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wavefly:
Hello guys, I have a very serious relationship which may lead to marriage soon but I always feel sad when I remember how she was disvirgin by a guy who's not her bf, according to her she was rape the guy is not her boyfriend, after that incident she dated a guy for 2months before we met, so my prob now is that anytime I remember she's not a virgin I always feel sad about it I always imaging my gf is bang the same way I bang my ex but this lady has a very kind heart and she claim she never had raw sex does that make any different? But most people say sex with condom is masturbation does that means she very close to virgin or virgin?
Your honest comment will really be helpful, thank you.

Obascoetubi:
raw or not, her hymen already broken!

Zonefree:

Ask about 98.783% of Nigeria non virgin girls how they got deflowered, they will tell they got raped.

The truth is, any girl that got deflowered through rape will find it difficult to get entangled with a man.

But, your beloved girlfriend got entangled with another guy and with you also.

Let me be honest with you, your girl's body count is way above 63 if well counted.

Zonefree:

The hymen is broken is not the issue, the length and width of the vagina should be a thing of concern to this OP if he's a wise man.

wavefly:
She's very tight, to be honest she's the most decent girl I ever dated, but do you think sex with condom is really a sex? The first time I tried it I couldn't continue I had to pull it off so I never enjoy using it. I guess am too selfish or something because I don't really know why am feeling this way

Zonefree:

First thing first, how old are you?

wavefly:
Late 20s

wavefly:
Lol thanks for this comment am not so sure about the rape thing but I can confirm her body count is just 2 and she never feel comfortable about her ex when they're still together, I know her ex, but I don't know why am feeling this way honestly, maybe because of my experience too

wavefly:
She's very tight, to be honest she's the most decent girl I ever dated, but do you think sex with condom is really a sex? The first time I tried it I couldn't continue I had to pull it off so I never enjoy using it. I guess am too selfish or something because I don't really know why am feeling this way

Zonefree:

The hymen is broken is not the issue, the length and width of the vagina should be a thing of concern to this OP if he's a wise man.

wavefly:
Lol thanks for this comment am not so sure about the rape thing but I can confirm her body count is just 2 and she never feel comfortable about her ex when they're still together, I know her ex, but I don't know why am feeling this way honestly, maybe because of my experience too

wavefly:
She's very tight, to be honest she's the most decent girl I ever dated, but do you think sex with condom is really a sex? The first time I tried it I couldn't continue I had to pull it off so I never enjoy using it. I guess am too selfish or something because I don't really know why am feeling this way

wavefly:
She's very tight, to be honest she's the most decent girl I ever dated, but do you think sex with condom is really a sex? The first time I tried it I couldn't continue I had to pull it off so I never enjoy using it. I guess am too selfish or something because I don't really know why am feeling this way

wavefly:
Hello guys, I have a very serious relationship which may lead to marriage soon but I always feel sad when I remember how she was disvirgin by a guy who's not her bf, according to her she was rape the guy is not her boyfriend, after that incident she dated a guy for 2months before we met, so my prob now is that anytime I remember she's not a virgin I always feel sad about it I always imaging my gf is bang the same way I bang my ex but this lady has a very kind heart and she claim she never had raw sex does that make any different? But most people say sex with condom is masturbation does that means she very close to virgin or virgin?
Your honest comment will really be helpful, thank you.

Zonefree:

Ask about 98.783% of Nigeria non virgin girls how they got deflowered, they will tell they got raped.

The truth is, any girl that got deflowered through rape will find it difficult to get entangled with a man.

But, your beloved girlfriend got entangled with another guy and with you also.

Let me be honest with you, your girl's body count is way above 63 if well counted.

chachanga:


She's probably lying and you should know that to have your peace.

Most Nigerian girls use that rape cover up to look holy even when it was them who went looking for the guys who hung their legs high up and gave it to them hard. Don't be a phool. If she's lying about that, she's probably lying about a few other things too. Yes, to look better in your sight, to have better negotiating power with you, to set your mind at ease to gain your trust and not to have unnecessary headaches from you poking around in her past asking silly questions like you're asking now.

And why?

because that virginity itself, just in its own, is no guarantee of happiness for you with her or her future faithfulness to you or you to her.

Go and settle down and really know what your purpose, plans, goals and pursuits in life are. And let that be a defining yardstick in your choosing a partner. Do you have high compatibility of tastes, habits, desires and dislikes? What is her value system like? What is her life outlook? Where does she see herself in 5, 10, 15 years? Is she a Japa seeker or the Naija Homegirl type? What skills does she have? Have you checked her character beyond the gentility that's catching you now?

Realize this now. Her mindset should be your highest priority. It will either either spell doom for you or be your reason for future testimonies.

Stop running around asking for frivolous questions. If you have a good mind and plan for the girl, get serious. If not, furk Ur own and go, we kuku can't stop you, only God dey see all man.

Gentlesoul2021:


U will learn the hard way this man ..

livenija:
Boring thread by a secondary school student thinking this is twitter

wavefly:
What do you mean boring? this is not meant to be fun, i only need advice or suggestions

Boondocxs:
Why is it always the stupid broke and wretched men that are looking for what did not lost
Are you a virgin yourself
Nonsense
That’s why this forum irritates me
Every day every time woman and virginity
Una no dey tire
Men Shior!!!!!

Coolsat:

Na this type of op one bitch like that use menstrual blood deceive my friend say she be virgin that year. She reserve menstrual blood rush come give my friend say he don disvirgin am, my friend kom Dy brag till dy play him her tape. He didn't recover sha after finding out the truth. 😂😂😂😂.

Dem know say virginity good but dem no fit close their legs , na to dy blame innocent rape 😂😂😂

wavefly:
Haha, I had a similar experience, but I'm skeptical about her claim since it doesn't seem accurate. Her confidence in that aspect is not convincing.