VULCAN:
Then you are probably not a very observant person. Her constant attacks against males should have tipped you off.

She pretends to be a man on Nairaland because it's a faceless forum.

Even without her confessing her bipolar state as she did here, I knew she had psychological issues long ago.

Anybody asking her/him for advise concerning Relationships or Spirituality is going to hear beautifully articulated rubbish.

There are a number of women who give very sound and balanced advise on Nairaland - KoboJunkie isn't one of them.

luminouz:


Why are you spoiling show for me naaaa?

Make she explain well abeg ..I don know today say she be bipolar woman. I still dey expect more. Please don't fuq up my parole jor

Alooone:
Hello

Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me.

This year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation.

I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...

He doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence.

Sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am I, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.

In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc.

I need help please

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oluwaseyi0:


What about the option of considering intimacy gadget

Just go online jiji, jumia and what have you and other one or two toys and you will be good to go

Alooone:
Hello

Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me....he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable..... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc.
I need help please

Kobojunkie:
Woman are not born with dicks in their vaginas from birth same way men are not born with their ducks cemented inside a vagina from birth. Sex "deprivation" happens to everyone at some point or another. That said, it is one thing to say one is sex-deprived and another to claim one must have sex before one's subconscious can be calmed. You claim that is what your psychotherapist told you and I seriously find it hard to believe any professional would say such a thing.

I would recommend you please consider getting a second opinion from another mental health professional on how best to deal with your delusions. And as suggested also consider alternative outs from all that pent up sexual energy you have building in you.

Alooone:
Hello

Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me.

This year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation.

I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...

He doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence.

Sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am I, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.

In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc.

I need help please

File Photo: For Illustration

Alooone:
Hello

Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me.

This year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation.

I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...

He doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence.

Sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am I, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.

In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc.

I need help please

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Alooone:
@ all...thanks for the contributions.... For those making mockery about the subconscious thing I said up there, please let me explain....as a schizophrenia patient, I suffer from both auditory and visual hallucination( although not on a major scale like the auditory)...now all these hallucinations is a thing of the mind and subconscious and not real...that according to my therapist for me to be seeing strange men and women that want to sleep with me speaks of the state of my unconscious and how sexually deprived I am...that's what brought d whole sex as a therapy issue...
could you believe that since I gave birth to my second child about 6years ago we have met not more than 5times...
Sorry for sounding like a sex freak or something...but this is what am currently going through.

DDIA:

Shalommy baby


When are you going to lay another set of eggs again my sexy wall lizard?

Alooone:
Hello

Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me.

This year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation.

I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...

He doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence.

Sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am I, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.

In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc.

I need help please

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Kobojunkie:
Your psychotherapist says you need sex to calm your subconscious? Are you kidding me?

OP, no offense but try to be practical abeg! Your number one issue and focus should be your mental health and how to manage your condition best without depending on others for favors. You declaring your husband needs to give you sex for you to calm down screams of potential trouble looming abeg! Please work with your doctors instead to find other ways to dispel all that sexual energy some other way. Running about carrying husband-problem on your head all while dealing with a major mental illness.... these things should not be by force. It is OK to let somethings go so you can better manage yourself and your situation.

Shalommy:
Op, allow those strange men and women to smash you to calm your urge. Chaii.... Ogbanje!

DDIA:

Just fvck your shrink to ease the tension.
Or you can get it from the streets.
To find man wey go service you no be hard thing.
To hell with your husband.
Make yourself happy.

Persephone1:
If you have no knowledge of what Op is talking about, kindly shut it and learn!

She's right! Schizophrenic patients are prone to hallucinations. It is like a display of problems within their subconscious. Sometimes these hallucinations are so real that they mistake it for reality. I believe Op's case is not advanced at least she's not violent or evil scheming with the subject adding to her problems ( her husband)
She's here seeking help and not planning how to off the man. It's a good indication she can be managed. Stop making it seem like she's an epidemic to be avoided

Aloone kindly reach out to your shrink to talk to your uneducated man. I'm not surprised at your husband's behavior that's how typical Nigerian husband is. Before you know it he will go dump you at your parents house.
Nigerian women dey marry abeg!

DDIA:

Shalommy baby


When are you going to lay another set of eggs again my sexy wall lizard?

djon78:



Intimacy gadgets can't be compared to what a real human being does

Intimacy gadgets is like drinking mineral when whAt you need is a very chilled water

Good lashing from a human being can reset the brain

Alooone:
Hello

Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me.

This year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation.

I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...

He doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence.

Sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am I, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.

In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc.

I need help please

File Photo: For Illustration