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Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Eriokanmi: 2:00pm On Oct 31, 2023
qtx:

But is the appearance of lymph node an authomatic positive result of hiv? Just asking
It's one of the hiv symptoms. It's function is to help human body fight infections and when its coming out that way, it means it has been overpowered by a foreign body and can't fight infection anymore. To be sure, testing is necessary

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Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Aldol: 2:00pm On Oct 31, 2023
Eriokanmi:
Where did you get your statistical data from? Kindly post it here.

The last time I checked, hiv was fast becoming a pandemic in the country and no thanks to the federal government careless views on this. I was at the FMOH in Abuja last August where the programme director was lamenting, that if not checked, hiv would soon become a pandemic in the country with the kind of results they were receiving from government hospitals, that the NGOs should intensify efforts in curtailing the spread.

Last year, a girl whom I used to groom told me she had some spotted swellings at some locations in her body. She never had a bf until she met this guy who returned from Philippines. They've been talking but eventually met face to face. They grew up together in same area before he travelled. In short, he promised to marry her, slept with her and went back. When I asked her if she ever did anything with anybody, she denied it. I now asked her to go for hiv yest cos what I saw was like lymph nodes coming out. She tested positive. That guy ignored her immediately after she asked him some questions. It spreads like wildfire now. The onus is on everyone to zip up and lead a responsible life. Go to the government hospitals and see for yourself. That statistical data you came up with would disappoint you. A lot of people who are hiv positive don't show symptoms cos they take their drugs. Their looks can be deceptive.
Come and see for yourself,conspiracy theorists wey dey fear EMILO2STAY
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by wonder233: 2:00pm On Oct 31, 2023
I slept with far more number of girls over 15years. And I'm negative.
Bro, no need to fear, no need to volunteer yourself for any test. Let something come up that will make taking the test inevitable, then you will see that you're negative
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Mayeldah(m): 2:02pm On Oct 31, 2023
Hope you will remain faithful to her?

if not please leave her alone and continue with your olosho fishing
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Satazaa: 2:02pm On Oct 31, 2023
etrange:
Yes, it could happen in one thrust, but statistically speaking, the possibility of you having HIV is extremely low. Nigeria has about 1 million women with HIV and about 100 million women in total. So the chance of you meeting one is like 1%. Again, some of the 1 million HIV positive women are on medication and have undetectable viral loads. This further reduces the number of women in the country that can readily give you HIV (since undetectable viral load implies that it impossible to transmit the disease to others). OK, let's now assume all odds were against you and you had sex with that one-in-a-hundred HIV positive person with a viral load that is not undetectable (i.e., they can transmit the disease), the odds of you contracting the disease from them is still very low. HIV is a difficult virus to catch. When a man has an unprotected sex with a HIV positive woman, the chance of him getting the disease from her in a session is about 0.05%.

So sir, you'll have to be one unlucky fellow to beat these odds. So I suggest you just go and get tested, and stop being a scardy cat, lol. Remember, whatever the result is, it is not the end of the world.

brilliant bro, so that now raises the question of wether HIV is an epidemic or not or was it just a ruse to hoodwink developing countries from manufacturing children? Bill gates answer this question wherever you are.
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Snow2six(m): 2:04pm On Oct 31, 2023
12 gals inside 4 yrs na u de fear? U really hv d fear of God..omo go do ur test and get married
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by agabonus: 2:06pm On Oct 31, 2023
Guy, I bukwa oke mkpi o
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Satazaa: 2:08pm On Oct 31, 2023
Machinegun91:
You are still a boy

I bang more than 100 girls within 4 years and still counting, my Machine gun is not child play
I even bang south African shapeless obessed ladies too

I bang 1 Chinese woman and 3 Philippines this year alone.

HIV normally infect holy pretenders
and no offense if you are referred to as a Gigolo or sex maniac?
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Sammy5413(m): 2:10pm On Oct 31, 2023
Stay positive bro
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by SweetDipBenny(m): 2:13pm On Oct 31, 2023
FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.

All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.

Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.

Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.

I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa
YES, it's possible to have sex wit 12 girls nd not get HIV. It's also possible to have sex wit 1 girl for d first time ever nd get HIV. Do d needful bro...
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Satazaa: 2:13pm On Oct 31, 2023
frankoben:
Well bro, I understand that feeling but u're clean trust me. In the last 14 years I have had unprotected sex with approximately 220 women both here in Naija and abroad. My HIV status has remained negative and right now I'm planning to settle down with just one woman, She's the sweetest and loveliest lady I ever laid but my dilemma right now is I do not even remember the actual country where I met and bleeped her. Be strong bro and know your health status today.
and how would you feel if you were referred to as a Gigolo or sex maniac
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Dchampion65: 2:14pm On Oct 31, 2023
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Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Dchampion65: 2:15pm On Oct 31, 2023
Even if you are faithful with a partner and such partner is not faithful, you are still at risk.

How can you go for 4 years without knowing your HIV status, it shows you are not care about your life.

HIV is no more a death sentence, follow the medical advice, take your drugs and you are good to go.

