Hello Matured Nairalanders,
Advice needed on this.....


Me and my bae been dating for awhile though we met online so when we resumed to school we don't really get to meet.
She is always claiming the serious student using lessons, tutorials and all as excuses .Each time I push us to get to meet up it one excuse to the other.

Boom finally we met accidentally last month, one thing led to another she came to my lodge 30 minutes into our conversation she initiated the kiss we started kissing and I was pressing her boobs , I couldn't take the romance longer then I went down to finger her then she got really annoyed, she stood up that she was leaving I tried telling her not to see me as a playboy (cause am cute though many people perceive me to be a womanizer for that) and in my life she's the second girl have ever loved. She didn't even heed my plea she vexed off wear her cloths back I tried following her to persuade her off the impression she might have of me, she just shouted at me to go back, I followed her she was hesitant that she will trek home i told her to take a bike after several begging she heeded
She took a bike which I paid for I texted her after that to be sure she's gotten home. She didn't reply I called she didn't pick

I texted her on Whatsapp all my texts were all ([I]am sorry for what happened[/I] )after that she read my texts and didn't reply my texts later on she replied with "next time ask for my permission first".

Then about a week later, she asked me for 2k which at that time have exhausted all funds with me which I declined that I don't have anything on me,
We kept talking then all of a sudden she stops picking my call, replying my text, she posts on status each time I text her to show me she's online that she isn't replying intentionally,

Please was my move about her showing all I wanted was sex and what can I do to get her back cause I really love her or is it all lust?

I wish i can say somethings but i'm still single

Calmed down bro's by next month she will be the one running back at you willingly.

Next time keep ur finger where it should be.

badboyTee:

The best thing to do is to ignore her, it sounds like you actually love her but just ignore matter of fact. She started the games so beat her in her own games delete her number so you would stop seeing her status ignore her, don't call or text keep living your life normall. She will surely come back for you and when she does raise your shoulder, and do whatever the f you wanna do.

You made a very big mistake and I hope it wouldn’t come back to bite you in the butt.

You apologised in a text message even after you stopped just like she wanted.

You got involved with someone who can ruin your life and you gave her the tools to do it.

She weaponised her body.

If you’re unfortunate to meet another woman like her, don’t apologise for pre-intimacy. If you got carried away and feel the need to say sorry, do it in person and make sure she is not recording you. Your “sorry” can be taken out of context and used as a confession to ruin you. Don’t let a woman weaponise her consent.

Leave her alone and forget her. Avoid her.

Protect yourself from women who ensnare men with sexual advances only to stop midway. Once that happens, cut off all communication with her. She is dangerous.

You shouldn't love such a girl. If she comes back she's gonna play with your head. When you finally date her you will be begging her all through the relationship. Ignore her, if she tries to come back Bleep her very well without emotions and dump her when you are owk. Let me warn you again... NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH SUCH A GIRL

she used intimacy or let me say the illusion of intimacy to manipulate you... since she see say you don fall for the scope, na to use am against you... next thing billing or making you do the unthinkable... you were now begging her? for what? as per wetin? are you that weak? you con dey chase her? you wey you suppose don throway eye the time she begin to show attitude, that will put her in her place... now you've put her on a pedestal and allowed her to look down on you... she will see you as a weak man from now on...

you were not wrong for asking or going for sex as per the man you are... if she didn't wanna do such, she wouldn't have visited you... but my advice is Mr man, stay away from fornication...

Children self. Read your books, no. They will go about looking for breasts to press and pussies to fucck. Tomorrow, they will graduate with third class and start complaining that no employer responds to their applications. Mtchew

SIXTEENTH:

Calmed down bro's by next month she will be the one running back at you willingly.

noted

falcon01:

The best thing to do is to ignore her, it sounds like you actually love her but just ignore matter of fact. She started the games so beat her in her own games delete her number so you would stop seeing her status ignore her, don't call or text keep living your life normall. She will surely come back for you and when she does raise your shoulder, and do whatever the f you wanna do.

just did that now

Oga finish school. Start earning a living, you will have as many as you want.

