Psychologists say our self-worth is often based upon what we believe the most important people in our lives think of us—a parent, a spouse, a friend, or a mentor. The problem is that sooner or later people say something that cuts like a knife and brings heartache and pain, or they show by their actions that we’re not really that important. If we’re receiving our value and worth only from those who hurt us, we’ll likely feel inferior, insecure, and less and less valuable over time.

"For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago."

The key to gaining a true sense of value is to let your Heavenly Father be the most important person in your life. If you listen to what He says about you, you’ll feel accepted, approved, redeemed, forgiven, confident, and secure. You will feel extremely valuable, and that’s exactly the way God wants you to be, His masterpiece. You’ve been custom-made, one of a kind. You’re not average or ordinary. God created you in His very own image. And that is exactly how you should see yourself.

Right, don't let someone else tell you your worth unless the someone else is the god I believe in then it is ok to let someone else tell you your worth. LoLz.

LordReed:
Right, don't let someone else tell you your worth unless the someone else is the god I believe in then it is ok to let someone else tell you your worth. LoLz.

Thank you for your thoughts. It's essential to remember that our worth is ultimately defined by our relationship with the divine. However, it's also vital to be discerning about who we allow to influence our sense of worth, ensuring they align with the values and teachings of God. His love and guidance should always be our primary source of self-worth.

And it is of utmost importance to place our faith only in the one true God Almighty, the Creator of all things. The ultimate source of truth, love, and guidance. The all-knowing, all-powerful, and the Creator of the universe. The one who is truly deserving of our devotion and worship.

By placing our faith solely in Him, we find unwavering purpose, strength, and a path to eternal salvation.

abbasstory:

By placing our faith solely in Him, we find unwavering purpose, strength, and a path to eternal salvation.

Jesus has the final say!

MaxInDHouse:


Jesus has the final say!

Thank you for the profound reminder that our salvation is in Jesus' loving hands, and He is the way, the truth, and the life. This underscores His centrality in our journey toward eternal salvation and when we entrust our faith to God, we are following the path paved by Christ's teachings, sacrifice, and grace. Thank you

abbasstory:

Thank you for the profound reminder that our salvation is in Jesus' loving hands, and He is the way, the truth, and the life. John 14:6
This underscores His centrality in our journey toward eternal salvation and when we entrust our faith to God, we are following the path paved by Christ's teachings, sacrifice, and grace. Thank you

Well i said that because Jesus authoritatively told a dying man beside him:

"Today you will be with me in paradise" Luke 23:43

He also told a disciple:

“I am the resurrection and the life. The one who exercises faith in me, even though he dies, will come to life; and everyone who is living and exercises faith in me will never die at all. Do you believe this?” John 11:25-26

Finally Jesus resurrected after dying for three days and said:

“All authority has been given me in heaven and on the earth." Matthew 28:18

Certainly this man has the final say, i will forever do whatever he ask me to!

LordReed:
Right, don't let someone else tell you your worth unless the someone else is the god I believe in then it is ok to let someone else tell you your worth. LoLz.

It's called reference point, duh. For example, Nigeria cannot just say naira is equal to dollar, there are indices. facepalm. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

MaxInDHouse:


Well i said that because Jesus authoritatively told a dying man beside him:

"Today you will be with me in paradise" Luke 23:43

He also told a disciple:

“I am the resurrection and the life. The one who exercises faith in me, even though he dies, will come to life; and everyone who is living and exercises faith in me will never die at all. Do you believe this?” John 11:25-26

Finally Jesus resurrected after dying for three days and said:

“All authority has been given me in heaven and on the earth." Matthew 28:18

Certainly this man has the final say, i will forever do whatever he ask me to!

Your faith is a testament to your commitment. May God continue to strengthen and uphold you brother

abbasstory:

Your faith is a testament to your commitment. May God continue to strengthen and uphold you brother

Amen in Jesus name!

An individual should have the final say over her self-worth. She shouldn't delegate that power to a fellow human(s). As social animals, many have done that, as psychological report shows.

Many have weaponized guilt and shame, and will gladly brandish that over another to have their way or inflict pain.

Having said that, we have to establish values to guide our daily actions.

This helps, so that we aren't the trigger for another's pain in family or society at large.

A Christian has a good example in Jesus Christ. As her way, truth and life (John. 14:6), as you pointed out.

Set targets, make progress regularly. Even when she fails, or falls (as she must for she isn't perfect) she bounces back ASAP.

When she really learns from the recent mistake, the next fall will be a longer interval.

Even those who want to brandish guilt and shame over her, will be amazed that her confidence and happiness is still top notch.

The secret?

The Christian absolutely believes that her Heavenly Father is Love (1 John 4:8

With Love.

abbasstory:
Psychologists say our self-worth is often based upon what we believe the most important people in our lives think of us—a parent, a spouse, a friend, or a mentor. The problem is that sooner or later people say something that cuts like a knife and brings heartache and pain, or they show by their actions that we’re not really that important. If we’re receiving our value and worth only from those who hurt us, we’ll likely feel inferior, insecure, and less and less valuable over time.

"For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago."

The key to gaining a true sense of value is to let your Heavenly Father be the most important person in your life. If you listen to what He says about you, you’ll feel accepted, approved, redeemed, forgiven, confident, and secure. You will feel extremely valuable, and that’s exactly the way God wants you to be, His masterpiece. You’ve been custom-made, one of a kind. You’re not average or ordinary. God created you in His very own image. And that is exactly how you should see yourself.

Absolutely, setting values based on our faith is essential for a purposeful and righteous life. It's the compass that keeps us on the right path. Thank you for your insightful contribution