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Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Brabdy: 12:46pm On Mar 31, 2018
It is unfortunates that many brethren don't understand the horrible consequence of fornication. It is a grievous sin, with greater consequences due to generational curses and blood covenant embedded within. That is reason why many life is in shackle in great mess. No marriage, barrenness, poverty, failure and backwardness.


1. Fornication Is Disobedience:

The first reason why you should not commit fornication is that it is disobedience to God. ...Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams, 1 Samuel 15:22. We are all subject to the temptation to fornicate. But the priority of every Christian must be to obey the Lord. If you do not obey God you stand to lose.

Obedience means more to God than any great sacrifice that you can make to Him. Some of you come to church, put your offering in the basket, pay your tithes, lift up your hands and worship His Majesty. You give sacrifices of praise to God. But God prefers your simple obedience to your many offerings and lifted hands.



2. Fornication Brings Evil Spirits Into Your Life:

...Babylon the great…is become the habitation of devils, and the hold of every foul spirit, and a cage of every unclean and hateful bird, Revelation 18:2. A stronghold of evil spirits is a refuge, a sanctuary or a hiding place for demons. Why did so many evil spirits come to live in Babylon? Why has Babylon become a hold of demons?
According to Revelations 18:3, For all nations have drunk of the wine of the wrath of her fornication, and the kings of the earth have committed fornication with her. The kings, the ministers of state, the rich and the famous have committed fornication with her. That is why evil spirits have come into her life.

Fornication attracts evil spirits into your life. This is so true of many Christians’ lives. Evil spirits have aggregated and congregated in them because of their fornication. When God says do not do something He knows why! Some of the evil spirits that come into you can prevent you from ever getting married. Some evil spirits can cause you to backslide. Some of them will cause you to marry the wrong person.

Some of them can cause you to have a bad marriage. Some of these evil spirits can also lead you into unfaithfulness in your marriage. The list is endless. Do you want to become a hiding place for demons?



3. Fornication Brings Unwanted Pregnancies:

Do you want to attend school with your child? When I was in secondary school, there was a man in the sixth form who was said to have a child in form one. How could this be? Probably due to an unwanted pregnancy earlier on in his life.



4. Fornication Brings Sickness:

There are a host of diseases that only come about through sexual intercourse. We call these STDs (sexually transmitted diseases). The germs that cause these diseases will have access into you when you commit fornication.

Let me mention only ten of them. (Please notice how big the names of these
“animals” are!):

Neisseria gonococcus this causes Gonorrhoea.
Treponema pallidum this causes Syphilis.
Chlamydia trachomatis this causes Non-Specific Urethritis.
Hepatitis “B” virus this causes Liver diseases.
Herpes simplex type II virus this causes Herpes Genitalis.
Trichomonas vaginalis this causes Vaginitis.
Lymphogranuloma venereum.
Haemophilus ducreyii this causes Soft Sore (Chancroid).
Urinary tract infection.
Cancer of the cervix frequent sex at an early age predisposes you to cancer of the cervix.

If you wait till you marry before having sex, you may save yourself from all these diseases. But if you continue to commit fornication, then remember that all these “animals’’ will enter your body and make you sick!

5. Fornication Brings Death:

Fornication will kill you if you acquire the Human Immuno Virus (HIV). Unless God works a miracle, you may die of AIDS. HIV is now a death sentence. It is sad to say that in the charismatic churches there are many Christians who are HIV positive. A laboratory technician once gave me some alarming statistics.

A team of lab technicians organized a blood donation event in a charismatic church and out of about a hundred people who donated blood, a large percentage tested positive for HIV. In other words, our churches have significant numbers of people with the HIV virus.

Fornicating with your fellow church member may mean your death! Those who are HIV positive can develop AIDS. And when you have AIDS, it means you have a few more years to live.

ALL YOU NEED IS JESUS.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Methodist4ever(m): 12:50pm On Mar 31, 2018
Supported.
Pre marital sex is bad.
The Bible said that no other sin affects the body than sexual sin.

Worthy is the lamb!
Halleluyah

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by taylor89(m): 12:50pm On Mar 31, 2018
Oga u cannot tell us not to think about sex








This country is too harsh to remove sex from its menu

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Primesky(m): 5:25pm On Mar 31, 2018
God bless you OP.

The truth is, sex is more of a spiritual act than a physical thing.