First of all... U don't know what love is and that thing u have for her is lust for her kuntus while she's hungry for ur bank account contents. What u will do is completely go blank on her stop fooling urself begging her for what exactly? Fingering her? She wants the fvck more than u if not she wouldn't have followed u down to ur place. Trust me u were too soft on her that's why she pretended to be angry. Meanwhile she wanted ur stiff dick in her but u being a softie resorted to begging when u should have let her leave and trek if she wanted to. If u continue in ur path she will just be opening all sorts of office on ur head and maybe na that fingering or pity fvck once to activate ur ATM she fit render u. Pussy is for knacking and nothing else. Don't text her anymore or call her and never u beg any girl or apologize for doing what she came to collect. Find a hotter replacement. If u see her don't beg or act differently. Just act normal and friendly but never initiate a visit or knack session. Friend zone her. If she no use her two left leg come serve u pussy on a platter I will deactivate this account. You have no business loving any girl at this time of ur life. Just enjoy the lustful living which is natural

dkidd:
First of all... U don't know what love is and that thing u have for her is lust for her kuntus while she's hungry for ur bank account contents. What u will do is completely go blank on her stop fooling urself begging her for what exactly? Fingering her? She wants the fvck more than u if not she wouldn't have followed u down to ur place. Trust me u were too soft on her that's why she pretended to be angry. Meanwhile she wanted ur stiff dick in her but u being a softie resorted to begging when u should have let her leave and trek if she wanted to. If u continue in ur path she will just be opening all sorts of office on ur head and maybe na that fingering or pity fvck once to activate ur ATM she fit render u. Pussy is for knacking and nothing else. Don't text her anymore or call her and never u beg any girl or apologize for doing what she came to collect. Find a hotter replacement. If u see her don't beg or act differently. Just act normal and friendly but never initiate a visit or knack session. Friend zone her. If she no use her two left leg come serve u pussy on a platter I will deactivate this account. You have no business loving any girl at this time of ur life. Just enjoy the lustful living which is natural

Noted

Eyah.... Pele, you're just learning the game.

You brought yourself low by apologizing by text and sending her multiple messages, (you placed her on a pedestral putting yourself at a disadvantage)

She's only trying to manipulate you, she wants to be in charge (hence saying you should ask for her permission first, that's bullshit)

The best thing to do is to ignore her for now (although she'll most likely have other simps giving her attention)

Your aim of ignoring her is to grow your abundance mentality and groom your masculinity.

Ladies are very cheap and majority of them act in similar ways.

badboyTee:
Hello Matured Nairalanders,
Advice needed on this.....


Me and my bae been dating for awhile though we met online so when we resumed to school we don't really get to meet.
She is always claiming the serious student using lessons, tutorials and all as excuses .Each time I push us to get to meet up it one excuse to the other.

Boom finally we met accidentally last month, one thing led to another she came to my lodge 30 minutes into our conversation she initiated the kiss we started kissing and I was pressing her boobs , I couldn't take the romance longer then I went down to finger her then she got really annoyed, she stood up that she was leaving I tried telling her not to see me as a playboy (cause am cute though many people perceive me to be a womanizer for that) and in my life she's the second girl have ever loved. She didn't even heed my plea she vexed off wear her cloths back I tried following her to persuade her off the impression she might have of me, she just shouted at me to go back, I followed her she was hesitant that she will trek home i told her to take a bike after several begging she heeded
She took a bike which I paid for I texted her after that to be sure she's gotten home. She didn't reply I called she didn't pick

I texted her on Whatsapp all my texts were all ([I]am sorry for what happened[/I] )after that she read my texts and didn't reply my texts later on she replied with "next time ask for my permission first".

Then about a week later, she asked me for 2k which at that time have exhausted all funds with me which I declined that I don't have anything on me,
We kept talking then all of a sudden she stops picking my call, replying my text, she posts on status each time I text her to show me she's online that she isn't replying intentionally,

Please was my move about her showing all I wanted was sex and what can I do to get her back cause I really love her or is it all lust?

Girls and unnecessary yanga
She initiate kiss, she ask for your permission? Or what was she thinking the kiss would lead to, goodnight kiss? She allow guy to press breast, she no flip, guy went further she Dey vex say she no give permission, is she ment?
She go lion’s den expecting to be pampered? She even play with the mane and tail of the lion and she didn’t want a return of love? She Dey joke

About the 2k, forgerit that girl wan chop your money, she is not in for love.
Imagine, na 2k she Dey vex for sef….mtcheeeew

If you know what’s good for you, you better leave her and show her two can play the game.i know my gender after she doesn’t get the attention from you anymore she go send ‘ I knew it, you were never real’
Just reply ‘ your papa’ to her

You want to nack, which one be love again 😆

badboyTee:
Hello Matured Nairalanders,
Advice needed on this.....


