Your brother should call her bluff

With Almighty God, all things are possible.

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Zooposki:


Do you know nature deems the Y(Man) chromosome as the most useless chromosome in the body, aka the Y(Male) chromosome is the only chromosome not necessary for life? Meanwhile Nature goes to bat to do all to protect the X(Female) chromosome. Nature does not even want to see any mistake in the X chromosome. The X chromosome has not change since the beginning of time, while the Y chromosome has depreciated badly. But luckily for the Y chromosome, it is now latching onto the X chromosome to save itself.

Y chromosome alone does not make you male, it requires a combination of X and Y hence your whole analysis is flawed! In reality, it is actually reversed. A female having two X chromosome but unable to control whether she has a male or female offspring sounds pretty useless. In fact if all males stop putting out Y chromosomes from intercourse then the world itself would face extinction....Now who does nature consider useless again?

josephevergreen:



If she is giving you peace of mind my brother take good care of her ..she is your wife . see that youe spec ehh they have their own spec too. Shege promax ..

May God bless your generation I love bolded very well 💋😘

Joshmuch:
Eh yah. Why life no balance at at times?

Yes Oo because.even d spec wey we don meet well well before too are all bunch of fools with heir own spec too 🤔 so if I should continue looking for my spec bro I might turn 60 still single 😢😭😭

So I just have to decide since no one is perfect

Beolly:

Haa, what did I just read. You just married anyhow becos you want to break a curse.

In d olden days ur parent might bring his daughter to my own son to marry and yet they will live till old age ..

So what's d big deal in just marrying anyhow??

The once that did court wedding and big party for d celebrations too no dey divorce 😲😳

My brother marriage no get actually formula like mathematics jare

Tayorshd87:
■ In d olden days ur parent might bring his daughter to my own son to marry and yet they will live till old age ..
So what's d big deal in just marrying anyhow??
The once that did court wedding and big party for d celebrations too no dey divorce 😲😳
My brother marriage no get actually formula like mathematics jare

Isn't it altogether better a marriage ends in a near amicable divorce than for it to exist in an endurance state where the two live miserably together pretending to be one?

Divorce is not a disease nor is it evil. It is a sensible resolve given that the parties involved are humans. Once you realize this, you been to see that success in marriage ought not to be measured in just the length of marriage but the quality of life for both partners in the marriage throughout its duration.

Kobojunkie:
Isn't it altogether better a marriage ends in a near amicable divorce than for it to exist in an endurance state where the two live miserably together pretending to be one?

Divorce is not a disease nor is it evil. It is a sensible resolve given that the parties involved are humans. Once you realize this, you been to see that success in marriage ought not to be measured in just the length of marriage but the quality of life for both partners in the marriage throughout its duration.

Am not living a miserable life with my wife bro am just talking about mere spec and beside if not because of spec stuff ..

She is 101% yard wife material but as a man now 😊😊😊
U must always be looking for something from other ladies

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

As smelly as the issue is you brother can agree on cancelling the wedding and see what happens next, or is she the one sponsoring the whole wedding arrangements?

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

any doubt, cancel it or go with the flow.

Tayorshd87:
■ Am not living a miserable life with my wife bro am just talking about mere spec and beside if not because of spec stuff .. She is 101% yard wife material but as a man now 😊😊😊 U must always be looking for something from other ladies

Your very own words continue to betray you there.

Tayorshd87:


Am not living a miserable life with my wife bro am just talking about mere spec and beside if not because of spec stuff ..

She is 101% yard wife material but as a man now 😊😊😊
U must always be looking for something from other ladies

Don't waste your energy on Kobojunkie, shes a lonely feminist somewhere in North America who despises anything masculinity. She lives for equality, forgetting that nature did not create men and women to be equal.

If you were to ask her now, she'd say nature is bad for making women alone go through the pains of child birth, she seeks to reinforce the notion that men and women are equal and that marriage is a waste of time since she herself isn't married ....

Watch out for her posts, she shares some good knowledge sometimes but most times, shes just a bitter, lonely feminist black lady.

Villa12:
I know a man earning close to 2M monthly. He is 41 and still searching for a wife. Most girls only date him but doesn't want to marry him. The girl he sent to school (polytechnic) still dump him for a guy that earn less than him

Did you know Why? His character. If you doubt me, you can send me a DM and i will take you to meet the guy. This is someone that is doing pretty fine for himself but still struggling to get a wife. I only know about men struggling financially having issues getting a wife. I was surprised to see someone doing fine having same issue

What tribe? Hausa/Yoruba or lgbo and what are his specs in a woman 👠? Tall? Light skinned or dark? Muslim or Christian /catholic?

DangoteIvy:
■ What tribe? Hausa/Yoruba or lgbo and what are his specs in a woman 👠? Tall? Light skinned or dark? Muslim or Christian /catholic?

What has any of that matter though?