God's commandments regarding sex (how, when, with whom etc) is not to deny man pleasure, but to save man from known and yet to be known spiritual and physical consequences.

The easiest way the devil brings men and women down is through sex! Be careful.

If you are guilty, repent and seek forgiveness of God, let God give you a new start.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by frank317: 5:32pm On Mar 31, 2018
The thought of sex is an involuntary action that occurs in a normal adolescent.

Teach them to be responsible
Teach them the consequence of sex
Teach them it is a responsiblity
Teach them to do it only when they are ready

Dont teach them that sex is bad
Dont tell them it kills
Dont misinform them

Tell them the truth, guide them but let them make their own decision and face the outcome... everyone should be allowed to make mistakes and learn from it

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Adasun(m): 5:42pm On Mar 31, 2018
frank317:
The thought of sex is an involuntary action that occurs in a normal adolescent.

Teach them to be responsible
Teach them the consequence of sex
Teach them it is a responsiblity
Teach them to do it only when they are ready

Dont teach them that sex is bad
Dont tell them it kills
Dont misinform them

Tell them the truth, guide them but let them make their own decision and face the outcome... everyone should be allowed to make mistakes and learn from it
not when da mistake may creat an irreversible consequence(s)

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Butterflyleo: 5:50pm On Mar 31, 2018
frank317:
The thought of sex is an involuntary action that occurs in a normal adolescent.

Teach them to be responsible
Teach them the consequence of sex
Teach them it is a responsiblity
Teach them to do it only when they are ready

Dont teach them that sex is bad
Dont tell them it kills
Dont misinform them

Tell them the truth, guide them but let them make their own decision and face the outcome... everyone should be allowed to make mistakes and learn from it

What is the truth?

Does an atheist hold any definition for their subjective truth? You are an atheist so tell me what is truth?

So everyone should be allowed to make mistakes so they would learn from it right? What about MISTAKENLY killing someone, should they be allowed to make that mistake too?

How about DELIBERATELY aborting a baby which could have been avoided through abstinence? Should such a MISTAKE Be encouraged?

Oh and also this one, what about deliberately doing drugs, should SUCH MISTAKES be allowed as well so they would learn from them?

I need answers.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Butterflyleo: 5:54pm On Mar 31, 2018
Brabdy:
It is unfortunates that many brethren don't understand the horrible consequence of fornication. It is a grievous sin, with greater consequences due to generational curses and blood covenant embedded within. That is reason why many life is in shackle in great mess. No marriage, barrenness, poverty, failure and backwardness.


1. Fornication Is Disobedience:

The first reason why you should not commit fornication is that it is disobedience to God. ...Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams, 1 Samuel 15:22. We are all subject to the temptation to fornicate. But the priority of every Christian must be to obey the Lord. If you do not obey God you stand to lose.

Obedience means more to God than any great sacrifice that you can make to Him. Some of you come to church, put your offering in the basket, pay your tithes, lift up your hands and worship His Majesty. You give sacrifices of praise to God. But God prefers your simple obedience to your many offerings and lifted hands.



2. Fornication Brings Evil Spirits Into Your Life:

...Babylon the great…is become the habitation of devils, and the hold of every foul spirit, and a cage of every unclean and hateful bird, Revelation 18:2. A stronghold of evil spirits is a refuge, a sanctuary or a hiding place for demons. Why did so many evil spirits come to live in Babylon? Why has Babylon become a hold of demons?
According to Revelations 18:3, For all nations have drunk of the wine of the wrath of her fornication, and the kings of the earth have committed fornication with her. The kings, the ministers of state, the rich and the famous have committed fornication with her. That is why evil spirits have come into her life.

Fornication attracts evil spirits into your life. This is so true of many Christians’ lives. Evil spirits have aggregated and congregated in them because of their fornication. When God says do not do something He knows why! Some of the evil spirits that come into you can prevent you from ever getting married. Some evil spirits can cause you to backslide. Some of them will cause you to marry the wrong person.

Some of them can cause you to have a bad marriage. Some of these evil spirits can also lead you into unfaithfulness in your marriage. The list is endless. Do you want to become a hiding place for demons?



3. Fornication Brings Unwanted Pregnancies:

Do you want to attend school with your child? When I was in secondary school, there was a man in the sixth form who was said to have a child in form one. How could this be? Probably due to an unwanted pregnancy earlier on in his life.