Don't commit suicide because you fear death.
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by waleray(m): 2:16pm On Oct 31, 2023
No need of Test you have already.
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Paramount01(m): 2:17pm On Oct 31, 2023
FarSide:

Na just fear shaa. I don't have any symptom ever since but I went to one clinic last month and they were just gisting about HIV. How some people don't even know they have it and all that. I just felt there were talking to me grin
Now my girl started the same test thing. Me that doesn't go to church, I've been praying ever since.
Wahala dey oo


Have u slept with ur girl before before .I mean unprotected sex with her?
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by lalabrother: 2:17pm On Oct 31, 2023
But you had sex with your to-be wife... So why are you scared if she's clean?

This one no be case
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Paramount01(m): 2:18pm On Oct 31, 2023
Favmil101:
Why not get the test tube and do it at home.


Where can I get the tube?
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Mummyimbecile(m): 2:22pm On Oct 31, 2023
Hiv per se is not a death sentence. With your drugs, you will get an undetectable viral load...

Quite the fear and go for the test.

You get mind sha dey fvck Nigerian babes without CD.
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Aleem26(m): 2:24pm On Oct 31, 2023
I no understand you ooo…Just 12 girls pere
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Ifyz0001: 2:26pm On Oct 31, 2023
I don't feel there is any need to be scared... You are a man by now you should have gotten symptoms if it were to be there...

So just go do the test bro
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Afolue(m): 2:36pm On Oct 31, 2023
12 females and none got pregnant? And you are scared of hiv. ! Why Bro. ? You should be joyful with taking the so call test
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by DestinyNigga: 2:38pm On Oct 31, 2023
FarSide:

The fear shaa. I just can't stand it. For the past two weeks I've been trying to muster courage for this but no way.
I wanted to do it last week Wednesday but when I got close to the hospital, I lost every courage in me, I had to change direction, entered a cool joint, took some bottles of beer and headed home.
I just wish someone can drag me there but I can't confide in anyone Incase if it turns out positive

No be good experience. I have done it more than 4 times. Just gather courage and go. U will be okay. When u check and it's negative ur mind will be free. Buh if na positive, if I dey there I go leave u run grin grin grin That's why is good to dey control ur dick 😂
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by lifenajeje(m): 2:41pm On Oct 31, 2023
FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.

All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.

Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.

Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.

I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

Irony of it all is that someone with more body count than it's can remain negative while a person who just got disvirgined , shared sharp object for the first time or even got raped can get positive with such exposure ..


Have u had unprotected sex with ur fiancee too ?

Get a self testing kit to test urself first if u havent ..

Should the test come out positive I will advice u on the next step ..but I wish u well.

Ur sure plug for PEP PrEP HIV self testing kit and other scarce drugs call or WhatsApp 07038149252...
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by DestinyNigga: 2:43pm On Oct 31, 2023
UcheKingsley1:


What are the symptoms of HIV? And how long will someone start seeing the symptoms?

I did HIV test close to a month after I had unprotected sex, it came out negative. sad

A month is not enough. U should go back after 2 months for accurate result.
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by emperor4love(m): 2:44pm On Oct 31, 2023
Nothing happen u bro,if virus enter ur body,highest 4 to 6month,u are gone as long u not taking viral
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Tzar(m): 2:47pm On Oct 31, 2023
That girl is one of the few smart ones.
You can have sex with only one girl & still get infected. You only made the probability high by your past recklessness and foolishness. The test is only 2k. I wonder why people don’t do it before sex as a routine. That is what I do.

Anyway, Man up! Take the test privately first. If you are negative, go do the test with her. If you are positive, call off the relationship and move on to proper treatment & a healthy lifestyle.
Hopefully you haven’t had sex with your fiancé.
If you are a real man, you should know men are accountable and take responsibility for achievements or failures.
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Knight1210(m): 2:52pm On Oct 31, 2023
Brother man. Bury your fears and go get yourself tested first. All these fear Will drain you
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Desusi: 2:55pm On Oct 31, 2023
FarSide:

No p na
I go try run am. If I survive this one, na me and my babe forever
Easier said than done.Are you sure of your confession?
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Sniper101(m): 2:57pm On Oct 31, 2023
Unprotected.
Only 12 girls? In a whole 4years shocked

You dey learn work ni

...although we na eye gauge we dey use gauge their disease intake level grin
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Konjiboii: 3:04pm On Oct 31, 2023
The good news be say once you don get am you no go fit get am again.
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Tohmey(m): 3:05pm On Oct 31, 2023
FarSide:

Na just fear shaa. I don't have any symptom ever since but I went to one clinic last month and they were just gisting about HIV. How some people don't even know they have it and all that. I just felt there were talking to me grin
Now my girl started the same test thing. Me that doesn't go to church, I've been praying ever since.
Wahala dey oo
Summon courage
Go far away from your resident and do test
Go with confidence and nothing will happen
Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Geometrix(m): 3:06pm On Oct 31, 2023
It may actually be a conspiracy theory on the side of the government supported health professionals.
Where I don't doubt the existence of HIV but there is no proof that HIV causes AIDS.
Remember AIDs is a syndrome, a situation where your body immune system can't fight off infections effectively.
What kills people with HIV is the stigma that is attached to it and the gradual errosion of the remaining immune system by the anti retrovial drugs. author=Aldol post=126717285]
Come and see for yourself,conspiracy theorists wey dey fear EMILO2STAY[/quote]

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