Me and my bae been dating for awhile though we met online so when we resumed to school we don't really get to meet.
She is always claiming the serious student using lessons, tutorials and all as excuses .Each time I push us to get to meet up it one excuse to the other.

Boom finally we met accidentally last month, one thing led to another she came to my lodge 30 minutes into our conversation she initiated the kiss we started kissing and I was pressing her boobs , I couldn't take the romance longer then I went down to finger her then she got really annoyed, she stood up that she was leaving I tried telling her not to see me as a playboy (cause am cute though many people perceive me to be a womanizer for that) and in my life she's the second girl have ever loved. She didn't even heed my plea she vexed off wear her cloths back I tried following her to persuade her off the impression she might have of me, she just shouted at me to go back, I followed her she was hesitant that she will trek home i told her to take a bike after several begging she heeded
She took a bike which I paid for I texted her after that to be sure she's gotten home. She didn't reply I called she didn't pick

I texted her on Whatsapp all my texts were all ([I]am sorry for what happened[/I] )after that she read my texts and didn't reply my texts later on she replied with "next time ask for my permission first".

Then about a week later, she asked me for 2k which at that time have exhausted all funds with me which I declined that I don't have anything on me,
We kept talking then all of a sudden she stops picking my call, replying my text, she posts on status each time I text her to show me she's online that she isn't replying intentionally,

Please was my move about her showing all I wanted was sex and what can I do to get her back cause I really love her or is it all lust?

Money
Just take her out that all.

What a life, meanwhile the babe I was with yesterday told me herself that I should stick two fingers inside her kpekus while I was using only one, different strokes for different folks I guess

badboyTee:
Hello Matured Nairalanders,
Advice needed on this.....


Me and my bae been dating for awhile though we met online so when we resumed to school we don't really get to meet.
She is always claiming the serious student using lessons, tutorials and all as excuses .Each time I push us to get to meet up it one excuse to the other.

Boom finally we met accidentally last month, one thing led to another she came to my lodge 30 minutes into our conversation she initiated the kiss we started kissing and I was pressing her boobs , I couldn't take the romance longer then I went down to finger her then she got really annoyed, she stood up that she was leaving I tried telling her not to see me as a playboy (cause am cute though many people perceive me to be a womanizer for that) and in my life she's the second girl have ever loved. She didn't even heed my plea she vexed off wear her cloths back I tried following her to persuade her off the impression she might have of me, she just shouted at me to go back, I followed her she was hesitant that she will trek home i told her to take a bike after several begging she heeded
She took a bike which I paid for I texted her after that to be sure she's gotten home. She didn't reply I called she didn't pick

I texted her on Whatsapp all my texts were all ([I]am sorry for what happened[/I] )after that she read my texts and didn't reply my texts later on she replied with "next time ask for my permission first".

Then about a week later, she asked me for 2k which at that time have exhausted all funds with me which I declined that I don't have anything on me,
We kept talking then all of a sudden she stops picking my call, replying my text, she posts on status each time I text her to show me she's online that she isn't replying intentionally,

Please was my move about her showing all I wanted was sex and what can I do to get her back cause I really love her or is it all lust?

Classic manipulation tactic. It's called the rope-a-dope plus reverse psychology technique.
Infact, I can predict what will happen in the next coming days for you.

But should I? I am tired of advising men who are ignorant of female nature because they don't want to learn. But I will do you one small favour.

1. Don't call or text her EVER AGAIN until she calls you first and then you do something(which is number 2)
2. To know the reason for 1, join the redpill thread and put your story there and I(and the OGs) there will have your back. We will teach you what to do.

badboyTee:
Hello Matured Nairalanders,
Advice needed on this.....


Me and my bae been dating for awhile though we met online so when we resumed to school we don't really get to meet.
She is always claiming the serious student using lessons, tutorials and all as excuses .Each time I push us to get to meet up it one excuse to the other.

Boom finally we met accidentally last month, one thing led to another she came to my lodge 30 minutes into our conversation she initiated the kiss we started kissing and I was pressing her boobs , I couldn't take the romance longer then I went down to finger her then she got really annoyed, she stood up that she was leaving I tried telling her not to see me as a playboy (cause am cute though many people perceive me to be a womanizer for that) and in my life she's the second girl have ever loved. She didn't even heed my plea she vexed off wear her cloths back I tried following her to persuade her off the impression she might have of me, she just shouted at me to go back, I followed her she was hesitant that she will trek home i told her to take a bike after several begging she heeded
She took a bike which I paid for I texted her after that to be sure she's gotten home. She didn't reply I called she didn't pick

I texted her on Whatsapp all my texts were all ([I]am sorry for what happened[/I] )after that she read my texts and didn't reply my texts later on she replied with "next time ask for my permission first".