Tayorshd87:


YES U ARE 100% CORRECT I was also looking for a particular class until I have to choose below my class just to break d curse of my village people of not getting a wife at age 43 😂😆😂
My brother am now a father of two and am happy Abt that just that I didn't marry the kind of spec am willing to and it's giving me a technical issue till date 🙁☹️

Is it that she is educated/exposed enough, speaks English mixed with English tongues.
Isn't modern enough.
Or she isn't hot and sexy enough to always turn you on?

nairagenone:

Baba I dey feel you, I was almost at your stage but God just favoured me.
Na so I jam a sweet 27 year old virgin babe, with perfect shape and all.
I couldn't believe my luck, she con be SU join, just what I ever dreamt of.

As someone who has lived in multiple continents and dated all races, when you see my fiance you'd think she jazzed me cos the class difference and every other aspect is so wide.

But I love it like that, men are supposed to marry down so has to be able to earn respect from their wives naturally.
If you check this op brother, he either married his own level/class or a woman earning same as him or more.

When they tell you age long truths that as a man, you must marry down to have peace in your own home some of you will think they are talking rubbish.

You and Tayorshd87 should go and read Isaiah chapter 4 verse 1


You guys should choose one out ofSiofra and Jennyclay and do a favor of a lifetime.

It's only your name and the benefits of allowing an extra bear your name.

Villa12:
I know a man earning close to 2M monthly. He is 41 and still searching for a wife. Most girls only date him but doesn't want to marry him. The girl he sent to school (polytechnic) still dump him for a guy that earn less than him

Did you know Why? His character. If you doubt me, you can send me a DM and i will take you to meet the guy. This is someone that is doing pretty fine for himself but still struggling to get a wife. I only know about men struggling financially having issues getting a wife. I was surprised to see someone doing fine having same issue

Sorry to say this. My brother who is jobless got a wife. They have 4 kids now. My brother drinks, smokes and very lazy. My brother was messed up full time. But you need to see his wife. Young and smart. We don't play with her. Because we know she has changed my brother's history.

So I would like to know why a guy who is making over 1 million can't fins a wife!!!

Villa12:
I know a man earning close to 2M monthly. He is 41 and still searching for a wife. Most girls only date him but doesn't want to marry him. The girl he sent to school (polytechnic) still dump him for a guy that earn less than him

Did you know Why? His character. If you doubt me, you can send me a DM and i will take you to meet the guy. This is someone that is doing pretty fine for himself but still struggling to get a wife. I only know about men struggling financially having issues getting a wife. I was surprised to see someone doing fine having same issue

Is it in this life that we are living in or in an alternate world!
Lying to yourself will not make you feel good about being a woman.

Oburu202:
■ Sorry to say this. My brother who is jobless got a wife. They have 4 kids now. My brother drinks, smokes and very lazy. My brother was messed up full time. But you need to see his wife. Young and smart. We don't play with her. Because we know she has changed my brother's history.

So I would like to know why a guy who is making over 1 million can't fins a wife!!!

Many Nigerian women settle in marriage. There is no question about that but that doesn't mean women will settle for any kind of man in marriage. There is more to character than being jobless or lazy or a drunk -- things you mentioned of your brother.

Your brother's wife may have had to choose your brother out of so many other men with what she considered worse character flaws out there but never mistake that to mean that women do not mind the characters of men they marry.

nairagenone:

In my opinion, the most important thing for a man is peace of mind.
No woman is perfect, so just highlight what is important to you and check if a lady ticks 70 percent, if she does then go for her.

For me, I was looking for -> fidelity, respect, good family orientation(especially her moms personality), godly and loves God , lastly she must not be olosho(very important).

On my journey searching, I saw plenty things because of my requirements I started going after SU looking babes, my brother, wetin my eye see shock me.
Even deeperlife babes some of them I slept with them same day they came to my house... I just dey shake my head.

Las las I met a lady who is SU, and she con be virgin and as I dey follow her talk she con get sense, theres always a level of risk but with this babe I was ready to risk it and since I made that decision I have never regretted it.

She doesnt have money and comes from a very humble background but to me thats a credit, cos many ladies in her shoes would have used that as an excuse to start doing hookup...

Enough of ranting and back to your question... I think you should consider marrying your baby mama, if you think you can't marry her then find a lady who you think has good morals and values, target the SU looking ladies => deeperlife, mfm, cac etc... But in all remember what the bible says, be wise as serpent but gentle as doves...

I wish you goodluck.

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galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

I hate seeing useless topic, if this is the only issues the girl need a brain reset

Kobojunkie:
There are lots of Nigerian men in that situation. Nevermind what you read online. The reality is that men and women experience these same issues.

I’m just laughing. You know the truth. I just turned 39 and unmarried. Maybe I’m looking for too much financial security and overwhelmed by the fear of poverty. Not because I can’t find a girl 🥴
Even if I want a teenager, it will happen in a heartbeat.
My dear, don’t deceive yourself, the position of a man and a woman is not the same here.