4. Fornication Brings Sickness:

There are a host of diseases that only come about through sexual intercourse. We call these STDs (sexually transmitted diseases). The germs that cause these diseases will have access into you when you commit fornication.

Let me mention only ten of them. (Please notice how big the names of these
“animals” are!):

Neisseria gonococcus this causes Gonorrhoea.
Treponema pallidum this causes Syphilis.
Chlamydia trachomatis this causes Non-Specific Urethritis.
Hepatitis “B” virus this causes Liver diseases.
Herpes simplex type II virus this causes Herpes Genitalis.
Trichomonas vaginalis this causes Vaginitis.
Lymphogranuloma venereum.
Haemophilus ducreyii this causes Soft Sore (Chancroid).
Urinary tract infection.
Cancer of the cervix frequent sex at an early age predisposes you to cancer of the cervix.

If you wait till you marry before having sex, you may save yourself from all these diseases. But if you continue to commit fornication, then remember that all these “animals’’ will enter your body and make you sick!

5. Fornication Brings Death:

Fornication will kill you if you acquire the Human Immuno Virus (HIV). Unless God works a miracle, you may die of AIDS. HIV is now a death sentence. It is sad to say that in the charismatic churches there are many Christians who are HIV positive. A laboratory technician once gave me some alarming statistics.

A team of lab technicians organized a blood donation event in a charismatic church and out of about a hundred people who donated blood, a large percentage tested positive for HIV. In other words, our churches have significant numbers of people with the HIV virus.

Fornicating with your fellow church member may mean your death! Those who are HIV positive can develop AIDS. And when you have AIDS, it means you have a few more years to live.

ALL YOU NEED IS JESUS.

The only correction i wish to make OP is that sex is not the only way to contract HIV. Sharing sharp objects and being exposed to something already infected are other ways.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by frank317: 6:26pm On Mar 31, 2018
Adasun:
not when da mistake may creat an irreversible consequence(s)

Well... its still better than lying to them ansd telling them sex is bad... it might turn them to have abnormal sexual behaviours. If u train them well, u will not have to lie to them

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by CuteMadridista: 6:29pm On Mar 31, 2018
frank317:
The thought of sex is an involuntary action that occurs in a normal adolescent.

Teach them to be responsible
Teach them the consequence of sex
Teach them it is a responsiblity
Teach them to do it only when they are ready

Dont teach them that sex is bad
Dont tell them it kills
Dont misinform them

Tell them the truth, guide them but let them make their own decision and face the outcome... everyone should be allowed to make mistakes and learn from it

Thinking about sex is not normal, evil spirits are responsible for sex thoughts. Jesus never thought about sex and no true Christian should think about such an evil thing

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Adasun(m): 6:32pm On Mar 31, 2018
frank317:


Well... its still better than lying to them ansd telling them sex is bad... it might turn them to have abnormal sexual behaviours. If u train them well, u will not have to lie to them
quote those things da op said dat was a lie
Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by frank317: 6:42pm On Mar 31, 2018
Butterflyleo:


What is the truth?

Does an atheist hold any definition for their subjective truth? You are an atheist so tell me what is truth?

So everyone should be allowed to make mistakes so they would learn from it right? What about MISTAKENLY killing someone, should they be allowed to make that mistake too?

How about DELIBERATELY aborting a baby which could have been avoided through abstinence? Should such a MISTAKE Be encouraged?

Oh and also this one, what about deliberately doing drugs, should SUCH MISTAKES be allowed as well so they would learn from them?

I need answers.

The truth is what sex actually is.

An adolescent child usually has high libido and many questions. Lies such as "sex is bad" can turn them to problematic youths. It could cause secret over indulgece or acute avoidance.

The truth is why they should not have sex if they dont feel reponsible enough to handle the out come.

The truth is that sex might result in pregnancy, desease or heart break of either party involved

The truth is that u should understand urself better and knowing what u want before indulgin

The truth is that sex is good and sweet but comes with its responsibilities

The truth is that sex is not bad and does not necessarily kill if u can take care of urself.

The truth is that if u are careful enough, use protection and boyh love each other sex can be healthy and can boost self esteem.

Oga people make mistakes weather u allow them or not. Its better youths are well informed than to be lied to therefore being ignorant.

The mistake of an ignorant child is worst than the mistake of a knowledgeable child. Mistakes are something u cannot avoid... just inform them with the facts and let them be. Lying to them that sex kills is wrong.