Then about a week later, she asked me for 2k which at that time have exhausted all funds with me which I declined that I don't have anything on me,
We kept talking then all of a sudden she stops picking my call, replying my text, she posts on status each time I text her to show me she's online that she isn't replying intentionally,

Please was my move about her showing all I wanted was sex and what can I do to get her back cause I really love her or is it all lust?

It's funny you don't even realize that you are being manipulated.

I'm so sure you are so new in this 'relationship' game of a thing.

Children should leave dating alone

I wish I have supper powers like Thor or thanos, simps will be the second in my list of “ people to take care of” after Nigerian politicians

Listen to what is coming out of your mouth, you Dey beg girl wey initiate Romance with you not to be angry and she’s even asking for consent, did she ask for yours when she went for the kiss

Are you that weak and ill oriented to realize she’s trapping you, from 2k to 5k before you know it she don open big super market for your head, meanwhile you I’ll always have to beg her for sex

If she wasn’t down for fuxk why they fuccc did she start romance, she Dey whine you ni

And you sef come dey run after her Dey beg her, to even climb bike, na there she see you as complete moomoo, na that instance I for come in like Thor or thanos an deliver justice to your weak balls

Next time don’t apologize to any girl for that if she tries something like this and don’t hide the fact that you are a guy with several options, if she do anyhow allow her go and block her

Na she go later dey find you, that’s how real niggasz do things.

Your next line of action, forget her and clear all chats and archive her chats as well don’t bock her yet, give her few time she’s going to text you back hoping maybe you would have money that period and she will be all lovey doves if possible just to ensnare you again, let her know straight up you are not down for games, if she wants 2k na 2 hot rounds or more, and face front,na Dey love NAIJA girls una no Dey hear
Go and sin and simp no more,

luminouz:


Classic manipulation tactic. It's called the rope-a-dope plus reverse psychology technique.
Infact, I can predict what will happen in the next coming days for you.

But should I? I am tired of advising men who are ignorant of female nature because they don't want to learn. But I will do you one small favour.

1. Don't call or text her EVER AGAIN until she calls you first and then you do something(which is number 2)
2. To know the reason for 1, join the redpill thread and put your story there and I(and the OGs) there will have your back. We will teach you what to do.

Baba you just spoke my mind, I don tire to dey advice homeboys like op, men are getting weaker these days.

Me Op always put this at the back of your mind, always state facts in clear terms if a lady is coming to your house, if you want to nack, tell her, if she doesn't wants, she stay at her place, nobody pops in my house for no reason.


Time is limited, use it wisely.



Now how you feel? You touch kpekus, you no still nack. You must have been struggling to suppress your erection while running to beg her. You wasted, data and airtime apologizing for no reason.

Now your self esteem is in shambles, 🤔🤔

luvgurl:
Next time keep ur finger where it should be.

na dem be this

She started the romance by initiating the kiss but the guy should keep his fingers where they ought to be

Na op I blame sha wey go dey beg the girl, he for allow her trek 🚶‍♀️ under the sun then text her 2 hrs later if she don reach house instead of apologizing, make her head kuku tear finish

badboyTee:
Hello Matured Nairalanders,
Advice needed on this.....


Me and my bae been dating for awhile though we met online so when we resumed to school we don't really get to meet.
She is always claiming the serious student using lessons, tutorials and all as excuses .Each time I push us to get to meet up it one excuse to the other.

Boom finally we met accidentally last month, one thing led to another she came to my lodge 30 minutes into our conversation she initiated the kiss we started kissing and I was pressing her boobs , I couldn't take the romance longer then I went down to finger her then she got really annoyed, she stood up that she was leaving I tried telling her not to see me as a playboy (cause am cute though many people perceive me to be a womanizer for that) and in my life she's the second girl have ever loved. She didn't even heed my plea she vexed off wear her cloths back I tried following her to persuade her off the impression she might have of me, she just shouted at me to go back, I followed her she was hesitant that she will trek home i told her to take a bike after several begging she heeded
She took a bike which I paid for I texted her after that to be sure she's gotten home. She didn't reply I called she didn't pick

I texted her on Whatsapp all my texts were all ([I]am sorry for what happened[/I] )after that she read my texts and didn't reply my texts later on she replied with "next time ask for my permission first".