Your brother is actually not ready for marriage. You want to get married today and go back to work the next day? I am even suspecting that he probably working on Saturday the reason for putting the wedding on Sunday.
He has no plans for his wife. He is sending the wife to his family in the village immediately after the wedding. Why can't the wife stay with him in the city?
He needs that lady in his life seriously to help point him in right direction. It is obvious he can't take correct decisions.
If he drop dead , God forbid, that place he calls work will only observe 1 minute silence for him. He better start planning for his life as well and not only plan for work and money only.
Maybe he should stay single.

galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.

My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.

Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.

Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention.

Who determines what is little or big matter?
She clearly understands family values and knows your brother is not the only factor here. She's getting married to the community/ family and not just your brother.

You lack understanding of the intricacies of marriage. You didn't lay out all the facts and her own perspective.

I believe they can find a way to navigate it. Your brother has to show some understanding and probably find a day to visit that village, maybe on Saturday.

Reassurance is important.

komzy589:
■ I’m just laughing. You know the truth. I just turned 39 and unmarried. Maybe I’m looking for too much financial security and overwhelmed by the fear of poverty.
■ Not because I can’t find a girl 🥴 Even if I want a teenager, it will happen in a heartbeat.
■ My dear, don’t deceive yourself, the position of a man and a woman is not the same here.

What has this to do with my response abeg!

2. You are maybe looking for too much financial security and overwhelmed by financial insecurity yet your eyes are on jobless and mostly skillless teenagers? What is this?

Ofcourse there are teenagers out there with low standards who are looking for anyway out of what they assume an already miserable existence. But what has A to do with B abeg or any of what I said?

3. You know what? I refuse to be burdened by your confusion in life. No point!

henrimoto:
Where is your brother's current location ?

Can't your brother make arrangements to hand-over the vault keys to the bank management. ?

The lady is already doubting the marriage. In her mind, she is like, "is this what I will face in this marriage?" No Attention!

Is the bank not aware of his marriage?

My brother worked in a bank and I know they get leave. A sensible person will fix his marriage during his leave period to have time for honeymoon that's if they don't get days off for marriage.

You can't just marry on Sunday and return to 7am - 6pm routine.

That's inconsiderate by all means.

Men of this generation have lost it. I won't say futher.

abbey621:


Y chromosome alone does not make you male, it requires a combination of X and Y hence your whole analysis is flawed! In reality, it is actually reversed. A female having two X chromosome but unable to control whether she has a male or female offspring sounds pretty useless. In fact if all males stop putting out Y chromosomes from intercourse then the world itself would face extinction....Now who does nature consider useless again?

Ok, XY(male) and XX(female) if that makes you feel better. The man is not needed for reproduction, the female can do that all by herself, so the world is not going to face any extinction, hence why the male aka XY is deemed useless by nature, and considered a throwaway.

I’m not even going to digress and go into why I think the XY is a genetic manipulation of the XX chromosome, hence unnatural and deemed as the only chromosome not necessary for life, hence why it’s dying off and the body could care less.

Your brother should have taken time off to celebrate his new marriage. The fact that he did not, says that he doesn't rate the wife or her family. The woman is right to question this union.

nairagenone:

In my opinion, the most important thing for a man is peace of mind.
No woman is perfect, so just highlight what is important to you and check if a lady ticks 70 percent, if she does then go for her.

For me, I was looking for -> fidelity, respect, good family orientation(especially her moms personality), godly and loves God , lastly she must not be olosho(very important).

On my journey searching, I saw plenty things because of my requirements I started going after SU looking babes, my brother, wetin my eye see shock me.
Even deeperlife babes some of them I slept with them same day they came to my house... I just dey shake my head.

Las las I met a lady who is SU, and she con be virgin and as I dey follow her talk she con get sense, theres always a level of risk but with this babe I was ready to risk it and since I made that decision I have never regretted it.

She doesnt have money and comes from a very humble background but to me thats a credit, cos many ladies in her shoes would have used that as an excuse to start doing hookup...

Enough of ranting and back to your question... I think you should consider marrying your baby mama, if you think you can't marry her then find a lady who you think has good morals and values, target the SU looking ladies => deeperlife, mfm, cac etc... But in all remember what the bible says, be wise as serpent but gentle as doves...

I wish you goodluck.

But the risk of marrying down, as a man, is that her family and extended family may see you as their meal ticket, if care is not taken

Tayorshd87:


YES u may be correct because the issue of getting a wife and a woman u can settle with is more than just financial commitment.. I was in a similar shoe some years ago until I made up my mind just to impreg6a lady I don't really love but just normal likeness Al because I need a child 🙁☹️


my brother ur money doesn't determine u marry d woman of ur life or rather have d love of ur life sometimes u just have to take life the way it programmed urs for u ..

That's life

bro did u later marry the girl??