I ddnt talk about abortion... so u think lying to a child that sex kills will make him avoid pregnancy? U think lying to a child will make him stop thinking of sex?

No... sex will be thought of, weather u lie of not... how ever ur lies can turn the child to have sexual disorders.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by frank317: 6:48pm On Mar 31, 2018
Adasun:
quote those things da op said dat was a lie

To start with..

- fornication brings evil spirit into ur life
- fornication is disobedience
- fornication brings death
- fornication brings sickness
- fornication brings unwanted pregnancies
- youths should not think of sex (this is impossible)

All these are lies

I started having sex at 18... i didnt die, i was not disobeying anyone, i didnt pregnant any one, i never fell sick, i always thought of sex as a youth.

Why? Because i was a reaponsible child.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by frank317: 6:49pm On Mar 31, 2018
CuteMadridista:


Thinking about sex is not normal, evil spirits are responsible for sex thoughts. Jesus never thought about sex and no true Christian should think about such an evil thing

Lol...jesus lived 30 years without having sex, not even an erection... is that one normal?

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Butterflyleo: 7:12pm On Mar 31, 2018
frank317:


The truth is what sex actually is.

I am not specifically asking about the truth per sex but truth generally. What is truth?

An adolescent child usually has high libido and many questions. Lies such as "sex is bad" can turn them to problematic youths. It could cause secret over indulgece or acute avoidance.

Fallacy of hasty generalisation. Not all adolescent children have a high sex drive. Sex indeed is bad and ADOLESCENTS who have no self responsibility regarding the bigger issues and deeper things of life such as unwanted pregnancies, prevalence of STDs and so on. So if sex isn't so bad why do people sneak around to partake in it? Perhaps we should be having it done on the streets openly. The fact remains that adolescents have no business engaging in sex outside marriage. Sex remains in a place of responsibility and not in a place of partial or no responsibility.

The truth is why they should not have sex if they dont feel reponsible enough to handle the out come.

No adolescent is responsible enough for such consequences when acted outside marriage. Go and ask any young lady who has a child outside wedlock about how she feels, she would surely tell you that she wishes she could turn back the hands of time but its too late for that. She cuts back her life, her desires, her dreams all because she could not keep her legs closed and this goes for the guys too. Do you even know how many people adolescent sex has ruined? How many futures have been dashed?

The truth is that sex might result in pregnancy, desease or heart break of either party involved

This is not the truth I seek. If you know that sex can cause unwanted pregnancies or deadly diceases why then do you want your adolescent child to gamble with it? This shows you to be a totally irresponsible father if you would not outrightly ban adolescent sex for your kid but encourage it in the name of telling them the truth so they can make their own irresponsible adolescent decisions despite you being an adult and a father to them. You are a failed parent.

The truth is that u should understand urself better and knowing what u want before indulgin

The truth is that sex is good and sweet but comes with its responsibilities

The truth is that sex is not bad and does not necessarily kill if u can take care of urself.

The truth is that if u are careful enough, use protection and boyh love each other sex can be healthy and can boost self esteem.

Why not cut to the chase. Why not simply encourage your adolescent child to have sex right in your presence and with whoever she or he feels like, after all it is healthy, it boosts self esteem, it is not bad, it wouldn't necessarily kill, it is good and sweet.

Why not ask them to have an orgy since there is nothing wrong or bad about adolescent sex. I am sure as a father you would be really proud watching your kid doing something that boosts his self esteem and that is good and sweet and that isn't bad and cannot necessarily kill, after all it wouldn't be bad for you to be in the same room cheering him on and even teaching him or her the various techniques to apply so as to make it sweeter or that can boost their self esteem even more right? grin

Oga people make mistakes weather u allow them or not. Its better youths are well informed than to be lied to therefore being ignorant.

The reason why in law ignorance is not an excuse is because there is an already existing information source out there and one of such an information source is a parent. What parents know and have experienced which are seen as bad, they are expected to guide their children in such a manner as to avoid such but here you are being a very terrible atheist father.

The mistake of an ignorant child is worst than the mistake of a knowledgeable child. Mistakes are something u cannot avoid... just inform them with the facts and let them be. Lying to them that sex kills is wrong.

