Beuberry:

It's all all you boys that are addicted to fetish practices that do open marriages. All of you are learning hard way. Some ll even say they are free to fornicate in the marriage. Oriburuku of the highest order.
ProtonX, since you v invited hornets, deal with it.

Ghostagain:

All you did was talk about fairytales.
Oranmiyan is now spelled oranyan, I see. Perhaps the fairytale makers did not come to an agreement about how to spell the name of their science fiction novel character.

Ghostagain:

I see you are one of those who do not understand than our written form of language is not indigenous, it is a recent thing which we got from the Europeans, therefore we don't have anything like etymology. But you are a fraudster, do you don't bother yourself with logic and evidence.

Countersam:


Why bring this oyinbo questionnaire here. What do you want to hear from us in the form of advice. Their lifestyle is different from ours in Africa. Which one is open marriage , have you heard of that in Africa talk less of Nigeria? Who will marry and both couples would still be bleeping outside but still together because you have a kid together..that's living in bondage because one person must eventually get reorientation that will bring issues in the initial agreement

Kobojunkie:
What are you talking about? Are your traditional marriages any better examples of marriage? Husbands freely fornicate in even your traditional setups only to claim it is their birthright while the woman is forced to accept it or call it quits. At least in the open configuration, both husband and wife can openly fornication with none the wiser.

ProtonX:
See the Reddit post here:

"I feel like a complete idiot here. My wife and I have been married for 19 years. We have one child. Our daughter moved out this summer after she enlisted in the armed forces. I love my wife but I felt like the spark was gone from our lives. I didn't want to divorce her so I proposed an open marriage. She was upset initially but eventually she agreed.

Like I said in the title of my post I made a mistake. I have learned that just because I wasn't as attracted to my wife as I was when we got married it doesn't mean other men would feel the same. My wife has so many men and dates she doesn't know what to do with them all. Meanwhile it's the opposite for me. Not only that but after my wife agreed to an open marriage I asked a woman who was a colleague of mine out on a date. I was a manager at my job but I wasn't her manager. We worked in completely different divisions and our work had nothing to do with each other's jobs. But even though I wasn't her manager and I am in an open marriage she complained to her manager and showed HR my messages. I lost my job.

I told my wife I want to close our marriage again because I was an idiot for suggesting it in the first place. She said no, she's happy with how things are. It's killing me when I know she is with other men. My brother called me a slowpoke when I told him and said expecting my wife to look like she did when she got married made me a dunce. He even went so far as to say she takes good care of herself and is in great shape for 44, she just doesn't look 20. He had the nerve to say my wife looks better than me and I could stand to lose some weight.

I love my wife and I don't want a divorce. I never wanted a divorce which is why I proposed this in the first place. But she doesn't want to close the marriage. I'm not worried about money because we both work but I do not want a divorce. I'm just glad my daughter enlisted in the RCAF and isn't here to see our marriage falling apart."

ProtonX:


People don't read! The post is in quotation marks means I am not the original owner of the story. I found it on Reddit 3 days ago and brought it to Nairaland.

Beuberry:

Sinner!

Jeon:
Open Marriage is very good.
It is better than cheating and expecting faithfulness from your partner..




Mr man ,you have lost. Just divorce her .



The grass ain't always greener on the other side.

😉

Beuberry:

All well meaning Yorubas, help me educate this illiterate proud good for nothing Ile-Ibinu boy that Oranmiyan can be spelt as Oranyan. Help me tell him that in Yorubaland, you can have ya full name and ya acronyms or short spelling of name. Eg: Adeboye can be used as Ade or Boye alone.
Ghostagain, you are a disgrace to history hood. If you don't know a fact, ask questions. Don't disgrace ya ancestors. Oranyan is short spelling of Oranmiyan.

Kobojunkie:
Lol ... I am a sinner for pointing out the obviously fake life of even many of your pastors and elders?

Beuberry:

Sharap lier. You wrote it in proxy. You desired 3somes, 4somes etc.

ProtonX:
See the Reddit post here:

"I feel like a complete idiot here. My wife and I have been married for 19 years. We have one child. Our daughter moved out this summer after she enlisted in the armed forces. I love my wife but I felt like the spark was gone from our lives. I didn't want to divorce her so I proposed an open marriage. She was upset initially but eventually she agreed.

Like I said in the title of my post I made a mistake. I have learned that just because I wasn't as attracted to my wife as I was when we got married it doesn't mean other men would feel the same. My wife has so many men and dates she doesn't know what to do with them all. Meanwhile it's the opposite for me. Not only that but after my wife agreed to an open marriage I asked a woman who was a colleague of mine out on a date. I was a manager at my job but I wasn't her manager. We worked in completely different divisions and our work had nothing to do with each other's jobs. But even though I wasn't her manager and I am in an open marriage she complained to her manager and showed HR my messages. I lost my job.

I told my wife I want to close our marriage again because I was an idiot for suggesting it in the first place. She said no, she's happy with how things are. It's killing me when I know she is with other men. My brother called me a slowpoke when I told him and said expecting my wife to look like she did when she got married made me a dunce. He even went so far as to say she takes good care of herself and is in great shape for 44, she just doesn't look 20. He had the nerve to say my wife looks better than me and I could stand to lose some weight.

I love my wife and I don't want a divorce. I never wanted a divorce which is why I proposed this in the first place. But she doesn't want to close the marriage. I'm not worried about money because we both work but I do not want a divorce. I'm just glad my daughter enlisted in the RCAF and isn't here to see our marriage falling apart."

Beuberry:

Do I look like a pastor. My belief won't let my husband do it and he too won't be mad to do it. Some practices are bad. No be everything you go copy

ProtonX:


Are you sick or something? Again, when you have sawdust for a brain, you can't comprehend simple things. There's even a link to the original post there.

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Beuberry:

Your mom's sick and with sawdust in brain & mud water in her system. Lying carrot dîck boy!

Beuberry:


Nothing you say is supported by eyewitness written documents. You are just dwelling in myths.

ProtonX:


Mr. Man, I can bring whatever I want on this forum like everybody else. This is Nairaland with posts and news from all over the world. If you have nothing to say, skip it.