I can't count how many times I do get frustrated which always leads to huge argument and some results into real combat out of anger with me and the 2nd party...
I've observered this for years.. I pray a lot, avoid people sometimes to avoid anything causing anger, but it will always come to me even if I try to avoid it.. Please help me I'm tired of getting frustrated with people attitudes which always lead to anger and this affected my reputation of who I am and how I look with how I want people to see me....
Someone in the house should please advise thank🙏 you

Reduce taking things to the heart


Learn to walk away

1TrippleCee:
Reduce taking things to the heart


Learn to walk away

Hmmmm thanks brother...Prayers doesn't always work, we need to work on out character too..

When a mad man admits that he is not okay, that's the first stage to sanity....

You have admitted your flaws, I will ask you seek a therapist, or better still, advise yourself, because the best advice you can ever get is the one you give yourself.

In this early stage to self redemption, I will also like to chip in one important admonishment,

"Avoid those dimwit supporting and defending this administration”

Cos this government in the last few months have contributed greatly to the frustration of Nigerians.

Oluwashina72:
I can't count how many times I do get frustrated which always leads to huge argument and some results into real combat out of anger with me and the 2nd party...
I've observered this for years.. I pray a lot, avoid people sometimes to avoid anything causing anger, but it will always come to me even if I try to avoid it.. Please help me I'm tired of getting frustrated with people attitudes which always lead to anger and this affected my reputation of who I am and how I look with how I want people to see me....
Someone in the house should please advise thank🙏 you

Try to give people the benefit of doubt more often. Always tell yourself that people's actions are based on how best they could act and not necessarily to hurt you. Most importantly, always focus on the virtues/good sides of people. That way you'll see less of their imperfections that usually trigger you.

Keep praying too, not just for yourself but for anyone you feel you might have issues with. That'll make you love others more.

Oluwashina72:

Hmmmm thanks brother...Prayers doesn't always work, we need to work on out character too..

Wrong language. Prayer works. Identify your weak moments abd moments of triggers and learn to be silent when you must speak. Learn to walk away when you feel like folding your fist. If you tell your brain to walk away wheb it is time to fold your fist, you have won the battke.

Stop entertaining juicy gossips. People involve you into third pary fights because you find listening to gossip irresistibke. If you walk away at the start of every gossips, you wont wait until you get to the part that they force you to participate in their battles.

Stop listening to gossips. Immediately it starts, get up and say you just remembered you have something urgent to attend to.


Stop also inheriting peoples enemies. Because people have enemies doesnt mean you should inherit them. Be wise if you want to live long on earth

Keep on getting angry!!

Maybe it’s until you commit murder in a fight due anger then your body will calm down

People like you are woman beater!!
Bunch of woman beater everywhere!!

Shior!!

Oluwashina72:
I can't count how many times I do get frustrated which always leads to huge argument and some results into real combat out of anger with me and the 2nd party...
I've observered this for years.. I pray a lot, avoid people sometimes to avoid anything causing anger, but it will always come to me even if I try to avoid it.. Please help me I'm tired of getting frustrated with people attitudes which always lead to anger and this affected my reputation of who I am and how I look with how I want people to see me....
Someone in the house should please advise thank🙏 you

Just be yourself.

Don't bother what people say about you because they will always talk.

But in all you do, seek out your interest because nobody else will do that for you.