Wrong again. The mistake of an ignorant child is considered less than that of a knowledgeable child. You cannot know something is bad and then deliberately do it and expect to be let off the hook. The one who does not know it is bad and does it is the one who is normally let off the hook. This kind atheist mentality you have is deadly.

I ddnt talk about abortion... so u think lying to a child that sex kills will make him avoid pregnancy? U think lying to a child will make him stop thinking of sex?

Sex does kill and that is not a lie. Thoughts can always be replaced by something else but actions cannot be undone.

No... sex will be thought of, weather u lie of not... how ever ur lies can turn the child to have sexual disorders.


Lmao @ sexual disorders. When a child wishes to have a healthy sexual life devoid of scrutiny he should wait to have it with an equally responsible and mature spouse who has accented to this and not what you are advocating for. Like I said, thoughts can always be replaced with something else but actions cannot be undone.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Butterflyleo: 7:13pm On Mar 31, 2018
frank317:


To start with..

- fornication brings evil spirit into ur life
- fornication is disobedience
- fornication brings death
- fornication brings sickness
- fornication brings unwanted pregnancies
- youths should not think of sex (this is impossible)

All these are lies

I started having sex at 18... i didnt die, i was not disobeying anyone, i didnt pregnant any one, i never fell sick, i always thought of sex as a youth.

Why? Because i was a reaponsible child.


You were irresponsible.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by CuteMadridista: 8:09pm On Mar 31, 2018
frank317:


Lol...jesus lived 30 years without having sex, not even an erection... is that one normal?

Any adolescent that thinks about sex should be taken to daddy go and exorcism should be carried out on such a person to rid the person of the demons in him/her
Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by peacesamuel94(m): 8:45pm On Mar 31, 2018
frank317:
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everyone should be allowed to make mistakes and learn from it



Proactive wise people learn from the mistakes of others, Reactive foolish people wait till they experience things for themselves. Unfortunately
There are "mistakes" that people do not recover from, let alone to learn from.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by frank317: 8:45pm On Mar 31, 2018
Butterflyleo:


I am not specifically asking about the truth per sex but truth generally. What is truth?
I really dont know what u want... but truth is saying what is.

I.e... if something is green u say its green when ask and not saying its yellow.



Fallacy of hasty generalisation. Not all adolescent children have a high sex drive. Sex indeed is bad and ADOLESCENTS who have no self responsibility regarding the bigger issues and deeper things of life such as unwanted pregnancies, prevalence of STDs and so on. So if sex isn't so bad why do people sneak around to partake in it? Perhaps we should be having it done on the streets openly. The fact remains that adolescents have no business engaging in sex outside marriage. Sex remains in a place of responsibility and not in a place of partial or no responsibility.
Stick to one... is sex bad? Or is sex bad for irresponsible adolescents?
Sex is bad for irresponsible people, adolescents or not.
Wait so because of unwanted pregnancy, or std, sex is bad?
People hide to have sex because of privacy? So because a husband and a wife hide to have sex that means sex is bad? So because people dont have sex in the street that means its bad?
Anyone at the 18 and above is free to have sex. 18 because its assume they can take responsiblity for their action, they can go to jail.
If ur God didnt want adolescents to have sex, why give them sexual urge when creating them.



No adolescent is responsible enough for such consequences when acted outside marriage. Go and ask any young lady who has a child outside wedlock about how she feels, she would surely tell you that she wishes she could turn back the hands of time but its too late for that. She cuts back her life, her desires, her dreams all because she could not keep her legs closed and this goes for the guys too. Do you even know how many people adolescent sex has ruined? How many futures have been dashed?
Having child out of wedlock is the result of unprotected sex. A lot of young unmarried people have sex without getting pregnant. Not all sex lead to pregnancy.
A society where sex has ruined so many adolescents is a society where parents didnt train their children to know what responsiblity is. Reponsibily is not avoidance, its knowing the right thing to do.



This is not the truth I seek. If you know that sex can cause unwanted pregnancies or deadly diceases why then do you want your adolescent child to gamble with it? This shows you to be a totally irresponsible father if you would not outrightly ban adolescent sex for your kid but encourage it in the name of telling them the truth so they can make their own irresponsible adolescent decisions despite you being an adult and a father to them. You are a failed parent.
The fact is that sexual urge is inborn. I was once a youth remember.
What exactly do u want to tell ur adolescent child inorder for them to avoid sex?
Well, u can either lie to him that sex is bad so that he learns something different and goes under ground experimenting.
Or u tell him the consequense and train him to be responsible enough to know when to have sex or not decide to have it or not. Let it be his choice. That way, u will reduce the incidence of std and unwanted preg.


