, please I wouldn't encourage surgery. Please do due diligence. Are you in Lagos?
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by rickleye: 1:45am On Oct 21, 2023
wondarkid:
My dad was treated for haematuria as he was peeing out blood and at a time he found it difficult to pee ,I had to rush him to general hospital where had a catheter insert in him to pass out urine.

He was on Admission for a week before he had a clear urine and was discharged with the catheter still in his bladder ,everything was okay after like weeks he started peeing blood again through his catheter,I had to take him back to the hospital and the same procedure was done ,the doctor said he had gross haematuria ,he did some test ,his PSA was checked

The doctor said it might be cancerous so he was adviced to do a Postrate biopsy,which was done and it was confirmed he has no cancer and nothing cancerous but he had benign (BPH) enlarged Postrate

The doctor advised we do a prostratectomy surgery to remove his Postrate so he can have peace of mind ,my dad is 67 and I know the effect of the surgery comes with erectile dysfunction

I want to ask if anyone has experience this ?? And is prostactetomy a good solution to his condition??

I would advise to remove the prostrate.
Just had it removed for an uncle.
He’s about 77 and his last sexual encounter was 5 years ago. He can have an erection just that he can’t gather any kids.
The surgery will SAVE HIS LIFE.
Go for it !!!!!

We had an option to use medicine. I objected as you do not know how far it’s metasized to or spread . The cheaper option is of course medicine. Listen to your doctor and it doesn’t hurt to get a second opinion.
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by wondarkid: 7:31am On Oct 21, 2023
K33fK0zaRt:
bro my dad had the same issue. But he's been managing it with supplements, please I wouldn't encourage surgery. Please do due diligence. Are you in Lagos?
yes I am And what supplements have you been using ?? And is he on catheter??
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by wondarkid: 7:32am On Oct 21, 2023
Rossycares:
Go for TURP instead, they won't hv to cut him open.
how much does it cost ?
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by wondarkid: 7:34am On Oct 21, 2023
rickleye:


I would advise to remove the prostrate.
Just had it removed for an uncle.
He’s about 77 and his last sexual encounter was 5 years ago. He can have an erection just that he can’t gather any kids.
The surgery will SAVE HIS LIFE.
Go for it !!!!!

We had an option to use medicine. I objected as you do not know how far it’s metasized to or spread . The cheaper option is of course medicine. Listen to your doctor and it doesn’t hurt to get a second opinion.
okay so prostatectomy is safe ?? And doesn’t have other complications??

How is your uncle now ??
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by wondarkid: 7:37am On Oct 21, 2023
rickleye:


I would advise to remove the prostrate.
Just had it removed for an uncle.
He’s about 77 and his last sexual encounter was 5 years ago. He can have an erection just that he can’t gather any kids.
The surgery will SAVE HIS LIFE.
Go for it !!!!!

We had an option to use medicine. I objected as you do not know how far it’s metasized to or spread . The cheaper option is of course medicine. Listen to your doctor and it doesn’t hurt to get a second opinion.
you are right the surgery will cost a huge amount of money
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by rickleye: 7:42am On Oct 21, 2023
wondarkid:
okay so prostatectomy is safe ?? And doesn’t have other complications??

How is your uncle now ??

Uncle is fine. He had a church thanksgiving ceremony on his recovery. Always grateful for our support . The whole family
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by wondarkid: 7:47am On Oct 21, 2023
rickleye:


Uncle is fine. He had a church thanksgiving ceremony on his recovery. Always grateful for our support . The whole family
wow after the surgery was the catheter removed ?? And how long was his recovery from the surgery ?
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by rickleye: 7:53am On Oct 21, 2023
wondarkid:
okay so prostatectomy is safe ?? And doesn’t have other complications??

How is your uncle now ??

There always complications but it depends on the growth , likely cancerous that needs to be removed . They remove testicles so that it doesn’t continue to produce sperm which needs fluid from prostate gland.
So what they do is this
1. Take a scan and biopsy of the growth . ( they will likely push an object in his anus .
2. Once they get a piece of growth it’s taking to land .
3. It’s looked at physically and then analyzed ( forgotten tech terms)
4. If it’s cancerous they would advise for it to be removed and then remove testicles to avoid spreading .
5. He will need blood - then surgery is bloody . It will take 3-5 hours . M
6. He will need to have a catheter to help him pee
7 . He will need a carry the bag along etc.

Honestly at the early stage medicine too late . Go for surgery
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by rickleye: 7:55am On Oct 21, 2023
wondarkid:
wow after the surgery was the catheter removed ?? And how long was his recovery from the surgery ?

Yep I forced him to stay 2 weeks after but really after a few days 3 days he will get restless. The catheter stays the whole 14 days.
The doctor would scan the area to make sure that everything was removed and healing well. After which the catheter and bag will be removed .
Re: I Need Your Advice Please by wondarkid: 8:00am On Oct 21, 2023
rickleye:


There always complications but it depends on the growth , likely cancerous that needs to be removed . They remove testicles so that it doesn’t continue to produce sperm which needs fluid from prostate gland.
So what they do is this
1. Take a scan and biopsy of the growth . ( they will likely push an object in his anus .
2. Once they get a piece of growth it’s taking to land .
3. It’s looked at physically and then analyzed ( forgotten tech terms)
4. If it’s cancerous they would advise for it to be removed and then remove testicles to avoid spreading .
5. He will need blood - then surgery is bloody . It will take 3-5 hours . M
6. He will need to have a catheter to help him pee
7 . He will need a carry the bag along etc.

Honestly at the early stage medicine too late . Go for surgery
thank you so much ,he has done the biopsy and it’s not cancerous but he has severe haematuria like it keeps reoccurring and it’s always money for admission

We were adviced to go for
The surgery as a lasting solution

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