Then about a week later, she asked me for 2k which at that time have exhausted all funds with me which I declined that I don't have anything on me,
We kept talking then all of a sudden she stops picking my call, replying my text, she posts on status each time I text her to show me she's online that she isn't replying intentionally,

Please was my move about her showing all I wanted was sex and what can I do to get her back cause I really love her or is it all lust?

So mumu like you still fall for this tricks

A wise man once said "A woman is like your shadow, if you follow her,she flies, if you fly from her, she follows". This your girl is the emotional manipulative type.She is trying to exert her dominance over you but show her you are the man here.Dont check on her, disconnect on every SM, delete her contact so you don't mistakenly view her status.
Trust me if you can summon the nerves to this,trust me she will be the one doing the disturbing,you will also earn back your respect well served.

@Op, you fall my hand, why all those disturbing text, these girls love sex from than the male counterparts.
He be like say you new in the game.
Up your game plan Man.

badboyTee:
Hello Matured Nairalanders,
Advice needed on this.....


Me and my bae been dating for awhile though we met online so when we resumed to school we don't really get to meet.
She is always claiming the serious student using lessons, tutorials and all as excuses .Each time I push us to get to meet up it one excuse to the other.

Boom finally we met accidentally last month, one thing led to another she came to my lodge 30 minutes into our conversation she initiated the kiss we started kissing and I was pressing her boobs , I couldn't take the romance longer then I went down to finger her then she got really annoyed, she stood up that she was leaving I tried telling her not to see me as a playboy (cause am cute though many people perceive me to be a womanizer for that) and in my life she's the second girl have ever loved. She didn't even heed my plea she vexed off wear her cloths back I tried following her to persuade her off the impression she might have of me, she just shouted at me to go back, I followed her she was hesitant that she will trek home i told her to take a bike after several begging she heeded
She took a bike which I paid for I texted her after that to be sure she's gotten home. She didn't reply I called she didn't pick

I texted her on Whatsapp all my texts were all ([I]am sorry for what happened[/I] )after that she read my texts and didn't reply my texts later on she replied with "next time ask for my permission first".

Then about a week later, she asked me for 2k which at that time have exhausted all funds with me which I declined that I don't have anything on me,
We kept talking then all of a sudden she stops picking my call, replying my text, she posts on status each time I text her to show me she's online that she isn't replying intentionally,

Please was my move about her showing all I wanted was sex and what can I do to get her back cause I really love her or is it all lust?

If you say truly you're handsome then we're is your fine boy pride, abi u dey forget man dey get pride

U b mugu tho

luvgurl:
Next time keep ur finger where it should be.

You've been on nairaland since 2007 and somehow you got only 70 comments which I understand. But you've spent less than 168 hours on nairaland and you still remember your password. Wow!

she replied with "next time ask for my permission first".

A liability looking for permission first before you recoup your investment

badboyTee:
Hello Matured Nairalanders,
Advice needed on this.....


Me and my bae been dating for awhile though we met online so when we resumed to school we don't really get to meet.
She is always claiming the serious student using lessons, tutorials and all as excuses .Each time I push us to get to meet up it one excuse to the other.

Boom finally we met accidentally last month, one thing led to another she came to my lodge 30 minutes into our conversation she initiated the kiss we started kissing and I was pressing her boobs , I couldn't take the romance longer then I went down to finger her then she got really annoyed, she stood up that she was leaving I tried telling her not to see me as a playboy (cause am cute though many people perceive me to be a womanizer for that) and in my life she's the second girl have ever loved. She didn't even heed my plea she vexed off wear her cloths back I tried following her to persuade her off the impression she might have of me, she just shouted at me to go back, I followed her she was hesitant that she will trek home i told her to take a bike after several begging she heeded
She took a bike which I paid for I texted her after that to be sure she's gotten home. She didn't reply I called she didn't pick

I texted her on Whatsapp all my texts were all ([I]am sorry for what happened[/I] )after that she read my texts and didn't reply my texts later on she replied with "next time ask for my permission first".

Then about a week later, she asked me for 2k which at that time have exhausted all funds with me which I declined that I don't have anything on me,
We kept talking then all of a sudden she stops picking my call, replying my text, she posts on status each time I text her to show me she's online that she isn't replying intentionally,

Please was my move about her showing all I wanted was sex and what can I do to get her back cause I really love her or is it all lust?

You're wrong for doing that,is not all girls that tolerate that.Well I will only you're trying to text her maybe she will fall for it but she passed