Why not cut to the chase. Why not simply encourage your adolescent child to have sex right in your presence and with whoever she or he feels like, after all it is healthy, it boosts self esteem, it is not bad, it wouldn't necessarily kill, it is good and sweet.
I know u are crazy... pretend to be normal for once.
This is not the market square. Sometimes i am glad u are a Christian (even as a christian ur thought run too wide) i really wonder how mentally unstable u would have been if not for "christ"
U seem not to have any self control


Why not ask them to have an orgy since there is nothing wrong or bad about adolescent sex. I am sure as a father you would be really proud watching your kid doing something that boosts his self esteem and that is good and sweet and that isn't bad and cannot necessarily kill, after all it wouldn't be bad for you to be in the same room cheering him on and even teaching him or her the various techniques to apply so as to make it sweeter or that can boost their self esteem even more right? grin
Calm down... dont let ur self run into the street yet.
Take a breath... hmmmmm ok.

I am actually aware of many adolecents who have very good home training but because their parent just told them to avoid sex without having in mind that these thoughts actually occur in their mind every now and then, these youths still indulge in sex activities and pretend they dont in front of their parents. Trust me, these are the ones who get pregnant and stds.



The reason why in law ignorance is not an excuse is because there is an already existing information source out there and one of such an information source is a parent. What parents know and have experienced which are seen as bad, they are expected to guide their children in such a manner as to avoid such but here you are being a very terrible atheist father.
And guiding to u is telling them sex is bad? Lol



Wrong again. The mistake of an ignorant child is considered less than that of a knowledgeable child. You cannot know something is bad and then deliberately do it and expect to be let off the hook. The one who does not know it is bad and does it is the one who is normally let off the hook. This kind atheist mentality you have is deadly.
Oga, the mistake of an ignorant child is worst based on outcome and not based on consideration. An ignorant child will fall into a bigger pit than a knowledgeable one.

And the fact that a child is knowledgeable does not mean he knows everything.
Everyone can make mistake.


Sex does kill and that is not a lie. Thoughts can always be replaced by something else but actions cannot be undone.
Did ur parents die after having sex to concieve u?




Lmao @ sexual disorders. When a child wishes to have a healthy sexual life devoid of scrutiny he should wait to have it with an equally responsible and mature spouse who has accented to this and not what you are advocating for. Like I said, thoughts can always be replaced with something else but actions cannot be undone.
It depends on the child and his libido and his ability to control it.
But remember... there is a reason why humans have sexual urges at a teenage age. Its really not for them to inhibit the urge... its for them to understand themselves. If they have sex and not get pregnant or std... they often turn out to be better lovers and parents like me.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by frank317: 8:46pm On Mar 31, 2018
Butterflyleo:


You were irresponsible.

Awww... am a baaad boy
Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by frank317: 8:55pm On Mar 31, 2018
peacesamuel94:




Proactive wise people learn from the mistakes of others, Reactive foolish people wait till they experience things for themselves. Unfortunately
There are "mistakes" that people do not recover from, let alone to learn from.

Yet u forget there are a lot of "others" who have sex without std or pregnancy...

Yes i agree that wise people learn the mistakes of others... they can learn that a pregnant girl did not use protection and decide to use protection to satisfy their raging urge.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Butterflyleo: 8:56pm On Mar 31, 2018
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frank317:

I really dont know what u want... but truth is saying what is.

I.e... if something is green u say its green when ask and not saying its yellow.



Stick to one... is sex bad? Or is sex bad for irresponsible adolescents?
Sex is bad for irresponsible people, adolescents or not.
Wait so because of unwanted pregnancy, or std, sex is bad?
People hide to have sex because of privacy? So because a husband and a wife hide to have sex that means sex is bad? So because people dont have sex in the street that means its bad?
Anyone at the 18 and above is free to have sex. 18 because its assume they can take responsiblity for their action, they can go to jail.
If ur God didnt want adolescents to have sex, why give them sexual urge when creating them.



Having child out of wedlock is the result of unprotected sex. A lot of young unmarried people have sex without getting pregnant. Not all sex lead to pregnancy.
A society where sex has ruined so many adolescents is a society where parents didnt train their children to know what responsiblity is. Reponsibily is not avoidance, its knowing the right thing to do.



The fact is that sexual urge is inborn. I was once a youth remember.
What exactly do u want to tell ur adolescent child inorder for them to avoid sex?
Well, u can either lie to him that sex is bad so that he learns something different and goes under ground experimenting.
Or u tell him the consequense and train him to be responsible enough to know when to have sex or not decide to have it or not. Let it be his choice. That way, u will reduce the incidence of std and unwanted preg.


I know u are crazy... pretend to be normal for once.
This is not the market square. Sometimes i am glad u are a Christian (even as a christian ur thought run too wide) i really wonder how mentally unstable u would have been if not for "christ"
U seem not to have any self control


Calm down... dont let ur self run into the street yet.
Take a breath... hmmmmm ok.

I am actually aware of many adolecents who have very good home training but because their parent just told them to avoid sex without having in mind that these thoughts actually occur in their mind every now and then, these youths still indulge in sex activities and pretend they dont in front of their parents. Trust me, these are the ones who get pregnant and stds.



And guiding to u is telling them sex is bad? Lol



Oga, the mistake of an ignorant child is worst based on outcome and not based on consideration. An ignorant child will fall into a bigger pit than a knowledgeable one.

And the fact that a child is knowledgeable does not mean he knows everything.
Everyone can make mistake.


Did ur parents die after having sex to concieve u?




It depends on the child and his libido and his ability to control it.
But remember... there is a reason why humans have sexual urges at a teenage age. Its really not for them to inhibit the urge... its for them to understand themselves. If they have sex and not get pregnant or std... they often turn out to be better lovers and parents like me.
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Is having sex as an adolescent bad to you? No
Does it necessarily kills? No
Does it grow self esteem? Yes
Is it sweet and good as an adolescent? Yes

Those are your comments. Based on this, what moral wrong would it then do for you to invite your adolescent son or daughter to engage in orgies right in your presence while you encourage them with practical tips for better value after all same things you listed about applies to sports or football and you cheer that on so well, so why would this be any different?

I repeat, thoughts can always be replaced with anything else but actions can never be undone!

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Nobody: 9:03pm On Mar 31, 2018
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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by frank317: 9:07pm On Mar 31, 2018
Butterflyleo:
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Is having sex as an adolescent bad to you? No
Does it necessarily kills? No
Does it grow self esteem? Yes
Is it sweet and good as an adolescent? Yes
Ok


Those are your comments. Based on this, what moral wrong would it then do for you to invite your adolescent son or daughter to engage in orgies right in your presence while you encourage them with practical tips for better value after all same things you listed about applies to sports or football and you cheer that on so well, so why would this be any different?
Do u think two married adult should have sex?
Does this mean the parents of a married adults should invite their married matured children to engage in orgies right in their presence while they encourage them with practical tips?
If ur answer in the above is yes then i will do the same with my adolescent kids.
But if its no.. then i wonder what ur mind is concieving such... u are sick bro.


I repeat, thoughts can always be replaced with anything else but actions can never be undone!
Thats why u should advise them rightly and not lie to then that sex is bad

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by akeensbussy(m): 9:15pm On Mar 31, 2018
CuteMadridista:


Thinking about sex is not normal, evil spirits are responsible for sex thoughts. Jesus never thought about sex and no true Christian should think about such an evil thing
plz i need more explanation on this.. this is the first time i will hear this
Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Butterflyleo: 9:17pm On Mar 31, 2018
frank317:

Ok


Do u think two married adult should have sex?
Does this mean the parents of a married adults should invite their married matured children to engage in orgies right in their presence while they encourage them with practical tips?
If ur answer in the above is yes then i will do the same with my adolescent kids.
But if its no.. then i wonder what ur mind is concieving such... u are sick bro.


Thats why u should advise them rightly and not lie to then that sex is bad

My mind is conceiving such because your comment says adolescent sex is GOOD AND SWEET. it also says ADOLESCENT SEX IS NOT ALWAYS DEADLY. it also says ADOLESCENT SEX BUILDS SELF ESTEEM. It also says ADOLESCENT SEX ISNT BAD.

So I then said, based on this glowing appraisal of adolescent sex , why not invite your adolescent child to have orgies right in front of you be it male or female? cheesy

After all this is the same thing as sports or football which you cheer on. Does sports build self esteem? YES
Is sports bad? NO
Is sports good and sweet? YES
Is sports always deadly? NO

So why not just group adolescent sex under the sports category right? grin

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Butterflyleo: 9:18pm On Mar 31, 2018
akeensbussy:

plz i need more explanation on this.. this is the first time i will hear this

He is an atheist and that was him making mockery

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by CuteMadridista: 9:30pm On Mar 31, 2018
akeensbussy:

plz i need more explanation on this.. this is the first time i will hear this

I'm an atheist but I'm sure there are some Christians somewhere who hold the same opinion as the post you quoted
These Christians demonize sex and make it appear to look like nothing good can ever come out of it. They even avoid telling adolescents and teenagers they're products of sex and kick against sex education in schools or free condom distribution (This the Catholic church is guilty of)

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Adasun(m): 9:34pm On Mar 31, 2018
frank317:


To start with..

- fornication brings evil spirit into ur life
- fornication is disobedience
- fornication brings death
- fornication brings sickness
- fornication brings unwanted pregnancies
- youths should not think of sex (this is impossible)

All these are lies

I started having sex at 18... i didnt die, i was not disobeying anyone, i didnt pregnant any one, i never fell sick, i always thought of sex as a youth.

Why? Because i was a reaponsible child.

all those things u mention are truth to those who believe in the father in heaven.



To the other aspect,u are being careful and a bit lucky dats y u got no one preggy or geting a sickness.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by frank317: 9:41pm On Mar 31, 2018
Butterflyleo:


My mind is conceiving such because your comment says adolescent sex is GOOD AND SWEET. it also says ADOLESCENT SEX IS NOT ALWAYS DEADLY. it also says ADOLESCENT SEX BUILDS SELF ESTEEM. It also says ADOLESCENT SEX ISNT BAD.

Lol.. i said sex is sweet. Which one is adolescent sex again.
Sex is sweet, be it with adolescent or middle age.
Sex builds self esteem and it is nt bad for humans even alolescents.
Adolescents have a way of misusing things and misunderstanding it hence the need dor guidiance. Adults need to talk to them and let them know the consequence of their actions.


So I then said, based on this glowing appraisal of adolescent sex , why not invite your adolescent child to have orgies right in front of you be it male or female? cheesy
No, based on my statement above u decided to go haywire. U decided to let ur sick mind to run crazy hence i asked u... so because sex is good for married adults u should invite them to have orgies in front of u?
Btw what has orgies even got to do with what we are saying?


After all this is the same thing as sports or football which you cheer on. Does sports build self esteem? YES
Is sports bad? NO
Is sports good and sweet? YES
Is sports always deadly? NO

So why not just group adolescent sex under the sports category right? grin

Stop urself now!!! I am not discussing orgies with u... i thought u are a Christian maaan!!! Jesus will not even think orgies... damn.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by Butterflyleo: 9:44pm On Mar 31, 2018
frank317:


Lol.. i said sex is sweet. Which one is adolescent sex again.
Sex is sweet, be it with adolescent or middle age.
Sex builds self esteem and it is nt bad for humans even alolescents.
Adolescents have a way of misusing things and misunderstanding it hence the need dor guidiance. Adults need to talk to them and let them know the consequence of their actions.


No, based on my statement above u decided to go haywire. U decided to let ur sick mind to run crazy hence i asked u... so because sex is good for married adults u should invite them to have orgies in front of u?
Btw what has orgies even got to do with what we are saying?



Stop urself now!!! I am not discussing orgies with u... i thought u are a Christian maaan!!! Jesus will not even think orgies... damn.

My focus as is the OP is on YOUTHFUL (ADOLESCENT) SEX and not just sex in general.

Stick with the topic. My points remain based on this and yours show irrationality and failed parenthood since its all about sex in general and not even holding any limit to age or adolescence.

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Re: Reasons Why You Should Not Think Of Sex At Your Youthful Age (fornication) by frank317: 9:56pm On Mar 31, 2018
Butterflyleo:


My focus as is the OP is on YOUTHFUL (ADOLESCENT) SEX and not just sex in general.

Stick with the topic. My points remain based on this and yours show irrationality and failed parenthood since its all about sex in general and not even holding any limit to age or adolescence.

Ehe... how does me saying that u shouldnt lie to adolecsents, tell them the consequences allow them to make their choice based on what u told them... how does that translate into bringing them in for orgies? Are u okay?

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